Gay activities Dec2022 Cambodia
More precisely 11dec2022-7jan2023, keeping countries separate is more important than exact dates. Some general observations of Cambodia (travel, hotels). Massage techniques. Chat apps versus online dating to stay in contact. 1 USD is about 4000 KHR, I abbreviate e.g. 20k = 20,000 KHR (about 5 USD).
Sun11dec2022 Sakaew to Poipet
Train from Sakaew to new (opened a few years ago) railway station at border Baan Khlong Luek. Everything in place for immigration at railway station, and railway track to connect to Cambodian network complete. But not operational yet, I have to cross on foot as before.
Immigration quick on both sides. Check into a guesthouse to spend one night in Poipet. A lot has changed since I last came here in 2014. WiFi in guesthouse slow, and that will be the case everywhere I stay in Cambodia.
Ask at several bus companies for bus to Siem Reap. Most have only van. If there is a timetable, it's outdated. Sometimes nobody is at the office/station, sometimes no English or Thai, some have to call someone to speak to me on phone. Some information I get is not clear. It seems scheduled buses/vans are in the morning 7-8 and again at night. During day only shared taxis. Settle for VET (bus, staff speak good English and can give clear information).
Online dating Ream comes to my room for fun. Nice character and good English. But he didn't lose much time talking. Quickly to business. Not a clear hit body and activities, a bit fat but brown and warm dry (except hands cold at start from work in aircon). He looks for other for threesome in my room, or if I don't want to join in my bathroom, or I go outside. Offers me massage, okay (too much pressing with palm instead of strokes with thumb or elbow). He takes me on his mocy to a market to have dinner. 200 THB dinner for two and bye after dinner.
Mon12dec2022 Poipet to Siem Reap
A contact on Grindr is eager to meet, finishes work 8 am. Leaves enough time until check-out at 12, but I rather have a comfortable bus ride in the morning than sex and van or shared taxi midday.
A comfortable ride for 11 USD on VET bus. Most importantly, departure and arrival are in walking distance from my hotels.
Ken messages me and offers massage, I accept. Good massage, good character, good English, interesting conversation. After massage, I get him nude and hugging. A bit on fat side, brown skin, but a bit cold. He is hard, average or small. Balls okay. Nice bubble butt. Towards goodbye asks for money and I give him 20k. In hindsight, that was a bit stingy, asking for money after coming to my room for massage should not be a surprise for me. But then, we didn't do much for happy ending because I can't work with a bit fat and a bit cold skin.
Meet Napat from blued in the evening. Average looking, would even say not handsome (beard stubbles 3 days ?, thick hair out of nose, thin hair on cheeks). Small talk, okay English. To bed, perfectly warm and dry skin, even hot. Nice shoulder blades and chest; abdomen soso. Sucks me good but have to stop him (tickles, I would cum soon), wanks me too much, have to stop him. I get half hard, then lose it. He hard throughout (average cock, suck him, foreskin first half, then fully retracted), average balls, a bit excessive pubes and crab ladder. Good activities, he cums by assisted wanking, and leaves soon after.
A promising looking profile on Grindr, however is 9 km away. But he works in massage in town, getting all that information (wants money, start/finish work, which massage exactly) took some work on my side. He is eager to meet now and blocks me when I tell him I can't go there now (dinner first, and maybe meet another for free). Fortunately I took screenshots of profile, but not of chat (but I remember all the data, that took me so much chat to get).
Check location of massage place of boy. Spot cute boys at other massage places, but all open / curtain massage places.
AD from Grindr comes to meet me. First impression soso. Interesting chat, then to bed. Great activities, but not so much my type. He cums by assisted wanking. More interesting chat about dating and traveling. No character or intellectual flaws, but not so much my type.
Online dating for a fourth (I'm not horny and would rather sleep, but occasion for a boy marathon) failed.
Grindr Ling (twink, slim waist, big ass) asks me for nudes. - "I don't have nudes." - Then he asks for dick pictures and I repeat "I don't have nudes." whereupon he blocked me. He didn't send nudes either!
Another sent a face picture that I would call a landscape with a person.
Tue13dec2022 Siem Reap
I finally made up my mind and want to subscribe to Blued 3 months for 14.99 USD (first 3 months, then 25.99 for 3 months), add my German credit card, but get an error message and later “Item unavailable in your country”.
Check Man 168 (massage place): 17:15 they have 6 massage boys, in black singlets no mask behind glass and curtain, none of them my type.
Have a drink at Look@Me (one of the gay bars in Siem Reap). One cute staff, but no English.
Panha from Grindr comes to meet me. Just before we meet message “How much you help me” which I ignore. Average looking. To my room, I take shower. To bed. Long hair okay. Smell of perfume and some other indifferent smell. Some tattoos which remind me of a Arm whom I met in Pattaya several times. Warm dry skin, good hugging. Says he has to leave 22:30 which suits me very well. Face first impression soso, but later reminds me of Ktkamsee, an onlyfans boy I fancy in Thailand. When hugging goodbye asks for money, I first refuse, but on second time give him 20k. Pictures of Arm and Ktkamsee for illustration:
Further online dating no success. Here, most of my contacts on Grindr, which is a distant third after Hornet and Blued in Thailand. A new record being blocked twice in one day.
Wed14dec2022 Siem Reap
Rahu from hornet comes to meet me and we have a good time. Reminds me (face, body, character, conversation, activities) of a Lao boy I met in Bangkok. He is in Siem Reap to look for work. I resist the temptation to offer him money to get him over unemployment.
Have a drink in Rendezvous (recently opened gay bar). They serve peanuts with spices for free, delicious roasted garlic among the spices, have to
check where to get it. The garlic is even more delicious than the
roasted garlic I buy in Thailand. (Update: asked a dozen shops in market and had a
look in several supermarkets, nothing. Only the peanuts with spices, picture below,
but I don't like peanuts.
Cute boys at several massage places. One obviously works there, but is dressed differently from the other staff. Manager (I usually saw him at reception desk) and doesn't give massages?
Have one hour foot massage at the place where the boy who blocked me works. We recognize each other. The other boy who works there leads me in, but then a lady takes over for massage.
To summarize the massages in Siem Reap, there are plenty of cute boys I would get into business with for massage and afters, but choosing your masseur is not their usual operation and insisting on a particular masseur would draw a lot of unwanted attention, and they might not be prepared for afters, and all I saw from road was open or curtain which is unsuitable for afters, but probably individual rooms upstairs. I had three boys from different places contact me on gay online dating.
Have a look at Barcode 20:40, there are 2 customers. Inquire about show 21:30-24. The show is only lip synch and drag, and I had the following interesting conversation with one of their staff online:
You can't live from culture, but I didn't say that.
Online dating no luck. A boy is eager to meet but cannot come to my hotel for fear of not being let in. He wants to know if I have condoms and asks for a picture of condoms as proof.
Thu15dec2022 Siem Reap daytrip to Anlong Veng
Over the past days, I made inquiries about vans or shared taxi to Anlong Veng at a dozen places. Times don't suit me, they don't go to border crossing but only to town (same for Koh Kong at the end of my trip), not cheap (10 to 15 USD one way, versus 100 USD for full day car hire that I did). Best is to hire car and driver, reported separately: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2023/01/anlong-veng-attractions.html
A boy Caesar comes to meet me. Data was poor (pictures not clear), but first impression good. Good English, we have a look at my pictures from trip today. Then to bed and great body and activities, one of the best. Repeat as soon as possible, which is Saturday.
Fri16dec2022 Siem Reap
Nico on Blued, contacts me and asks for sex. A bit girly and on the fat side. I initially tell him I'm busy, but then agree, whereupon he asks for money. Just 10 USD, but I'm not horny, so I refuse. To make up my mind about paying or not I have another look at his profile, there was a shirtless picture, now it's clear: not even for free!
Dinner in Luuma Bar-Tapas-Siem Reap (new gay restaurant and bar). With this, I have been to all gay venues of interest to me. In case of bars and restaurants and sauna (Men's Resort on previous trips) as a customer, massage only taking a look; gay hotels are of no interest to me.
Sat17dec2022 Siem Reap
Repeat with Caesar, we spend the entire afternoon in bed and have a great time. The best in years. The encounter was so good, I stopped online dating for days because everything after would pale in comparison. On top of that, his way home passes near the restaurant I want to have dinner, so he takes me by mocy and saves me a bit of walking.
Sun18dec2022 Siem Reap to Phnom Penh
Only now do I notice there are several bicycle rentals, why didn't I get the idea to rent a bicycle to do all my sightseeing a few km in and around town? Next time!
35k = 8.75 USD van by Capitol Tours to Phnom Penh schedule 9:30 (staff told me to be at office near roundabout 9, I negotiated to 9:10). I'm there 9:10, long wait, shuttle van 9:48-10:01 (I'm the only person waiting at their office and in van) to main bus station 13.3482, 103.8897. Departure 10:03 with 11 passengers. Lunch break 12:01-24 at 12.8974, 104.6017. Toilet break 14:05-15. We arrive 16:15 at their office in St 111. That's a reasonable travel time and with Capitol Tours you know where you will arrive in Phnom Penh.
The public transport situation in Cambodia is so dire, places of departure and arrival change often, and can be a few km out of town, requiring individual transport to get to/from there.
Mon19dec2022 Phnom Penh
Chanee (first contact in Oct, difficult chat) comes to meet me at restaurant where I have dinner (he is early). To my room. Chanee light smell (mouth or body?). Slim but no muscle. Warm brown skin. Average to small dick and balls. Hairy balls, thick armpit hair as well, hint of crab ladder. Activities okay but too rushed, I get half hard, then lose it. He wants me to fuck him but cannot. Cums by assisted wanking on my body. 10 USD, bye in my room.
Tue20dec2022 Phnom Penh
After weeks without problems, throat slightly unwell. Make ginger tea. Go to see Donald at his place and we have a good time.
Wed21dec2022 Phnom Penh
Daytrip with a local friend Nico to temples and rocks near Phnom Penh by hired tuktuk.
Thu22dec2022 Phnom Penh
Another customer Roy at my hotel has been smiling at me every time our paths crossed, and I had a vague idea that he might be interested in me, but not clearly my type. Now he is on public balcony, and I'm in my room in towel and balcony door is open, and he chats with me as far as that is possible (poor English, no Thai or Chinese, it turns out he is from Indonesia). He shows me that me messaged me multiple times on blued, but I didn't reply (I didn't even read, 26 unread messages from him, 5 days no online dating after that awesome encounter in Siem Reap).
I'm still not convinced, but he doesn't take “no sex now, maybe later” for an answer so I let him into my room and close the balcony door. Face very average, beard stubbles. Body okay. Warm dry skin, color okay. Slight smell of cigarette smoke. Tuft of hair on chest. Cock, balls, pubes okay. We play around a bit, but the cigarette smell is revolting. No repeat.
An old acquaintance Phirum is online and eager to meet. Good character, good English, okay body, good activities. We have a good time.
Bunmae comes to my hotel. Go to pick him up on road. First impression soso. To my room. Small talk, good English. Hair longer than on pictures (middle long, curly). Not as slim as I thought. Warm dry brown skin. Nice white trunks, hard from start. I don't get hard at all. Aggressive nipple play. Kissing okay but smell of food. Aggressive kissing on neck and shoulders, fortunately no love bite. Wants to fuck me but I refuse. Nice cock and balls, cock points to 1 o'clock. Long pubes. Foreskin can freely move up and down (illustration in video below). Wants me to suck him but I refuse because of smell (but nothing to see). He cums by wanking on me, nice squirts. Bye 19:45 in my room. Overall body and activities okay, but not my type and style.
source: internet
I can tolerate long hair, I can tolerate curly hair, but both together as in following picture is a deal breaker:
source: internet
I clearly prefer middle long or short hair like the following:
source: internet
I contact a boy Seyha (we first chatted with in October but didn't meet) and he comes to meet me after work. Good activities and nice body and character. Make-up or cosmetics?
That makes a boy marathon, 4 boys within a day, all by chance and no money!
Fri23dec2022 Phnom Penh sick
Donald cancels for being busy. I have slight problem throat and nose, take Decolgen Forte. Meet a German friend for chat and walk around town. After that my health goes down considerably, light fever and go to bed early.
Sat24dec2022 Phnom Penh sick
Poor health, stay in most of the day.
