Sunday, 30 May 2021

Cambodia general observations

Cambodia general observations

My previous trips to Cambodia were up to one week, but now I have been staying over 6 months and some points that are irrelevant for one week become important. See here as well: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2017/06/cambodia-general-observations-jun-2017.html

Convenience Stores
There are various convenience store chains, and the first 7-Eleven 

will open soon.
https://www.khmertimeskh.com/50851317/phnom-penhs-first-7-eleven-advertises-job-vacancies/ May 5, 2021
https://www.khmertimeskh.com/50863230/cambodias-first-7-eleven-opening-next-month/ May 27, 2021

But of
all the convenience stores I checked, none has microwavable food and a microwave. This comes in very handy in Thailand a few times every year that you can have a decent meal any time. But during lockdown in Cambodia I would have used this several times in a month!

Cost of living
In my case cost of living is a bit more expensive than Thailand (estimate, no exact numbers), but many others say life is cheaper in Cambodia.

If you look at the shelves in shops or branded goods anywhere, most is imported from Thailand or Vietnam (judged by Thai or Vietnamese script, and some stuff I recognize from Thailand). That means this stuff is more expensive in Cambodia than in Thailand or Vietnam, at the same time Cambodia being poorer.

It seems only the following are produced locally: agriculture and forestry, some mining, bricks, and children (of all ages, in large numbers, everywhere).

Dust
Even in central Phnom Penh, there is dust everywhere (same for Vientiane). In markets, merchandise that has been lying for a day has dust on it. Businesses have to dust their tables and merchandise daily.

In the countryside along the roads, plants are covered in rust-colored dust.

Food
Khmer street food is more expensive and less tasty than Thai food. This is a general judgment by everyone I talked to. For a rant about bone splinters, see link in first paragraph.

As a small upside: the pumpkin seed I bought here are tastier than those I had in Thailand.

Not relevant for me, but can be important for others: the choice of wine is larger and prices are cheaper, and you can get a glass of beer during happy hour from 0.50 USD.

Grab and Passapp
I use grab in Phnom Penh, my local friends use passapp. With passapp you can call a tuktuk without giving a destination, and the price will be calculated based on distance just like a taximeter. That’s what one Khmer friend told me. However I and a German friend have been quoted travel costs by boys and girls that are about twice of what I would pay by grab. Did they use passapp just to call the tuktuk and then negotiate a fare that is higher than by meter?

When calling a tuktuk by grab, I pay about the same as for a taxi in Bangkok, but it’s less safe and comfortable.

Infrastructure
Public transport, electricity, mobile phone network. You could say the infrastructure of Cambodia is the infrastructure of a Thai province stretched over a country. There are power outages of (combined, average) 1 hour per month. Poor or no mobile signal in the countryside.

Mobile phone operators
Mobile network less dense than in Thailand. Costs similar. All the following observations for prepaid SIM-cards. I have a plan with which I can do all my calling (insignificant) and mobile data (estimated 10 GB per month) for 5 USD per month.

Keeping SIM-cards active during absence is much more difficult and/or expensive than in Thailand. I got a SIM from “smart” which allows to extend validity by 90 days for 2 USD (have yet to try, and see if you can repeat this process).

A Farang friend is abroad and has to top-up his “cellcard” SIM-card to keep his number active for his return and has amassed 100 USD balance, just to keep his SIM-card active!

That money is more or less lost. In my case, I spend 5 USD/month on data plan and get 30 days validity. I had a look at various local friends’ balance/validity, and they all were in the range of 1 USD balance and 1 week validity. That means my Farang friend will be pushing those 100 USD balance ahead of him with no useful way to spend it.

Thailand wins hands down! I had amassed 1 year validity on my SIM-cards (AIS and true) from normal use, and only after that year out of Thailand I had to ask friends still in Thailand to top-up to keep my cards valid, and when I’m back I will be able to use that money.

Similar Myanmar, my SIM-card was valid for one year, but because it might be longer until I can return to Myanmar, I let it expire.

Money exchange
USD widely accepted, in tourist areas prices are displayed mostly in USD. A great advantage for US-American, and I like this system as well. At the time of writing, 1 USD = 4000 or 4100 KHR rounded in retail, 1 USD = 4070 KHR at bank, 1 EUR = 1.20 USD.

Before Covid, money exchangers had very competitive rates (spread about 1%), but now due to low volume higher spread (5%).

