Monday, 30 December 2019

Changing Cityscape of Bangkok (2) Gay venues

Changing Cityscape of Bangkok (2) Gay venues

Gay venues and places of general interest near gay venues.

The cityscape of Bangkok in the 2010's changes as quickly as that of London in 1940. Demolition and construction everywhere. I guess in Bangkok alone there is more construction than in entire Germany.


Soi Twilight venues moved to Patpong in spring and buildings are currently being demolished. Current (pic13dec2019) status from Surawong road:



I posted about this before https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2019/04/quiz-where-were-these-pictures-taken.html and will make another post once everything is gone.

Sake disco moved from Trok Sake near Khao San to Arun Amarin road near Pata Pinklao. The original venue demolished and at time of posting an empty plot of land.




That was the longest running gay disco in Thailand after DJ station. Sake has been there since a Thai friend first took me in 2010. All others (G-Star, Fake) stayed only a few years in one location and then either moved or closed permanently.

City Walk (gay restaurant and karaoke near Saranrom park) closed in the original location (the building is currently empty) and moved to near new Sake disco (I noticed Sep2019). https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2015/04/city-walk-karaoke-near-royal-palace.html

Vincent guesthouse in Soi Ngam Duplee closed years ago (and the building still empty pic15aug2018) and moved to where Mali restaurant used to be (in front of Pitak court), then continued as restaurant for some years, now gone and a new restaurant in it's place.

Om Yim restaurant in Sathorn gone, now there is a coffee/bakery.

Lido restaurant moved from corner into the soi years ago. Whoever rented the corner was not a good businessman (or a good business man and got rich quickly and retired), there have been several businesses in hat place over the years (pic5nov2017).

The restaurant at the corner Soi Sribampen / Soi Prong Chai used to be called Feeling, then changed name to Luna (pic14dec2017), then ???, now Masala.


Laem Thong cinema in Klong Toey demolished (pics feb2018).
https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/05/special-cinemas-1-laem-tong-in-klong.html

BBB Inn gone. The building is empty and I'm not aware that they moved somewhere else.




Malaysia hotel has been renovated some years ago. The 7-Eleven across has been enlarged this year (Or last year? Things change so quickly, I can't keep track.) to take over the space of the SCB exchange booth.

Ibis hotel got new reception areas this year. Now there is a bar with a pun for my loyal reader vinapu (whose favorite drink is 50% gin with 50% gin): LET THE EVENING BE GIN


And many more smaller changes in that area (Malaysia hotel): the last internet cafe on Soi Sribampen is gone, now there is a public washing saloon. The small shop that used to sell stationery and postcards and stamps is gone (pic11dec2017).
 
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Wednesday, 25 December 2019

Bangkok Christmas trees

Bangkok Christmas trees

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to my readers. 
A selection of Christmas trees in Bangkok:




A veritable Christmas park at Q House Lumpini:




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Friday, 20 December 2019

Changing cityscape of Bangkok (1) General venues

Changing Cityscape of Bangkok (1) General venues

The cityscape of Bangkok in the 2010's changes as quickly as that of Berlin in 1944. Demolition and construction everywhere. I guess in Bangkok alone there is more construction than in entire Germany.

Dusit Thani being demolished is a crime against humanity. At time of posting still standing:



Update: when passing on Tue17dec2019 the iconic golden spire just gone (was still there a few days before).

Police General Hospital was demolished in spring 2019 and the area is now used for parking:


Budget Hilton in Soi Sribampen gone,  that area is now becoming a forest.
https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/09/budget-hilton-sri-bam-pen-is-no-more.html

Even someone living here most of the time cannot follow all developments. I was wondering why one event that used to be held in QSNCC Queen Sirikit National Convention Centre is now in Bitec Bangna, and another in IMPACT, until I passed QSNCC and found it being demolished. Aerial picture from a friend's drone:


Australian embassy in South Sathorn road (pic 20nov2017 from Somerset Suan Phlu) now gone.


Suan Lum Night Bazar was closed in 2010 and Lumpini Boxing Stadium demolished around 2016 (I have pictures), and that area is now a giant construction site for Bangkok One.

(insert picture of empty plot of land before construction started when I find it)

Bhirasri Institute of Modern Art has been closed as long as I can remember (2009), and now (Nov2019) something is going on (corrugated iron wall to road - now you can't see what's going on, before you could the building from the road - , and when the gate was open I could see vegetation was cleared inside).
https://www.daxward.com/The-abandoned-art-gallery/

Horse racing stadium on Pitsanulok road demolished.

The three headed elephant statue at City Pillar Shrine has been gone since 2017. 

To end on a positive note, extensions and new lines of BTS and MRT make some areas easily accessible (but during construction create traffic jams). 

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Sunday, 15 December 2019

Dating Thai boys (76) Rejections

Dating Thai boys (76) Rejections

You will rarely get a rejection in online dating. Which is unfortunate for me, as I prefer a rejection over ignoring or endless chat. 

A message that is not read or read but not answered can mean the person is not interested or is busy. 


