Details about boyfriend candidates, sauna, gogo, disco visits and sexual partners in 2016.
Having accounted for every fuck, wank and grope in my monthly reports, I now just have to add it all up to get an overview for the year.
What became of this year’s boyfriend candidates? Italic are quotes of what I posted before.
BFC1in2016 in Phnom Penh Cambodia (facebook).
BFC2in2016 JJ in Pattaya or Bangkok (hornet).
BFC3in2016 A from Minburi (hornet).
BFC4in2016 P from Korat (Macho Sauna)
He asks me to delete all my online dating accounts, which is a bit early, and which I tell him I will not do. My gayromeo has chats with people who don't live any more, that would be lost forever if I deleted my account.
After the great time in sauna, meet P again as soon as possible, which is now. We meet for lunch at moonhouse, P eats everything on his plate: I think I’m falling in love and promote him to BFC4in2016.
Sightseeing together all day. Makes some drama about love/sex, I have to tell him to shut up as it's too early to discuss such matters. Then too my room, I shower and get into foreplay without him showering. The dried clean sweat on his neck is delicious, should do this more often.
At night, meet BFC4in2016 for a walk around the Royal Palace. By chance, he found my blog! But still wants to see me.
At the end, chat becomes too emotional and gives me headache. It’s like listening to a foreign language when your level is intermediate, however in this case my English is better than his. Or another comparison talking about grammar, him talking to me about emotional stuff is like me asking an average native speaker about grammar intricacies.
We separate and will meet some day in Korat (his stay in Bangkok was only temporary).
Still running as BFC, but our ideas about becoming boyfriends cannot be reconciled: I would take him as first gik and sleep around with other boys for a year, and then decide if I want only him in the future. He wants me to stop seeing other boys, delete my online dating accounts, and won’t even have sex with me again unless I commit to him (and only to him).
BFC5in2016 N from Charansanitawong (Hornet)
Take bus to Victory Monument and split there. He goes home and I go sightseeing.
And that’s the last I have seen or heard of him. Messages on Line not answered, can’t find his profile on hornet and our chat is gone.
We didn’t have time for much else than sex, so can’t judge about character. I’m busy with other boys and sightseeing, so couldn’t make an effort to find him again on hornet or elsewhere.
Summary: 3 from hornet, 1 from facebook, 1 from sauna.
Saunas visits in 2016
That’s approximate 5 sauna visits for 1 sex. If you assume these 5 sauna visits take 2 hours each and cost 300 Baht in entry + taxi (low estimates), that’s 10 hours and 1500 Baht for each encounter.
Gogo bars, host bars, karaoke number of visits and boys offed
Mar 6 gogo; 1 boy from gogo (Screw Boys).
That’s 13 places visited for one encounter, at estimated average 200 Baht drink price and 1 hour spent in there, that’s 2600 Baht and 13 hours just to find the boy! But gogo bar visits count as general entertainment, even if I don’t find a boy nothing is lost. Even more time and money spent than for sauna visits.
One visit in months of Mar, May, Aug, Nov, one boy. Sounds like a better ratio 1 in 4, but that boy was brought by a Farang friend and then passed to me. Previous years, ratio about 1 in 10. And I find discos a horrible place, too loud, too late; I don’t sing, I don’t dance, I don’t drink; if I don’t find a boy, I have wasted time and money in vain.
65 Sexual partners in 2016
How often did I meet which sexual partner, sorted by frequency then alphabetically, with comment what became of them. There might be some inaccuracies as reporting in monthly reports is not consistent over the year, and in some monthly reports encounters out of Thailand are included (but now I separate Thailand from other countries).
5 Kot (1000+300+300+1000+800, my type but not my style)
3 Top Suk62 (600+500+500) (meet about once per month, sometimes no sex)
16 boys I met twice for sex in 2016:
In approximate chronological order 41 singular encounters:
Some generalisations from above list (very similar experiences with different boys):
2 Boys (BFC5in2016 and Love in Nake) all fine in bed, but blocked me on hornet and Line, and I don’t know why.
I spend a lot of time finding someone, but usually it’s just one encounter, because sex is underwhelming or the difficulties meeting him again exceed the effort to meet someone new. I would rather have fewer partners and meet those more often, but it’s not meant to be.
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