When I sent money to a friend in Cambodia via Transferwise (now just Wise), there were high fees (about 50 EUR fees for a transfer of 500 EUR) by other intermediaries. Not Wise’s fault, but makes sending money by them highly uneconomical. Details here: https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?21466-How-to-send-money-to-Cambodia
 
Banks alphabetical, maximum withdrawal amount, fee, notes.
ABA max 500 USD, fee 6 USD.
BRED (max 1000 USD?), fee 4 USD.
Canadia Bank max 500 USD, fee 5 USD (info from friend).
Sacombank (max 1000 USD?), fee 1.5% or max 4 USD shown on 
screen, but in reality fee 5 USD.
See here as well: https://www.movetocambodia.com/practicalities/free-phnom-penh-atms/

My credit card has a daily limit of 1000 EUR, but when I tried to get 1000 USD there were error messages. I worked down 900, 800 error messages, but finally got 700 USD. Asked my bank: the daily limit is 1000 EUR, but there is a limit of 600 EUR per transaction.

So now I have it optimized to withdrawing 700 USD at BRED with a fee of 4 USD.

No change
Sometimes when I purchase something at the market and pay with a banknote (the smallest denomination above the price of the goods), the seller has to rummage through his bags and pockets to search for change, or even has to ask his neighbor to change the note into smaller.

Similar for tuktuk. I had four trips that cost about 16 kKHR (4 USD) and paid with a 20 kKHR note (5 USD). In two cases, the driver did not have change! Just an attempt to get the difference as tip?

People
Several foreigners I met here used to live or work in Thailand, but moved here because they find Khmer are nicer than Thai. In general I didn’t notice a difference*, but gay boys in Cambodia are much nicer than gay boys in Thailand. Subject for a separate post.

*However I spend most travel in Thailand away from touristy areas, whereas in Cambodia I stay and deal in touristy areas. So my comparison is Thais with little contact to foreigners to Khmer with much contact to foreigners.

Poverty
In Thailand I saw only adult individuals, often not sound of mind, living on the streets. But in Cambodia (and same in Brazil) entire families, mostly working for garbage recycling. I haven’t seen children scavenging through garbage in Thailand, but in Cambodia.

Public transport
Public transport and walking are my main modes to get around. Therefore, public transport is an important issue for me (but not at all for friends with mocy), and poor public transport in Chiang Mai and Phuket is the reason why I rarely visit these places in Thailand.

In Mar2020 I had the chance to ride the newly introduced bus service in Phnom Penh (1500 Riel per ride, air-conditioned buses, all fine). But due to Corona, the bus service was stopped and not resumed again (I suspect economic reasons, there were only few passengers every time I rode the bus). That means Phnom Penh is again without public transport.

Public transport by bus or van travel between provinces was just sufficient for my needs before the lockdown and curfew (Mar2021), but now (May2021) even after lockdown is lifted, there is not enough demand to get to previous density and travel is more expensive and cumbersome and inconvenient than before.

At least the train is running, at a very limited schedule (only Fri-Sat-Sun-Mon, only Phnom Penh to Sihanoukville).

Renting a room
I have spent all my time here in hotels based on the following calculation: I pay 300 USD/month on hotels. If I were renting a room, that would be 200 USD/month, but I would be away for 10 days and spend 100 USD on hotels for these 10 days, making 300 USD/month. But with a hotel I have full flexibility (I can go to Germany or Thailand any day without losing money because I signed a multiple-month contract) and don’t need to take care of laundry, electricity and water bills.

But out of curiosity I joined a friend in his quest to rent a room and can say that the offer is a bit below the standard I know from Bangkok.

The highlights of our quest for a room for him were the following. An apartment of about 50 square meter, spread over two floors. The bedroom on upper level had the ceiling so low that it touched my head:


And the place we went to next had a very high ceiling (and a kind of mezzanine elsewhere in the room to use part of that space):


These two, and some others we saw, were as if a children’s drawing had been scaled up and built!

Syringes in hotels
Three times I discovered used syringes in hotel rooms. Let’s say 3 rooms out of 15. Such thing never happened elsewhere. One case was just looking at the room, poor housekeeping! The other cases I stayed in the room. The first two cases I dismissed without much thought, but the third case it occurred to me that the syringe might be places to extort money from the guest.

However a friend who has been in Cambodia long time assured me that it wouldn’t work this way in Cambodia; if there is nothing found in my blood or pee, they can’t charge me.

Tourism
The longer I stay here, the more interesting places pop up (temples, mountains, rocks, waterfalls). I have entertainment for the rest of the year. The only problem is getting there with limited public transport and not speaking the language. Extrapolating, I could entertain myself with travel for two years. Not enough to settle permanently and learn the language.

