Thursday, 27 October 2016

Gay activities August 2016

Gay activities August 2016

2.8.2016 Tuesday
Return from Ubon and message Boss Vipa16, Music and Bos McDo no reply (but I knew that these 3 are difficult to contact), Pong is in Khon Kaen, Nax Charan65 no reply. Finally Wut Hua Lampong is online, but wants to eat seafood first (i.e. he wants me to invite him and his friends for seafood dinner) and would come to my room afterwards. There will be some excuse after seafood dinner, so I insist on meeting in my room first.

And indeed he comes (stays 21:40-22:10) and is open for wanking. But I can’t get him to fully undress (he will just pull pants down and shirt up), and activities rushed. And before and after too much touching of my stuff and too much looking around, I have the impression he is looking for stuff to steal.

Great body and warm and dry skin and no body hair, nonetheless not much value for 700 Baht (500 for wanking +200 for rent of tuk-tuk?). That’s before considering that I have been working on this boy over 10 hours and spent more than 2000 Baht since we first met in Feb (?) 2015. Next time will be more clear what I expect.

Afterwards drive around in his tuk-tuk 21:10-48. Calls several friends, wants to change from seafood to durian to take-away: no! Finally say goodbye at Hua Lampong railway station. Cost me an hour, but saved me at least 1000 Baht for dinner.

A few more of such straight boy seductions, and I will give up.

3.8.2016 Wednesday
Kot comes, wants me to fuck him, but can’t take it. Before he told me he is top only. Maybe 1000 Bath (to buy a new mobile phone) instead of the usual 500 made the difference? 

Now that I know that another boy is a thief, and Kot might have stolen from me, I set up my camera in video mode and put it in a hidden place where it has good view of room before I let the boy in, and secretly record video while I'm showering. My pants with wallet is on the floor in front of the camera (not visible in video), and Kot stays in bed reading the book I gave him while I shower. Not a thief.

5.-6.8.2016 Pattaya separate post.

7.8.2016 Sunday
Seed 00:44-01:58. The one cute boy in there disappears with another customer in an internet cubicle. But this is my lucky day, afterwards he (name Game) joins me in my cubicle as well.  

9.8.2016 Tuesday
Phnom Penh saunas separate post.

10.8.2016 Wednesday
Meet BFC1in2016 again in Phnom Penh. Due to his work/study schedule, only time at night and then stays over night until following morning.

12.8.2016 Friday
On return from Cambodia by land stop in Trat and Rayong. I know a boy Jame in Rayong and arranged to meet him. The hotel I had in mind is closed for renovation, and there seem to be no other places near bus station, so I walk around until I find some place to stay (East Hotel โรงแรมตะวันออก, fan room 200 Baht). The place is very basic, but I want to get rid of my luggage and take a shower. It would be embarrassing to bring a friend back here, and that’s a self-fulfilling prophecy: when I message Jame with hotel name, he writes back he is not free tonight. Later walking through town I find better places, closer to bus station.

This is the most costly no-show, not in terms of money (only 250 Baht), but I could have continued trip to Pattaya and spent the night in Pattaya. In time, it cost me 6 hours (time lost due to no-show) or 24 hours (I could have been back in Bangkok a day earlier without stop in Rayong) depending on how you count it.

13.-14.8.2016 Saturday-Sunday

I know so many boys in Pattaya, I can’t let this chance pass to stop in Pattaya to meet some of them.

15.8.2016 Monday
Meet BFC3in2016 in The Mall Bangkapi for cinema and market at Ramkhamhaeng university afterwards. Everything positive. That’s 3 dates without action with this boy. But looking back, those I went to bed with on first date, little useful came out of it. Now he is ripe:

Seed 20:38-21:57, 100 Baht entry. About 10 customers throughout, no cute, spend time on internet.

16.8.2016 Tuesday
I have Kot scheduled for 23:00 and X for midnight. However Kot is late and X is early, thus I have 2 boys (who don’t know each other) in my room at the same time, slightly embarrassing.

While X is on the balcony smoking, I give Kot 300 Baht and tell him I’m not horny and X will stay overnight, assuming that Kot will leave after taking the money. But this time he didn’t come by his own motorbike as usually, a friend took him and will pick him up, so we spend 23:50-01:10 all three in my room with some awkward conversation or each of us playing on his mobil phone.

