Gay activities Jan2026 Thailand

Gay activities Jan2026 Thailand
More precisely 1jan-1feb2026 Bangkok, Korat, Pattaya, bus between Bangkok and Pattaya, DJ Station. Carsick boys. General observations.

Thu1jan2026 Bangkok to Korat
No luck online dating in Korat.

Fri2jan2025 Korat to Bangkok
Back in Bangkok, message various boys, reply from Pun (first met on Sun4sep2022). Can meet after work 21, will come by mocy, asks for money for petrol. Good activities. A bit hairy, that's why I waited so long to meet him again. 500 for Happy New Year, bye 22:04 in my room.

Sat3jan2026 Bangkok Bang Bon
I'm out in Bang Bon market and nearby is Htay from Myanmar. Pics in online dating were not clear but promising. Waits for me in front of his building, meet there 17:32. At his place, I take a shower. Cold water, but at least shower head. No aircon, a bit warm. We have a good time.

Sun4jan2026 Bangkok
Gan Is eager to meet, but has 0 Baht on his body for bus. I heard this story before, but now thinking about it, how does it work? When I'm in a foreign country, I never manage to spend all their currency!

I agree to pay for taxi on arrival*, but he takes a mocy for 210 THB. Positive first impression (face, skin color, nice legs). General chat about family and work. Works in food delivery, but now no work because his mocy broke down. Calls on my phone to get price for repair. I might pay for repair.

*Never pay for taxi in advance for someone you haven't met, it's almost certainly a scam.

Asks to take shower. That's a good idea, there was some unpleasant smell. (Later when I go into my bathroom, where his underwear and shorts are on hook, smell like a public bathroom!) Comes back in towel. Nice slim body. Warm dry skin. Slim/emaciated, hip bones protruding and stomach fallen in. We have a good time. After a while, he asks for lunch, he has not eaten for lack of money. I offer him cup noodles. The mocy repair will cost over 1000, I offer him 500.

600 bye in my room. He will go to mocy repair shop (where?) or some business in Sathorn Soi 1?

Later a call to my phone to ask for directions to Sathorn Soi 1. How does he remember my number? He has no phone and forgot the paper with my number in my room.

Tue6jan2026 Bangkok
Ten comes to meet me and we have a good time. 1000, give him extra for Happy New Year. Update 1feb2026: asks me to top up his SIM card by 200 THB, and I send the money. We met multiple times and this is the first time he asks for money online.

Wed7jan2026 Bangkok to Hua Hin
Both online dating and gay bars in Hua Hin were poor on previous trips. Furthermore, busy with German friend and sightseeing. No boy business in Hua Hin for me.

Thu8jan2026 Hua Hin
1000 online to Max Srisaket to come to see me on 12th. 

In Hua Hin, at 20:00 check taxi prices from my friend's place to railway station (6 km, 10 min): Grab Standard 100 THB (10 min wait), Saver Car 86 (9 min), Saver Bike 33 (7 min). Bolt Priority 109 (2 min), Wait and Save 81 (10-20min), Motorbike 40 (1 min).

Sat10jan2026 Hua Hin
While I'm working on computer, a coconut cracks open and drops splash on my desk in 1 m distance.

Sun11jan2026 Hua Hin to Bangkok
Back in Bangkok, boy business several chats, but nothing materializes.

Mon12jan2026 Bangkok
Max from Srisaket is on train and will go to see friends in Bangkok before coming to my place. At night message from Max: he will stay with friends over night and come to see me tomorrow. I shaved, showered and even changed my underwear and didn't have any boy business today, and now this!

I'm already dressed and packed and going down for street trade, when Eric from Myanmar replies. Money boy, not in bar but freelance, 4 km away, no talk about money, can meet now, arrives soon. Positive first impression. Long time in bathroom, comes out of bathroom in shorts. Great body, impressive abs and chest and upper arms. Lovely short hair and cute face. Great body and activities. That in addition to good character and efficient communication and quick arrival warrants 1500. One of the few encounters per year where everything is great: body, activities, character.

Tue13jan2026 Bangkok
Max messages me, will come in the afternoon. 12:23 waits for sibling to send him to my place, but sibling doesn't come. Max refuses to take bus (there are direct buses from his place to mine). From Bang Chak takes BTS and MRT to Lumpini. But then messages me taxi or mocy sent him to Lumpini park and indeed sends picture of park. Makes it to One Bangkok MRT entrance, but then doesn't know how to continue. I send him directions several times, in the end he sends pictures where he is and I give directions. Would have been quicker to go to pick him up, but I'm afraid there is no learning process. Next time would have to go through the same process.

Clever boys from Cambodia or Myanmar get around Bangkok much better than Thai country bumpkins. I made this observation several times.

Invite Max to Silom Sauna, entry 250 each. We get our lockers, and suddenly Max is gone! I go out to find him on parking. He is scared and doesn't want to go. I convince him to come with me, we make it to locker room, but again gone. I find him on the parking lot, leave him there waiting for me. Afterwards tells me he doesn't want to drink alcohol. Will take the night train home tomorrow. Max to bed fully dressed.

Wed14jan2026 Bangkok
We take bus to Wat Pho. When we arrive, Max urgently needs to use toilet because his is carsick. I didn't know this before, explains some of his weird behavior. Walk around Royal Palace area. Take boat back. Trains, metro and boat are fine for Max.

Walk around Asiatique, but Max quickly gets tired. Take taxi home. In taxi, Max first lies down, then sitting and pukes in plastic bag (can't hear or smell anything in car, but in elevator see bag). Back in my room, pukes in toilet, residues all over my bathroom. That was 6 km and 30 min, a short ride by my standards, but devastating for him. Have to keep that in mind when we meet again.

Other boys who I follow online post pictures in lascivious poses in underwear, but Max is shy. He is usually fully dressed, long legs, long arms, in public with hood over head and face mask. Goes into my bathroom fully dressed and comes out fully dressed. 

Sleeps about 17-19. 500 for Max for return home. Bye 21:44 at MRT Lumpini. Later request for 200 more online, I refuse.

Sat17jan2026 Bangkok to Korat
With Farang friend in Korat have a look in the park* 19:35-45. Three boys, one rough looking approaches us and offers his company for 300. He looks passable to me, but I have date already (update: no show). An available lady as well.

*Northern part of Suan Rak Park สวนรัก, the only place beside Saran Rom where you occasionally can find street trade boys. “Occasionally” refers to Suan Rak; in Saram Rom there are always boys.

Sun18jan2026 Korat to Bangkok
200 for taxi for Mie Surin comes to my room. Good body, okay activities. Stays over night.

Mon19jan2026 Bangkok to Pattaya
Hugging in the morning, little or no response. 500 bye 11:18 in my room.

