Gay activities Jan2021 Cambodia
Details about Heart of Darkness Disco, Hatha Khmer Spa (sauna), Toolbox bar and online dating.
Fri1jan2021-Tue5jan 2021 Battambang
Was published here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/01/gay-activities-battambang-dec-2020-jan.html
Wed6jan2020 Phnom Penh
In the afternoon K good activities as last time.
SH from grind long discussion (start 18:32) where to meet, poor written English, I was about to give up, finally meet 20:12 in front of supermarket. He comes by mocy and takes me to his workplace nearby. I have to cut it short: I’m don’t like driving around mocy, and I will not chat while riding a mocy (he should focus on the traffic, and the acoustics is poor), so we sit down at a supermarket for chat. Fluent in English and interesting conversation. Slim brown body, and the nude pictures he had sent fit his body as far as I can judge, but facial hair and face so-so. I don’t feel horny, say goodbye 20:26 and go home.
Thu7jan2020 Phnom Penh
Online dating brimming, many new profiles, at end of the day blued 20 chats, grindr 13 chats but nothing materialized: Pollim cancels.
By chance meet SH from yesterday again while I’m out for dinner. This must be a sign, we have a chat and I was about to invite him to my room, but then he is gone. But not long after, messages me from a new profile on grindr.
Knock on my door 20:46. Slim brown hairless, awesome sixpack. Chest and sixpack firm, butt cheeks nice shape but not firm (he is over 30, I can tell age from firmness of butt cheeks). Huge balls, each the size of an egg, I can get both of them in my mouth but no room to play. Good activities, skin temperature okay. At the end he cums by wanking, one line to his nipples (whereas BTB disintegrated to drops).
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Jane calls and messages many times, I don’t reply or even read, then blocks me on messenger.
Fri8jan2020 Phnom Penh
Chat with a group of students, and one of them looks like a real life version of cartoon character Xandir.
Jane multiple messages and calls, finally take his call: wants to see me, is crying, locked out of his room, friend will be back 23. Tell him we can’t meet today. Long silence. Do you want to say anything more? Bye.
Public gym on riverside (“Local fitness place” on google maps, 100 m N of Decho Meas Decho Yat monument riders on horses) shapely boys shirtless acrobatics (the best I can describe it, neither gym nor breakdance). This seems to be a regular event about 18-20 every day (?), they bring their music and flashlight.
Can't find the pictures I had taken
Sombat comes at night and stays over night.
Sat9jan2020 Phnom Penh
We have a great time in the morning. Breakfast together, back to my room (he works on his laptop, I read and study). Bye in the evening.
Meet Khun in park, then to my room. His English is soso and he kept face mask on until I ask him to take it off to see his face. To bed, but everything soso: not brown, not slim, not muscle, activities okay.
Out for dinner, and afterwards invite Heng to my room.
Sun10jan2021 Phnom Penh Phnom Penh Heart of Darkness
Heng bye 00:47 in room. I don’t feel sleepy, the occasion to go to Heart of Darkness disco!
Blue Chili 00:58 about 20 customers all outside.
Toolbox 01:05 only one customer. Will close 2am.
Heart of Darkness 1:13-2:35, drink 2.50USD (but one could get in without buying a drink), dancefloor full, 2nd floor only 5 customers. Show about 1:43-2:05. Smoking allowed inside. Some cute and some gay, one touches my hand on railing upper floor but not my type.
Chat on grindr with a boy Bora who was in HoD but is home now but eager to meet now. Initially I refuse to meet, but then agree because this would mean 4 boys in one day (not calendar day, but 24 hours, in this case even 12 hours; however the first stayed over night, so I had 3 boys entering and 4 boys leaving my room within 12 hours) in my room, my first boy marathon.
I wait for him outside. When he arrives 3:15 pay for passapp 5 kKHR, and I see I made a mistake: too fat for my taste. We walk to my hotel, door is closed. I can see three receptionists sleeping inside. Knock on window: no reaction. Ring the doorbell (and I can hear it ringing loudly from outside): no reaction. Finally old woman from further inside the hotel comes and opens door for us.