Once Kot is gone, we go to bed. I have no intention of sex, but hug X just to know he is there and I could if I wanted, whereupon he asks me:
“Do you want sex?”
“But I want sex.”
An request I can’t refuse (warm and dry skin).

17.-18.8.2016 Wednesday-Thursday
A friend H from Austria is in Bangkok for some days, and when we met in the past we used to go to Soi Twilight, but now neither of us thinks it’s worth going.

18.8.2016 Thursday
There is a new construction site near my place, where I spot a cute boy who smiles and waves when he notices me. Linger around and take some pictures:

And chat him up. Name Boy from Nonthaburi, and travels from/to Nonthaburi every day which takes 3 hours (return or each way?). Will invite him to stay with me. (Update: was away a lot, and when I was in Bangkok and had no other plans couldn't spot him when I passed around 5 pm, couldn't realize this plan.)

19.8.2016 Friday
BFC3in2016 arrives 21:30 and stays over night.

20.8.2016 Saturday
Activities in the morning, but I don’t get fully hard. What does he do 10:00-30 in my bathroom? When he comes out, bathroom floor is wet, and with his wet feet he leaves wet spots on my room floor.

"Did you draw the shower curtain?"
"No. Should I?"
"Why are your feet so wet? Didn't you wipe them on the door mat?"
(still the same doormat that BFC1in2015 puked on and then turned around instead of cleaning it.)
"Sorry, I didn't." 
That, together with inability to read maps (he even admitted) and being tired after a few minutes of walking, makes him ex-BFC3in2016.

For a change from my usual Seed and Farose 2 trips, Phoenix and Macho today.

Phoenix 20:23-56. 180 Baht entry. Estimate 20-30 customers and count 25 occupied lockers. Condom 52 mm and lube provided. Towel ok. Cloth provided to wrap around your waist worn by most customers. Customer base looks promising, but no action for me today.

Macho 21:16-55. 160 Baht entry. Estimate 30 customers. One slim and tall but pale and wet skin, one cute staff. No condom or lube provided. Towel too small. All customers in underwear. Free food (fried rice).

Saranrom 22:12-22:47 one round. Optimistic counting 12 boys, 2 cute. But had I not recognized some of the boys from before (and they recognized me as well), I would not have known they are available, in particular those driving around on mocy.

21.-26.8.2016 Trip to the north (Phrae, Chiang Rai, Chiang Mai, Nakon Sawan) with Farang friend.

22.8.2016 Monday
A boy Will whom I met in Wat Hua Lampong in Dec 2015 moved to Chiang Rai shortly after. Now I will be in Chiang Rai and want we have intention to meet. Communication was slow from the beginning and a black out while I was in Chiang Rai (but afterwards resumed).

23.8.2016 Chiang Mai reported separately:

25.8.2016 Thursday
Stay in Nakon Sawan (just over night because FF is too tired to drive to Bangkok). Hornet is active and several cute boys (whereas Ubon no cute boy within 50 km), but none of the cute is interested.

It was late (add 5 hours to get Thailand time), I was tired, but could have fitted in a quicky, but only if we skip romantique and talk, just "fuck now?".

Romantique, French for romantic, is what a Farang friend calls (and even pronounces in French, despite not speaking French) his fringe activities with boys (i.e. activities before and after fucking), and I like this expression.

26.8.2016 Friday
Kot is one hour late (21 instead of 20). Another friend X wants to come as well, but this time I can keep them apart by telling X I’m busy. Kot cums on my bedsheet, so do I. Usually I manage to keep all cum away from bedsheet. After wiping off and drying, there is only a weak spot. If you didn’t know, you wouldn’t notice. I can continue using this bedsheet without washing, but have to change it when I invite Kot again.

27.8.2016 Saturday
I have been in contact with a boy James D from hornet for months, finally everything aligns and he comes to my room. Everything positive, will meet again some day.

28.8.2016 Sunday
By chance, meet the cute boy Boy from construction site (see 18.8.2016) when he is buying food. Chat him up and ask for Line, but neither his Line ID nor phone number is recognized on my phone, he becomes impatient to go back, so I give him my name card. No call.