For a change, I take the bus 389 from airport to Jomtien. Online it's booked out for hours in advance, or rather online booking closes 2 or 3 hours in advance? For research purposed, I have to find out what the situation on ground is. Arrive at gate 8 at 14:59, next bus to Pattaya 15:40. Pay 143 THB bus Roong Rueang 15:40 to Pattaya. After that 16:30. Online, their schedule is every full hour?

Departure 15:41. There is one seat left of 36. Bus goes via mw7. I get out 17:20 in South Pattaya. Wait for songtheo 17:28-46, none. Grab searches for mocy long time, then none available.
25+5 Bolt mocy 17:46-54 to Boutique Bravo Hotel.

Before taking the bus, I checked for accommodation. Hotels in Jomtien fully booked (check on trip.com and call the place I wanted to stay). Original plan was to stay at same place as a friend. Call Mosaik: rooms for 700 booked out, only rooms for 1100 available. But Boutique Bravo has rooms on trip.com. At reception, pay 1600 for two nights (would be 1512 on trip.com, they can't match that price).

Invite Arm to my room. I shave so my beard so it doesn't tickle him as last time17jul2025. General chat. He took hormones to reduce pimples in face, that caused a hint of breasts. Great activities, cheerful and energetic throughout. Rest and fall asleep and stays over night.

Tue20jan2026 Pattaya
Lazy morning in bed, hugging throughout. 1500 well deserved.

I had chatted several times with Ton Tan on social media and gay online dating, now getting specific. We agree on 1000, he will come to see me 12. Pick him up in front of hotel, soso first impression (face with make-up, small lips which I don't like). He works in massage near Tuk-Com, I didn't notice him there, but he saw me passing. Nice blue/black leopard print swim briefs. Gift from a customer. Asks for 400 more for restaurant (??? online translation), I agree.

That's a lie from my side, I'm not going to pay 400 more, unless performance is great. However, I hate haggling over price, and especially the boy asking for more once we have agreed on 1000. Haggling or refusal might negatively affect activities. There are members on the forums who claim higher tips gives better performance. Here is one data point that supports my claim that there is no or even negative correlation: the boys was useless in bed.

Quickly to bed. Body okay, warm dry, no clear muscle, a bit pale, no body hair. Average body and activities. Not even 20 min in my room, he tells me he has to go back soon, a customer is waiting. Because performance was poor and body no clear hit either, I let him go. 1000 bye 13:04 in my room. Asks for 400 or at least 200 more, I refuse. A very clear no repeat: body, activities, character all not to my liking.

Jomtien Complex 20:50 busy. There is a new underwear shop, price is 179 per piece. Rather expensive compared to Silom 100 or online.

80 pineapple juice in Bar & Song 21:05-55 with an old friend from Cambodia. Watch show in Sunee Intimate Bar across the street. Nice boys dancing shirtless and other nice staff. One of them chats me up when I pass. I had my eyes on him anyway. We exchange Line to meet some day.

However, some boys there don't go with customers. That is worrying for me.
https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?23465-Jomtien-Complex-etiquette&p=300763&viewfull=1#post300763
I once tried to off one of the lead dancers in the Sunni show without success - he was only interested in tips and boy drinks.

Many vacancies in Jomtien Complex:

Thu22jan2026 Pattaya to Bangkok
North Pattaya bus station, 131 THB for bus to Ekkamai 18:30. When calls for boarding 18:00 bus, I ask if they have a free seat, and get seat on this bus. Departure 17:57. I have to pay 20 for second piece of luggage. They take bicycles for 200. Arrive in Ekkamai 19:48.

Fri23jan2026 Bangkok
1000 online to Bank SS to see a doctor. Boys no luck. Tee Theo filed as missed.

Saran Rom street trade, arrive 23:12. Pass half of street trade, no nice except shortly before bus stop a group of 4 nice. T the cutest. Another dark skin, but hairy legs. All straight. T asks what I want to do. T takes me aside and offers to suck me for 1000? Asks for 800 or 700, refuses 500. Offers his friends. I continue my round. Full round, back 23:40. T wants to go with me for 500, on way to his mocy asks again asks what I want to do and how long it will take, 1 hour is too much. Asks for 100 for a look or a grope at his penis right there? If it starts like this, it can only get worse! His front teeth rotten unattractive. Filed as refused.

Come back to Mai (like “wood”), he smiled when I passed, brown skin, slim, twinky. Walk to hotel, a bit of small talk from my side. Is straight and has a girlfriend. Tattoo “Nobody can feel you (sic!) pain”. Then asks how much, I offer 500 and he says he usually gets 700 or 800, I refuse that and we drop the subject. 200 short time room in S hotel, spend 00:04-01:03. One staff lady looked at us with disapproval and said they are full, but another asks Mai for his age 21 and lets us in.

I take shower, he is naked in bed when I'm back. Mai doesn't shower. I like the weak salty taste on his skin. Okay body and activities. After activities and massage, I hug him and he falls asleep. I like this. No rush, rather fall asleep. Wake him up. 600 bye 01:03. Give him 100 extra because no rush.

I have another half round, still busy over 10 boys, many I remember from 2 hours before. Total I have seen over 20, with about 15 present at any time I was there 23-1.

Sat24jan2026 Bangkok
Bank SS still sick. Filed as missed. Online dating hornet Jo wants 2500, refuses my offer of 1000, but a Farang friend recently met him for 800 around 1 am. Another asks for 4000 incall (his hotel room) and 5000 outcall. I didn't make a counter-offer. He had all the info written down to copy/paste, that must be his rate. Country code 84 is Vietnam.

Paul from hornet arrives 20:12. Spends 5 min in my bathroom, comes out fully dressed (he wanted to take a shower, that fast?). A lot of tattoos which I would call spiky. Facial hair shaved, but no hair on body, balls, ass. Good body and activities. Hug him from behind and he falls asleep. Wake him up and ask him for back massage, good to okay. Then hints at going home. 1100 bye 21:06 in my room. Give him 100 extra.

400 entry DJ station including two drinks. Minimum age 20. Customers who look 20 are checked ID, I get waved trough. Spend 23:50-1:12. No particular show going on. Smoking in central hallway. Half of customers white. Many non-Thai Asians, mostly Chinese. Out of estimated 1000 customers, only about 10 cute. Two Singha beer (small bottle 320 ml 5 %). Music too loud, use tissue in ears. My last visit was many years ago, now all bars connected on second floor and stairways in every bar to connect both floors. 

Sun25jan2026 Bangkok
Meet Por from Lao near his place with some delays from his side 14:25. He wants to go to shopping center in Pinklao and calls taxi online to take us there. Central Pinklao 15:01. He buys clothes. I hold his hand in taxi and on elevator, but nothing more. I have lunch there and invited him, but wasn't hungry). Bye 16:19 on road. He has business at 5 back home, can't come to my place or Lumpini Park.

