Gay activities Apr2021
The month is mostly lost (boy-wise, travel-wise and general quality of life-wise) due to lockdown and curfew. Whole month spent in Phnom Penh. Some days just reading, study Chinese, watch movies and a walk around the block. But even during lockdown, some boy activities which shows: Love is stronger than lockdown!
I have been chatting with cute boy Peter who works on a construction site near my hotel for weeks, during lockdown and curfew intensify and try to get him to my room for fun.
Thu1apr2021 Phnom Penh
Ahly (friend of Somey 15mar2021) messages me, wants to meet and needs money, I offer 10 USD*and after some negotiation he accepts. Arrives 14:00 (knock on my door). Fully dressed to bed, plays on his phone. He recently broke up with his boyfriend (boyfriend has new partner), that’s why he can come to meet me (last time he said he wouldn’t cheat on his boyfriend). I have a few gropes, he undresses under bedsheet.
Ahly tells me he will leave in 30 minutes. I tell him good sex takes 1 or 2 hours. He tries 1 hour for 20 USD, but I stay at 10 USD. Warm dry skin, no body hair, hard from start average size. Wants to watch porn on his mobile. If he had some saved on his phone, that would be interesting to see what he likes, but searching internet for porn is a total turn-off, I tell him to put the phone away. Evasive when I kiss and lick his neck and nipples. When I try to kiss him “I don’t like”. – “What do you like?” – “I like hurry.” Finger him a bit, moaning, but after I have one segment in, evasive. I ask him why he does not like kissing, sucking, nipple play, he says Cambodian boys are like that, don’t like freestyle. Everything exactly as with Somey. At the end I learn that Somey is waiting outside with motorbike.
Bye 14:40. A complete waste of time and money. He does sex like dishwashing. But he is cute, and might be a “lazy bottom”, and for 10 USD I will meet him again and see if I can confirm my “lazy bottom” theory.
*Before I used to offer 20 USD to money boys. But after his friend Somey for 20 was totally useless in bed, from then on try with 10. Those worth more still get 20, but on the useless I waste only 10 and my time. About half of the boys accept 10, half will not meet me for 10.
At construction site 5pm several workers outside, spot Peter and another cute, give an apple to Peter and ask for his favorite fruit: durian.
Curfew in Phnom Penh 20-5 from today. No more dine-in in restaurants, only take-away. A considerable drop in quality of life.
Fri2apr2021 Phnom Penh
Jane can stay longer in quarantine hotel, postpones coming to my room to Monday instead of today. What a relief!
Mon5apr2021 Phnom Penh
Finally spot the cute slim brown boy at my hotel shirtless. No discernible abs or pecs, not worth pursuing him.
No message from Jane, he wanted to come today, file as no show. After days not going on gay online dating, now check who wrote me in the meantime and look for new profiles. (Message from Jane 00:49: drunk and sad.)
Tue6apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet a boy who lives nearby at supermarket. English okay, conversation okay, not so much my type. Some conversation, then after some silence I say I feel hot (temperature, not sexual interest) and will go back to my room.
I have some travel in Phnom Penh to do. Near my hotel are several cyclo (tricycle, human powered), and one speaks some English and chatted with me several times and might be gay. He immediately accepts the fare I offer (which I got from grab), I get on his cyclo. But then a woman comes and bitches/bickers at him, making a scene, in the end takes off her flip-flop and threatens to hit him. He says he cannot go. I take a tuktuk.
Wed7apr2021 Phnom Penh
Travel between provinces banned. Postpone trip to Siem Reap, sightseeing daytrip on weekend cancelled.
Thu8apr2021 Phnom Penh
Heco one hour oil massage 20 USD. Arrive 16:00, get a glass of cold drink. At reception there is a bucket to catch water dripping from aircon, dripping sound. Receptionist washes my feet and then leads me to massage room and he would have done massage if I hadn’t asked for HecoBoy2 (whom I have met before). He is currently busy with customer, but I can take shower and wait for him. Massage table with face well. No clothes hanger or table, put clothes in box that was on table. Shower in room, but no curtain or wall, floor gets wet. HecoBoy2 tries to mop it up, but then suggests we change room. Massage starts 16:25 in new room. HecoBoy2 fully dressed, good massage, but no erotic touching. Afterwards asks if I want wanking, I decline. Shower alone. Out of room 17:30. Hot tea and mango. Tip 10 USD, out 17:40.
Summary: rather expensive; facilities soso; no list of boys to choose from; if you want a particular boy, you have to ask for him.
Fri9apr2021 Phnom Penh
Say hello to an acquaintance from Grindr V at riverside, not so much my type.
Louis wants to meet at Blue Chili, than changes to Bred Bank. There is a bakery, and he has his car parked in front. The first time a boy came to a date by car. Some attractive, some unattractive features, interesting conversation. I tell him I don’t feel horny with him, but he wants to stay over night nonetheless. Has to take car back home and will come by tuk-tuk before curfew at 8.
I have dinner at Martina Bar in street 51 (Pasteur). Some places there still open but with little lighting.
Louis comes to my room, interesting conversation, we both sleep naked but no activity in bed.
Sun11apr2021 Phnom Penh
In the morning hello to Peter, and there is another boy cute as well. Peter’s phone broken, that’s why he didn’t read my messages. Can’t come to my room because he is hot. I tell him I have aircon, still cannot come to my room.
In the evening go to Peter’s room. He stays with wife and baby and younger brother (cute! 18y.o.). His phone is broken and SIM-card inside (that means he doesn’t have another phone just for calling). Give him my phone number. Cannot come to my room because too hot and baby sick.