Sun25dec2022 Phnom Penh sick
Still poor health. Actually a friend's idea to test for Covid (after positive asymptomatic 2020 and vaccinated in 2021, I didn't think I would fall ill with Covid) and indeed strong positive.
That is not so bad, could be much worse than Covid! I have kissed, licked and sucked in places that I can't tell here. I have petted mangy cats with various parasites (lice, fleas, ticks, mites – that's just those you can see!) and my friend's dogs have licked over my face.
source: internet
Mon26dec2022 Phnom Penh sick
Tue27dec2022 Phnom Penh
I'm sufficiently recovered to go out again.
At night meet Peru from online dating in a nearby restaurant for dinner. Positive, meet again tomorrow for more.
Have a drink in POC (Pride of Cambodia), stay 21:33-22:08. When I arrive 5 customers and 3 staff walking around. Several more customers during my stay. Smoking allowed. Poor light. Music and temperature okay.
Wed28dec2022 Phnom Penh
Meet Peru for a walk along riverside and afterwards to my room where we would spend two hours in bed. Great body and activities.
Thu29dec2022 Phnom Penh
Take a Covid test, shows only a faint second line. And I feel fully recovered. Rent a bicycle to drive around town and cross Mekong by ferry for temples on other side.
Fri30dec2022 Phnom Penh
In October I had a good encounter with Pap, but he either deleted his profile on grindr or blocked me because the money I gave him did not cover his travel expenses.
I installed Telegram (most popular messenger app in Cambodia) and add him by phone number. Immediate reply, remembers me, can meet but wants money 20 USD. I agree, but he wants it online, I refuse. I write in Thai, he sends Thai voice messages. If I don't send money online, he will not come. I leave it at that. But as I suspected, he comes back to chat and agrees that I pay when we meet.
Gay online dating is the most unreliable way to contact someone. Many I want to meet again are offline, or deleted their profile, or create a new profile that I find only by chance. Those I want to meet again, I ask for their messenger app (Line, Facebook Messenger, Telegram) or phone number. Several boys I lost on gay online dating in Cambodia, I could contact on Telegram because I got their phone number.
Pap comes at night and we have a good time. 20 USD well deserved.
Sat31dec2022 Phnom Penh
Oudong boy (met in 2021) is in Phnom Penh and wants to meet. I invite him to my room and we have a good time.
I ask for a back massage and he does it well, using what I call “caterpillar technique”. He takes a flab of my skin above buttocks between thumb and opposing fingers and then moves the flab all the way up to my shoulders. A weird but pleasant feeling. The first time I had no idea what was going on, had to ask me to show me what he is doing.
Another technique is “undercarriage service”, a name coined by shamelessmack in his first blog (long gone). The masseur sits like in meditation and takes the upper thighs of the massagee on his upper thighs, giving full access to waist and crotch from all sides. I know only one masseur (out of estimated 30 I have had massages with over the years) who applied this technique, Ne from Buriram, originally in Lomchoey (now Zy) massage in Soi Ngam Duplee about 2014, then in Arena about 2016.
Sun1jan2023 Phnom Penh
Donald is nearby, we have dinner and spend time in my room.
Mon2jan2023 Phnom Penh to Kampot
Due to being sick with Covid, I spent an extra week in Phnom Penh. Time to move on in Cambodia and cancel trip to Vietnam. At Sorya bus station central market no buses to Kampot, only van. In that case I can as well take Pacific Express (recommendation by a friend, and I went with them before).
Give the tuktuk drivers in front of my hotel another chance. But he doesn't know the destination, and no English either. It's not unreasonable to assume a tuktuk driver knows all the less than 10 bus/van companies, but no. Use grab instead.
Pacific Express 28k van 12:39-15:38. Tuktuks at Pacific Express Kampot want 2 USD to my hotel Nomads, which is just 1.7 km away. They won't accept my offer of 1 USD, although after walking 100 m, I got an offer of 5k.
No luck online dating in Kampot two nights.
Wed4jan2023 Kampot to Sihanoukville
Train to Sihanoukville = SHV. An interesting ride, and you know point of departure and arrival, whereas they can and do change for bus/van.
My favorite place to stay Wonderz is booked out. Go elsewhere, room for 15 USD per night. I notice that the shower head holder is broken, I will have to hold the shower head in my hand. Later when actually taking a shower, I notice the plate with the nozzles is broken as well, I get just the stream of water out of the hose. And while the water heater displays a temperature of 37 C, the water has room temperature. Shower-wise a low point. Only lower was in Lopburi where I had a room with a bucket and a ladle for showering, but that was only 250 THB per night and everywhere else was booked out for monkey feeding festival.
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Online dating promising. Suddenly I have two dates at 9 pm, one with a bottom and one with a top. How will this work out? The bottom cancels.
Seng comes to my room. Nice face and body, activities okay, but I just can't get him into the positions I want for hugging and groping. Would fuck me but I refuse. We fall asleep, not sure if he wants to stay over night. 10 USD bye 23:34 in my room.
Thu5jan2023 Sihanoukville
Ask woman at reception: no bike rental, and she doesn't know where, and I can't find any on google maps. But later spot the boy cleaning bikes and ask, can rent out.
Walk around town and beach, I love all those abandoned construction sites and the general vibe of Sihanoukville.
Count 70 available girls on street to Don Bosco Guesthouse. There is a church in the same street as all the bars. There should be a market for gay entertainment, but there is none; I would have seen their advert on gay online dating.
Fri6jan2023 Sihanoukville
Enquire at various bus/van stations for travel to Trat or Koh Kong. Same issues as from Poipet to Siem Reap: no or outdated timetables, finding someone who speaks English, or the person at bus station has to call someone to get the data, or I have to speak to the person on the phone in English. The only scheduled vans are in the morning.
While there are services from Sihanoukville to Trat, they would involve change of bus/van/car in Koh Kong and at the border. That means buying a ticket to Trat offers no advantage, rathers makes things more complicated and slower*, I rather do it individually.
*Confirmed by a friend who had a ticket from SHV to Trat many years ago, and had to change in Koh Kong and at the border, and wait an unreasonable time for his van to depart at the border, while several other vans got full and left.
In October, and Indonesian contacted me from SHV and I was supposed to meet him now. But the more pictures of him I saw, the more I felt he will not be my type (smoker, a bit on the fat side). Therefore, I am not unhappy that he didn't read my message announcing my arrival.
Another Indonesian Arjun contacts me and comes to my hotel. To my room, weak but persistent smell of cigarette, avoid his kisses and tell him the reason. Makes me love bites on chest but fortunately not on neck. Offers me back massage, good. Average to small cock and balls, circumcised okay. Little pubic hair, shaved. Cums by rubbing is cock between our abdomen, I can feel pulsation when he cums. He would have stayed the afternoon, but I have sightseeing and the cigarette smell is disgusting. General problem with Indonesians? Most of the population smokes.
Afternoon drive around town on a rented bicycle.
Sat7jan2023 Sihanoukville to Trat
Take Sorya van to Koh Kong for 15 USD. However the van does not go to Koh Kong, they let me out at a junction along the way where there are shared taxis to Koh Kong. Wait 50 minutes for the taxi to get full. Speeding despite poor roads, windows open instead of aircon. I have to hold my book with both hands so it doesn't fly away. In Koh Kong mocy 3 USD to border crossing.
Finally back in civilization! Van to Trat 140 THB. Trat Center Hotel, wonderful room for 600 THB.
Summary Dec2022
15 Free sex: Ream Poipet, Napat SR, AD SR, Rahu SR, Caesar, Caesar, Donald, Roy Indo, Phirum, Bunmae, Seyha, Peru, Oudong boy, Donald, Arjun Indo.
5 Paid sex: Ken SR 5 USD, Panha SR 5 USD, Chanee PP 10 USD, Pap 20 USD, Seng SHV 10 USD.
2 No sex: Nico, Peru.
2 Boy cancels: Donald (busy), SHV bottom.
1 Refused: Nico 10 USD <-> free.
3 Missed: Poipet 8 am, SR afraid, Indonesian in SHV didn't read my message.
13 Repeat: Napat SR, Panha SR, Rahu SR, Caesar, Caesar, Donald, Phirum, Seyha, Peru, Pap, Oudong boy, Donald, Seng SHV.
7 No repeat: Ream Poipet, Ken SR, AD SR, Chanee PP, Roy Indo, Bunmae, Arjun Indo.
6 Old: Caesar, Donald, Phirum, Pap, Oudong boy, Donald.
14 New: Ream Poipet, Ken SR, Napat SR, AD SR, Panha SR, Rahu SR, Caesar, Chanee PP, Roy Indo, Bunmae, Seyha, Peru, Seng SHV, Arjun Indo.
Copyright 2023 ChristianPFC except pictures from internet
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Saturday, 28 January 2023
Saturday, 14 January 2023
Angkorean bridges
Angkorean Bridges
Several bridges from the Angkorean Empire are extant and have been in use until recently. Now they are for mocy and pedestrians only, and bypass bridges for cars.
Kampong Kdei Bridge = Spean Praptos 13.1266, 104.3392
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spean_Praptos
The longest corbeled stone-arch bridge in the world 87 m (check on google maps satellite view: 85 m from Naga to Naga). North of hwy6, can be spotted between trees from bus or car when driving between Siem Reap and Phnom Penh.
The view above is the same as on older (still in circulation) 5000 Riel notes.
Spean Toap 13.9044, 103.5318
In Oddar Meanchchay province, west of hwy 68, on the way to O'Smach border crossing. Check on google maps satellite view: 144 m, but start and end not clear. So this would be the longest corbeled arch bridge in the world. Have to measure length next time I pass.
Update: https://cne.wtf/2021/08/25/clearing-around-the-longest-angkorian-bridge/ says 151 m long.
Spean Thma in Angkor Wat 13.4462, 103.8796
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spean_Thma
Ruin overgrown by trees.
Spean Memay in Angkor Wat 13.4454, 103.7612
https://www.angkor-temples-in-cambodia.com/spean-memay.html
Near Angkor Wat, outside the payable area. Not much to see, picture from above link:
Update: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2023/12/cycling-around-siem-reap-nov2023.html
Ta Ong Bridge 13.4219, 104.4068
https://helloangkor.com/attractions/spean-ta-ong/
Picture from above link:
Dozens of small bridges
On the way from Siem Reap to Phnom Penh, I noticed several small Angkorean bridges, all north of hwy6. Look closely at google maps and you will notice that the road used to lead over the bridge (one lane), but now the hwy (two lanes) makes a bypass. Here an example at 13.1767, 104.2483, screenshot from google maps street view:
Most have no name, Ta Meas Bridge is an exception.
A comprehensive list of Angkorean bridges can be found at
https://beyondangkor.org/index.php/Category:Ancient_Bridge
To the best of my knowledge, there are no Angkorean corbeled-arch bridges in Thailand.
Corbeled Arch
The ancient Khmer did not know true arches. Look closely and you find there are only lintels and corbeled arches. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corbel_arch More about arches here: https://civiconcepts.com/blog/type-of-arches
Picture from above link via https://in.pinterest.com/pin/21-different-types-of-arches-in-construction--740279257504785512/ (Pinterest links to the article, and google picture search leads to the article, but the picture is not in the article.)
Thanks to a friend for aerial pictures by drone.
Update 4aug2023:
Copyright 2023 ChristianPFC except linked pictures
Several bridges from the Angkorean Empire are extant and have been in use until recently. Now they are for mocy and pedestrians only, and bypass bridges for cars.
Kampong Kdei Bridge = Spean Praptos 13.1266, 104.3392
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spean_Praptos
The longest corbeled stone-arch bridge in the world 87 m (check on google maps satellite view: 85 m from Naga to Naga). North of hwy6, can be spotted between trees from bus or car when driving between Siem Reap and Phnom Penh.
The view above is the same as on older (still in circulation) 5000 Riel notes.
Spean Toap 13.9044, 103.5318
In Oddar Meanchchay province, west of hwy 68, on the way to O'Smach border crossing. Check on google maps satellite view: 144 m, but start and end not clear. So this would be the longest corbeled arch bridge in the world. Have to measure length next time I pass.
Update: https://cne.wtf/2021/08/25/clearing-around-the-longest-angkorian-bridge/ says 151 m long.
Spean Thma in Angkor Wat 13.4462, 103.8796
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spean_Thma
Ruin overgrown by trees.