Mon26jan2026 Bangkok
Meet Thanwa in One Bangkok 12:41. I'm late, date was 12:30, he was there 12:18 already. Came by bus. I invite him for lunch in food court. To my room, good hugging, but but of us stay in underwear.

Date with Bell in Sukhumvit at a Myanmar restaurant. Wait 20:50-21:15, Bell finally arrives. The food is rather expensive, and Bell orders a lot, including two take-away drinks. The bill is 2106.83. I think I never had such a high bill in a restaurant in Thailand. We can't go to his place because his straight room mate is in. He says his message “...you can stay over at my place tonight” was a mistranslation? We go to my place by BTS and MRT. Taxi would be cheaper and faster, but Bell gets dizzy in cars. Another guy who gets carsick!

From MRT walk to my place in a way that does not pass a massage place where the guys could see me or a construction site where I chatted with a cute security guard several times. Bell talking on phone with his mother all the time. Then sits down at entrance to my building.

I go up to my room 23:13 to turn on aircon and put drinks in fridge and wait for Bell. My message “I left the door downstairs open” not read, I go down 23:29, Bell gone! Offline on messenger and my call not answered. On HeeSay online a day ago. Days later still not read, but liked my stories on Facebook.

Tue27jan2026 Bangkok
Bell shares stories in the afternoon on FB and IG, but still offline on messenger. (Update: we are in contact again, he wants to meet. He didn't offer any explanation, but I will ask before we meet again. And some serious adjustments, this has completely gone out of hands in time, place and money.)

Date with Bo from Myanmar for 18:30. Message him for confirmation: works overtime to 20. I agree. 21:04 still no reply. Filed as no show.

Date with Min123 for 22:30, then my messages not read, 23:30 finally off work overtime, no cancellation, filed as no show.

Wed28jan2026 Bangkok
Go to meet KoKo from Myanmar (first met in Harmony Sauna 24nov2024) near his place (he is not familiar with travel in Bangkok). Then to my place and we have a good time. I want to give him 200 for return and for food and drink he paid himself while we were out, he takes only 100 and refuses to take the other 100).

Thu29jan2026 Bangkok
I have a date with a Pinoy for 18, finally arrives 19:55 due to slow traffic in Bangkok. Other than the delay, positive first impression. We go for dinner, then to my room. We have a good time, Pinoy stays over night.

Fri30jan2026 Bangkok
Bye after breakfast. Pinoy will be back at night to pick up his bag. Interesting conversation about travel. He slept so well in my room, whereas his dorm is noisy.

Date with So. Good first impression, good vibes in lift. Good body and activities. 1000 well deserved.

Sat31jan2026 Bangkok
200 online to Bank Sakaew for travel to come to my place tomorrow.

Sun1feb2026 Bangkok
No message from Bank. No show. Sends me a picture from shopping mall (?) 11:01, then no reply.

James comes to my room and we have a good time.

In all those years, the first time I have a cute taxi driver. Chat him up, but not talkative.

Summary Jan2026
7 Free fun: Pun 500, Htay, Max 1500, Thanwa, KoKo 100, Pinoy, James.
9 Paid fun: Gan 600+210, Ten 1000+200, Eric 1500, Mie Surin 500+200, Arm 1500, Ton Tan 1000, Mai 600, Paul 1100, So 1000 = 9400.
2 No fun: Por, Bell.

1 Boy cancels: Max.
2 Refused: T Saran Rom 1000 <-> 500, Jo 2500<->1000.
2 Missed: Tee Theo, Bank SS.
4 No show: Korat, Bo, Min123, Bank Sakaew.

4 send money online: Ten 200 for mobile top-up, Max 1000, Bank SS 1000, Bank Sakaew 200.

10 Thai: Pun, Gan, Max, Mie, Ton Tan, Mai, Paul, Thanwa, So, James.
3 Myanmar: Htay, Eric, KoKo. Several more no show or no fun.
2 Cambodia: Ten, Arm.
1 Philippines: Pinoy.

15 Repeat: Pun, Gan, Max, Ten, Eric, Mie, Arm, Mai, Paul, Thanwa, KoKo, Pinoy, So, James.
1 No repeat: Ton Tan.

7 Old: Pun, Ten, Mie, Arm, Thanwa, KoKo.
9 New: Htay, Gan, Eric, Ton Tan, Mai, Paul, Pinoy, So, James.

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Gay activities Dec2025 Thailand

Gay activities Dec2025 Thailand
More precisely 27nov-31dec2025. Details about Feel Onsen, T K Massage (Ladprao Soi 101), Pattaya, Windmill 2 (gogo bar with ladies in Walking Street), Saran Rom street trade, Stars Bangkok (massage in Saphan Khwai).

Sat29nov2025 Bangkok
Bank SS asks for money online. We had many good times and he rarely asks for money, so I assume this is a genuine emergency and send him the money 2000 online.

Fri28nov2025 Bangkok
Meet Min123 from Myanmar. He used to work outside Bangkok, but now has a job at One Bangkok (new shopping mall). That's the first date that I can attribute to One Bangkok. Good English, has an education in science, interesting chat. Good activities and nice body. We didn't talk about money before meeting, but he mentions money twice, so I give him 500. Nonetheless filed as free, subsequent meetings only taxi fare.

Sun30nov2025 Bangkok
Feel Onsen is far from Silom, it takes me over an hour to get there (BTS 11th Infantry Regiment). But they have performers who are my type, and today is one Tee I chatted with several times over the years but never had a chance to meet. Following pictures typical adverts from their Instagram https://www.instagram.com/feelonsen_/ These posts go online in the afternoon for the night's model. Unfortunately, all faces blurred and no links to their social media. Some I recognize by their tattoos. 

Feel Onsen entry 289, enter 19:24. Ask receptionist: show is 20-22, closing time is 1. Receptionist asks for my phone number, they need it for internal management of customers. Tops get blue wristband keytag, bottoms red. Christmas decoration all over the place, 12 trees about 2 m tall a bit overdone. Christmas music. Overall nice decoration and okay light.

1st = ground floor: shoe rack, take off shoes before going up. From there on bare feet (no flip-flops provided). Sauna, steam, hot pool only accessible from 2nd floor. Sauna and steam luke warm, pool warm. Shower partly well illuminated, partly okay. No hooks for towel. Two showers with water heater.
2nd floor locker room, 180 lockers. Big and small white towel of good quality. Black bathrobe (Japanese yukata) provided, and many customers wear it. Kind of counter-productive in a gay sauna.
3rd private rooms and groups rooms, orgy takes place here.
4th Rest room with 6 bunk beds with curtains.
5th private rooms.
6th rooftop with view of BTS.