Mon12apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter in basement of construction site. Invites me for beer or whisky but I decline.
Tue13apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Jop from hornet on road, then to my room. Interesting chat and interesting background, but I don’t feel horny with him (hair on upper thigh) and it seems he feels the same. We sit on my bed and chat, then he takes out his phone to read on phone and I do the same.
Another food delivery for Jane (in quarantine, but can pick up deliveries from reception).
Afterwards I do my own shopping, supermarket busier than ever and queues at check out. Later I learn that lockdown is coming, everyone does their shopping before lockdown.
Wed14apr2021 Phnom Penh
Choice of fruit and vegetables at Kandal market limited, and priced higher than before.
Ahliya from Blued is already up to 2nd floor when I go down to meet him at reception. Speaks some English and more Chinese from work with Chinese. Body, face, activities, attitude all fine, repeat! 15 USD well deserved.
Lockdown entire Phnom Penh 24 hours for 2 weeks from midnight.
Kandal market busier than usual, and later on facebook pictures of supermarkets full of people and empty shelves.
Thu15apr2021 Phnom Penh
Few people and vehicles on road. Supermarkets open, everything else closed. The little fruit at Kandal market twice as expensive as a before lockdown.
Royal Palace Park. Later during lockdown I have seen it without anybody.
Dara110 suddenly messages me he has arrived (didn’t message me before, just general intention to meet, have to dress first; this is a general issue with him, have to address this next time). He came by passapp, driver took small roads because main roads blocked. Good activities as last time.
All restaurants I used to frequent are closed, I ask hotel staff to get steamed rice from their shared kitchen.
Fri16apr2021 Phnom Penh
5k sweet potato (was 3k a week ago). Limited choice, no ripe mango, no cheap oranges.
Some roads half-assed blocked with red/white ribbon (mocy can pass, I hold it up for tuk-tuk to pass underneath).
Sun18apr2021 Phnom Penh
French bakery Eric Kayser closed from today. Now it’s getting serious!
Mon19apr2021 Phnom Penh
Kandal market locked down and blocked by red and white tape and guarded by uniformed men. Wat Ounalom is closed, no more playing with my favorite cats and dogs.
Alcohol sales ban for two weeks.
Tue20apr2021 Phnom Penh
Buy a bunch of bananas for double price as usual, but this is the only fresh fruit available in my area today.
Wed21apr2021 Phnom Penh
Shopping Lucky Express in 144 street, some shelves empty (rice, meat). First time in my life that I witness food shortages.
View on Norodom Blvd south to Independence Monument. Eyewitnesses say since the end of the Red Khmer, Phnom Penh has not been that quiet.
Thu22apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter in his room (door open, he is there with brother and baby), some water on floor from rain, his phone still broken, he is not working (no construction material delivery due to lockdown).
Fri23apr2021 Phnom Penh
Go to meet Mana for massage. Even though I said “no sex, no money”, I give her 10 kKHR (2.50 USD).
Sat24apr2021 Phnom Penh
Man approaches me at riverside “I have something interesting for you. You will like it” but I decline. In general, when I make my rounds, people (homeless ? and tuktuk drivers) approach me with unspecified offers (sometimes drugs, sometimes ladies, sometimes “what are you looking for?”).
Hello to Peter, shirtless nice body, sleeps all day (but where?), negative reply to my suggestion of massage, have to offer money next time. Other shapely boy takes shower in underwear.
Sun25apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter shirtless in ground level, other people around, so I don’t get to the point of my visit.
Mon26apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Chin from Grindr on road and go to my room. Not a clear hit, activities soso. No repeat.
Peter not in room, his younger brother points down. But he isn’t there either, finally by chance see him on street. Small talk, then I go to Kandal market.
Tue27apr2021 Phnom Penh
Ahly (repeat from 1apr) arrives 13:08. We had a general chat an hour ago with intention to meet, I was not aware that he would come now, and I was about to go to market. Warm and dry skin, is hard from start. Small cock, small balls, a bit hair on crotch. I have to tell him to put his phone aside. Evasive when I kiss his neck. Nipple play okay. Always reaches for my cock for wanking, have to take his hand off. Better activities than last time, but still repetitive and no initiative. I get fully hard and cum prematurely. Ahly to bathroom, comes out fully dressed. Again a waste of time and money 10 USD, bye 13:53 in my room. I didn’t get to fuck him, that means I have to meet him once more to confirm my “lazy bottom” theory.
Wed28apr2021 Phnom Penh
More people and vehicles around than ever before during lockdown. I hesitate at a roadblock manned with uniformed men, one of them waves me through (before would have sent me back). But red zones still marked by red and white stripes and guarded and no traffic of people allowed across, only delivery of goods.
Fri30apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter. Other (older worker or even engineer?) points to him and says “cute”.
Show Peter google translation “Can you do massage with me? I will pay 10 Dollar. I just want to touch your body. Don’t make a baby.”, reply is “no”. Poverty cannot be that bad if he reclines such a generous offer! After one week without work, and mobile phone not working, he must be bored and that alone should be a reason to go with me. Give up on Peter.
Summary Apr2021 Phnom Penh
2 Free sex: Dara110, Chin.
3 Paid sex: Ahly 10 USD, Aliya 15 USD, Ahly 10 USD = 35 USD.
5 No sex: boy6apr, HecoBoy2 (just massage 20 + 10 USD), V riverside, Louis, Jop.
1 No show: Jane.
1 Refused: Peter 10 USD.
2 Repeat: Aliya, Dara110.
3 No repeat: Ahly, Chin, Ahly.
2 Old: Dara110, Ahly.
3 New: Ahly, Aliya, Chin.
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