Spean Memay in Angkor Wat 13.4454, 103.7612
https://www.angkor-temples-in-cambodia.com/spean-memay.html
Near Angkor Wat, outside the payable area. Not much to see, picture from above link:
Update: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2023/12/cycling-around-siem-reap-nov2023.html
Ta Ong Bridge 13.4219, 104.4068
https://helloangkor.com/attractions/spean-ta-ong/
Picture from above link:
Dozens of small bridges
On the way from Siem Reap to Phnom Penh, I noticed several small Angkorean bridges, all north of hwy6. Look closely at google maps and you will notice that the road used to lead over the bridge (one lane), but now the hwy (two lanes) makes a bypass. Here an example at 13.1767, 104.2483, screenshot from google maps street view:
Most have no name, Ta Meas Bridge is an exception.
A comprehensive list of Angkorean bridges can be found at
https://beyondangkor.org/index.php/Category:Ancient_Bridge
To the best of my knowledge, there are no Angkorean corbeled-arch bridges in Thailand.
Corbeled Arch
The ancient Khmer did not know true arches. Look closely and you find there are only lintels and corbeled arches. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corbel_arch More about arches here: https://civiconcepts.com/blog/type-of-arches
Picture from above link via https://in.pinterest.com/pin/21-different-types-of-arches-in-construction--740279257504785512/ (Pinterest links to the article, and google picture search leads to the article, but the picture is not in the article.)
Thanks to a friend for aerial pictures by drone.
Update 4aug2023:
Copyright 2023 ChristianPFC except linked pictures
Friday, 6 January 2023
Anlong Veng attractions
Anlong Veng Attractions
Daytrip from Siem Reap to Anlong Veng with rented car and driver (7 am - 7 pm, about 280 km good road and 15 km poor road, 100 USD). It took us 2 h 30 min from Siem Reap to Anlong Veng town.
It would be cheaper to get to Anlong Veng by bus or shared taxi, but travel times inconvenient and I would have to stay one or two nights and would have to hire mocy taxi to continue trip.
There is poor mobile network, no signal most of the time and I could navigate only because I had satellite image in my phone's cache from Siem Reap.
Rock shrine in road
In the middle of hwy66 at 14.3376,104.07.
Sangam Resort & Casino
The biggest building around, and due to location on top of mountain can be spotted from 10 km away.
Border crossing Chong Sa Ngam – Chaom
Chaom (Cambodian side) - Chong Sa Ngam (ช่องสะงำ Thai side), a very quiet border crossing; not to be confused with the nearby and slightly busier O'Smach - Chong Chom ช่องจอม border crossing. More at https://chongsangamchaom.blogspot.com/
Pol Pot Cremation Site
Entry 1.50 USD. It says cremation site, but the grave has shape and size of a coffin.
From here on eastward poor road, average speed with car 11 km/h.
Peuy Taruon
Cliff with overhanging rock overlooking Cambodian countryside below. Nearby Anlong Veng Peace Center (an old house with a small exposition about Red Khmer) and ruins of houses of Red Khmer leaders and information boards.
(Temple no English name) វត្តពុទ្ធិសីមាបារមីភ្នំ ដងរែក ហៅវត្តអូរគ្រញូង
Buddha park (my name). According to my calculations, there are going to be 176 small Buddha statues. 18 rows with 8 small statues, and 16 x 2 in between these rows (see two empty spots in front of picture). 11 big Buddha statues in the back.
Buddha statue in front of the cliff at 14.3461, 104.0975, accessible by metal stairway. 14.3461, 104.0974. In rainy season, there will be a waterfall on the cliff behind Buddha statue. Now almost dry.
Another Buddha statue in front of the cliff at 14.3464, 104.0936. Nearby an iron spring (the water contains dissolved bivalent iron, which oxidizes and precipitates as trivalent iron in contact with air, leaving brown deposits of rust). I drank 0.5 L of the water without ill effect.
Weird rock surface
At 14.3625, 104.1133, I spotted a weird rock surface in satellite image, grey background with white stripes. Requires investigation. Walk through cashew ? plantation, then grassland, but nothing special to see. When I get on a termite hill as vantage point and can see only grassland, it dawns on me: slash-and-burn, now overgrown. If my readers have not learnt anything new today, this is what fresh slash-and-burn looks like on satellite image:
Pol Pot House
Ruin of Pol Pot's house and bunker at 14.3538, 104.1213.
Pol Pot's Holiday House
At 14.3684, 104.1213. Unlike all the other places, no signs here.
Waterfall
Originally, I wanted to go to a waterfall (ថ្មដាអូរទឹកខៀវ, no English name, at 14.3555, 104.1838), but we were running out of time and daylight. There is a tree growing over a rock at the waterfall, picture from google maps:
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Daytrip from Siem Reap to Anlong Veng with rented car and driver (7 am - 7 pm, about 280 km good road and 15 km poor road, 100 USD). It took us 2 h 30 min from Siem Reap to Anlong Veng town.
It would be cheaper to get to Anlong Veng by bus or shared taxi, but travel times inconvenient and I would have to stay one or two nights and would have to hire mocy taxi to continue trip.
There is poor mobile network, no signal most of the time and I could navigate only because I had satellite image in my phone's cache from Siem Reap.
Rock shrine in road
In the middle of hwy66 at 14.3376,104.07.
Sangam Resort & Casino
The biggest building around, and due to location on top of mountain can be spotted from 10 km away.
Border crossing Chong Sa Ngam – Chaom
Chaom (Cambodian side) - Chong Sa Ngam (ช่องสะงำ Thai side), a very quiet border crossing; not to be confused with the nearby and slightly busier O'Smach - Chong Chom ช่องจอม border crossing. More at https://chongsangamchaom.blogspot.com/
Pol Pot Cremation Site
Entry 1.50 USD. It says cremation site, but the grave has shape and size of a coffin.
From here on eastward poor road, average speed with car 11 km/h.
Peuy Taruon
Cliff with overhanging rock overlooking Cambodian countryside below. Nearby Anlong Veng Peace Center (an old house with a small exposition about Red Khmer) and ruins of houses of Red Khmer leaders and information boards.
(Temple no English name) វត្តពុទ្ធិសីមាបារមីភ្នំ ដងរែក ហៅវត្តអូរគ្រញូង
Buddha park (my name). According to my calculations, there are going to be 176 small Buddha statues. 18 rows with 8 small statues, and 16 x 2 in between these rows (see two empty spots in front of picture). 11 big Buddha statues in the back.
Buddha statue in front of the cliff at 14.3461, 104.0975, accessible by metal stairway. 14.3461, 104.0974. In rainy season, there will be a waterfall on the cliff behind Buddha statue. Now almost dry.
Another Buddha statue in front of the cliff at 14.3464, 104.0936. Nearby an iron spring (the water contains dissolved bivalent iron, which oxidizes and precipitates as trivalent iron in contact with air, leaving brown deposits of rust). I drank 0.5 L of the water without ill effect.
Weird rock surface
At 14.3625, 104.1133, I spotted a weird rock surface in satellite image, grey background with white stripes. Requires investigation. Walk through cashew ? plantation, then grassland, but nothing special to see. When I get on a termite hill as vantage point and can see only grassland, it dawns on me: slash-and-burn, now overgrown. If my readers have not learnt anything new today, this is what fresh slash-and-burn looks like on satellite image:
Pol Pot House
Ruin of Pol Pot's house and bunker at 14.3538, 104.1213.
Pol Pot's Holiday House
At 14.3684, 104.1213. Unlike all the other places, no signs here.
Waterfall
Originally, I wanted to go to a waterfall (ថ្មដាអូរទឹកខៀវ, no English name, at 14.3555, 104.1838), but we were running out of time and daylight. There is a tree growing over a rock at the waterfall, picture from google maps:
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Monday, 2 January 2023
Gay activities Nov2022 Thailand
Gay activities Nov2022 Thailand
And first last days of Oct2022 and first days of Dec2022, to keep countries separate. Details on Saranrom, bus and train travel, hotels, Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massages, weird/clumsy boy.
Fri28oct2022 Siem Reap to Korat
Sara comes to my room and we have a good time.
Sat29oct2022 Korat to Bangkok
April comes at night and stays over night.
Sun30oct2022 Bangkok
Hugging and massage in the morning, bye after breakfast. 200 for taxi.
Tue1nov2022 Bangkok
Top comes to my room and we have a good time. 300 for taxi.
Thu3nov2022 Bangkok
Suphat101 cancels, arrange for AmpYaso to come to meet me, agreement 14:02. Finally 17:15 meet on parking lot, to my room. Take off clothes and jewelry except earrings (no problem for me) and necklace. Okay activities, he says he has to leave soon to get bus back home. Can be top or bottom. Ask him for back massage, poor. Show him how I like it, now soso. 1000 bye 17:57 in my room.
Fri4nov2022 Bangkok
Meet my loyal reader Vinapu and use that occasion to have a look at gay venues in Silom. I have almost completely lost interest in the scene in Silom and need an occasion like this to see what's available.
The Best Massage has 3 okay looking boys 20:18.
9-teen Massage staff looks promising. 1 h oil massage 500, no info about expected tip.
Silom Soi 6 has 5 all male massages.
Super A busy, but boys fully dressed sitting with customers 20:32. I even think mamasan understood my comment that it's pointless for me to go in to watch fully dressed boys sitting and drinking with other customers. But as soon as they are in underwear, and I can see the boys on stage, I will have a look and a drink.
Screw Boys still closed.
New Twilight no boys on stage, some fully dressed outside, show will be 22:30. (Update: Changed name to New Queens, and at time of publishing closed.)
Nature Boys joined with Golden Cock, 2 boys fully dressed.
Tawan plenty of boys, in underwear, but all too old/fat/ugly for my taste.
Fresh Boys in white shorts. Promising, if they drop the shorts I might go. However some look Vietnamese, a poor start (bad experiences).
Hotmale shirtless 20:47.
Dream Boys (moved to where Lucky Boys was) white shorts, many boys.
Banana Boys white shorts 21:25.
As long as they wear too many clothes (even shorts instead of underwear is too much by my standards), I won't go into any of them. To know what's actually going on in these bars, read Shamelessmack:
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/18/three-gogo-bars-in-december-2022-headcounts/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/22/map-of-silom-surawong-area-december-2022/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/23/three-gogo-bars-in-december-2022-their-shows/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/24/the-gogo-business-untapped-potential/
Sidewalk construction on Silom road near complete.
Sat5nov2022 Bangkok
Meet Zee on road and pay 100 for his mocy taxi, 14:12. To my room. He opens, has a look inside, and closes my fridge. “What are you doing?” - “I'm hungry.” Doesn't react on my offer to go to 7-Eleven. Zee is developing a serious attitude problem! Lies down in bed fully clothed. Get him nude and hugging slowly. Nice black Calvin Klein briefs with silver waistband. Other clothes soso. Skin color and temp okay. Lazy bottom, fuck him lying on front. Cum quick, but stay in and he makes some horny sounds, what will my neighbours think? Then pull out and take shower (despite aircon at 28 C, I got sweaty), and when I'm back he is fully dressed in bed. Ask him for back massage, okay. 520 Zee bye 15:08 in my room. A tentative: give us one more chance.
Sun6nov2022 Bangkok
Yesterday arranged date with AniMo, today no reply. But I'm quite happy about that, would be a long trip (train to Hua Takhe, then taxi to his place), possibly hotel nearby, and not clear if he is looking for fun, we didn't talk about that. Filed as missed.
Mon7nov2022 Bangkok
Meet Koko from Myanmar in Central Rama 9. This is a rare case where I'm held up on business along and the way and I'm late, while Koko was on time and is waiting for me. We have dinner, no English, all conversation in Thai. Afterwards invite him to my room, and while we wait for taxi, he gets a call from work: co-worker had mocy accident, he has to go to work now (his day off). That sounds very much like the usual crap, but a week later he came to my room and we had a good time, so I assume it was true.
15M (former Fah Lang Fon, then Choe Kan), arrive 14:00. Receptionist has limited English, communicate in Thai. Show pictures of Muang: doesn't work there any more. But Non and Pat available. Settle for Non. No coconut oil (poor management: coconut oil is widely available and easy to store). I take shower and wait in room 14:14-37. However the boy who comes in not the Non on picture, but another Non.