From 20 disco music on 3rd floor, but staff there tells me show starts 20:30. Dress code underwear. I spend 15 min in locker room reading on my phone, when I come back activities in progress. No show, just a group orgy initiated by performer? Everyone gets a light stick around their wrist, blue for top and red for bottom. They have just one performer, Tee with blue light stick around his neck. Mostly warm and dry skin.

Under 50 customers when I enter, about 50 during show. I must have seen 100 customers during my stay. Most good looking by my standards. Few tattoos. They all seemed mid class. No other foreigner.  Out 22:15. Clearly busiest 20-22, when I enter and leave fewer in locker room.

Mon1dec2025 Bangkok
Ladphrao 101 massage places. Former K B Boy, now 101 K Spa, no cute by pictures. There is a guy John who is nice, but I met him two times and only okay performance, no repeat.

T K Massage one hour oil massage 650. Only one bathroom, occupied by a boy. 7 massage rooms. I can walk up to rooftop. No clothes pegs in bathroom and in my massage room. 

Massage table with pillow, only later do I discover there is a face well under pillow. Masseur starts in towel, when I turn around, he is nude. Okay massage back and legs, had some training, in general too soft. After turnaround directly to happy ending. Great body. From Myanmar. No English. Good character. Face cuter than on pictures. Advertised as 56, but I found everything average size. 
1100 tip Euro. Start 16:27. Out 17:29. 

Tue2dec2025 Bangkok
Date for 12 with Min123, but when I message him 12, he is doing his laundry. How weird! Finally arrives 13:11. Stays all day, we have a good time. 100 for taxi.

Wed3dec2025 Bangkok
650 Yunomori Onsen entry 650. This place is not gay. They have pools 41-42 C, 42-44 C and 16-18 C. 

Wed4dec2025 Bangkok to Pattaya
My favorite place to stay is Mosaik Apartment, but their standard rooms are booked out, only big room 1000 per night. However Boutique Bravo has rooms for 750 per night. However several things I don't like there. 500 THB key deposit. Table a bit low 61.5 cm for computer work. WiFi not by password, but username and password. Data is fast, but can only connect one device at a time? Keycard to switch on power plugs (except fridge, always connected). Wardrobe no rack to put suitcase on, only clothes hanger and floor. Can't take clothes hanger out of wardrobe. No balcony. Street noise. Single glazing windows. Only lift, no stairway (I rather take stairs than wait for lift). Toilet tissue roll locked in bathroom. No exhaust fan in bathroom. I have to look for other alternatives should Mosaik be booked out. Possibly even Jomtien, now that there so few gogo bars of interest for me left in South Pattaya. 

Winner Boys 20:41-21:27, pineapple juice 139. Three boys and up to one other customer during my stay. Alex and Cola and another shapely boy. Alex doesn't pay attention to me, and when I walk up to him, I notice he is standing with eyes closed, and when I talk to him, he doesn't want a drink or to sit with me. How very weird! I leave it at that. Update: Next day he messages me, he was in a bad mood. Clearly mental health issues. But he is in a good mood, we get along fabulously! Update: Winner Boys closed for good.

Have a look in Boys Nighclub (sic! former Nice Boys), 8 boys in trousers, no customer. Not for me. 

M Bar 22:42-54, pineapple juice 89. End of show. Seating very unfavorable. In most gogo bars, you can see all boys on stage and most boys who are sitting with customers.

Gus Bar 23:14-30, beer 100. Unfavorable seating.

Jomtien Complex throughout busy with boys and customers. 

In following two late night gay disco/karaoke in South Pattaya: 
Friendly Pub (google maps: Friendly Club & Karaoke or Cf Man Club Pattya By Friendly, 12.9207, 100.8864) and 
FC (google maps: Fc club Pattaya By friendly. เอฟซีคลับพัทยา สาย 3, 12.9261, 100.8847)

Join a Farang friend FF to Friendly Pub. FF has a boy Rinda in tow whom I recognize from online. Rinda makes a bored impression, next day confirmed by FF, so boring that FF had to ditch him! From 01:57 auction of boys (good light). About 50 boys and 15 customers.

 

For lack of customers in Friendly Pup, we move to FC, much busier here. A host boy would cost 300/h. Not for me.  

Back in my room 3:17, alone, to bed. It has been years that I have been to a late-night venue in Pattaya, and I didn't miss anything, and it will be years until I go again.

Fri5dec2025 Pattaya
Distance of 12th profile: Hornet 150 m, HeeSay 0.2 km, Grindr 216 m, Romeo estimated 500 m.

A boy on Hornet agreed on 1000, but then offline. Filed as missed.

Meet Gedij instead. Good body and activities, and there is something that attracts me that I can explain. 1000 well deserved. I'm eager for a repeat, failed so far for poor communication and boy is not based in Bangkok or Pattaya, judging by distance. 

Sat6dec2025 Pattaya
Meet Chinese (last met 13oct2024) and to my room for fun.

Meet Ming from Vietnam for dinner. Interesting chat, but afterwards he wants to go home.

I have read good things about Windmill (gogo with women in Walking Street), and to see how things are run in lady gogo, I have a look. Windmill 2, stay 20:20-53. Pineapple juice is just 99 during happy hour 7-9, then 150. Security looks into my backpack and pats my pockets. Smoking allowed. Music, light, aircon okay. Full with ladies and half full with customers. About 25 ladies on stage or sitting and about 10 more sitting with customers. About 5 nude. Others short skirts and bra that they wear front open or closed. 20:30 shuffle, so everyone gets to be in the nude. Some sitting on customers' laps.

Lower prices than gay bars, full of ladies and customers! Nudity!
 

Meet Peach and walk around, but when we get near my hotel, not to my room, but bye to meet friends. Interesting character, can form full and comprehensive sentences in Thai. He likes walking, I have problems to follow because I look around so much.

Sun7dec2025 Pattaya
Jerry from Madagascar via Grindr. We agree on 1500, but only for exotism. I wouldn't pay a local guy that much. Reception didn't accept his work permit, I have to go down to get him in. Shorts, hairy upper legs. Else good first impression. Take off shirt, hairy as a monkey! The pictures on online dating were photoshopped, if I had know he is that hairy, I wouldn't have met him. Body otherwise fine, well endowed, okay activities, but with that much body hair, even on butt cheeks, there is not much I can do and send him away with 1500.    

I was looking for a particular boy in a Jomtien massage shop, but he is not in. Filed as missed.

Wed10dec2025 Bangkok
I had a date will Bell, but he wants to meet in Silom, to spend time there. Not what I have in mind. Bell cancels 22:22 because I don't want to go to Silom. Filed as missed. If we meet that late (by my standards), in Silom, nothing good can come out of it*, I rather skip.
*Confirmed three days later in Sukhumvit. 