Tuktuk and mocy
It seems every tuktuk or mocy driver in PNH thinks every foreigner is looking for a ride. Can’t walk 100 m without a honk from a passing or an offer from one standing or driving past.

Visa
Several foreigners who work here told me that business/work visa is much easier in Thailand.

And indeed in my case a business visa for Cambodia was quite easy to get (depends on embassy, some are strict) with the mere intention to look for business or investment in Cambodia; whereas for Thailand you would need a concrete job offer or investment. Now I have been here for over 6 months, no visa runs and no 90-day-reportings!

Summary
For me, many things I need are a bit more expensive than in Thailand, at the same time less tasty/convenient/comfortable. There is still a lot of development to be done until Cambodia can match up to Thailand, or even Vietnam or Myanmar when it comes to public transport. But 4 friends prefer Cambodia over Thailand for various reasons and moved here.

Copyright 2021 ChristianPFC

Thursday, 20 May 2021

Funny News

Funny News

Funny news from around the world (first part) and from Cambodia (second part). Quotes in italic, comments in normal.

Used condoms cleaned and resold in southern Vietnam
https://ampe.vnexpress.net/news/news/used-condoms-cleaned-and-resold-in-southern-vietnam-4165805.html
Market authorities in Binh Duong Province have seized 324,000 used condoms that were about to be cleaned and resold in the market. ... Besides the used condoms weighing 360 kilos in total, inspectors also found thousands of condoms that had been packed and readied for sale, without brand names. ... Ngoc said around once a month, "somebody" delivered thousands of used condoms to her. ... Her job was to clean, dry and sort the condoms before making them look fresh again for new customers. ... More details about the illegal operation were not released. Authorities are investigating the case further.

That raises the question: where do you get 360 kg of used condoms? Do they have a side business as a sperm bank?

Preußenkönig zelebrierte Homoerotik Frauen ekelten ihn an: So exzessiv lebte Friedrich der Große seine Homosexualität aus
https://www.focus.de/wissen/mensch/geschichte/friedrich-der-grosse-so-lebte-der-preussenkoenig-seine-homosexualitaet-aus_id_10510563.html
„...unter denen es wohl stets einige hübsche junge Männer gab. Wenn er einen Pagen habe vernaschen wollen, so wurde am Hofe nach dem (sic!) Worten der Historikerin Eva Ziebura kolportiert, habe er im Vorbeigehen ein Taschentuch fallen lassen.“


Frederic the Great (Prussian king) was gay. Translation (google translate, edited by ChristianPFC):
“... among whom there were always some handsome young men. When he wanted to (lay/have it off with/do it with/make it with) a (page/squire), it was rumored at court, according to the words of the historian Eva Ziebura, he dropped a handkerchief in passing."

Japanese man arrested after ‘dating more than 35 women at once to get birthday gifts’; 26apr2021
https://www.independent.co.uk/asia/east-asia/japan-man-dating-women-gifts-b1836986.html
One woman told MBS News that he kissed her on the second date. She added: “I told him, ‘I don’t want to do that unless [you] are someone who wants to get married and really be with me in the future.’ He responded, ‘I’m serious. I’m going to be with you for the rest of my life.'”

Kissing on second date! How daring!

The world’s worst cruise? Sailing from Singapore to Thailand 
complete with monkey attacks, sexism and even a punch-up;
17 Apr, 2021

https://www.scmp.com/magazines/post-magazine/travel/article/3129377/worlds-worst-cruise-sailing-singapore-thailand
I read it out loud to Gavin. “A ship is called a ‘she’ because there is always a great deal of bustle around her; there is usually a gang of men about; she has a waist and straps; it takes a lot of paint to keep her good looking. It is not the initial expense that breaks you, it is the upkeep.” Incredulous, I carried on: “It takes an experienced man to handle her correctly, and without a man at the helm, she is absolutely uncontrollable.” By the time I got to the end I was incensed and seethed to Gavin that, “Maybe a ship is called a ‘she’ because if you treat her badly she will smash you on the rocks.”

New Cambodian Covid-19 outbreak puts Vietnam at high risk, so they allege; April 14, 2021
https://www.khmertimeskh.com/50838664/new-cambodian-covid-19-outbreak-puts-vietnam-at-high-risk-so-they-allege/
Last December, a man had tested positive after entering Vietnam illegally. He traveled from Myanmar to Thailand by truck and then got into Cambodia on another truck before sneaking into the south of the country. Fortunately, his mother reported him and thanks to her, the infection chain was stopped just in time. Three of the eight people crossing the border with him were also infected.

He crossed three international borders illegally, made it home and was reported by his mother!