Face and body passable, but I didn't travel all the way and I'm not going to spend all the money to have massage and happy ending with someone who is passable. Sorry for your inconvenience (actually I'm the one who is inconvenienced), but bye (after checking with receptionist that the Non I want, and Pat as well, don't work there any more). Out 14:40. (Later I realize that Pat doesn't work there anyway, but at Home Spa / Inthra Massage, so this was my mistake.)
But there are more massages nearbye. Skip GBeat because I was there last time (same situation: 15M didn't have the boy I was looking for or any other who is my type)
K Man Spa (kmanspa on google maps) nobody my type.
Pass Hi Club (Karaoke) https://www.tiktok.com/@hackza29 near Intramara Soi 11.
Continue to Inthamara. 69Massage and Ogasms Health Spa (google maps) are gone.
Former K-Why is now KK Massage & Spa (https://twitter.com/2Ogasms, KK massage on google maps, opposite Inthamara Soi 23). Here I finally find one (on pictures on mobile phone) to settle. 60 min oil massage 350, minimum tip 700. No coconut oil (again poor management). Narrow stairway, mind your head. Take shower and wait in room, massage starts 15:36. There is no aircon remote control in the room, but temperature was fine throughout. There is a problem with their electric wiring, when someone takes a shower (electric water heater), the voltage drops and lights get darker. Massage okay, start in towel, drop soon. No erotic touching. Wan (long a) from Chiang Mai. Both lower arms tattoos. Average size cock and balls, didn't get hard. A bit too much pubes. Body okay. Afterwards shower together. No repeat, but would advise friends to see for themselves. I'm out 16:33.
That money 350+700=1050 is well spend for research and I can write it off as trial and error (some boys work out, others don't). Whereas places who charge 500+1000, too much for me, I do my business online. I can afford 500+1000, but I think it's unreasonable.
Other's experience and links to social media here and links therein:
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/28/bad-omens/
27M (former Kop Thong) near Inthamara Soi 27, on googlemaps (ปิดบริการ = permanently closed), I didn't enter because they have the same boys as M15.
Inthra Massage (googlemaps อินทรา นวด เพื่อสุขภาพ) and (currently no name, former Home Spa, googlemaps โฮม สปา) share the same boys.
Tue8nov2022 Bangkok to Hua Hin
Taxi to Hua Lamphong. Queue 12:08-25 for ticket. About 10 people ahead of me, each takes 3 min. Why are there always queues, and why does it take so long? Realize that I can either get a ticket and miss the train, or board the train without ticket. Board the train without ticket.
282 ticket (2nd class aircon to Hua Hin). 250 fine for buying ticket in train.
This is a general issue, every time I'm in Hua Lamphong there are queues and in future I would buy the ticket a day in advance or plan to queue half an hour. For local trains there is a machine to sell tickets, which is operated by one staff. But still, much faster than the general queue.
Wed9nov2022 Hua Hin
On facebook I saw advertising for Buddy Boy Bar, new gay bar in Hua Hin. Spend 20:29-21:03 with B and N (friends in Hua Hin). 4 staff and 3 customers (although B says the two locals are staff as well, but too old and ugly to be prostitutes). My drink 70, invite a cute boy for a drink 130. Bar fine would be 300.
There is one other gay bar New Guy in Hua Hin. Red Indian closed for good but sign still there and no other business in the premises.
Thu10nov2022
Morning chat with White wants to meet and bottom, but afraid my penis is too big and won't meet without picture first. But I have a police no nude pictures, under no circumstances. Filed as missed.
An acquaintance from Facebook Deer comes to my room and we have a good time, 1000 well deserved.
Fri11nov2022 Hua Hin to Nakhon Pathom
My preference is travel by train, but there is only one train, I would have to wait two hours for the train, and then it would take 4 hours. Better take a van departure soon, travel 3 hours. Ask or call van stations near my hotel: Jakrapan Transport small bus does not stop in Nakon Pathom, directly to Bangkok. JKP travel has a van for 12, make a reservation and pack my stuff.
Arriving at my hotel Mitpaisal Hotel, I see a note about fair at chedi 5-13 nov (Ong Phra Phatom Chedi) that's why I got the last room when I called and that's why few rooms on agoda or booking.com. This is a general problem and has happened before that I went somewhere for general sightseeing, and there was a festival (rooms booked out, increased traffic, other inconveniences).
I had a date with First. Previous chat promising, but now read but no reply. That means he is busy with something else, probably because of the fair. File as no-show.
Go online and chat with Kan on hornet. Not as good looking as First, but we spend 19:44-22:33 in my room and have a great time in bed and I would go to Nakhon Pathom again to meet Kan.
Sat12nov2022 Nakon Pathom to Bangkok
As in Hua Hin, hornet about 5 times as many messages as blued, and grinder distant third (fewer profiles on grindr). Romeo almost nothing.
Southern Line as far as I got (Hua Hin), construction of new railway stations, bridges and second track everywere, In Hua Hin and here fence all along railway, but where there were decades-old crossings, locals removed a segment of fence to continue crossing.
Mon14nov2022 Bangkok
KoKo comes to my room. General chat about my travel, then to bed and have a good time.
Suphat101 finally (weeks of chatting, but not free at the same time) free and comes to meet me. Cute and nicely dressed (black shorts, white T-shirt). Interesting conversation. I want to have a grope but he says he came for massage (we had agreed on hornet on 500 for 1 hour Thai massage). Thai massage okay (not so much my preference, too much legs, little back), 1 hour passes fast. Warm hands and skin. Then lets me have some gropes and asks for additional money for more. Good activities. 1000 well deserved.
Wed16nov2022 Bangkok
Mor Chit bus station with my loyal reader Vinapu, check for night buses to Nakhon Phanom. (Nakhon Pathom last weekend, Nakhon Phanom next weekend.)
Bus information on the internet is dated, calling would be possible to get recent data, but best is to go and ask at the counters. And here you really to look at the details: if a night bus departs at 6 pm and travel time is 12 hours, you will arrive at 6 am which is doable but inconvenient. Rather take a bus from 8 pm to 8 am. In this case, contrary to my usual mode of operation, go for the most expensive and luxurious. The difference in price is low, in this case The Transport Company has the cheapest bus about 500 THB with 4 seats per row but those seats are NON-RECLINING! The most luxurious is about 700 THB with 3 reclining seats per row.
Suddenly two dates for 18, one unspecific and previous no-show, one very eager. Skip the unspecific and previous no-show, go for the eager.
Meet Eager in front of my building. It turns out he used translation, from now on all chat in Thai. A bit on the fat side. Clothes not attractive, neither glasses. Interesting chat and good character. Offers me massage (soso, mostly pressing down), and this way get nude slowly. Skin color and temp okay. Nice cock and balls, he is hard from start. Suggests 69, but I can't get hard. Some unspecific slightly negative smell on his cock/balls/crotch. Precum? He then cums on my body by wanking, several squirts on my abdomen, chest, over my shoulder on pillow. Clean up. From 19:05 he plays on phone and I intercept chat by telling him my head aches from so much listening and speaking Thai. I study Chinese on laptop and wait for him to leave. 100 for taxi (After he asked for money.)
Once again, information asymmetry to my disadvantage. I have several good quality face pictures on my profile, more in private. The boy poor quality profile picture, and sent me slightly better pictures that delete after 3 seconds. So I was mostly relying on stats, 19 is a good start and 60/172 can play out in various ways (muscle which would work for me, fat which would not).
Thu17nov2022 Bangkok
A Farang friend got a message on hornet, where the boy asked for 500 THB for his Line ID.
I got a message on blued “Are you as boring as your profile?”
boring or generous, the worst insults for me
A boy from Manila contacts me, he is in Bangkok for holiday. I go to meet him at his hotel room. Picks me up at reception, first impression soso (clothes not attractive, face average, white skin). In his room, I take shower, then to bed. Warm dry skin, slim but no muscle, good activities. He is hard from start, circumcised? Strange flap of skin under glans. Average size. Small balls, hairy. Suck each other, I get half hard but then lose it. He wants to see me cum, offers porn but I refuse. Interesting chat, no character flaws, good activities but not so much my type.
I met Pinoy boys before, in all cases their circumcision acceptable. But in this case rather unshapely, a turn-off for me.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuli_(rite)
Taxi to Pratunam Superrich. I hailed a taxi and we paid 60 by meter, for comparison I checked on grab and it would have cost >100 on grab. This is general, whenever I checked grab for a trip I did by meter, grab was considerably more expensive. Bye at Superrich.
Hello again, boy comes running after me. He forgot passport and they won't serve him at Superrich. But I have an idea to go to a family owned exchange, and there no problem. In hindsight, he had USD, I could have exchanged for my next trip to Cambodia.
I do all my exchange business at that family owned exchange, the rates are the same as Superrich but fewer people (usually no or one other customer, and not all that staff they have at Superrich: one holds the door open, one greets you, one takes your passport to make a copy, then you have to sign the copy with another, then you take a queue number and finally you get to the cashier).
Meet Kan from Grindr in Centralworld. General chat (no English), was in Platinum for strolling. Very short (one step below him on escalator I'm still taller). I would have taken him with me now, but he will go home to meet a friend. Bye at bus stop, each of us in different bus home.
Sat19nov2022 Nakhon Phanom
I have two contacts in Nakhon Phanom. One I haven't met before, promising chat, but away this weekend. The other Oil I met in Bangkok three times for 500 THB each time. My message about arrival in NP read by Oil, but several subsequent messages over two days not read. Filed as no-show.
When I'm back in Bangkok the solution: in preparation of this trip, Oil wrote he would show me around NP. Due to work commitments, he had no time and was embarrassed that he could not fulfil his promise. Noble intentions, but I do all my sightseeing individually and anyway, I know better where to go.
Hornet busier than Blued, but no clear hit. No luck.
Sun20nov2022 Nakon Phanom
Daytrip Wat Phuttha Nimit https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2022/12/wat-phuttha-nimit-in-nakhon-phanom.html and other places.
Mon21nov2022 Nakon Phanom to That Phanom
Van from Nakhon Phanom to That Phanom (town). Out near That Phanom (religious site), this van will not enter bus station. This is a general problem, has happened before: vans that pass a town do not enter bus station. I had searched online for a hotel hear bus station*, all futile. Check for hotels near where I am now, decide for Porn Narumit Hotel. Call, room 300/600/700, vacancies. Walk there.
* I arrive and depart by public transport, and do most of my sightseeing by public transport, and even when renting a car with driver the place to ask is bus station. Therefore, I try to get a hotel in walking distance to bus or train station.
This (van does not go to bus station) turns out to be a blessing in disguise. I set a new record for best value for money in Porn Narumit Hotel. Rooms in main building are 600-700 THB, but the bungalows are just 300 and have everything I need: wardrobe, big fridge, flat TV, spacious bathroom (no table around sink), double bed, just a chair is missing but I can improvise by sitting on the bed and having my laptop on dressing table. Later I would learn that 300 even includes breakfast (coffee or tea, toast with jam at reception).
I have been chatting with Max from That Phanom for years. Chat positive, and some low-quality pictures he sent me look promising. He arrives by own car. Keeps mask on throughout (and what is can see does not look promising, so I don't ask him to take off mask). Small talk in Thai (little English), take off trousers, plays on phone, I have a grope and wait. Undresses, uses lube to finger me but I refuse to bottom. He plays on phone and I have a grope, nice cock, hard from start, balls soso. Body soso, pale skin, temp okay. Then fingers me again and wants to fuck me, but I refuse. No character or intellectual flaws, but not my type and not my style. Finally I can close this case. He takes me to a temple on his way home, bye there.
Several interesting contacts on online dating, but turn out to be moneyboys or no more reply (on hornet I thought we had a date, ask for confirmation “I tell you when I leave” which I correctly interpret as “probably not”).
Focus on an old acquaintance Ta (we met 14nov2018 here in That Phanom, and the reason why I came here again). He lives about 10 km out of town and has no mocy and we would spend hours to discuss how he is looking to rent a car to take him here or borrow a mocy, but has to pay the driver in advance or needs money for petrol first.
Tedious! Exhausting! Of course I could just send the money, but I think this one is of the grab-and-run mentality and there is a good chance he will not come and spend the money on something else.
I had lost hope and contacted others, and I was about to cancel for running out of time (to go to sleep 23, I would need confirmation that he is on his way by 21, so he can be here 22 – 10 km distance, but I had longer travel times for shorter distances – and we still have one hour), but then finally he found a ride. Arr 21:15 alone on mocy. After hours of futile chat you wouldn't guess the opening: “I don't have much time”. After waiting for him for hours, I won't let him cut me short on time and have him confirm that we can spend two hours in my room. Else I would have sent him back.
