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Friday, 15 July 2016
Gay activities April (2) – May 2016
Gay activities April (2) –
Meet Pai from hornet at Wat
Hua Lampong. First chat in Chamchuri square, he is fishing for invitation to my
room, so I invite him. Some indecent touching, but not so much my type. Stays
over night. No character flaws and good English.
Chat with boys in Klong Toey
slum. Talk quickly turns to sex and dick size. I offer a cute boy 100 Baht to
touch his dick and he accepts. However quite shy, will require a lot of work to
get something useful.
Walk around and chat with
other cute boys. The usual problem: there is a fatty who is chatty and difficult
to understand, whereas his cute friend is shy. In addition, cute boy lost
phone, get Line of fatty.
As usually, the subject
quickly goes to vices. Here I use my old joke:
I ask boys I’m interested in
for their age anyway, and if talk comes to cocks I ask for cock size, then I
quote the cute boy’s stats:
“Ek, 19 years, 53 kg, 179 cm,
condom size 54 mm”
It’s dinner time for me, and
after my food arrives (fish grilled with salt), I realize it’s more than I want
to eat now, so I sent them a picture on Line and invite the boys for dinner.
After writing to and fro, the
boys arrive and order take away. That was not what I had in mind. Misunderstanding?
That brings me back to the last day of my second holiday in Thailand which was
in Jan 2010. At that time I was seeing a boy Nicky and we were in Silom, so I
invited him to spend my last dinner with me. He chose McDonald’s Silom and
ordered take-away, which I paid for, and then said goodbye.
That was the first time I
realized that a boy is not interested in spending time with me, just grasping the
opportunity to have a meal paid by me. From there, it still took me
years to grasp the full extent of “greediness and deception” versus “cultural
differences and misunderstandings”. And still, I sometimes fall for their
During this dinner, chat on
Hornet with a nearby cute boy K, then move to Line and switch from English to
Thai on his request. Confusion about location (he cannot read maps?), but that
is solved by a phone call. Walk 10 minutes to convenient meeting place, and he
appears soon after and is my type.
Reminds me of the boy
Earth who features in many Thai gay porn and is still around in Bangkok or
Pattaya on the gay apps, and I spotted him in real life a few times over the
years since he left Sunee Plaza.
K came by mocy, and tells me
to wait at bus stop while he takes the mocy back home. I was wondering if that
is just a ruse to get rid of me, but he is back even before I check the time to
count waiting time. Taxi home.
I shower first, he showers
second, then to bed without much talk. Have to dry his skin and wait until it
gets warm, but then everything good. (I write “good” instead of “great” because
I occasionally have problems to get hard with free encounters, but not with
paid encounters.) He is hard from the beginning, nice cock and balls and ass.
He asks for condom and lube, I acquiesce (I would rather have a wank or a suck,
but to keep him agree on him fucking me). Ticklish on the neck (I like to get
my lips and hands on neck).
Afterwards shower together.
Then he points to his mobile phone lying on my bed and says he would like a new
phone. I tell him that he has a phone already and then change subject. He plays
on his phone (hornet, asks me to translate messages in English; and facebook)
and waits for a friend to pick him up to go out for drinking. Then the dreaded
“Can you give me some money?”
“1000. (short pause)
Or 2000, if you have.”
(fiddle around with my towel
to gain time to ponder this request)
Hand him 1000 Baht.
He asks for 100 more, but I
don’t react on this.
Say goodbye with intention to
meet again tomorrow evening.
That money request came as a
surprise (although I was forewarned by the request for new mobile phone). If he
were a moneyboy, he would have had to tell me earlier. I guess he was fishing.
But in my situation, I cannot risk losing a good contact over 1000 Baht, and in
the future I can dictate place and time and sexual activities. He asks if he
can have some chocolate from my fridge, and holds a full bar in his hand. I
tell him this bar is not open yet and give him a piece from an open bar. Similar
to another boy, who didn’t want to take a cookie, but the full box with him
What would my readers have
K comes to my room (by mocy,
remembers way), negotiate from 500 down to 300. The previous night was promising,
but now I realize: he is my type, but not my style. He is kind of:
“I want to fuck you, but
don’t touch me, can I have some money?”
Whereas my style is:
“No fucking, I want to touch
you, no money.”