Thu11dec2025 Bangkok
Bell cancels for being stressed from university.

Message Dui Saranrom, comes to my room for fun. Out of the blue, he tells me he is straight and cannot bottom. Shows me pictures of his girlfriend and baby. That comes as a surprise, we met several times and I thought he is gay bottom! 1000 well deserved.

Sat13dec2025 Bangkok
Date with Bell in Sukhumvit. I'm at the restaurant 22:00, Bell is late 22:41. Orders too much food, leftover for take away. Total 1359.44 dinner for two, I rarely spend that much (700 per person) on myself! We leave 23:12, MRT to Silom. Walk all Silom to a bar where his friend works, where we spend 00:07-44 and have drinks for 275+25 (I pay 300, no change given, but I rather want to go home than raise this issue). Taxi home, finally 00:55 in my room. I take shower. Bell is busy with his phone writing and calling. I tell Bell to put his phone in airplane mode overnight. We are in bed for sleeping, Bell gets up to message his work and gets a call from a friend who needs the room key. 200 Bell for taxi and food (again?) bye 01:45 in my room.

Too long, too late, too expensive, to little return. There is potential, but next time I have to tell him my limitations in space, time and money.

Tue16dec2025 Bangkok to Saraburi
Overnight trip to Saraburi to meet a regular there. I'm in my hotel and wait for him, when he messages me his mocy is broken. But he can borrow someone else's to come to see me. We have a good time, it is worth the trip and the expense.

Wed17dec2025 Saraburi to Bangkok
1000 online to Bank SS for health problems.

Fri19dec2025 Bangkok
Nong Yo asks how much, I offer 1000, he wants 2500 to 3000. Filed as refused.

Sat20dec2025 Bangkok 
Hero wants to meet “I need your help and advice” and I want to meet as well. While discussing details, he fell asleep. Irregular sleep-wake pattern, a red flag. But then all fine, comes at night and stays over night.

Sun21dec2025 Bangkok
Lazy morning in bed, perfect warm and dry skin. 1000 well deserved. 

Mon22dec2025 Bangkok to Kanchanaburi
Trip with friends to Kanchanaburi, stay there over night.

1000 online to Bank SS (again after 2000 on 29nov and 1000 on 17dec). This is getting out of hand, I won't send any more after this.

Tue23dec2025 Kanchanaburi
Online dating in Kanchanaburi yesterday and today busy but no clear hit.

Wed24dec2025 Bangkok
Saran Rom 22:38-23:00 first round spot 16 available boys. Spot some boys I remember from before. After passing Pan (sitting alone) three times in the course of one hour, without him even looking up at me from his phone, I approach him 23:46. Speaks okay English. He is bottom but does not go with Whites because they have big cocks. I tell him I just want wanking, sucking, massage, and he quotes 800. I tell him everyone else here asks for 500, but he doesn't budge. I don't want to set a precedence, and 800 and not even fucking is clearly too much. I leave it at that and take taxi home.

Thu25dec2025 Bangkok
Min123 postpones to after work 22:30, then moves forward, then cancels for roommate's birthday. Filed as missed. Later messages me can meet tonight. Not read, filed as no show.

Wittawas wants to see dick pictures before meeting, filed as missed. Several other chats no success.

Date with Min123 was 22:30 after work, finally messages me 23:24, still at work, overtime. Can meet me 1 or 2 am, I cancel 00:09 and go to bed. Filed as missed.

Fri26dec2025 Bangkok
Min123 comes in the morning and we have a good time.

At night meet Chatty for over night at my place. We met before, not clearly my type, but good activities and nice character.

Sat27dec2025 Bangkok
Setthawut wants 500 online in advance for travel, filed as attempted scam.

But for a regular Nick, who lives out of town, I send 500 to come to meet me and we have a good time.

Mon29dec2025 Bangkok
The boy in Bang Bua Thong who I chatted with on hornet, is free today. But when I message him for details, and check later, chat gone. Did he block me? Filed as missed.

Stars Bangkok 90 min oil massage in standard room 600. There seems to be no shared bathroom, I check my floor and one up and one down, only bathroom in VIP room. Take shower there. Tawan showers separately after me. Massage starts 14:20. Starts lower legs, mostly one hand and feels absent minded, does he have the other hand on his phone? Look back at him, phone is indeed on, but lying on mattress. I tell him to switch the phone off and use both hands for massage. He was watching porn (didn't see if he was wanking with the other hand), clearly too early to think of happy ending, I want a massage first! Has some training, but overall too little pressure. Legs okay, back massage good with a lot of thumb work. Turn around, no more pretense, good activities, but gets repetitive. I take over.

Afterwards ask him: from Mandalay. In Thailand 5 years, first construction work, about 5 months massage. Stationed in Inthamara, comes to Stars Bangkok when there is a customer for him. This is general for many boys and massage places. The pleasant smell and taste when I kiss him is from vape with strawberry flavor.

1100 tip for Tawan (or Top) received with a thank you. Out 15:43.

More of their staff here: https://www.starsbangkok.com/ several more my type, and a good start with Tawan. I will be back! 

Tue30dec2025 Bangkok
Chat with Ko in the morning, but when I'm ready to meet afternoon, he is offline, reply only 18:26. Filed as missed.

Julian not read. Nyein was eager to meet earlier, now sick.

But Ten is online and free, date with Ten at 20. But then offline, not read, no show. (Update: fell asleep).

In parallel I was chatting with Mozz, he could have met me after work 22:30, but I missed his message 22:39, read it only 23:09. He was on his way home, would have come back to meet me, but now too late for me. For a change, I'm the one who didn't read a message in reasonable time.  

31dec2025 Bangkok 
Nyein in my room 20:20. Cute as before, warm dry skin throughout. Likes skinship (had to look that up: Noun. skinship (uncountable) (particularly Japan, South Korea) Bonding through physical (touch, skin-to-skin) contact; particularly between family members, relatives and loved ones. Spending time together naked for social bonding.). Hugging and kissing good. Hug and rest with lights on. Did we fall asleep? Check time 23:55. Hear fireworks. Light off, stays over night. My original idea was two hours with him, but over night is fine as well. 

Thu1jan2026 Bangkok
Hugging in the morning. 1000 well deserved.  

Side note electric water heater. 
When you turn off the water flow, the water inside the heater slightly overheats, and when you turn the flow on, the water is initially 1 or 2 degree Celsius hotter than before. But this month, I had two places where the water significantly overheats, about 5-10 C hotter. 

Myanmar boys in Thailand. 
The influx of Myanmar nationals to Thailand to escape the civil war and dire economic situation in their home country is visible in the bars and dating apps. Half of my encounters are from Myanmar. New category nationality in summary. 
 