If I'm very interested in a boy I will write 3 or 4 or 5 times before giving up. If someone takes the effort to message me several times (with space between the messages), I will reply that/why he is not my type, e.g. here:

https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/05/dating-thai-boys-39-youre-not-slim.html
The first time in my life I have been called old:


The first time a Thai tells me he is not interested in Foreigners:




Very rare to get a negative reply on a rejection:



Better than endless chat like the following. We were looking for different things, and after two years of chatting, with several changes of online dating and line profile, I realized this is going in circles and I have to be more direct:


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Thursday, 5 December 2019

Dating Thai boys (75) Sexual health concerns


Dating Thai boys (75) Sexual health concerns
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One of the rare cases where boys care about sexual health (I have been offered or asked for bareback many times, but sexual health I remember only two cases), and a Thai boy’s ideas of Pattaya.
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Tue, 06/11/2018
Initial contact on hornet, then moved to Line.

Mon, 19/11/2018
Meet in Ladprao for dinner (I had other business there anyway), positive impression of the boy, but one year later we haven’t come any further.

Thu, 21/11/2019

09:41 Christian   Back in Bangkok.



Fri, 22/11/2019
13:35 Christian   Hello

18:02 Ladprao     Hi chris

18:12 Christian   How are you?



Tue, 26/11/2019
09:01 Christian   Good morning



Wed, 27/11/2019
10:39 Ladprao     Morning Chris

10:40 Christian   What do you do today?

10:41 Ladprao     What are you doing today?

10:41 Christian   Clean my room and read newspaper.

10:41 Ladprao     If you want to see me, come find me at Lat Phrao.

10:42 Christian   Where in Ladprao?

10:44 Ladprao     The. Mall Bangkapi

10:44 Ladprao     Ladprao132

10:45 Christian   Your work or your room?

10:45 Ladprao     I'm not working

10:45 Ladprao     I still in my room

10:45 Ladprao     To day

10:46 Christian   You stay with who?

10:46 Ladprao     friend

10:47 Ladprao     You only have sex with me

10:47 Ladprao     [Sticker]

10:47 Christian   I want to see you naked and touch and kiss and lick your body.

10:48 Ladprao     I told you, I am not like a typical gay.

10:49 Christian   What are you looking for with me?

10:49 Christian   Or what do you want to do when we meet?

10:50 Ladprao     I want to have sex with you.

10:50 Ladprao     But

10:51 Ladprao     I think most of the foreigners who come here are not safe.

10:51 Christian   Fucking only with condom.

10:52 Ladprao    I read news that some foreigners came and spread the disease to Thai people.

10:52 Ladprao     So I was scared.

10:53 Ladprao     Because i'm 20 years old And still studying

10:53 Christian   I'm clean. I test regularly.

10:53 Ladprao     Please you understand me

10:54 Christian   Yes. We can start slowly. I like romantic first.

10:55 Ladprao     I don't trust you, i know you go to pattaya

10:55 Ladprao     Because Pattaya has only a service seller

10:56 Ladprao     Most people who go are not

10:57 Ladprao     I know all

10:58 Ladprao      Pattaya has only a prostitute

10:58 Christian   Yes I have been to Pattaya.  To meet Farang friends and look in gogo bar. I like to watch boys in underwear.

11:00 Ladprao     And did you know that Pattaya has prostitution Which most of the staff at that shop are not safe

11:01 Christian   Yes I know there is prostitution in Pattaya. But some boys there are looking for fun with me. Not money.

11:05 Ladprao     You will continue to travel.

And continue to enjoy having sex with people in the app

11:06 Christian   Yes I travel. I  can't stay in Thailand permanently.

11:06 Ladprao     I want to have a German boyfriend

But I would like to think of it more for foreigners

11:06 Christian   When I have a boyfriend sex only with him.

11:07 Ladprao     You can have sex with me, but must wear a condom

11:08 Christian   Yes. Fucking always condom.

11:09 Ladprao     Did you know, earlier this month, I had a blood test In Silom, I see a lot of foreigners checking.

11:09 Ladprao     What do you think about this story?

11:10 Christian   Pulse clinic? I go there as well.

11:11 Ladprao     Thai Red Cross

11:11 Christian   Near Lumpini park. I  know.

11:11 Ladprao     Thai Red Cross

11:11 Ladprao     Yes

11:13 Ladprao     Where can I see your condom?

11:13 Ladprao     [Sticker]

11:13 Christian   Tell me when you come here again. My room is near Lumpini park. I hope we can meet here.

11:14 Ladprao     Have you traveled to the Red Cross in Lumphini Park?

11:15 Christian   Yes. Some years ago I went there for testing.

11:19 Ladprao     I want to watch a movie

11:20 Christian   What movie?

11:45 Christian   http://www.apexsiam-square.com/

11:45 Christian   Most beautiful cinema in Thailand. Do you know?

11:46 Christian   [Photo]

12:49 Ladprao     I think so

12:50 Ladprao     [Photo]

12:50 Ladprao    I'm in IKEA

12:51 Ladprao     [Photo]

12:51 Ladprao     [Photo]

18:46 Ladprao     What you think

19:53 Christian   About what?

20:38 Christian   You buy furniture?

20:49 Ladprao     Yes

… 

This leads nowhere. Let it peter out and try again another day.
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