Brown warm dry skin, nice balls and cock but a bit much pubes. Sixpack, some skin impurities on back and face. Light smell of smoke when kissing, even teeth yellow. Nicely dressed. Plays on his phone (porn on twitter) but I tell him to put it down. Okay activities, I get fully hard and fuck him legs up. He enjoys it, I can stay hard long time and finally cum inside. He cums by wanking, I don't feel sphincter contraction, his cum not much volume and distance. Ask for back massage, poor. Show him how I like it, still poor. A bit of facial hair, mine did not seem a problem. Slightly ticklish. 800 bye 22:02 (500 for him, 300 for mocy). Good encounter, repeat (but not under these conditions).
Tue22nov2022 That Phanom
My contact in Ubon didn't read my messages, skip a night in Ubon.
But Cosin in Buriram can meet tomorrow evening or night.
Someone messages me on hornet and asks me if I remember him. Can't place him, but on mentioning Chanthaburi I remember, that was Oh in Jun2013! And I even recall he told me in 2013 he is from That Phanom. Oh has a car and wants to come to meet met, I agree. Body and activities okay, and a new record 9 years 5 months between meetings.
And another record, two boys on two days come by their own car from 20 km away to meet me. And sandwiched between these two by car, Ta who took hours to arrange a ride from 10 km away. And another meeting failed for distance of 1 km, and my refusal for a threesome with his friend (not my type) who has a car and would drive.
Wed23nov2022 That Phanom via Ubon to Buriram
No direct bus from That Phanom to Buriram. Buses to Bangkok stop in Phayakphum from where I could get to Buriram easily, but there is no more morning bus to Bangkok. My only way to get to Buriram is via Ubon (long detour, see map). Ubon to Buriram is not easy either, it was lunchtime so I could spend the hour waiting time with having lunch.
In Buriram, stay at Siam Hotel as last time. Poor power plugs (one on wall and two under table). Light switch for light over mirror over table is under table, have to follow cable from light to find switch.
Tedious discussion to meet Cosin, but once in my room everything fine.
Why do you want to meet me? - I want to hug you. - Why do you want to hug me? - It feels so good. - Why does it feel good? - (I have no answer, change subject, and anyway, I hate this kind of conversation.)
Only now do I realize that I spent two days traveling, That Phanom to Buriram and Buriram to Bangkok, to meet him. A new record.
After Cosin continue online dating, no luck.
Thu24nov2022 Buriram to Bangkok
Train 72 (from Ubon) to Bangkok in 3rd class (2nd booked out), dep 8:38. Watch the railway line construction (tunnels and elevated rail) between Korat and Saraburi. Brochure says up to 50 m high. Entertaining!
Fri25nov2022 Bangkok
Suphat101 comes to my room and we have a good time. 1000 well deserved.
Sat26nov2022 Bangkok
April comes at night and stays over night.
Sun27nov2022 Bangkok
Hugging in the morning. Breakfast. 1200 for April (1000 he asked for two weeks ago for funeral of relative, 200 for taxi).
Top comes to my room and we have a good time. 300 for taxi.
Mon28nov2022 Bangkok
From MRT Ladprao walk to Baan Boonbuangsruang Museum พิพิธภัณฑ์บ้านบุญบวงสรวง. Gate open, but doors closed. Call number displayed to be let in. One room is free entry, main museum entry 100 THB. Various religious objects, very interesting for me.
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In spring I saw some enticing pictures on twitter, twinky nude massage boys in Bangkok. The twitter account is gone, but I got their line and location of their shop. Now I'm nearby and will have a look.
Find the massage place, former 285 spa (small sign still there), now Big Big, googlemaps “big big massage&spa”, and another sign with yet another name, in Chokchai 4 Soi 83. Old Line 285spa still operational and I had that weird exchange (not customer friendly). New Line bigbigspa. No facebook or twitter (twitter was deleted for nude pictures?). Sends me pictures of masseurs, some nude, some I have seen by other shops, no clear hit. Anyway, 599 for 1 hour oil rather expensive, even though facilities look nice. Minimum tip 1200 outrageous, some boys even minimum 1500. In hindsight, I should have told him so instead of a general excuse.
TOO EXPENSIVE, TOO FAR AWAY. And, considering I saw most of the boys advertised for Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massage places, they probably are there and have to travel here, waiting time for the customer. I wonder if the gay community were served better if I didn't report it here. But it might save someone else the time and money of traveling there, and disappointment on arriving. What is their customer base? Whoever makes it out here must know about Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massage places, same pool of boys with lower prices, easier accessible.
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Check Cruising Sauna: empty/abandoned, even note on paper on entrance bleached out not readable.
BTS to Sanam Pao. I have a contact on blued, he is online, but it turns out he is in an army camp and can't leave. But there are buses to Sanam Luang or Saphan Phut, so I take one and have a look at Saranrom.
Walk Saranrom 21:30-22:01. Two boys, one cute, but don't take notice of me. After my round back at their place, spot them leaving with an older local. Total 18 boys (including the two), all without mask. Most of them too old (30s) and average body, but there is a group of 4 early 20's, two of them slim and cute. Folk (there every day) and Dton (rarely), general chat, no character flaws other then smoking cigarettes, drinking Kratom drink, sniffing some other stuff. Folk and Dton certainly interesting, but my sex drive is low so I pass.
Tue29nov2022 Bangkok
Boy49 wants to meet. His mocy broken, I agree to pay for taxi. I have a good time as before. 1000 tip Boy49. 200 for taxi.
Wed30nov2022 Bangkok to Pattaya by taxi
There is so much to see between Bangkok and Pattaya, but you need a private car to access those places. A while ago I had an interesting chat with a Bangkok taxi driver and today I rent him for a day to take me from Bangkok to Pattaya and stop at some places.
Mosaik booked out for tonight! Go to Boutique Bravo Hotel, nice rooms for 700 per night, but some minor maintenance issues. All 3 staff I talked with poor English. There is a sign “Joiner Fee 500” displayed at reception, but I had no problem (tell boy room number and he knocks on my door) and a friend had no problem (walking past reception with different boys).
Boystown a20:00 few people. Dinner in La Cuisine au Beurre, boiled salmon steak great as always.
Nice Boys 21:40-22:29. 12 boys and 5 customers, and 5 more during my stay. Two old favorites and another very shapely and cute face (despite two face tattoos). Three boys wear different underwear “Davidkor”, a brand I have never seen before. Dui gets naked and three more follow. One small dick, two boys (both face tattoos) disfigured, one just mooks?
The other (shapely cute) might be a Benz (named after the symbol of the car Mercedes-Benz, cuts in the foreskin to make them look like three petals), looks bad from front and horrible from side. Of no use for my purposes and I doubt he can reproduce. An accident during masturbation with a lawnmower? Looks like the sausage in following pictures, or sandworms in Tremors.
If this happens to a gun, it's called petaling (no pictures on google, but see 1:12-30 in following video)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mjvZrLnlCg
Military Tank Expert Rates 8 Tank Battles In Movies And TV | How Real Is It? | Insider
Thu1dec2022 Pattaya
An old acquaintance Nine comes to my room for fun. 1000 well deserved. We have met five times over the years, I was always happy, at the danger of someone calling me “generous”, I give him 500 extra.
Fri2dec2022 Pattaya
“Relax and Enjoy At Max Massage” = “Suchada Quality Massage” = former Apple Massage is gone (empty, signs still outside, address 20/142).
Dinner at Toto. Menu reduced, now one sheet without pictures. Ask for old menu with pictures, then check in new menu if item still available. New menu says “fruit juice 60”, I ask which fruit juice is available “orange juice” (wait for more, then ask: what else? - nothing else). Reduced menus, a common problem after Covid. Not just menus, bus and train schedules as well.
Walk past Bamboo Bar (busy with boys – none my type – and customers). New bar Zoomer (same soi as DDD Inn) closed but few staff sitting outside and inviting us for drink.
Drive through Jomtien Complex a17, promising.
Boyztown 21:10-20. X-Boys on stage 2 boys in underwear and 3 in shorts or jeans. Dream Boys about 10 boys in jeans. A-Bomb 5 boys in jeans. Toy Boys 9 boys in underwear.
Winner Bar no boys on stage. To Jomtien Complex, busy with boys and customers. Some interesting but none worth sitting and drinking, and all the noise/music, people, and smokers.
Winner Bar 1 boy in underwear and about 5 customers outside, nobody inside.
Nice Boys busy over 10 boys.
Sat3dec2022 Pattaya to Bangkok
Go to see Chat at his hotel room nearby. Massages me good, then fun great activities but I can't get hard because not so much my type (but no character or intellectual flaws).
Sun4dec2022 Bangkok
Chatuchak weekend market, then continue to 39 underground.
39 underground sauna, entry 200, stay 17:12-18:54. There are 252 lockers, and the place is brimming with averageness. During my stay 3 border cases but not interested. One cute in shower, he is leaving, get his social media. Most customers wear mask, and many cover their genitals (it's nude day). Bus to Sanam Luang.
Saranrom 20:16-56. First round 11 boys available and 5 who I'm not sure about. Second round 5 new in bus stop, right age and BMI for me, but none of them attractive.
Wait for bus and ask local in the bus shelter: she is waiting for friend. Then she has an idea: the MRT is nearby and more frequent than the bus. How could I forget about the MRT? Take MRT home.
A boy LPK from online comes to my room to stay over night. This is one of the weirdest encounters I had.
(ChristianPFC is eating an apple.) “Are you eating an apple?” - “Yes. Do you want one.” - “You are eating an apple.” He doesn't want a apple, but on another occasion talks while eating (bad in two ways: talks too much and impolite).
“Why do you have that many towels?” - “I collect laundry for weeks and use big washing machine.” - “I don't believe you. Are these really all your and nobody else's towels?”
Checks my room with his phone for IR cameras before we go to bed.
Activities (kissing, sucking, wanking) okay. Not so much my type. Curly, middle long hair is a turn-off, crab ladder and hairs on lower back. When hair or fingernails or toenails touch my skin during fun, I get a sensation of “yuck!”. The good point is warm hands, but useless at massage.
He joins me in bed in glasses, but takes them off for sleeping and falls out of bed when getting up to put his glasses on table. When he was in my bathroom, I heard bottles dropping to the floor. Putting your phone flat on the ground for charging is asking for someone to step on it. And various other observations point to the boy having serious motor deficits, and I wouldn't trust him to hold anything that would not survive a drop to the ground. When he takes a book to read, I watch him closely lest he drops it or opens it 360 degrees (crack the spine), and take it away at first opportunity.
Mon5dec2022 Bangkok
Poor sleep (some hugging during night).
No character or intellectual flaws, on time at the right place, just a total mismatch in character and intellect. Difficult to understand (mutually). Half of communication is “what” or “ha?”. And in addition to that, subjects I don't want to talk about. Boring/exhausting but great blogging material.
Very observant (stuff in my room, my activities), or nosy? Asks for reasons/explanation. “What are you doing?”, “What are you looking at?”. Reminds me of a boy in Sihanoukville, whom I labelled "inquisitive-intrusive”.
Can't do anything for my blog or forums, he would be behind me staring at the screen and asking what I'm doing and what this is.
Asks a lot, but can be classified as “emotional garbage” or “unproductive questions” (i.e. no gain in knowledge): why are you smiling, why are you not horny? (I had similar stupid questions before: why do you have white skin?)
No sign of leaving, I have go get him out for my mental health and to meet a friend for lunch. Bye drags on and on and on. Finally 11:35 have him out of my room.
The whole gamut of Asperger, Autism, OCD, emotional garbage, just plain weirdness and anti-social behavior (talking while eating). In every way different and incompatible to my weirdness.
A marathon for my brain. I'm mentally exhausted. That was psychological torture! I need half an hour to compose myself before meeting friend for lunch.
Tue6dec2022 Bangkok
Boy Green from online dating comes to my room in his lunch break. General chat. Keeps mask on, but I can see not my type. A minute of silence, I wonder what we can do now, but he tells me he has to go back to work.
Wed7dec2022 Bangkok
I was going to join a German friend for a walk I Chinatown. We had an appointment at MRT Hua Lampong exit 4. I'm there, no sigin of my friend. Message and call him, he doesn't not pick up. After waiting half an hour, I continue my business in Hua Lampong.