X wants to come, doesn't want money, but then postpones to 23, then cancels:

I spotted a cute boy on hornet, gayromeo and gboysiam:

And now is an occasion to invite him to my room. Good communication in English and on time (we didn’t set a time, but he finishes work 20:00 and arrived around 21:00, with estimated 30 minutes walk and without too much confusion about location). Even brought oil for oil massage, but I don’t want to spill oil on my bed linen and I don’t like oil during afters, so I ask for dry massage. Skillful at massage and afters, full recommendation (but why does he change Line, gayromeo, hornet so often?)

29.08.2016 Monday
JJ Bangna can’t come.

Pattaya separately: insert link

Summary Aug 2016:
4 free sex: Game in Seed, BFC1in2016 in Phnom Penh, BFC3in2016, James D (500 for taxi).
1 not sure:.Ohm 1000.
10 paid sex: Wut 700, Kot 1000, Nake 1000 in Pattaya, Lay 1000 in Pattaya, A 1200 in Pattaya, Lay 1000 in Pattaya, X 520, Kot 800, Lek Lao 1000, Nice boys 1000 = 9220 an expensive month!

10 Gogo bars: Nice Boys, Power Boys, Eros, Kawaii Boys, Cupidol, Nice Boys, Vassa, X-Boys Pattaya, Eros, Nice Boys.
2 host bar: Orion in Chiang Mai, The Venue (not exactly a host bar, but closest in my list).
5 sauna: 2 Seed, Phoenix, MachoX, House of Male in Chiang Mai.

(and more in Phnom Penh)
1 hornet: James D.
2 no sex: BFC3in2016, Kot 300.
3 no show: James in Rayong, Will in Chiang Rai, JJ Bangna.
1 disco: Tamnan Isan.
1 street trade: Saranrom (just looking).
1 massage: Lek Lao (with happy ending).

Copyright 2016 ChristianPFC

Monday, 24 October 2016

Pattaya 30.8.-1.9.2016

Pattaya 30.8.-1.9.2016

30.08.2016 Tuesday Bangkok to Pattaya
Wank to porn in the morning. While preparing for my trip to Pattaya, an old friend Ohm Lopburi messages me: he lost his wallet and wants to come to see me (so I can help him). This is a good boy and I’m sure the emergency is real, so I invite him. Should have left it at giving him 500 Baht and telling him I’m busy preparing for Pattaya, but a hug leads to a grope leads to bed. So-so, but give him 1000 Baht. Cum twice already, not a good start for a trip to Pattaya.

Bangkok to Pattaya by public transport (see here for a full overview of options: and for a good article on vans between Victory Monument and Pattaya see here Bus 74 from Bon Gai (Rama 4 road) to Victory Monument 14:01-43 for 9 Baht. Buy ticket 14:51 for van 100 Baht at van station South-East of Victory Monument (after asking how long till departure: 10 minutes – this is important, if I get reply 30 min or 1 hour (!!!) I try another van station). Departure 14:58. Stop for petrol 16:34-17:14, that’s 40 minutes! Usually it takes 10 minutes – still unacceptable to let all passengers wait 10 minutes, and it happens every time – this time queues at the petrol station. Arrive at Tuk-Com 18:34. Considering it can take a while to get to Victory Monument, and it's the opposite direction than Pattaya from Silom/Sathorn/Sukhumvit, I might try bus to Bangna and van from there next time. (Update: vans move from Victory Monument to other stations anyway:

Meet a reader D at Panorama 19:00-58, then barhopping together.

Eros 20:18-21:08. Orange juice 100 Baht (no pineapple juice available). 8 boys in shorts with underwear underneath, bare feet. Music, temperature, light ok. Number increases to about 15 boys, some of which I would take for free. About 10 customers during our stay.

Pass show at Ting Tong Red 21:10.