'World's Dirtiest Man': Amou Haji Is An 87-Year-Old Man Who Hasn't Bathed In 67 Years; Jan 20, 2021
https://www.indiatimes.com/trending/human-interest/world-dirtiest-man-amou-haji-532432.html
Amou Haji is an 87-year-old man and he hasn't taken a bath in 67 years. He resides in Dejgah which is a village in the Kermanshah province of Iran. He also looks like the Biblical Moses who fell down a chimney. ... He is always covered in ash and dirt. He hasn't taken a bath for nearly seven decades because he is scared of water. He is of the belief that if he will bathe, he will fall ill. ... What is even more unusual is that his diet consists of rotten meat of dead animals, especially porcupines. He also enjoys smoking but it is not tobacco he prefers. He likes to smoke animal feces out of a rusty pipe.

Funny News from Cambodia, all from Cambodia News English
News From Cambodia You Might Understand, with their web-address aptly named https://cne.wtf (wtf = what the fuck? here as an exclamation of amazement).

Thief In Wheelchair Detained Again In Battambang; May 10, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/05/10/thief-in-wheelchair-detained-again-in-battambang/
…said that the two men were active and skilled, even though one was a wheelchair user- and were active in stealing car batteries and other items from parked cars. They have both been arrested many times. However, the wheelchair user was granted a waiver due to his disability, and in the past, the authorities only provided educational guidance.

Being disabled is no hindrance for becoming a thief!

Crazed Man Hogtied After Attacking Mailbox; May 8, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/05/08/crazed-man-hogtied-after-attacking-mailbox/
Phnom Penh: A man, suspected of being a drug addict, screamed in front of the Ministry of Culture and Fine Arts. He used iron rods to smash mailboxes and beat people until the police at the scene intervened to stop him.



Highlander Hits Divider Dead Center May 3, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/05/03/highlander-hits-divider-dead-center/ 



Hitting dividers or roundabouts seems to be a national pastime, rarely a week passes without such an incident being reported. This one is noticeable for taking perfect aim.

Prize Fight! Ganzberg Beer Win Leads To Bitter Dispute; April 1, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/04/01/prize-fight-ganzberg-beer-win-leads-to-bitter-dispute/
Phnom Penh: A very surprising and outrageous story has come out after a sad man decided to file a lawsuit against his drinking buddy who took a winning ring pull and “big prize” from Ganzberg during a booze session. … During the session, Sim Son cracked a can of beer and suddenly shouted, “It’s a big prize !!” He had won a Ford car. He then offered the friendly buyer of the booze $1000, as a thank you. This did not sit well with the hosts. Sim Son then escaped with the winning prize pull and can. His friend has tried to call him, but Sim Son will not pick up the phone. ...

Leech Removed From Man’s Urethra; June 23, 2020
https://cne.wtf/2020/06/23/leech-removed-fro-mans-urethra/
Phnom Penh: According to a Facebook post by Calmette Hospital, a rare case of a leech was found in a man’s urinary tract after urinating in a pond. ... The hospital wrote: It was a rare case of an older man who suffered severe pain and persistent bleeding. After arriving at the hospital and having asked him what happened, it was found he took went for a bathe in a pond on the outskirts of Phnom Penh. A leech was found to have entered into his outer urethra. ... The doctor used a cystoscopie to look at and perform the procedure to remove the leech. The patient was well, his pain was gone, and he returned home the next day.

New Car Gets Sunk In Driving Lesson; March 25, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/03/25/new-car-gets-sunk-in-driving-lesson/

Kandal Province: An unnamed person had just bought a new car, but did not go to driving school properly. While learning the ropes, the vehicle ended up in a pond (somehow). … Although tragic for the motor, there were no reports of injuries. 


Man Bites Off Wife’s Ear, Wife Bites His Penis; June 2, 2019
https://cne.wtf/2019/06/02/man-bites-off-wifes-ear-wife-bites-his-penis/

Siem Reap: On June 1, 2019, at 8:40 am, a domestic violence incident took place in the village of Phnom Touch, Kralanh district, Siem Reap province. ... The wife, Chum Voeung, 40, called her husband, Ly Leap, 38, who was sleeping on a bed under the house to eat, but her husband refused to rise up. ... An argument turned to violence, as the man bit off his wife’s right ear. The wife then bit her husband’s penis, causing (* something to do with his testicle that can’t translate, but doesn’t sound pleasant). ... Ly Leap and Chou Voeung were taken to a Krekor hospital for treatment. ... Neither wished to press charges against the other. It is reported the couple had been drinking heavily before the incident. Source: Facebook


Damage After Concrete Croc Blocks Truck; March 18, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/03/18/damage-after-concrete-croc-blocks-truck/

The source added that after causing the accident, the driver fled,
leaving the truck behind.