Dejavu 21:40-22:35. Show in
progress on 3rd floor (schedule 9 pm), over 30 spectators, over 50
customers (but count about 120 lockers with padlock), one boy nice body and
warm dry brown skin but not interested. A Thai English teacher chats me up and
is interested, but not my type. I leave while show still in progress. Steam
room closed defect, Jacuzzi cold not operating.
Free drinks at bar, free
condom 54 mm and lube at reception.
Seed 22:44-23:57. About 7
customers when I enter and 10 when I leave. One cute boy on internet, not
interested (I open door to his cubicle and stroke his leg, no reaction). Still restructuring
in progress, inflatable pool, underwear day observed.
Farose 2, stay 00:22-01:01. I
was rather tired, but it’s on the way home. Less than 50 customers, some look
promising. On way to rooftop for dinner pass cute boy N. Boy follows me and we
indicate mutual interest and he would sure have liked to go to a room, but I’m
tired and I don’t like the room. Exchange Line instead to meet another day.
Spend an hour messaging or
calling a dozen of boys:
Find out that N from Farose 2
last night works in X-Size (I was there weeks ago and now vaguely remember him),
that is convenient location to meet before or after work, and now that it’s
clear he is a money boy I could even offer 1000 for short time, but will not go
to take him out of the bar.
Chok is with friends, but can
meet later. Then no reply.
Tartar Asiatique needs to
raise 2500 for his mother. I offer to contribute 1000 if he comes to see me,
but he is not free now because he has to raise 2500. (Not sure what to make of
this, probably a moneyboy who doesn’t say so.)
Bank Khon Kaen is working,
but days before he wrote he works 8:30-17.
Conversation on hornet with
Dong Rama 3 trickles out (several messages read no reply), then call him. It
turns out he cannot speak English (our written communication was in English), switch
to spoken Thai. Starts positive, he is free and wants to meet, asks if we are
going to have sex (in such cases I always reply I want to meet and talk first).
Then asks for money, I offer money for taxi (even though he is only about 1 km
walk away), he asks for 2000, then lowers to 1500, I say goodbye.
That boy was a case where I
have to meet in real life to see if I want to have sex with him at all because
I can’t tell from the pictures on hornet.
That’s a general problem: the
problem is not that I wouldn’t pay 1000 for a boy I like, but I don’t want to
commit without seeing the boy first (that’s why I still go to gogo bars!).
Pictures were promising but not convincing.
Several no reply.
Nature Boys 22:38-23:18. Coke
150 Baht. Music, light, temperature ok. Excessive smoking (if it hadn’t been a
research trip, I would have turned around immediately). Up to 12 boys, but only
half of them in underwear (mostly orange Calvin Klein trunks), the other fully
dressed for a birthday party of one boy (?). 3 boys soso, I would take them for
free in a horny moment. One other customer.
Fake Club Ratchada 00:16-02:xx.
Invitation by Farang friend who has better luck with boys. Get in and walk
around until I find my friend’s table. That confirms what I thought before: can
get in without buying a drink! (Some other places have some staff lead you to a
table when you enter.)
I spot other customers (young
Thai) with earplugs (so I’m not the only one who thinks the music is too loud).
Queues at the toilets. But in the audience, still some empty tables at the
perimeter and can walk around easily (I thought it would be worse, but it turns
out to be acceptable unlike DJ station where I don’t go Fri-Sat because it’s
too crowded). Over 20 coyote boys in silver costumes (not my style, similar to
previous visits) 00:57-01:15. There must have been 1000 customers, of which 5
Farang and about 10 boys who are my type. 02:22 music off.
Call or message several boys,
JJ was sleeping and will
continue sleeping, Pong is working.
Kiw Screwboys agrees on 1000
Baht, but wants to eat first, then no show. (I thought so!)
Follow another contact from
gboysiam website. Has been posting there for over 6 months, with promising pictures
of several boys. I had chatted in the past, but then gave up when I realized
that I’m not chatting with one of the boys from the pictures, but with their
Now write on Line again and
inquire if all boys from the pictures are physically present so I can choose
one when I arrive (I don’t want to choose from pictures, that’s why I still go
to gogo bars). But the pimp manages to press me into choosing from pictures.
