Tuesday, 21 October 2014
Dating Thai Boys (18) I’m just an option!
Dating Thai Boys (18) I’m just an option!
My new unified theory about Thai boys “I’m just an option” replaces all previous theories (mobile phone empty battery, doesn’t know the way, no money for bus, has someone else already, busy studying or working – I'm joking - , and what I considered my last breakthrough in research, October 2013 on the forums: "Are most Thai boys retards?").
Usually it was disguised in various other forms, that’s why it took me five years of research to finally see it. And then, days after this epiphany, a case where it is clearly spelled out.
Ex-boyfriend candidate 2 = Salaya boy (Mahidol University Salaya Campus in Nakhon Pathom province, last bus back to his dorm is 9 pm, a bit inconvenient for nocturnal activities in Bangkok, hence often looking for a place to stay in central Bangkok over night).
18:10 Salaya boy U free tonight?
18:20 Salaya boy Hi
18:21 Salaya boy [Sticker]
18:21 christianpfc Go to pattaya tomorrow. Free tonight.
18:22 Salaya boy OK dinner together then I sleep with you
18:22 Salaya boy OK?
18:22 Salaya boy I'm in mrt now
18:24 christianpfc Yes, but meet friend first, free in one hour.
18:25 Salaya boy Well
18:25 Salaya boy Where e u?
18:26 christianpfc Near my room
18:26 Salaya boy OK
19:05 Salaya boy Where r u?
19:06 christianpfc On the way. What do you want to eat?
19:07 Salaya boy I already eaten
(First he suggests we have dinner together, then he has already eaten, acceptable in this case as he had to wait one hour until I'm free.)
19:08 Salaya boy Too hungry
19:08 Salaya boy [Photo]
19:08 Salaya boy Where r u?
19:08 Salaya boy I'm near by mrt lumpini
19:08 christianpfc Malaysia hotel
19:09 Salaya boy OK we meet there
19:10 Salaya boy Where r u?
19:11 christianpfc Front of Malaysia
19:12 Salaya boy OK
19:12 Salaya boy Soi gerthe now
19:20 christianpfc Goethe
I have dinner and he has a drink in a restaurant I frequent. He shows me a profile on grindr and asks me if he should meet him. I encourage him (technically I don’t care, but then I will have my room and laptop for myself), and he leaves to Silom Complex. The interesting part is that from staying with me over night he changed his mind to using my room as a hotel (but not directly saying so), as an alternative to staying with grindr acquaintance (if it doesn’t work out). Being optimistic, he didn’t even leave his bag pack with me, but instructed me not to leave my room or switch off my phone.
If he clicks with grindr farang, he will stay with him; if not, with me. I’m just an option!
20:20 Salaya boy I'll go back
20:20 Salaya boy Not my type
20:20 christianpfc Ok
20:48 Salaya boy Feel like a bad dream
20:49 christianpfc Why?
20:50 Salaya boy Old tall fat (the Farang in the profile on grindr)
21:19 Salaya boy Downstairs (I have to open the door to the street to let boys in)
21:19 christianpfc Moment
21:20 Salaya boy Want to peeeeee
18:01 Salaya boy Hi
18:01 Salaya boy How r u?
18:01 Salaya boy R u free today? Tomorrow? After tomorrow?
18:14 Salaya boy [Sticker]
18:14 christianpfc Have a cold. Not free.
18:15 Salaya boy OK
18:47 Salaya boy Any plan tomorrow?
18:47 Salaya boy I'll go to see you if you want
21:53 christianpfc Not sure, still have cold.
21:55 Salaya boy OK
21:55 Salaya boy I'll go to see you
21:55 Salaya boy N sleep with you
11:02 Salaya boy Morning Christian
11:03 Salaya boy How are you?
11:03 Salaya boy Can I come over? I'll bring you a pair of sock too (I lent him a pair of socks two months ago)
11:15 Salaya boy OK answer me ASAP
11:55 christianpfc Not free, friend stays with me.
11:56 Salaya boy OK
Why do I pull up with this? He is intelligent, and his caprices are totally different from the usual bullshit.
He asked if I would be in Bangkok for New Year’s Eve, and if he can stay with me. More precisely, he and his boyfriend who would come from Europe need a place in central Bangkok to stay (after watching fireworks), we could stay all three in my double bed (but won’t do anything sexually). If I were traveling elsewhere and would leave him my room key, that would be even better!
I don’t see this happen, but at least different from requests for money for taxi or food.