Headline sounds like it was the crocodile statue's fault. Fleeing the scene, even if leaving behind evidence that allows identification of the driver, seems to be a common reaction when causing an accident. See following article:

Kampot Hit & Runner Leaves Bumper Behind; March 3, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/03/03/kampot-hit-runner-leaves-bumper-behind/
A white car with license plate Phnom Penh 2AP-3931, heading from south to north to the scene, hit a motorbike that was driving in front. After the collision, the car fled, leaving the parts and license plate at the scene.

Bus Driver Beats 3 Passengers In Row Over 15,000 Riel Note; September 27, 2020
https://cne.wtf/2020/09/27/bus-driver-beats-3-passengers-in-row-over-15000-riel-note/
Kampong Chhnang Province: Three male passengers were beaten over the head by a bus driver, causing injuries after the bus driver did not accept 15,000 riel banknotes.

There are indeed notes with a value of 15,000 Riel, but they were a commemorative issue and therefore rare.

Old Man Slingshots Wife In Eye; May 26, 2020
https://cne.wtf/2020/05/26/old-man-slingshots-wife-in-eye/
Banteay Meanchey: An elderly man was arrested by police after getting drunken and arguing with his wife, then shooting her in the eye with a slingshot, causing serious injuries.

Massage Shop Locks Up After Van Sellers Lose $5000; December 2, 2020
https://cne.wtf/2020/12/02/massage-shop-locks-up-after-van-sellers-lose-5000/
Phnom Penh: Three men sold a 3 ton van, got the money and went for a massage. Later they checked the bag, and found they had lost $5,000 and found $600 ‘ghost’ money. ... They also went to the massage, and took off their clothes and hung them up, but they could not get a good massage. The three of them were frightened by shouting outside, and when they got out of the massage parlor, they hurriedly called a tricycle tuk tuk to Veng Sreng Road to find a guesthouse to sleep. ... When they checked the bag with the cash inside, they found they had lost $5,000, with $ 600 of ghost dollars placed in the bag and $5,500 remaining inside.

“Ghost Money” is money to be presented to gods or your ancestors, mostly 100 USD notes that look deceptively real. They have a "Copy" (and Khmer script, probably "Copy" in Khmer) on them.

Lady Of The Night Takes Payment Upfront, Steals Phone; March 3, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/03/03/lady-of-the-night-takes-payment-upfront-steals-phone/
According to preliminary sources, the victim took the lady of the night to the room to eat noodles, baby duck eggs and fruit smoothies and even paid her a $ 15 fee. After taking a shower, the wayward woman tricked him into going to buy a condom, took the opportunity to steal his phone and disappeared into the night.

Nothing new here, never pay sex workers upfront.

11 Chinese Caught Disguised As Seafood In Kampot; April 20, 2021
https://cne.wtf/2021/04/20/11-chinese-caught-disguised-as-seafood-in-kampot/
Kampot: On April 20, 2021, 11 Chinese nationals who intended to travel through Kampot province to Phnom Penh were caught hiding in a minivan to confuse the authorities. ... they were traveling from Sihanoukville and on their way to Phnom Penh, hiding under Styrofoam boxes to disguise themselves as seafood.

When I read "disguised as seafood" I had the mental image of the Chinese going to a costume party in fish/shrimp/crab/squid costumes.

ChristianPFC 2021 no copyright claimed

Monday, 10 May 2021

Gay activities Mar2021

Gay activities Mar2021
I’m keeping the high level of Dec-Feb, despite beginning limitations of public life due to Covid outbreak in Phnom Penh on 20 February, and boys being afraid of going out to meet me. Some boys in Phnom Penh I see every week, the closest I ever got to having a boyfriend.

Mon1mar2021 Siem Reap to Kampong Thom
Bus from Siem Reap to Kampong Thom for sightseeing and to meet a boy Ratha. Stay in Arunras Hotel. According to Lonely Planet 2014, Arunras Hotel had the only lift in town then. That provides a new pick-up line: Do you want to come with me? My hotel has a lift!

During my exploratory walk through town in the evening, by chance Ratha passes on mocy, recognizes and messages me, and we meet there. Not cute and shaved facial hair, neither of us messaged the other afterwards.

On the way to my hotel after sunset, on an unlit dust road at the fringes of town, I spot spot several CRT TV in homes. (Cathode-ray tube Television, so some are still around and running!)

Online dating, 12th profile (because 12 profiles fit on screen of my mobile phone) is in distance 1 km blued, 31 km grindr, 76 km romeo, 122 km hornet.