Queue 13 minutes to get to the counter, to find out the night train on Friday to Ubon is booked out! I had in mind going to Ubon and then overland to Cambodia for visa run. In this case I will not settle for night bus (there are other points that stretch my time and money, and night bus where I could get a night train is just one point too much), but change the entire plan. Flight to Vietnam or to Cambodia?
Hours later solution: my friend was at exit 1 and messed up the exits. Here we have experimental proof that such things do not only happen to Thais: wrong exit (I have it in written that he sent me exit 4, but was waiting at exit 1) and not having a look at your phone when you have a date with someone, but the person is not there.
Meet Gift from hornet. Dinner, to my room, have a good time.
Thu8dec2022 Bangkok
Walk former Soi Twilight, now Culture Chula.
Prince Massage closed for good? I hope so! Good riddance to bad rubbish! Years ago a friend described the selection process, quoting mamasan: “... and this boy big cock, mimimum tip 1500.” Thanks, but I judge who has a big cock and I decide how much I tip. I think I set foot into Prince only once, to accompany a friend, to have a look. I'm very sensitive to attitude and to prices, and I didn't like what I saw.
Update: it's going to re-open in jun2023:
https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/39481-the-prince-reopening/
Babylon being demolished (would still be time to get souvenirs, but security guard).
Fri9dec2022 Bangkok
Online dating no success (cute Cambodian not free, other boy fishes for dinner invitation at his place, a bordercase is money boy).
Sat10dec2022 Bangkok to Sakaew
Make up my mind about visa run, Bangkok-Sakaew-Poipet-Siem Reap. My friend Bank is in Sakaew and is available, however he needs 100 for petrol in advance to come to meet. In this case, I will send money online (previous encounters he came by mocy, and he is reliable).
40 ticket to Sakaew. This is a local train, can't sell out (no seat numbers, at Hua Lampong I get a seat but passengers from Phaya Thai have to stand) and no long queues because tickets can be bought at a machine (operated by railway staff).
Bank comes to my room and we have a great time. 500 well deserved. And another positive note: mobile phone addiction is reversible! Years ago it was a problem, during foreplay I would have to pry the phone out of his hands, and after cum he would immediately be back on phone, but not any more during recent encounters.
Satang from hornet comes to my hotel. Cold hands and feet from car aircon, then gets better. Average activities and body. No repeat.
Sun11dec2022 Sakaew to Poipet
Continue in Diary Dec2022 Cambodia.
Summary Nov2022
16 Free sex: Sara, April 200, Top 300, Kan NP, KoKo, Eager 100, Manila, MaxTP, Oh2013, Cosin, April 1200, Top 300, Chat, LPK, Gift, Satang Sakaew.
10 Paid sex: AmpYaso 1000, Zee 600, Wan KK massage 700, Deer HH 1000, Suphat101 1000, TaTP 500, Suphat101 1000, Boy49 1000, Nine 1500, Bank Sakaew 600 = 8900.
3 No sex: Koko, Kan, Green.
1 Boy cancels: Suphat101.
3 Missed: AniMo, White HH, boy in NP.
2 No show: First NP, Oil NP.
19 Repeat: Sara, April, Top, AmpYaso, Zee, Deer HH, Kan NP, KoKo, Suphat101, TaTP, Cosin, Suphat101, April, Top, Boy49, Nine, Chat, Gift, Bank Sakaew.
7 No repeat: Wan KK massage, Eager, Manila, MaxTP, Oh2013, LPK, Satang Sakaew.
15 Old: Sara, April, Top, AmpYaso, Zee, TaTP, Oh2013, Cosin, Suphat101, April, Top, Boy49, Nine, Chat, Bank Sakaew.
11 New: Wan KK massage, Deer HH, Kan NP, KoKo, Suphat101, Eager, Manila, MaxTP, LPK, Gift, Satang Sakaew.
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And first last days of Oct2022 and first days of Dec2022, to keep countries separate. Details on Saranrom, bus and train travel, hotels, Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massages, weird/clumsy boy.
Fri28oct2022 Siem Reap to Korat
Sara comes to my room and we have a good time.
Sat29oct2022 Korat to Bangkok
April comes at night and stays over night.
Sun30oct2022 Bangkok
Hugging and massage in the morning, bye after breakfast. 200 for taxi.
Tue1nov2022 Bangkok
Top comes to my room and we have a good time. 300 for taxi.
Thu3nov2022 Bangkok
Suphat101 cancels, arrange for AmpYaso to come to meet me, agreement 14:02. Finally 17:15 meet on parking lot, to my room. Take off clothes and jewelry except earrings (no problem for me) and necklace. Okay activities, he says he has to leave soon to get bus back home. Can be top or bottom. Ask him for back massage, poor. Show him how I like it, now soso. 1000 bye 17:57 in my room.
Fri4nov2022 Bangkok
Meet my loyal reader Vinapu and use that occasion to have a look at gay venues in Silom. I have almost completely lost interest in the scene in Silom and need an occasion like this to see what's available.
The Best Massage has 3 okay looking boys 20:18.
9-teen Massage staff looks promising. 1 h oil massage 500, no info about expected tip.
Silom Soi 6 has 5 all male massages.
Super A busy, but boys fully dressed sitting with customers 20:32. I even think mamasan understood my comment that it's pointless for me to go in to watch fully dressed boys sitting and drinking with other customers. But as soon as they are in underwear, and I can see the boys on stage, I will have a look and a drink.
Screw Boys still closed.
New Twilight no boys on stage, some fully dressed outside, show will be 22:30. (Update: Changed name to New Queens, and at time of publishing closed.)
Nature Boys joined with Golden Cock, 2 boys fully dressed.
Tawan plenty of boys, in underwear, but all too old/fat/ugly for my taste.
Fresh Boys in white shorts. Promising, if they drop the shorts I might go. However some look Vietnamese, a poor start (bad experiences).
Hotmale shirtless 20:47.
Dream Boys (moved to where Lucky Boys was) white shorts, many boys.
Banana Boys white shorts 21:25.
As long as they wear too many clothes (even shorts instead of underwear is too much by my standards), I won't go into any of them. To know what's actually going on in these bars, read Shamelessmack:
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/18/three-gogo-bars-in-december-2022-headcounts/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/22/map-of-silom-surawong-area-december-2022/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/23/three-gogo-bars-in-december-2022-their-shows/
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/24/the-gogo-business-untapped-potential/
Sidewalk construction on Silom road near complete.
Sat5nov2022 Bangkok
Meet Zee on road and pay 100 for his mocy taxi, 14:12. To my room. He opens, has a look inside, and closes my fridge. “What are you doing?” - “I'm hungry.” Doesn't react on my offer to go to 7-Eleven. Zee is developing a serious attitude problem! Lies down in bed fully clothed. Get him nude and hugging slowly. Nice black Calvin Klein briefs with silver waistband. Other clothes soso. Skin color and temp okay. Lazy bottom, fuck him lying on front. Cum quick, but stay in and he makes some horny sounds, what will my neighbours think? Then pull out and take shower (despite aircon at 28 C, I got sweaty), and when I'm back he is fully dressed in bed. Ask him for back massage, okay. 520 Zee bye 15:08 in my room. A tentative: give us one more chance.
Sun6nov2022 Bangkok
Yesterday arranged date with AniMo, today no reply. But I'm quite happy about that, would be a long trip (train to Hua Takhe, then taxi to his place), possibly hotel nearby, and not clear if he is looking for fun, we didn't talk about that. Filed as missed.
Mon7nov2022 Bangkok
Meet Koko from Myanmar in Central Rama 9. This is a rare case where I'm held up on business along and the way and I'm late, while Koko was on time and is waiting for me. We have dinner, no English, all conversation in Thai. Afterwards invite him to my room, and while we wait for taxi, he gets a call from work: co-worker had mocy accident, he has to go to work now (his day off). That sounds very much like the usual crap, but a week later he came to my room and we had a good time, so I assume it was true.
15M (former Fah Lang Fon, then Choe Kan), arrive 14:00. Receptionist has limited English, communicate in Thai. Show pictures of Muang: doesn't work there any more. But Non and Pat available. Settle for Non. No coconut oil (poor management: coconut oil is widely available and easy to store). I take shower and wait in room 14:14-37. However the boy who comes in not the Non on picture, but another Non.
Face and body passable, but I didn't travel all the way and I'm not going to spend all the money to have massage and happy ending with someone who is passable. Sorry for your inconvenience (actually I'm the one who is inconvenienced), but bye (after checking with receptionist that the Non I want, and Pat as well, don't work there any more). Out 14:40. (Later I realize that Pat doesn't work there anyway, but at Home Spa / Inthra Massage, so this was my mistake.)
But there are more massages nearbye. Skip GBeat because I was there last time (same situation: 15M didn't have the boy I was looking for or any other who is my type)
K Man Spa (kmanspa on google maps) nobody my type.
Pass Hi Club (Karaoke) https://www.tiktok.com/@hackza29 near Intramara Soi 11.
Continue to Inthamara. 69Massage and Ogasms Health Spa (google maps) are gone.
Former K-Why is now KK Massage & Spa (https://twitter.com/2Ogasms, KK massage on google maps, opposite Inthamara Soi 23). Here I finally find one (on pictures on mobile phone) to settle. 60 min oil massage 350, minimum tip 700. No coconut oil (again poor management). Narrow stairway, mind your head. Take shower and wait in room, massage starts 15:36. There is no aircon remote control in the room, but temperature was fine throughout. There is a problem with their electric wiring, when someone takes a shower (electric water heater), the voltage drops and lights get darker. Massage okay, start in towel, drop soon. No erotic touching. Wan (long a) from Chiang Mai. Both lower arms tattoos. Average size cock and balls, didn't get hard. A bit too much pubes. Body okay. Afterwards shower together. No repeat, but would advise friends to see for themselves. I'm out 16:33.
That money 350+700=1050 is well spend for research and I can write it off as trial and error (some boys work out, others don't). Whereas places who charge 500+1000, too much for me, I do my business online. I can afford 500+1000, but I think it's unreasonable.
Other's experience and links to social media here and links therein:
https://shamelessmacktwo.travel.blog/2022/12/28/bad-omens/
27M (former Kop Thong) near Inthamara Soi 27, on googlemaps (ปิดบริการ = permanently closed), I didn't enter because they have the same boys as M15.
Inthra Massage (googlemaps อินทรา นวด เพื่อสุขภาพ) and (currently no name, former Home Spa, googlemaps โฮม สปา) share the same boys.
Tue8nov2022 Bangkok to Hua Hin
Taxi to Hua Lamphong. Queue 12:08-25 for ticket. About 10 people ahead of me, each takes 3 min. Why are there always queues, and why does it take so long? Realize that I can either get a ticket and miss the train, or board the train without ticket. Board the train without ticket.
282 ticket (2nd class aircon to Hua Hin). 250 fine for buying ticket in train.
This is a general issue, every time I'm in Hua Lamphong there are queues and in future I would buy the ticket a day in advance or plan to queue half an hour. For local trains there is a machine to sell tickets, which is operated by one staff. But still, much faster than the general queue.
Wed9nov2022 Hua Hin
On facebook I saw advertising for Buddy Boy Bar, new gay bar in Hua Hin. Spend 20:29-21:03 with B and N (friends in Hua Hin). 4 staff and 3 customers (although B says the two locals are staff as well, but too old and ugly to be prostitutes). My drink 70, invite a cute boy for a drink 130. Bar fine would be 300.
There is one other gay bar New Guy in Hua Hin. Red Indian closed for good but sign still there and no other business in the premises.
Thu10nov2022
Morning chat with White wants to meet and bottom, but afraid my penis is too big and won't meet without picture first. But I have a police no nude pictures, under no circumstances. Filed as missed.
An acquaintance from Facebook Deer comes to my room and we have a good time, 1000 well deserved.
Fri11nov2022 Hua Hin to Nakhon Pathom
My preference is travel by train, but there is only one train, I would have to wait two hours for the train, and then it would take 4 hours. Better take a van departure soon, travel 3 hours. Ask or call van stations near my hotel: Jakrapan Transport small bus does not stop in Nakon Pathom, directly to Bangkok. JKP travel has a van for 12, make a reservation and pack my stuff.