Summary Dec2025 Thailand
7 Free fun: Min123 (500 for taxi), Min123 (100 for taxi), Chinese13oct2024, Bell, Saraburi, Min123, Chatty.
8 Paid fun: T K Massage 650+1100, Gedij 1000, Jerry Madagascar 1500, Dui Saran Rom 1000, Hero 1000, Nick 500, Stars Bangkok 600+1000, Nyein 1000 = 1150+8100 = 9250. 
2 No fun: Ming, Peach.

New category: countries of origin. Everyone counted only once.
5 Thai: Saraburi, Chatty, Gedij, Dui, Nick.
6 Myanmar: Min123, Bell, T K Massage, Hero, Stars Bangkok, Nyein.
2 Other: Chinese (13oct2024), Jerry Madagascar.

1 Boy cancels: Bell.
2 Refused: Nong Yo 1000 <-> 2500, Pan 500 <-> 800 Saran Rom.
7 Missed: Hornet suddenly offline, Jomtien Massage, Bell, Min123, Bang Bua Thong, Ko, Mozz.
2 No show: Min123, Ten.

3 send money online: Bank SS 2000, Bank SS 1000, Bank SS 1000 = 4000.
5 bar/disco: Winner Boys, M Bar, Friendly Pub, FC, Windmill 2.
2 sauna: Feel Onsen, Yunomori Onsen (not gay),
2 massage: T K Massage, Stars Bangkok.
1 attempted scam: Setthawut (500 online for travel).

14 Repeat: Min123, Min123, Euro at T K Massage, Gedij, Chinese13oct2024, Bell, Dui, Saraburi, Hero, Min123, Chatty, Nick, Tawan at Stars Bangkok, Nyein.
1 No repeat: Jerry from Madagascar.

10 Old: Min123, Chinese13oct2024, Bell, Dui, Saraburi, Hero, Min123, Chatty, Nick, Nyein.
5 New: Min123, Euro at T K Massage, Gedij, Jerry from Madagascar, Tawan at Stars Bangkok.

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No gay activities Apr2025 China

No gay activities Apr2025 China
More precisely 17-20apr2025 Hong Kong, then Shenzhen, Fanjingshan, Changsha, Tianjin, Beijing until 10may2025. Details about Tantan online dating app, Blued/HeeSay (Chinese version) and Destination gay disco in Beijing. At time of posting, 1 EUR = 8.24 CNH (Chinese Yuan or Renminbi), 1 USD = 7.22 CNH, 1 CNH = 4.55 THB. 

Thu17apr2025 Bangkok to Hong Kong
There are various gay saunas, but previous visits 2019 were such a disappointment, I gave up. Online dating was poor as well in 2019 and 2024, don't waste time. This time I stay in a dorm, can't bring anyone home anyway. For me, Hong Kong is a write-off as a gay destination. See here as well: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2024/07/gay-activities-apr2024-china.html

However, after my last trip to Hong Kong 2024, I learnt of a penis-shaped rock. Google maps 陽元石 at 22.3895, 114.2276, on internet generally referred to as Nui Po Shan penis rock 女婆山. This trip, hike to the rock:

I have seen a lot of rocks, and I have seen a lot of cocks, and this the most cock-looking rock I know of. Others think the same: https://www.vrcation.net/2021/06/26/the-worlds-best-looking-penis-shaped-rock/ and https://crew-explorer.com/hiking-guide-to-the-worlds-best-looking-penis-rock-in-shatin-nui-po-shan/ :

More pictures, details for hiking and some puns here:
https://droneandslr.com/travel-blog/hong-kong/penis-rock-nui-po-shan-hike/

For another penis-shaped rock in China see here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2024/07/danxia-shan-hiking.html

Sun20apr2025 Hong Kong to Shenzhen
I met someone from Hornet last year and would meet him again, unfortunately he is offline. Filed as lost.

Mon21apr2025 Shenzhen
Online dating distance of 12th profile:Grindr 886 m (last free profile 3 km), Romeo 3.3 km (however many profiles last online long ago), Hornet 9 km, HeeSay (international version) 10 km, Tantan busy (no distance shown). More about Tantan in a previous post: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2024/07/gay-activities-apr2024-china.html

Fri25apr2025 Guangzhou
I can't like any more profiles on Tantan unless I get a subscription. Is there a limit of likes in free version? In the course of my trip, some days I would get that message, some days I can like more profiles. I guess there is a limit about 100 profiles that you can like in a day in free version.

General about Tantan: the quality of profiles is much better than others (Hornet, Grindr, HeeSay). Most profiles have clear face pictures. Most users are in the 20-30 age range which I prefer. There are a lot of profiles in Thailand as well. However, I don't understand how they show profiles (at time of posting in Thailand, I get profiles from Thailand and China). When someone likes you back, you get a message and can start chatting. However, there is no indication of location. When I'm back in China, I would need to know who likes me back in the place I am at the moment, and don't know how to do that. So far, I have amassed about 300 mutual likes in the course of over a year, chatted with some of them, but haven't met any. That's quite some time, dozens of hours, spend on Tantan with nothing to show. You could say it's unsuitable for people travelling around, but more geared for dating when you stay somewhere long time.

One screen on my phone fits 8 matches/chats, and I can scroll down 34 screens, which is 272 matches in 16 months (10mar2024 first match).

Sat26apr2025 Guangzhou
Pee in a public toilet, and I think my neighbour is looking over at my dick.

In Supermarket discount clothes, underwear 10 RMB (about 40 THB), some fabric nice to touch, some nice designs, but all too large 2XL and 3XL. Underwear on the street same price.

Online dating distance of 12th profile: Grindr 1 km (last free profile 2 km), Hornet 2 km, HeeSay 2 km, Gayromeo 1.1 km (but many online days ago, that's why I put it last). Tantan some like me while I was offline for a day. Some leads, but too late now, leaving tomorrow. 

Mon28apr2025 Fanjingshan hiking
No penis shaped rocks, difficult with slate, easier with sandstone or granite. They have a mushroom-shaped rock, though:

Wed30apr2025 Fanjingshan to Changsha
A general observation of Chinese hotels is thin walls. You can hear what's going on in hallway and next room. Today, there are sounds (woman) of my neighbors having sex.

Thu1may2025 Changsha
Distance of 12th profile: Tantan many profiles, Grindr 4 km (last free 288 km), Romeo 8.6 km (online 2 weeks ago), Hornet 292 km, HeeSay 298 km.

Fri2may2025 Changsha
On morning market across the road (meat, fruit, vegetables) there is a stall with underwear, one for 10 or two for 15, there are some nice to touch, but print only okay. No purchase.