Tue2mar2021 Kampong Thom
Meet DaraKThom at market 9:20, he stays on mocy, we have a short chat and he will come back at 11. Good English, face soso. Message him 11:00, finally knock on door 11:30. To bed, body soso. He gets hard slowly, I stay soft. Some nipple play, little kissing, sucks me but I don’t suck him (pubes too long, dick too short; I would have his pubic hair in my nostrils). Lays tissue on his abdomen, I suck his nipple and part of his cum goes on my hair and forehead. DaraKThom out 12:32. No repeat. Afterwards messages me he is
money boy. How odd!

Fri5mar2021 Phnom Penh
Bar hopping with a German friend V. First closures and limitations due to 20 February Covid outbreak. Blue Chili and Toolbox open, but Heart of Darkness closed. V wanted to go to Town Entertainment Club, but we can’t reach them by phone, and in Golden Sorya Mall (not a shopping center, but an entertainment complex in street 51) most places closed and others few customer, abort. Go to “Vietnamese friendship Army monument” instead, busy, cute boys and girls. A group of gay boys, but no cute among them, make indecent gestures to me.

In parallel (or rather: V’s visit was on short notice, Dara110 was first), I had set up an unspecified date with Dara110 in the evening. Being busy with V, I didn’t follow up on that was glad that Dara110 didn’t message me either. But now, just before going to bed, a message from him: he did not forget me, but waited for my message, and I waited for his message!

Sun7mar2021 Phnom Penh
Dara110 comes to my hotel and we have a good time. He will go to Siem Reap with rented taxi 50 USD one way (friend pays) for up to 4 passengers. That is quite cheap and I will keep this in mind for future travel (sightseeing along the way, that would be impossible by bus).

Mon8mar2021 Phnom Penh
Jane comes in the afternoon and we have a good time in bed. Afterwards, I get up to read and study, whereas he stays in bed sleeping or dozing. I ask him why he spends so much time in bed: because he has nothing to do! That’s another reason (beside being too emotional) why I don’t want to spend too much time with him (basically, just sex and fringe activities; I wouldn’t take him on a trip or let him stay with me longer than over night). To get him to do something useful, I show him that he can study English on youtube, and it seems to have caught on.

Tue9mar2021 Phnom Penh
Jane’s alarm 8, bye 9.

Wed10mar2021 Phnom Penh
SakSela cancels 17:03 (my last message was 12:42).

Chat with KenVN (Vietnamese, we chatted many times before, no English, works 400 m and lives 4 km from my room, never managed to get him after work) and set a date for 20:30.

Finally arrives 21:00, I go to road to pay for tuktuk. To my room. I take shower, he writes “no sex” on blued, then “Why do you take your pants off?” I reply: “Why do you keep your pants on?” Plays on his phone. Cute, warm dry skin, can feel through clothes. Show him pictures form my last trip to Vietnam, then let him scroll through all my pictures in camera (several show me with boys), then through all pictures on my camera (he likes the 7-11 tattoo boy and the Myanmese completely black tattoo), and spots screenshots I took of his profile. Can speak and write Chinese, input by drawing on touch
screen (i.e. he can handwrite Chinese).
 


Slowly warms up (or more horny or curious than hesitant – not shy, lights on), shirt up so I can suck his nipples which makes him groan. Can feel his cock hard (when I touched his crotch at the start, disapproval), take off trousers, suck him. Average cock, pubes stretching to abdomen, but no hair on balls and ass. Suck his cock, balls, rim him. Some kisses, he wants me to cum but I can’t get fully hard. I lie on my back and he sits and wanks us both and cums on me. Then quickly back to play on phone. Some awkward positions (i.e. I couldn’t get him in position I wanted) and too much phone and communication difficulties, but nice body, interesting character. An interesting and inspiring encounter, meet again! Give him 10k for tuktuk, bye 22:46 in my room.

Thu11mar2021 Phnom Penh
SakSela cancels 18:17 (appointment was for 18, still file as cancel).

Dinner in restaurant, Ahly and Somey come to meet me there. Ahly speaks better English, so most chat with Ahly. Ahly cute, Somey even cuter. After dinner to my room, chat and some awkward pauses. I’m wondering if they are looking for a threesome, or if they ever had something with each other, but then bye and go home (both together) 21:47. Potential for more next time!

Fri12mar2021 Phnom Penh
Donald cancels, sick from vaccination yesterday.