Arriving at my hotel Mitpaisal Hotel, I see a note about fair at chedi 5-13 nov (Ong Phra Phatom Chedi) that's why I got the last room when I called and that's why few rooms on agoda or booking.com. This is a general problem and has happened before that I went somewhere for general sightseeing, and there was a festival (rooms booked out, increased traffic, other inconveniences).
I had a date with First. Previous chat promising, but now read but no reply. That means he is busy with something else, probably because of the fair. File as no-show.
Go online and chat with Kan on hornet. Not as good looking as First, but we spend 19:44-22:33 in my room and have a great time in bed and I would go to Nakhon Pathom again to meet Kan.
Sat12nov2022 Nakon Pathom to Bangkok
As in Hua Hin, hornet about 5 times as many messages as blued, and grinder distant third (fewer profiles on grindr). Romeo almost nothing.
Southern Line as far as I got (Hua Hin), construction of new railway stations, bridges and second track everywere, In Hua Hin and here fence all along railway, but where there were decades-old crossings, locals removed a segment of fence to continue crossing.
Mon14nov2022 Bangkok
KoKo comes to my room. General chat about my travel, then to bed and have a good time.
Suphat101 finally (weeks of chatting, but not free at the same time) free and comes to meet me. Cute and nicely dressed (black shorts, white T-shirt). Interesting conversation. I want to have a grope but he says he came for massage (we had agreed on hornet on 500 for 1 hour Thai massage). Thai massage okay (not so much my preference, too much legs, little back), 1 hour passes fast. Warm hands and skin. Then lets me have some gropes and asks for additional money for more. Good activities. 1000 well deserved.
Wed16nov2022 Bangkok
Mor Chit bus station with my loyal reader Vinapu, check for night buses to Nakhon Phanom. (Nakhon Pathom last weekend, Nakhon Phanom next weekend.)
Bus information on the internet is dated, calling would be possible to get recent data, but best is to go and ask at the counters. And here you really to look at the details: if a night bus departs at 6 pm and travel time is 12 hours, you will arrive at 6 am which is doable but inconvenient. Rather take a bus from 8 pm to 8 am. In this case, contrary to my usual mode of operation, go for the most expensive and luxurious. The difference in price is low, in this case The Transport Company has the cheapest bus about 500 THB with 4 seats per row but those seats are NON-RECLINING! The most luxurious is about 700 THB with 3 reclining seats per row.
Suddenly two dates for 18, one unspecific and previous no-show, one very eager. Skip the unspecific and previous no-show, go for the eager.
Meet Eager in front of my building. It turns out he used translation, from now on all chat in Thai. A bit on the fat side. Clothes not attractive, neither glasses. Interesting chat and good character. Offers me massage (soso, mostly pressing down), and this way get nude slowly. Skin color and temp okay. Nice cock and balls, he is hard from start. Suggests 69, but I can't get hard. Some unspecific slightly negative smell on his cock/balls/crotch. Precum? He then cums on my body by wanking, several squirts on my abdomen, chest, over my shoulder on pillow. Clean up. From 19:05 he plays on phone and I intercept chat by telling him my head aches from so much listening and speaking Thai. I study Chinese on laptop and wait for him to leave. 100 for taxi (After he asked for money.)
Once again, information asymmetry to my disadvantage. I have several good quality face pictures on my profile, more in private. The boy poor quality profile picture, and sent me slightly better pictures that delete after 3 seconds. So I was mostly relying on stats, 19 is a good start and 60/172 can play out in various ways (muscle which would work for me, fat which would not).
Thu17nov2022 Bangkok
A Farang friend got a message on hornet, where the boy asked for 500 THB for his Line ID.
I got a message on blued “Are you as boring as your profile?”
boring or generous, the worst insults for me
A boy from Manila contacts me, he is in Bangkok for holiday. I go to meet him at his hotel room. Picks me up at reception, first impression soso (clothes not attractive, face average, white skin). In his room, I take shower, then to bed. Warm dry skin, slim but no muscle, good activities. He is hard from start, circumcised? Strange flap of skin under glans. Average size. Small balls, hairy. Suck each other, I get half hard but then lose it. He wants to see me cum, offers porn but I refuse. Interesting chat, no character flaws, good activities but not so much my type.
I met Pinoy boys before, in all cases their circumcision acceptable. But in this case rather unshapely, a turn-off for me.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuli_(rite)
Taxi to Pratunam Superrich. I hailed a taxi and we paid 60 by meter, for comparison I checked on grab and it would have cost >100 on grab. This is general, whenever I checked grab for a trip I did by meter, grab was considerably more expensive. Bye at Superrich.
Hello again, boy comes running after me. He forgot passport and they won't serve him at Superrich. But I have an idea to go to a family owned exchange, and there no problem. In hindsight, he had USD, I could have exchanged for my next trip to Cambodia.
I do all my exchange business at that family owned exchange, the rates are the same as Superrich but fewer people (usually no or one other customer, and not all that staff they have at Superrich: one holds the door open, one greets you, one takes your passport to make a copy, then you have to sign the copy with another, then you take a queue number and finally you get to the cashier).
Meet Kan from Grindr in Centralworld. General chat (no English), was in Platinum for strolling. Very short (one step below him on escalator I'm still taller). I would have taken him with me now, but he will go home to meet a friend. Bye at bus stop, each of us in different bus home.
Sat19nov2022 Nakhon Phanom
I have two contacts in Nakhon Phanom. One I haven't met before, promising chat, but away this weekend. The other Oil I met in Bangkok three times for 500 THB each time. My message about arrival in NP read by Oil, but several subsequent messages over two days not read. Filed as no-show.
When I'm back in Bangkok the solution: in preparation of this trip, Oil wrote he would show me around NP. Due to work commitments, he had no time and was embarrassed that he could not fulfil his promise. Noble intentions, but I do all my sightseeing individually and anyway, I know better where to go.
Hornet busier than Blued, but no clear hit. No luck.
Sun20nov2022 Nakon Phanom
Daytrip Wat Phuttha Nimit https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2022/12/wat-phuttha-nimit-in-nakhon-phanom.html and other places.
Mon21nov2022 Nakon Phanom to That Phanom
Van from Nakhon Phanom to That Phanom (town). Out near That Phanom (religious site), this van will not enter bus station. This is a general problem, has happened before: vans that pass a town do not enter bus station. I had searched online for a hotel hear bus station*, all futile. Check for hotels near where I am now, decide for Porn Narumit Hotel. Call, room 300/600/700, vacancies. Walk there.
* I arrive and depart by public transport, and do most of my sightseeing by public transport, and even when renting a car with driver the place to ask is bus station. Therefore, I try to get a hotel in walking distance to bus or train station.
This (van does not go to bus station) turns out to be a blessing in disguise. I set a new record for best value for money in Porn Narumit Hotel. Rooms in main building are 600-700 THB, but the bungalows are just 300 and have everything I need: wardrobe, big fridge, flat TV, spacious bathroom (no table around sink), double bed, just a chair is missing but I can improvise by sitting on the bed and having my laptop on dressing table. Later I would learn that 300 even includes breakfast (coffee or tea, toast with jam at reception).
I have been chatting with Max from That Phanom for years. Chat positive, and some low-quality pictures he sent me look promising. He arrives by own car. Keeps mask on throughout (and what is can see does not look promising, so I don't ask him to take off mask). Small talk in Thai (little English), take off trousers, plays on phone, I have a grope and wait. Undresses, uses lube to finger me but I refuse to bottom. He plays on phone and I have a grope, nice cock, hard from start, balls soso. Body soso, pale skin, temp okay. Then fingers me again and wants to fuck me, but I refuse. No character or intellectual flaws, but not my type and not my style. Finally I can close this case. He takes me to a temple on his way home, bye there.
Several interesting contacts on online dating, but turn out to be moneyboys or no more reply (on hornet I thought we had a date, ask for confirmation “I tell you when I leave” which I correctly interpret as “probably not”).
Focus on an old acquaintance Ta (we met 14nov2018 here in That Phanom, and the reason why I came here again). He lives about 10 km out of town and has no mocy and we would spend hours to discuss how he is looking to rent a car to take him here or borrow a mocy, but has to pay the driver in advance or needs money for petrol first.
Tedious! Exhausting! Of course I could just send the money, but I think this one is of the grab-and-run mentality and there is a good chance he will not come and spend the money on something else.
I had lost hope and contacted others, and I was about to cancel for running out of time (to go to sleep 23, I would need confirmation that he is on his way by 21, so he can be here 22 – 10 km distance, but I had longer travel times for shorter distances – and we still have one hour), but then finally he found a ride. Arr 21:15 alone on mocy. After hours of futile chat you wouldn't guess the opening: “I don't have much time”. After waiting for him for hours, I won't let him cut me short on time and have him confirm that we can spend two hours in my room. Else I would have sent him back.
Brown warm dry skin, nice balls and cock but a bit much pubes. Sixpack, some skin impurities on back and face. Light smell of smoke when kissing, even teeth yellow. Nicely dressed. Plays on his phone (porn on twitter) but I tell him to put it down. Okay activities, I get fully hard and fuck him legs up. He enjoys it, I can stay hard long time and finally cum inside. He cums by wanking, I don't feel sphincter contraction, his cum not much volume and distance. Ask for back massage, poor. Show him how I like it, still poor. A bit of facial hair, mine did not seem a problem. Slightly ticklish. 800 bye 22:02 (500 for him, 300 for mocy). Good encounter, repeat (but not under these conditions).
Tue22nov2022 That Phanom
My contact in Ubon didn't read my messages, skip a night in Ubon.
But Cosin in Buriram can meet tomorrow evening or night.
Someone messages me on hornet and asks me if I remember him. Can't place him, but on mentioning Chanthaburi I remember, that was Oh in Jun2013! And I even recall he told me in 2013 he is from That Phanom. Oh has a car and wants to come to meet met, I agree. Body and activities okay, and a new record 9 years 5 months between meetings.
And another record, two boys on two days come by their own car from 20 km away to meet me. And sandwiched between these two by car, Ta who took hours to arrange a ride from 10 km away. And another meeting failed for distance of 1 km, and my refusal for a threesome with his friend (not my type) who has a car and would drive.
Wed23nov2022 That Phanom via Ubon to Buriram
No direct bus from That Phanom to Buriram. Buses to Bangkok stop in Phayakphum from where I could get to Buriram easily, but there is no more morning bus to Bangkok. My only way to get to Buriram is via Ubon (long detour, see map). Ubon to Buriram is not easy either, it was lunchtime so I could spend the hour waiting time with having lunch.
In Buriram, stay at Siam Hotel as last time. Poor power plugs (one on wall and two under table). Light switch for light over mirror over table is under table, have to follow cable from light to find switch.
Tedious discussion to meet Cosin, but once in my room everything fine.
Why do you want to meet me? - I want to hug you. - Why do you want to hug me? - It feels so good. - Why does it feel good? - (I have no answer, change subject, and anyway, I hate this kind of conversation.)
Only now do I realize that I spent two days traveling, That Phanom to Buriram and Buriram to Bangkok, to meet him. A new record.
After Cosin continue online dating, no luck.
Thu24nov2022 Buriram to Bangkok
Train 72 (from Ubon) to Bangkok in 3rd class (2nd booked out), dep 8:38. Watch the railway line construction (tunnels and elevated rail) between Korat and Saraburi. Brochure says up to 50 m high. Entertaining!
Fri25nov2022 Bangkok
Suphat101 comes to my room and we have a good time. 1000 well deserved.
Sat26nov2022 Bangkok
April comes at night and stays over night.
Sun27nov2022 Bangkok
Hugging in the morning. Breakfast. 1200 for April (1000 he asked for two weeks ago for funeral of relative, 200 for taxi).
Top comes to my room and we have a good time. 300 for taxi.
Mon28nov2022 Bangkok
From MRT Ladprao walk to Baan Boonbuangsruang Museum พิพิธภัณฑ์บ้านบุญบวงสรวง. Gate open, but doors closed. Call number displayed to be let in. One room is free entry, main museum entry 100 THB. Various religious objects, very interesting for me.
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In spring I saw some enticing pictures on twitter, twinky nude massage boys in Bangkok. The twitter account is gone, but I got their line and location of their shop. Now I'm nearby and will have a look.