Nice boys 21:12-22:38. Hot tea 150 Baht. 14 boys in shorts or briefs, all wearing street shoes. Fan blowing (I don’t like air draft), music ok, light so-so. The cute boy #10 whom I saw 3 weeks before and wanted to take today is not there any more, #10 assigned to another boy. There is a cute waiter New from Bangkok who tells me in good English that he has been working there for a long time, 1 year as gogo boy and 3 years as waiter, how comes I did’t notice him before? I’m very tempted. About 5 Chinese (?) enter and after some negotiations with staff directly off a boy. I go for #49 (whom I remember from my last visit), off fee of 500 Baht is a surprise. (Nov2014 I paid 400:

#49, Don from Yala, 19 y.o., has been working there for 3 or 4 weeks. Little English, all our conversation in Thai. A hint of cigarette smoking when kissing. Cooperative, but not enough initiative in bed. Recommended, but not good enough for me to take him again.

Around 00:40 Sunee Plaza still busy. One boy shirtless at pool, great body!

Walk to Walking Street, BBQ chicken 30 Baht. (After prize rise or just overcharging in 2015 and 2016:

At Bali Hai pier, spot a cute boy with friends. His friends chat me up and ask me if I would like to take him with me. I don’t react on that offer, but chat with the boy and exchange Line and ask next day if he likes boys or girls: girls. That was quick, no waste of time.

31.8.2016 Wednesday
Daytime visit a friend who lives south of Pattaya and go for sightseeing together.

Dinner with D at Oscar’s 19:25-21:55. BoysBoysBoys parade 21:04-09, 4 worth a second look, but does not entice me to enter the bar.

Message my new favorite boy in Pattaya, Lay from Cambodia. He is in Cambodia, otherwise I would have invited him to stay over night.

Not in the mood for gogo bar (I go only to take a boy, but not horny today), I join another friend C who likes to watch the show at The Venue has been trying to convince me to join him for a long time.

The Venue 22:18-23:32, orange juice 150 Baht. While I can see the attraction (C goes many times per year), it’s not for me.

Stroll through Jomtien Complex and spot some old acquaintances, of which Kit from Cambodia (we met first some years ago when he was working in Wild West Boys) is worth meeting again, get his new Line and tell him we can meet tomorrow moring.

1.9.2016 Thursday
Message Kit in the morning (from getting up at 10 until checking out at 12 I have a 2 hour window): messages only read in the afternoon, he wrote he was sleeping all days.

Due to unfavorable circumstances only one boy this trip. 

Large numbers of Chinese tourists, spotted many cute boys. Will use gay dating app (recommendations?) popular with Chinese next time I go to Pattaya.

Copyright 2016 ChristianPFC

Friday, 21 October 2016

Hua Lampong railway station 2016

Hua Lampong railway station 2016

A collection of random observation at Hua Lampong railway station in 2016. 

Thai Railway Museum
The Thai Railway foundation opened a museum (free entry, open 10-18 Tue-Sat except holiday) in the railway station building:


A collection of old tickets, descriptions can be found here:

and details how the price for a ticket is calculated here:

Alcohol-drop boxes
After alcohol ban on trains in 2015, now they installed boxes "Alcohol-drop here". 

Ticket office for foreigners
Air-conditioned, take a queue number (although there are usually only few customers), seats, English speaking staff. (Has been open since at least Oct 2015, my earliest picture.)

New map of railway system
Such map is in all railway stations as far as I could see, but not available for free or for pay, and I didn't find it on the internet. It has distances to all major points and some planned railway lines are drawn.

New paint
The entire railway station got a new paint outside, but if I hadn't seen the scaffolding and painters I would not have noticed.

No more bomb shelter in front of station
I learnt (exhibition in Philatelic Museum Saphan Kwai) that there used to be a bomb shelter in front of Hua Lampong railway station. 

It's gone now and a fountain is in its place. (In Dusit Zoo, you can still see a bomb shelter from WWII).

Aircon in waiting hall ?
On 7sep2016, I noticed it was cooler than usual in the railway station, and my only explanation is that they installed aircons, with the air outlets above 2nd floor:

However checking older pictures, these air outlets have been there before.

Language note: Hua Lampong หัวลำโพง hŭa lam-pohng; "lampong" alone means "loudspeaker".

Copyright 2016 ChristianPFC

Tuesday, 18 October 2016

Bruce’s Pearls of Wisdom

Bruce’s Pearls of Wisdom

I have shared this in similar form in Bruce's now extinct forum gaysexthailand about a year ago.