Some weeks ago, a ladyboy Mana messaged me on online dating and then approached me on riverside (I didn’t recognize her from online dating because she is not my type). Today I cave in to her multiple invitations for massage at her place. Mostly out of curiosity about her living conditions, certainly not for sex and I told her so.

Her room is about 3 m x 3 m with a corner about 1 m x 1 m lost for bathroom outside, rent 60 USD/month. Fan (standing on floor), clothes hanging rack, shelf for shrine and storage of kitchenware, mattress on floor. Massage okay (back and head good), chat, some indecent touches. She is 43 years old (born 25 years too early for me), hard from start average size. Hints at money problems, so I give her 5 USD. Show her pictures of boys I like on my phone.

Even without sex, that sent a wrong message. Now she thinks she can message me every time she is bored or horny or needs money, which is about every hour. Some days, I had over 30 unread messages from her on various apps.

Update 23apr2021: I went again for massage, no sex, and that finally got her to stop messaging me every day, nay multiple times per day.

Jamie comes to my room and we have a good time.

Sun14mar2021 Phnom Penh

Top Sakaew added me on Line, now works “dek drink” in Pattaya. He made some effort (what exactly?) to contact me again. Years ago, I lost all contact and made some effort to contact him again. Namely messaging various of his friends on facebook asking about his whereabouts, and one of them turned out to be his girlfriend and she told me he is in prison for drugs for a year.

“dek drink” (“dek” is “child” in Thai, drink is English for beverage), i.e. staff in entertainment venues whose main job is to entertain customers while consuming alcoholic drinks. Upon probing deeper, I found he is a gogo boy in
Boyztown.

Unfortunately
I no longer feel horny with him; I collected that information to mentally prepare for or even avoid meeting him.

Mon15mar2021 Phnom Penh
Somey asks for 20 USD for touching and fucking, I agree. Doesn’t say when he will arrive, then asks if he can bring a friend. Somey and Ahly in my room, I take shower. Ahly waits in bathroom (i.e. locks himself in when I hint that I would rather he wait outside; and then comes out quietly and peeks around the corner to see how far I have gotten with Somey). I ask Somey for a back massage, does it okay. Somey a bit shy to take off his clothes. Slim body, skin temperature okay. Nice big balls , cock average soft throughout. No hair on balls and ass. Finger him but don’t try to kiss or ask him to suck me. Activities soso, only does what I ask him. I cum by assisted wanking. Refuse Ahly’s request for money, tell him I didn’t invite him. Touch his abdomen and let him touch my penis. He can’t do more because he has a boyfriend. Shows me pictures, boyfriend looks okay. 20 USD Somey bye 15:51 in my room. A loss of control (Ahly locking himself in my bathroom) and a waste of money (Somey). But both are cute, give them another chance.

Tue16mar2021 Phnom Penh
Donald cannot come to my room (afraid of Covid), but I can come to his room, and so I do. His room has aircon, but their bathroom is very basic. But when I take a shower in my room and then tuktuk to his room, everything is fine. We watch a movie on his tablet and have some fun. Dinner together, then bye.

Golden Sorya Mall some bars and restaurants open (low light), about 20 customers combined. Heart of Darkness, Toolbox, Blue Chili closed.

Wed17mar2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with Hea_Nak, some pictures look cute, others not, and in video chat he looks soso. And he wants to bring his friend and wants money 50 USD, bye.

Dinner with SakSela (finally, after two cancellations). I invited him to my room, but he cannot come now, bye on road.

Thu18mar2021 Phnom Penh
KenVN comes by tuktuk, I pay 8k to driver. To my room, plays on phone, then sends message to me asking for 50 USD, I offer 10. To cut it short (and as a character test), I hand him 10 USD, but he refuses to take it, I put it on table under remote control. After about half an hour (we both are lying in bed, he is playing on his mobile phone, so I do the same), he starts sex. But I have to do all the work (nipple play, sucking dick and balls, rimming, try to finger but he rejects, hint at fucking but he rejects). Keeps shirt on, lifted up. At the end wanking. Then a phone call and hasty departure, he didn’t take the 10 USD on table, and I had no time to give him money for tuktuk. That shows that money was not the main thing on his mind.


I cannot give/lend someone I have met twice 50 USD, at least not for such a poor performance in bed! Sex a one-way road; before, during and after I’m an attachment like the male  Anglerfish, picture see here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triplewart_seadevil#Reproduction.

Fri19mar2021 Phnom Penh
BigDick can meet 12, asks for money, I offer 10 USD, he agrees. Delays in communication, finally 18:33 he cancelled for Covid. Filed as no-show.