Find the massage place, former 285 spa (small sign still there), now Big Big, googlemaps “big big massage&spa”, and another sign with yet another name, in Chokchai 4 Soi 83. Old Line 285spa still operational and I had that weird exchange (not customer friendly). New Line bigbigspa. No facebook or twitter (twitter was deleted for nude pictures?). Sends me pictures of masseurs, some nude, some I have seen by other shops, no clear hit. Anyway, 599 for 1 hour oil rather expensive, even though facilities look nice. Minimum tip 1200 outrageous, some boys even minimum 1500. In hindsight, I should have told him so instead of a general excuse.
TOO EXPENSIVE, TOO FAR AWAY. And, considering I saw most of the boys advertised for Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massage places, they probably are there and have to travel here, waiting time for the customer. I wonder if the gay community were served better if I didn't report it here. But it might save someone else the time and money of traveling there, and disappointment on arriving. What is their customer base? Whoever makes it out here must know about Saphan Khwai and Inthamara massage places, same pool of boys with lower prices, easier accessible.
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Check Cruising Sauna: empty/abandoned, even note on paper on entrance bleached out not readable.
BTS to Sanam Pao. I have a contact on blued, he is online, but it turns out he is in an army camp and can't leave. But there are buses to Sanam Luang or Saphan Phut, so I take one and have a look at Saranrom.
Walk Saranrom 21:30-22:01. Two boys, one cute, but don't take notice of me. After my round back at their place, spot them leaving with an older local. Total 18 boys (including the two), all without mask. Most of them too old (30s) and average body, but there is a group of 4 early 20's, two of them slim and cute. Folk (there every day) and Dton (rarely), general chat, no character flaws other then smoking cigarettes, drinking Kratom drink, sniffing some other stuff. Folk and Dton certainly interesting, but my sex drive is low so I pass.
Tue29nov2022 Bangkok
Boy49 wants to meet. His mocy broken, I agree to pay for taxi. I have a good time as before. 1000 tip Boy49. 200 for taxi.
Wed30nov2022 Bangkok to Pattaya by taxi
There is so much to see between Bangkok and Pattaya, but you need a private car to access those places. A while ago I had an interesting chat with a Bangkok taxi driver and today I rent him for a day to take me from Bangkok to Pattaya and stop at some places.
Mosaik booked out for tonight! Go to Boutique Bravo Hotel, nice rooms for 700 per night, but some minor maintenance issues. All 3 staff I talked with poor English. There is a sign “Joiner Fee 500” displayed at reception, but I had no problem (tell boy room number and he knocks on my door) and a friend had no problem (walking past reception with different boys).
Boystown a20:00 few people. Dinner in La Cuisine au Beurre, boiled salmon steak great as always.
Nice Boys 21:40-22:29. 12 boys and 5 customers, and 5 more during my stay. Two old favorites and another very shapely and cute face (despite two face tattoos). Three boys wear different underwear “Davidkor”, a brand I have never seen before. Dui gets naked and three more follow. One small dick, two boys (both face tattoos) disfigured, one just mooks?
The other (shapely cute) might be a Benz (named after the symbol of the car Mercedes-Benz, cuts in the foreskin to make them look like three petals), looks bad from front and horrible from side. Of no use for my purposes and I doubt he can reproduce. An accident during masturbation with a lawnmower? Looks like the sausage in following pictures, or sandworms in Tremors.
If this happens to a gun, it's called petaling (no pictures on google, but see 1:12-30 in following video)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4mjvZrLnlCg
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Thu1dec2022 Pattaya
An old acquaintance Nine comes to my room for fun. 1000 well deserved. We have met five times over the years, I was always happy, at the danger of someone calling me “generous”, I give him 500 extra.
Fri2dec2022 Pattaya
“Relax and Enjoy At Max Massage” = “Suchada Quality Massage” = former Apple Massage is gone (empty, signs still outside, address 20/142).
Dinner at Toto. Menu reduced, now one sheet without pictures. Ask for old menu with pictures, then check in new menu if item still available. New menu says “fruit juice 60”, I ask which fruit juice is available “orange juice” (wait for more, then ask: what else? - nothing else). Reduced menus, a common problem after Covid. Not just menus, bus and train schedules as well.
Walk past Bamboo Bar (busy with boys – none my type – and customers). New bar Zoomer (same soi as DDD Inn) closed but few staff sitting outside and inviting us for drink.
Drive through Jomtien Complex a17, promising.
Boyztown 21:10-20. X-Boys on stage 2 boys in underwear and 3 in shorts or jeans. Dream Boys about 10 boys in jeans. A-Bomb 5 boys in jeans. Toy Boys 9 boys in underwear.
Winner Bar no boys on stage. To Jomtien Complex, busy with boys and customers. Some interesting but none worth sitting and drinking, and all the noise/music, people, and smokers.
Winner Bar 1 boy in underwear and about 5 customers outside, nobody inside.
Nice Boys busy over 10 boys.
Sat3dec2022 Pattaya to Bangkok
Go to see Chat at his hotel room nearby. Massages me good, then fun great activities but I can't get hard because not so much my type (but no character or intellectual flaws).
Sun4dec2022 Bangkok
Chatuchak weekend market, then continue to 39 underground.
39 underground sauna, entry 200, stay 17:12-18:54. There are 252 lockers, and the place is brimming with averageness. During my stay 3 border cases but not interested. One cute in shower, he is leaving, get his social media. Most customers wear mask, and many cover their genitals (it's nude day). Bus to Sanam Luang.
Saranrom 20:16-56. First round 11 boys available and 5 who I'm not sure about. Second round 5 new in bus stop, right age and BMI for me, but none of them attractive.
Wait for bus and ask local in the bus shelter: she is waiting for friend. Then she has an idea: the MRT is nearby and more frequent than the bus. How could I forget about the MRT? Take MRT home.
A boy LPK from online comes to my room to stay over night. This is one of the weirdest encounters I had.
(ChristianPFC is eating an apple.) “Are you eating an apple?” - “Yes. Do you want one.” - “You are eating an apple.” He doesn't want a apple, but on another occasion talks while eating (bad in two ways: talks too much and impolite).
“Why do you have that many towels?” - “I collect laundry for weeks and use big washing machine.” - “I don't believe you. Are these really all your and nobody else's towels?”
Checks my room with his phone for IR cameras before we go to bed.
Activities (kissing, sucking, wanking) okay. Not so much my type. Curly, middle long hair is a turn-off, crab ladder and hairs on lower back. When hair or fingernails or toenails touch my skin during fun, I get a sensation of “yuck!”. The good point is warm hands, but useless at massage.
He joins me in bed in glasses, but takes them off for sleeping and falls out of bed when getting up to put his glasses on table. When he was in my bathroom, I heard bottles dropping to the floor. Putting your phone flat on the ground for charging is asking for someone to step on it. And various other observations point to the boy having serious motor deficits, and I wouldn't trust him to hold anything that would not survive a drop to the ground. When he takes a book to read, I watch him closely lest he drops it or opens it 360 degrees (crack the spine), and take it away at first opportunity.
Mon5dec2022 Bangkok
Poor sleep (some hugging during night).
No character or intellectual flaws, on time at the right place, just a total mismatch in character and intellect. Difficult to understand (mutually). Half of communication is “what” or “ha?”. And in addition to that, subjects I don't want to talk about. Boring/exhausting but great blogging material.
Very observant (stuff in my room, my activities), or nosy? Asks for reasons/explanation. “What are you doing?”, “What are you looking at?”. Reminds me of a boy in Sihanoukville, whom I labelled "inquisitive-intrusive”.
Can't do anything for my blog or forums, he would be behind me staring at the screen and asking what I'm doing and what this is.
Asks a lot, but can be classified as “emotional garbage” or “unproductive questions” (i.e. no gain in knowledge): why are you smiling, why are you not horny? (I had similar stupid questions before: why do you have white skin?)
No sign of leaving, I have go get him out for my mental health and to meet a friend for lunch. Bye drags on and on and on. Finally 11:35 have him out of my room.
The whole gamut of Asperger, Autism, OCD, emotional garbage, just plain weirdness and anti-social behavior (talking while eating). In every way different and incompatible to my weirdness.
A marathon for my brain. I'm mentally exhausted. That was psychological torture! I need half an hour to compose myself before meeting friend for lunch.
Tue6dec2022 Bangkok
Boy Green from online dating comes to my room in his lunch break. General chat. Keeps mask on, but I can see not my type. A minute of silence, I wonder what we can do now, but he tells me he has to go back to work.
Wed7dec2022 Bangkok
I was going to join a German friend for a walk I Chinatown. We had an appointment at MRT Hua Lampong exit 4. I'm there, no sigin of my friend. Message and call him, he doesn't not pick up. After waiting half an hour, I continue my business in Hua Lampong.
Queue 13 minutes to get to the counter, to find out the night train on Friday to Ubon is booked out! I had in mind going to Ubon and then overland to Cambodia for visa run. In this case I will not settle for night bus (there are other points that stretch my time and money, and night bus where I could get a night train is just one point too much), but change the entire plan. Flight to Vietnam or to Cambodia?
Hours later solution: my friend was at exit 1 and messed up the exits. Here we have experimental proof that such things do not only happen to Thais: wrong exit (I have it in written that he sent me exit 4, but was waiting at exit 1) and not having a look at your phone when you have a date with someone, but the person is not there.
Meet Gift from hornet. Dinner, to my room, have a good time.
Thu8dec2022 Bangkok
Walk former Soi Twilight, now Culture Chula.
Prince Massage closed for good? I hope so! Good riddance to bad rubbish! Years ago a friend described the selection process, quoting mamasan: “... and this boy big cock, mimimum tip 1500.” Thanks, but I judge who has a big cock and I decide how much I tip. I think I set foot into Prince only once, to accompany a friend, to have a look. I'm very sensitive to attitude and to prices, and I didn't like what I saw.
Update: it's going to re-open in jun2023:
https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/39481-the-prince-reopening/
Babylon being demolished (would still be time to get souvenirs, but security guard).
Fri9dec2022 Bangkok
Online dating no success (cute Cambodian not free, other boy fishes for dinner invitation at his place, a bordercase is money boy).
Sat10dec2022 Bangkok to Sakaew
Make up my mind about visa run, Bangkok-Sakaew-Poipet-Siem Reap. My friend Bank is in Sakaew and is available, however he needs 100 for petrol in advance to come to meet. In this case, I will send money online (previous encounters he came by mocy, and he is reliable).
40 ticket to Sakaew. This is a local train, can't sell out (no seat numbers, at Hua Lampong I get a seat but passengers from Phaya Thai have to stand) and no long queues because tickets can be bought at a machine (operated by railway staff).
Bank comes to my room and we have a great time. 500 well deserved. And another positive note: mobile phone addiction is reversible! Years ago it was a problem, during foreplay I would have to pry the phone out of his hands, and after cum he would immediately be back on phone, but not any more during recent encounters.
Satang from hornet comes to my hotel. Cold hands and feet from car aircon, then gets better. Average activities and body. No repeat.
Sun11dec2022 Sakaew to Poipet
Continue in Diary Dec2022 Cambodia.
Summary Nov2022
16 Free sex: Sara, April 200, Top 300, Kan NP, KoKo, Eager 100, Manila, MaxTP, Oh2013, Cosin, April 1200, Top 300, Chat, LPK, Gift, Satang Sakaew.
10 Paid sex: AmpYaso 1000, Zee 600, Wan KK massage 700, Deer HH 1000, Suphat101 1000, TaTP 500, Suphat101 1000, Boy49 1000, Nine 1500, Bank Sakaew 600 = 8900.
3 No sex: Koko, Kan, Green.
1 Boy cancels: Suphat101.
3 Missed: AniMo, White HH, boy in NP.
2 No show: First NP, Oil NP.
19 Repeat: Sara, April, Top, AmpYaso, Zee, Deer HH, Kan NP, KoKo, Suphat101, TaTP, Cosin, Suphat101, April, Top, Boy49, Nine, Chat, Gift, Bank Sakaew.
7 No repeat: Wan KK massage, Eager, Manila, MaxTP, Oh2013, LPK, Satang Sakaew.
15 Old: Sara, April, Top, AmpYaso, Zee, TaTP, Oh2013, Cosin, Suphat101, April, Top, Boy49, Nine, Chat, Bank Sakaew.
11 New: Wan KK massage, Deer HH, Kan NP, KoKo, Suphat101, Eager, Manila, MaxTP, LPK, Gift, Satang Sakaew.
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