I don’t feel horny with him, we have a few gropes at each other, but he makes no attempt at sex, so we just go to bed and sleep. Nothing in the morning either, give Bora 6 kKHR for passapp, bye 8:24.
Three lies in one picture (it's not his picture, he doesn't have a big dick, age - not in the screenshot - wasn't correct).
from Siem Reap is in Phnom Penh for family reasons and stays near my
place. Go for a drink and then to his room where we have a good time. I
fall asleep and bye next morning.
Reported here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/01/gay-activities-kampot-jan-2021.html
Mon18jan2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Jay at coffee shop near my hotel. Way of dressing unattractive, glasses for fashion, keeps mask on until my room. Quickly to bed. Shaved facial hair. Can feel hair on his lower back, then hairy upper thighs. I don’t get horny by play along, but he notices that something isn’t alright and when he asks me a second time, I tell him I don’t like body hair.
I had set up dates with Bark and K for the night, and now realize I can’t meet both. But I met Bark three times in Kampot just days ago, and a boy marathon (meeting the same boy 4 times in a row) is interrupted by Jay, so I cancel Bark in favor of K. Bark becomes impolite in online chat.
K’s mocy is broken so I agreed to pay for passapp for him to come here. He quotes 40 kKHR which seems too much, but I give him the money without questioning. He hugs me and whispers in my ear “Can I have some more for me?”, so I give him 10 USD more without asking what he needs the money for. We have a good time in bed and some general chat, during which he mentions that the mocy repair will cost 30 USD. On goodbye, I give him 20 USD more and hope that covers his mocy repair.
This is a very clear case. K has been to my room twice without asking for money, and mocy repair is a one-time emergency where I’m happy to help out. But I would be very reluctant to give money for what I consider luxury (shoes, mobile phone), or regular expenses.
Tue19jan2021 Phnom Penh
Tionko arrives ahead of time. Face okay, but in my room crab ladder and a bit fat (one-pack?). He is hard from start. Aggressive nipple play. Enjoys me nibbling on his ear very much. Nice neck, but rest of his body too fat/pale. No repeat.
Invite Pollim for dinner. He has hair on his hands, which does not bode well. During general chat, he mentions he is hairy. Nonetheless, invite him to my room after dinner. I take shower and Pollim has a look at me naked in the shower. However when I emerge from shower, he says he got a phone call and has to go home to do some work. I’m quite relieved by that! Filed as no sex.
Wed20jan2021 Phnom Penh
Jane comes and stays over night.
Thu21jan2021 Phnom Penh
Invite Jane for breakfast, then bye.
Meet Alex for dinner in Golden Sorya Mall. Interesting conversation and interesting background, but I don’t feel “I want to get my hands into your pants”. It seems he thinks the same of me, I haven’t heard of him since.
Leng comes to my room and we have a good time.
Fri22jan2021 Phnom Penh Ganesh House Massage
Ganesh House Massage separately:
Love Spa (sauna) main entrance (corner 105/350 street) closed, but side entrance open and staff says they have massage service.
Hatha Khmer Spa (sauna) open, entry 3.50 USD, stay 17:26-18:31. Busy. Many areas too dark (I blacklisted Love Spa for being too dark). When I enter labyrinth, a twink with glasses takes my hand and leads me inside. After several attempts, he manages “What is your name?” – “Christian.” – “I am Cambodia. You me money.” That’s a request I can easily refuse. But by the time we got to this point, I had felt that he has facial hair, shaved a few days ago, and what else I saw and felt put him in “would go with him for free, but not pay” category.
Sat23jan2021 Phnom Penh
I had been chatting with KPC since December, but he doesn’t speak English and lives far away, and pictures promising but not clear, so I went for boys living closer and speaking English.