Tue6may2025 Tianjin to Beijing
All afternoon and evening work on computer and phone, plan sightseeing and even more time spent looking for gay venues. Seems to be no currently open gay sauna or public bath. Information in English is outdated (pre-Covid), and when I search in Chinese, results is mostly locals asking if a place is still open. 
Here some info in English, would be good if it wasn't outdated:
https://chinagaytours.com/gay_guide/gay_beijing.html

https://www.beijinggaymassage.com/model/ Their pictures of staff look promising, but out call only. I would rather go somewhere to have a look at the facilities and staff. 

http://www.bjpowerspa.com/en/sls.asp (bj is abbreviation for Beijing), no pictures, because: Note: beijing power spa does not post technician photos online, because our staff is far better than any pictures. The simple introduction above is for reference only, we are very choosy in recruiting our masseurs, they need to be handsome, strong and well skilled. you can rest assured that you made the right choice, you will be pleased by our services and experience unknown satisfaction.

Only descriptions, e.g.  Allan: 24year 177cm 64kg Advanced masseur,enthusiastic sunshine boy who loves swimming, handsome, stylish, cheerful, bright skin, passionate and active, three years of spa experience-choose him, you will look back on life with no regrets. 

https://www.travelgay.com/venue/beijing-power-spa
Comments not encouraging. 

How to get Blued (Chinese version; international version now HeeSay): On mobile with eSIM go to blued.cn, download .apk file (173 MB), go to Downloads, click on file to install. “Welcome to Blued”, agree to terms and conditions. Icon “Blued”. Can select other country's dialling code and phone number to receive SMS with code, but then a message that says only mainland Chinese phone number accepted. Offers only “Mobile Login”, “WeChat Login” but then “This login method needs to be bound to a mobile number”, and when I confirm, accesses my WeChat. Set username, weight, height, position, my Thai phone number with country code, no error message and wait for SMS with code. Various other SMS from my Thai mobile operator, but not the one from Blued. Go back, try again, “There are multiple registrations on this device. Try again later.”.

Try again later. Now only +44 (UK) as predial available. Next day same. Give up and uninstall. 

Distance of 12th profile: Grindr 778 m (last free profile 3 km, half of them White), Hornet 3 km, HeeSay 5 km, Romeo 1.2 km (but online long ago), Tantan many profiles.

Wed7may2025 Beijing
Dongdan park 19:25-50, sunset to dark. Ground level general public, hilltop with pavilion as well, but around on the slopes two uncles intercept me for a grope at my crotch and hand under shirt up to my nipple, until I can extricate me. If I hadn't know this is gay cruising, I would have thought this set-up (two men blocking my way) is a robbery! There is one person of unclear gender (face mask) in hoodie, underwear (trunks) and long socks, strutting around to expose as much butt as possible.

See here as well:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFnplNzm_7I
Beijing's GAY Park - Dongdan by pai pai (my summary: there is a movie about gays in the park; nowadays mostly elder gays; distribution of condoms and STD counseling in the park)

Thu8may2025 Beijing
Distance of 12th profile: Tantan a lot, Grindr 1 km, HeeSay 5 km, Hornet 5 km, Romeo 1.2 km but most profiles online long ago.

Can Destination, largest gay disco in China, save this trip from a gay point of view? 
www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoUBxhJYvPI
Destination Bar Beijing, China
www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1U8Zpz5xII
The biggest gay bar in china 

Taxi to Destination, arrive 22:25. No other customers outside, only staff. No ID or security check to get in. 

Stairway up blocked, staff says will be open tomorrow. Most rooms on ground floor empty/dark and blocked, only one active.

30 RMB lemon squash. There are 10 to 20 customers during my stay. A few women and Whites. On stage singer or play music and background wall all LED. One persons smokes in toilet, and later singer smokes in main hall. Music too loud, light and temperature okay. Out 23:22. Disappointing. Adverts for upcoming events:

West Road Club woman approaches me, “take lady home for massage” and “have sexy show”, and 100 m further another one, she is bar manager, do I like music, they have beautiful girls. No thanks.

Fri9may2025 Beijing
Chat on Gayromeo, tentative date, but then offline. Filed as missed.

Taxi to Destination, arrive 22:54. No ID or security check. 80 entry (includes a drink), get stamp on arm (visible in UV), walk around a few times, later get pineapple juice 25 with the ticket. Inside some sleeveless, outside mostly long. There is a cloakroom where people leave their bags and long sleeve clothes. Good music and light effects in main room. 

Three locals chat me up, one music too loud to understand anything, other two speak a bit of German. In total spot three cute. 

Some quite muscular with tank top, now I have a name for the opposite of pug (the dog, too much skin): puffer fish, where the skin or clothes can barely contain the body. 

When I arrive estimated 200 customers, when I leave 500. Still some rooms empty, but others crammed. About 20 Whites and one Black. Over 20 people smoking, later over 50 estimated smoking at the same time, distributed in entire building. At first I thought good ventilation, but later can't smell it from getting used, but burns in eyes. Horrible, this is chemical warfare. Out 00:41.

Nearby, two women on mocy stop next to me to invite me to their club. No thanks. 

Another gay disco Touch, video looks  promising:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzFi3hE1_j8
Beijing gay bar-touch by pai pai

See here as well: https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?21659-KTV-Gay-Clubs-in-China

Summary:
One lost, one missed, two disco visits (Destination). 

Copyright 2025 ChristianPFC

Gay activities Apr2024 Cambodia

Gay activities Apr2024 Cambodia
13apr-6may2024 Phnom Penh, Kampot, Siem Reap. Songkran in Cambodia.

Sat13apr2024 Shenzhen to Phnom Penh
My plan was to avoid Songkran by spending that time outside of Thailand, but I couldn't stretch my stay in China any longer, so I got into Songkran in Cambodia. It is celebrated in a similar way as in Thailand, and caused me discomfort here as well: problems with hotels and travels, my favorite restaurants closed, boys I want to meet are away or busy.

Sun14apr2024 Phnom Penh
By chance and short notice Donald is nearby and free to meet for a quicky (41 minutes in my room).

At night another short-notice, by chance meeting with K.

Mon15apr2024 Phnom Penh
Tiktok boy whines about no money, wants to meet at Wat Phnom. I guess he will be there with his friends for water play, absolutely not what I'm looking for, file as missed.

One of my favorite cats Moshi at Wat Ounalom is in poor state. Hasn't eaten in a while because of toothache? I call ARC (Animal Rescue Cambodia) to ask if I can bring her in for medical treatment now. Affirmative. I bring Moshi for treatment and hospitalization. They will look for a foster home, but a few weeks later Moshi dies in their care. Rest in peace. Here a picture of her in better times:

Another cat that I took to ARC in 2021 is still around and probably would have died without my help. I spend more money on street cats than on boys.