Sat20mar2021 Phnom Penh
Girl story from V: 10 pm, she asked him for money for food, he sent her 5 USD. But minimum withdrawal amount from ATM is 10 USD, so he sent her 5 USD more. She spent 7 USD for tuktuk to ATM and market and 3 USD on dinner. Next morning 10 am, she asks him for money again.

Sun21mar2021 Phnom Penh
Narin comes to my room. No English, use google translate, a bit awkward. Plays on his phone, so do I until he starts touching me. Everything average (body, face, skin color, cock and balls, activities), no repeat. 20k to Narin for tuktuk return trip.

Phirun arrives 21:11. Park mocy inside. In my room, plays on phone, I study on computer. Then join him in bed, but he wants to take shower first. Nice haircut, brown skin, but a bit on fat side and excessive pubic hair and crab ladder. Enjoys me kissing his neck and we have a good time, stays over night.

Mon22mar2021 Phnom Penh
In the morning perfect warm and dry skin, another round.

Song_Wan no show, not read (date 18:00, last online about 17).

Tue23mar2021 Phnom Penh
Pich_Chantha is looking for boyfriend or money, wants 50 USD, I offer 10. Read but no reply. That might seem low, but if he has a sexual interest in me he would jump at this offer. After paying Somey 20 USD for lying in my bed like a bag of rice, I rather start with offering 10 USD, and those worth more get more.

The situation is asymmetric to my disadvantage: the boy knows how much he will get, but I don’t know what I will get.

Jane messages me: is in Long Live Hotel in quarantine (someone at his workplace – now closed anyway – tested positive?), asks me to buy him food and fruit juice. I bring him the requested goods. He waits at reception, I put the stuff on a table, security sprays it with disinfectant, Jane picks it up. I came up with the idea of giving him 20 USD in an envelope in addition to the foodstuff. That has two purposes: now that he has some money, I hope someone else can do the shopping for him, and as a character test. He passed the character test: didn’t ask for more food delivery or more money.

Wed24mar2021 Phnom Penh
Go to Donald’s place for movie on his tablet, fun, another movie. Dinner together, then bye.

Thu25mar2021 Phnom Penh
Boy from Taiwan on hornet suddenly offline while setting up a date. Filed as canceled.

Sun28mar2021 Phnom Penh
Leng (first encounter 21jan2021) at coffee shop 16:25. To my room, to bed. Kissing too much, too wet. Nice hairless balls and ass. Sixpack and chest fine. Small dick about 4 inch, hard most of the time. Suck each other and finger him. My penis and pubes wet from his saliva. Nice warm dry skin. 20 USD for Leng bye 17:18 in my room.

Mon29mar2021 Phnom Penh
Dara110 comes to my hotel and we have a good time.

Tue30mar2021 Phnom Penh
Alex arrives 20:04, meet on 3rd floor (he is coming up to my room, I was going down to meet him). To my room, I take shower. He is in bed shirtless, shorts, no underwear, hairy lower legs. Some hugs, he takes shower. Small talk, indecent touching. He wet with precum, I don’t get hard (too hairy!). I ask him for back massage, first refuses saying he can’t do, then okay massage. Hugging, fall asleep, wake up, bye 22:16 in my room.

Wed31mar2021 Phnom Penh
Meet V at his place and we have a walk along lady massage shops on street 271. We passed more than 10, all with price 10k displayed. Ask one: extra costs 25 USD, ask two more, each quote 10 USD. No shower, no aircon in the rooms.

Summary Mar2021 Phnom Penh
12 Free sex: DaraKThom, Dara110, Jane, KenVN (5 USD), Jamie, Donald, KenVN (5 USD), Narin (5 USD), Phirun, Donald, Dara110, Alex = 15 USD.
2 Paid sex: Somey 20 USD, Leng 20 USD = 40 USD.
5 No sex: Ratha KThom, Ahly and Somey, Mana ladyboy, SakSela, Jane.

No show:
BigDick, Song_Wan.
Canceled by boy: SakSela, SakSela, Donald, Taiwan
boy.
Missed: Dara110.
Negotiate: Hea_Nak 50USD - (no counteroffer), Pich_Chantha 50 USD - 10 USD.

Many cannot meet because afraid of Covid, see separate post: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/03/dating-thai-boys-86-covid-thwarts-my.html

11 Repeat: Dara110, Jane, KenVN, Jamie, Somey, Donald, KenVN, Phirun, Donald, Leng, Dara110.
3 No repeat: DaraKThom, Narin, Alex.

10 Old: Dara110, Jane, Jamie, Donald, KenVN, Phirun, Donald, Leng, Dara110, Alex.
4 New: DaraKThom, KenVN, Somey, Narin.

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