Today KPC wants to come to my place. Long chat in the morning (not much to exchange, just long gaps and communication problems). Last message from him 12:54 distance 3 km, then 13:56 “I do not dare enter” 110 m away. I wait at coffee shop 14:03-21, then reply “I’m bc” (Busy?) distance 3 km. I give up, filed as “no show”.
But he messages me again at night, now with picture from across my hotel. I go to the spot (and even the same car is still parked there), but don’t see anyone. He messages me that he can see me, and tells to go back to my room, he will follow. I’m back in my room 19:10, knock on door 19:12.
When I see him, not a clear hit. Sit on bed and awkward conversation (with google translate), finally “I need money.” - “How much do you need?” – “To your heart’s content.” – “I can help you with 10 USD.” – “It is very little.” Via 50-30-20 we arrive at 15. He mentioned in chat before that he wants money, but I ignored that and continued trying to set up a date.
Activities poor. “Does my beard tickle?” – Nod. “Can I take a picture?” – shakes head (he was shirtless when I asked; I have no interest in nude pictures, only face and upper body shirtless). He will go home by passapp, so I assume he came that way, and gave him 5 USD more to cover travel expenses.
A very clear “NO REPEAT”: no English, independent from this communication difficulties and space-time-confusion, attitude, wants money, face and boy average, activities poor. Lowest point for dating in Cambodia.
Toolbox stay 22:25-23:12. Watermelon shake 3 USD. When I arrive 7 customers, maximum 9 customers during my stay. Show starts 22:30. Three boys shirtless dancing. Long gaps between acts, boys shirtless in audience. Music level okay. Waiter makes interesting conversation with me. Smoking allowed but no problem.
Blue Chili about 23:20 drag show in progress, about 50 customers (inside full, outside all tables occupied and more customers standing)
This is general from every time I walked past Blue Chili and Toolbox, the bars are similar in size, but Blue Chili has about 5 times more customers than Toolbox. Are they coming for the drag show, whereas I'm going to Toolbox for boys dancing in underwear show?
Sun24jan2021 Phnom Penh
At coffee shop meet Chinese ZF 10:23. No English. Keeps facemask until I ask him to take it off in my room. Painted eyebrows (I don’t like) but I forget about this when we are in bed. 35 years old but looks younger. Slim body, warm dry skin. We have a good time. My second date entirely in Chinese!
At coffee shop meet Phirom and we have a good time in my room.
And a third one, DaraSun, comes to my room. Quickly to bed, have a good time. Then Dara plays on his mobile phone in bed. I’m hungry and might meet another one. Suggest we go for dinner. But first (better in my room than in restaurant) ask about his travel expenses.
He said it cost him 10USD to come here, I showed him on grab that it should be about 2.50USD. He said he didn’t use an app (because his phone screen is cracked?), but negotiated the fare with driver. I gave him 15USD for return and told him to take passapp for return (if there had been any issue, I would have booked him a ride on grab). This seems to be general (see K earlier) that boys ask for inflated fares for passapp rather than admit they are money boys or directly ask for money.
Invite him for dinner, he plays on his phone, I make a bit of conversation. Other than sex, the boy is of little use, but there is something about him that I can’t define that makes me horny.
Mon25jan2021 Phnom Penh
Dinner and fun in bed with Sombat.
During dinner, a woman approaches us: Philippino volunteer, sells pumpkin seeds, labeled 5k but I can get for 1USD, her last bag then she can go home. But I don’t fall for these tricks! Then young boy and girl come and sell strawberry (spotted them on street 178 as well).
Tue26jan2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with Sophak Battambang 13:20, tell him I will take bus on Thursday. He cannot meet because he has boyfriend now (Cambodian) and will not lie to him or cheat on him!
Keep in touch, some day need or greed for money will be bigger than love to his boyfriend, and that will be my chance! Or he has someone else who gives him more money than I did (10 USD)? Or other issues? To get rid of some boys, I had a lie about having a boyfriend in mind.
A major disruption in my travel and dating plans! I’m not doing this (meeting that many boys) for fun, I would rather meet some I know again, but when it fails due to their fault, I look for someone else.