My good friend Bruce has said some very interesting things, some of I wish I had said, others are thought-provoking, others the opposite of what I’m doing but work for Bruce. Most of it has been posted before, but I consider all of it worth posting again, here as a collection.

Bruce on cultural differences:
If your boyfriend asks you: “Would you like to go to cinema?”,
he means: “I want to go to cinema!”

Bruce on buying a business for his boyfriend:

If you simply want to "help" your boyfriend "build a better future".... Do what I do.

First, teach him that running his own business will be the hardest most difficult job he's ever had.

Second, it will be a cold day in hell before I invest a in a business for him.... until *after* he has successfully worked his way up through every position in that type of business.... and remained at the top level, running it successfully, for a minimum of 3 years. Altogether, that would probably take 5 to 10 years. Otherwise, how do I (and how does *he*) know that he can do it....?

I tell him, if we want to just throw money away.... Let's take a cruise and throw all of our money into the middle of the ocean..... Or let's start a big fire and burn all of our money. Same same as starting a business that will fail.

If he can't hold down a restaurant job, and work his way up to number one manager, while making the place more profitable..... then we're all out of our minds to think he can run his own restaurant. This same principle applies to any type of business.
"If a bank won't lend you the money, why should I? If you can get a bank to lend you the money, then I will. (but then you won't need me to)"

Bruce on love and money:

Once, over breakfast, I asked my first Thai boyfriend... "How much do you love me?" He replied, "How much do you have?"

Ha ha ha (Ever heard the expression, Things said jokingly are meant seriously...)

I once asked my second Thai boyfriend, "If I was poor and had no money at all, would you still have chosen me to be your boyfriend?" He replied, "If I were fat, ugly, and feminine, would you have still chosen me to be your boyfriend?"

Bruce on tipping in massage places:

In a non-sex massage spa..... If we play around sexually at all.... I give him at least 200 baht.... If it's more intense or he puts in a great effort, then I give him 500 baht. If we end up having full-on sex... (which is very rare)... I give him 1000.... and get his phone number.

This is absolutely something I do nearly every day.... going to a "non-sex" massage. But I don't do anything at all sexual about 50% of the time. Depends on my mood, and on his "hotness" factor. When "nothing at all sexual" happens... that's when 100 baht is a generous enough tip. (I've asked the manager. She told me that most customers tip between 20 - 40 baht. I used to always tip 500 baht. She told me that was too much.)

Bruce on working with mamasans:
(ChristianPFC does the exact opposite, totally ignore all staff that wants to interfere and only talk to the boy.)

Go to A-Bomb, FunnyBoy, etc (alone!), *early*.... as soon as they open.... and work with the mamasan (waiter). Tell him *exactly* what type you want, and want you want to do in bed. Don't be shy! Negotiate the entire thing with the mamasan.... including the total charges including tip. Ask the mamasan to guarantee his performance!

Then choose a hottie who the mamasan says matches your requirements and tell the mamasan you want to "off" him..... now. No need to speak with him or buy him a drink! Just say no to that nonsense. Take him out the door and directly back to your room and fuck. It's not important that he can speak English. As long as he understands, " I fuck you. "

And fuck *first*..... all other fun activities can happen later, after sex. (Other activities, like dance clubs etc, can often just be the boy's way of putting off sex he doesn't want to do..... and get loads more whiskey money out of your wallet for free drinks for all his friends.) Fuck first.

Always choose "Short Time".

Here's why: You are *not* going to enjoy spending a long time with someone unless you're both into it. And if you are both into it, you can change any short time into a long time on the spot impromptu. Never over commit. There are too many fish (hotties) in the sea.

Bruce on exchanging phone numbers:
(ChristianPFC does the exact opposite, giving his phone number to boys but rarely asking boys for their phone number. But I am looking for free sex in these cases, details here:

Also, at the big venues like Hero and Prince, they have so many boys that the manager doesn't even know their names. They come and go on a daily basis. Best to, when you do find one you like, inside the private room hand him your phone and tell him to dial *his* number into it. That's much better than giving him your card because he might not call. In fact he probably won't call.

Copyright ChristianPFC and Bruce 2016