Get into rain (first rain
this year, have lunch while waiting for rain to stop). Bus to Ratchayothin
area. Arrive at the 7/11 that was given as meeting point. Wait there until the
pimp picks me up on mocy (another case of poor sense of orientation: she
could have told me to walk into the soi for xx meter and go to yy shop, that
would have taken me a minute, instead she let me wait 10 minutes and many more
The pimp is the ladyboy owner
of a of wedding accessories shop and the boys live nearby, but only the one I
chose before from pictures is present. Go with Kim to his room nearby.
Cigarette butts in ashtrays in room but no smell. Chat and finally get a price:
1500, no room for negotiation. I wank first, then Kim wanks to white gay porn.
Chatterbox, have to tell him to shut up because I don’t like talking during sex.
Has never been in gay sauna. Wanks 2 or 3 times per day. Overall positive, but
considering distance and price, it’s not worth repeating.
39 underground stay bout
18:25-19:25. Free entry after 6 paid with coupon (oldest from 2557=2015). Soso.
Less than 100 customers, one nice underwear (Calvin Klein trunks grey with
Seed 00:08-01:05. Over 20
customers, hugging with a bordercase.
Farose 2, stay 01:28-02:25.
Over 100 customers, some look promising.
Meet a boy from hornet, Bank
from Khon Kaen, in Lotus Pinklao, not so much my type. Speaks fast (only Thai) and
poor acoustics where we sit.
Orion sauna 17:33-18:20. (I
didn’t take any notes.)
MachoX sauna 18:47-21:05. A
boy who is cute and who looks vaguely familiar enters and goes to rooftop fully
dressed. Follow him and ask for name: Bom from Minburi, whom I met last year in
Wave Club Ramkhamhaeng 89/2 (now closed) and then lost all contact (phone
number, Line and facebook!). He will be in the show. What a great surprise!
Exchange current contact information.
Show about 20:30-40 in porn
room (schedule 19:30, receptionist says 20:00), two boys erotic dancing in
underwear, some pubic hair and balls visible, nothing to write home about. Job
offer for show in locker room.
After show, the two boys from
show in dark zone for groping (the other boy much more popular), but Bom doesn’t
want to go to room with me. Leaves afterwards to Muffil sauna for other show.
Bus to Chinatown where I am
grooming some boys. I am lucky, they are there* and we chat and I invite them
for dinner. They ask if they can order take-away for friends: no way!
*Else I would just have gone
to Hua Lampong. There is no direct bus at night from Pinklao to Rama 4, would
have had to change at Hua Lampong anyway, and once in the are I can as well
look for cute boys.
Top Suk62 called me around 9
pm when I was leaving sauna, I told him I will be home 11, now call him back:
Mon 02.05.2016 Khon Kaen (1st
day of Esan trip with M)
A Farang friend M has a car
and wants to visit several places in Esan, so we go on a 5 day round trip and
share costs for petrol.
Weeks before, I spotted an
picture with an awesome body and so-so face on facebook, messaged him and he is
interested in meeting in Khon Kaen.
Good communication in Thai,
not pushy or sentimental. Is free from 9 pm on. We meet outside at my hotel,
then invite him to my room. Fully dressed not convincing, but when sitting on
my bed and looking at a map of Esan, I put my hand around his waist and from there
it takes expected course.
Both of us have a great time,
warm and dry skin throughout. Afterwards dinner at night market. He would stay
over night, but would have to leave 4 am to start work 5 am, so we say goodbye.
No character flaws*, will meet again next time I’m in Khon Kaen.
*Except maybe this one: when
chatting on Line, he wrote he lives in Khon Kaen city, but despite me asking,
he didn’t specify where. Now it turns out he lives 10 km outside. I guess he
didn’t say so at first in order not to lose me over traveling problems.
Tuesday 03.05.2016 (2nd day
of Esan trip with M)
Invite the boy Jo from Song
Dao (Sakon Nakon province) to join me and Farang friend to Bueng Kan. I met Jo
last year in Sakon Nakon and then two no-show on subsequent visits, not a good
start. But he called me several times, and always picked up phone immediately
when I called him, so I had a good feeling.
Small detours from Khon Kaen
to Bueng Kan to pick up Jo at his place. His father speaks good English. Jo has
no luggage, but I told him it will be 2 days 1 night.
Being with a friend, I can
justify spending 790 Baht on a hotel room (last time I paid that much was in
Thailand was in 2010). In the room, Jo asks me if I have clothes for him for
changing after shower, so I lend him a T-shirt.