Just days ago he asked me to buy him a backpack. What a luck I didn’t! And I haven’t gone far in my trip planning, can easily cancel or change. I had planned a trip Battambang-Sisophon-Siem Reap about two weeks, but the reason for the trip was to meet the boy, cancel the trip. I had stopped online dating because I have Sombat on Wed and Sophak on Fri, but now back to fill the gap!
Phnom Penh Sports Club 16:38-18:08, entry 5USD (day ticket, can leave and enter again?). Meet German friend there (who lives nearby and has monthly pass 60 USD). One white towel good quality, choose any locker (of 171) with padlock and key, shower heads damaged, individual showers with curtain. Steam hot, sauna hot, bathtubs 18 and 44 (!) Celsius. Gets busy during our stay, in gym a few worth a second look. Locker room has clothes hanger so I can hang my sweaty shirt to dry (I like this very much, usually I go to sauna after a day of sightseeing, and have to put my sweaty clothes in locker where they stay sweaty). Free hot and cold drinking water with shared glass. No shorts provided, bring your own swimwear.
Have a look at hotels in that area. One has short-time rooms on ground floor, upper floors rooms for over night. 15USD per night, for 1 week stay discount to 14USD. There is a cute shirtless boy, and the manager (okay English) sends the boy to show me the room! Nice underwear (I should have slipped on stairs so I can touch his body!).
Try to have a chat with boy in room, but no English. If he were speaking English, or this had happened in Thailand, I would surely have come to an arrangement with the boy!
Blue Chili no customers 21:55. Three staff, nice cat.
Wed27jan2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with Heng in coffee shop. How nice to have a chat with someone cute, but you don’t have to have sex every time you meet!
Don’t invite anyone because Sombat will come tonight.
Thu28jan2021 Phnom Penh
Sombat gets up 7 am to go to work.
Meet Seth coffee shop, to my room, to bed. The first time I fuck someone in this room, and the bed is squeaking! We have to move around to find a place that does not squeak! He had no picture on grindr because he is not out to family or friends, deleted his profile already. Likes foreigners with white skin.
Meet Dara110 at Royal Palace Park. Interesting chat, but for me not more sex today, leave it at chat.
Fri29jan2021 Phnom Penh
On Hornet message from faceless profile: Krit in Battambang (met in Pattaya twice many years ago, still remember him clearly and will see him when I’m in Battambang again).
Sat30jan2021 Phnom Penh
Meet SayHa at coffee shop, then to my room and to bed. Not cute enough, not slim enough, not brown enough, not warm enough (cold feet and butt cheeks), but good activities, character, no body hair.
Meet Fei for dinner. Interesting chat, but I need a rest and his profile was like “no sex on first date”. He insists on paying our dinner (we had a tug-of-war over the bill folder, I realized he is serious and let go).
Summary Jan2021 Phnom Penh (Battambang and Kampot separate)
19 Free sex: K, SH, Sombat, KP, Heng, Bora (pay passapp return), Ratha, Jay, K (pay passapp and 30 USD for mocy repair), Tionko, Jane, Leng, Chinese ZF, Phirom, DaraSun (15 USD), Sombat, Sombat, Seth, SayHa.
2 paid sex: Ganesh House Massage 20 USD, KPC 15 USD.
6 No sex: SH, Pollim, Alex, Heng, Dara110, Fei.
2 No show: Pollim, KPC.
1 I cancel: Bark.
14 Repeat: K, SH, Sombat, Heng, Ratha, K, Jane, Leng, Chinese ZF, Phirom, DaraSun, Sombat, Sombat, Seth.
7 No repeat: KP, Bora, Jay, Tionko, Ganesh House Massage, KPC, SayHa.
8 Old: K, Sombat, Ratha, K, Jane, Sombat, Sombat, Seth.
13 New: SH, KP, Heng, Bora, Jay, Tionko, Leng, Ganesh House Massage, KPC, Chinese ZF, Phirom, DaraSun, SayHa.
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