He comes back from showering
in shorts and T-shirt. We go to bed around 22. The bed is so big, 3 people
could sleep in it without touching each other, and Jo lies at the very end, so
I have to move over so I can touch him. Hand under shirt: no reaction. Then
move over shorts, he says something that I interpret as: “If you want to do
more, can you buy me phone that can play music and video?” (His current phone
is a dumbphone.) I continue groping and then ask “How much will it be?” – “I
don’t know either.” Continue groping and ponder what to do next. “Is 1000 Baht
ok?” – I don’t understand the answer, but assume it’s a yes.
The boy is a dead fish in
bed, I have a wank first, he second, total waste of time and money.
Wednesday 04.05.2016 (3rd day
of Esan trip with M)
Continue trip to Sakon Nakon.
We arrive in the evening, no more buses to Song Dao, hence Jo stays another
night with me at a Thai friend’s place (separate beds in same room, no sex, no
money). My farang friend stays in hotel and asked me to ask Jo if he would like
to have sex with him for 1000 Baht the following day. Jo is only a bordercase
for my Farang friend, and I told him about my disappointment, but nonetheless
he wants to try. From observing him, he thinks Jo can give good massage.
Thursday 05.05.2016 (4th day
of Esan trip with M)
M picks us up, I stroll in
Sakon Nakon town and M spends some time with Jo in his room. M reports J is
useless for massage and for gay sex. Sent Jo to bus station and continue trip
In Buriram search on hornet
and meet Yok, go to my room for talking (good English), but don’t do anything
more (I’m tired and he is a bordercase).
Return to Bangkok. Chat with Bom
Minburi and agree on 1300. He arrives 20:03, and 20:30 he tells me he has to
leave 21. Starts so-so, then gets better, will see him again some day. But next
time make sure he has time, I don’t like to rush.
He told me he will buy a school
uniform for his sister, but then on facebook I see he posts from Silom Soi 4).
Chat with a cute boy T at
Klong Toey slum whom I remember from before and see there often. Talking about
where I live and how get to and back, he offers me a ride on mocy (not
specifying who will drive). I offer 100 Bath (taxi would cost 50, and bus 8,
but mocy would save me quite some walking). But unfortunately, a friend of cute
boy does the driving.
K comes to my room (after long
chat on Line, says has to hurry, but when I want to cancel suddenly has time).
Seed 00:49-03:05 brimming
with about 30 customers, several nice bodies, orgies in darkroom, two Thai in
locker room recognize me as blogger. Exchange Line with two boys and get
blowjob in darkroom. Update:
Farose 2, stay 03:28-04:12. Over
100 customers, many sleeping, pool no light or water play.
In Klong Toey slum again, T’s
friends and family tell me to tell them when I want to get home. Ask T: he has
a mocy, but no driving license and doesn’t drive outside of the slum. I was
hoping I could at least chose will drive me today (there are more cute boys),
but it’s the same as yesterday. No brainer: because he already knows the way! I
have to devise a new plan to get T in my bed.
Who will be the last boy I
have sex with before flying to Germany? Call Pong: not free, Boss Vipa16
doesn’t pick up, Top Suk62 was sleeping, Yoi doesn’t read my message on
facebook (he has no phone, I can’t call him).
Message Lee (whom I met in
Saphan Khwai gay karaoke, now works X-Size, wants to bring a friend for
threesome, but friend is not my type). After long chatting agree on 900 Baht.
Last message was 23. After agreement on price and sending location of my room,
I expect him to come now, but wonder how he will escape mamasan’s clutches in
X-Size. No show, but I don’t call or write again but go to bed around midnight.
Update next morning: he writes 1 am that he is free now after work.
Parallel to this play hornet
and a boy who looks promising contacts me. He is in Srinakarin which is a bit
far, and when we move to Line for videochat, he doesn’t look that appealing any
Spent an hour calling or
chatting with several boys, to no avail! Wank alone.
In Germany, continue checking
(all in Thai language), on average once per week. Sometimes I see something
interesting, and this time spot a record number of four boys that I know from
elsewhere. And several new massage places advertise there.
Summary (April 24th – May 9th
1 free sex: Seed.
1 not sure: K (asks for money
after sex, 1000).
5 paid sex: K 300, Kim gboysiam
1500, Jo 1000, Bom 1300, K 300 = 4400.