Tiktok boy is at Royal Palace Park and I go to meet him there. Many people, peaceful and no water. We go to my room for fun. He shows me lumps in his right armpit that seem to cause him discomfort. I have a closer look, different in size and color, one like almond, other like pea. The pea like looks like a pimple. Disinfect a needle with alcohol and pierce it open, can squeeze two drops of pus out of it, some blood. But still size of pea, I had hoped we could squeeze the full volume of pus out. A lump that looks like a pus-sy pimple. 10 USD for passapp to go home and I give him 10 USD more and tell him to go to see a doctor.

Tue16apr2024 Phnom Penh
Kimseng van to Kampot. In town New Year party in full flow. My original plan was Green Garden Guesthouse, but that would be 400 m from Kimseng office and I don't know if I would make it there dry. In general water play in Cambodia is more civilized than in Thailand. People who are not dressed to participate are left in peace. But still, I can't risk an accident or stray water with all my luggage.

Instead go to Suorsdei Sawadee after 100 m. Standard room 20 USD/night. 3rd floor, elevator. Common balcony around 3 sides of building. Good desk for office work. Wardrobe without door. Bathroom door awkward (have to walk around door to get to sink), and to toilet another door. Flip-flops, shower gel, shampoo, kettle, hair dryer, but no fridge! Fridge can be rented for 2.50 USD/day. Mirror in bathroom has touch-sensitive, illuminated color-changing buttons for light and heating.

Evening water play and music still active in town center (Durian Roundabout), but away from center quiet. Some cute faces and some shirtless great bodies.

Wed17apr2024 Kampot
Last year I had a good time with AhDong in Kampot and want to meet him again. Yesterday I messaged AhDong on grindr, hornet, facebook, instagram; he was active on some but didn't read my messages.

Heng on Grindr is eager to meet, but in video chat I see profile pictures not his or on pictures younger and slimmer than now. Abort.

The mobile coffee shop where AhDong used to work is not there. We met there once last year and I was hoping to talk to him in person.

Thu18apr2024 Kampot
AhDong was online but didn't read my messages. There is a Thai person on Blued who is eager to meet, finally I get a video chat, but even with face mask I can see doesn't match face and body pics in profile. Abort.

Heng on Grindr tries again, we don't manage to get a video chat, sends same picture, I tell him not my type and I don't like fake profiles, chat gone (blocked me).

Fri19apr2024 Kampot to Phnom Penh
AhDong read my messages on IG, but no reply. Is online on Grindr, but no reply to my messages.That makes 3 nights in Kampot that I didn't manage to meet AhDong, and I blame Songkran.

Van to Phnom Penh. My first and second choice of hotels booked out. I blame Songkran.

Settle for another hotel nearby, but once I checked in, notice several things I don't like. E.g. door to road opens with key tag, i.e. when someone comes to meet me, he has to wait on the road. Bathroom door frame low, hit my head several times. Move on to another place soon.

Kyle comes to my room and we have a good time.

Toolbox in new location 22:20-23:35. Soft drink 3 USD. 5 staff and 5 customers at bar when I arrive, all 24 seats chairs/couch/table free. Later some more customers and boys. Staff look fine, black sleeveless shirts. Show schedule 22:30, real 22:45-23:00 and second round 23:15-30. Three of their staff, first shirtless in jeans, second shirtless with loincloth over underwear, dancing looks nice. No clear hit but no ugly or fatty either. Music, light, temperature okay. Nice interior design (barrel vault). Smoking allowed, 4 cigarettes were smoked during my stay. Tentative repeat visit next year.

source: https://www.facebook.com/ToolboxBarPP

Sat20apr2024 Phnom Penh
Rota messages me and wants to meet short notice, or confusion meet before or after his other business, or change of time of his other business? We have a good time in my room.

Chanee messages me and wants to meet. But I remember we met before and there were problems. I search in diary, and find the entry “no repeat”.

RiThy messages me on Blued and soon reveals he is money boy. I ask if the pictures are his, he confirms (but poor English). Move chat to telegram, video chat not convincing, long hair in front, but eager to meet and make date for 20:30. Nicely dressed, but face (pale with powder) and hairstyle (grey) not attractive. At least not as long hair as in video chat, was it even the same boy?

source: boy's Blued / HeeSay profile, but not his picture
 
But slim body. To my room, no English, use translation. Quickly to business. Perfect warm and dry skin, color okay. Bushy pubes, a bit hair on nipples. No chest tattoo as boy in profile pic, and cock doesn't match the picture he sent me either. But still a body I can work with. Nice chest and abdomen. Let him wear various underwear, good fit. Doesn't let me touch his ass or kiss.

My first impression when I saw his face was “retard” and nothing he said or did could expel that. In hindsight, I should have negotiated down from the 20 USD I offered him in online chat, for using fake pictures. But his body was close enough to my preferences, and he got away with a minimum of activities. Embarrassing that I can still fall for fake pictures, and even go through with the transaction!

Sun21apr2024 Phnom Penh
Move to Best Central Point Hotel. Check-out 12, but can check-in only 14, wait in restaurant and have lunch. All fine here, I would stay again.

Finn comes to my room and we have a good time. Rest and hug and fall asleep? Check time, 22:42. He can't go home because where he lives is locked at night. Let him stay over night. I have heard this (boy's place is locked over night) several times in Cambodia.

Mon22apr2024 Phnom Penh 
Finn out in the morning, 5 USD for taxi.

Yuan comes to my room. Good English, but talks too much, some emotional garbage. Nice body, okay activities. Hug and rest. Cardiac arrhythmia? His heartbeat is irregular with a periodicity of a few heartbeats. 5 USD for taxi.

Tue23apr2024 Phnom Penh
Rota comes to my room and we spend 4 hours and have a good time. 20 USD for travel expenses.

Meet Yuan at Royal Palace Park, walk around. General chat, holding hands. When he says Koh Norea (area in the outskirts of Phnom Penh), it sounds like gonorrhea. No hint from his side about going to my room.

Wed24apr2024 Phnom Penh
K comes to my room for fun.

Thu25feb2024 Phnom Penh
Play with cats in temple. Cute boy, shirtless and nice underwear, but not a monk. I say hello, he speaks good English. We have a nice chat, and I secretly admire his face, body, underwear. Get his telegram to stay in contact.

Online dating (old or new) no luck. Dy tentative date, then no message, but next day “sorry”, filed as no-show. Then someone nearby sends okay face picture, is at Big Easy diagonally across, poor English. I go to have a look but can't see him (or anybody I would want to invite to my room), is offline. Filed as no-show.

Fri26apr2024 Phnom Penh
I had a date with Sonosa, but my messages 16:32 and 18:48 not read by 19:54. Filed as no-show. Days later messages me, he had a medical emergency (but won't tell me what exactly).

Yuan wants to meet to walk around. Last time we just walked around and didn't go to my room. It turns out he dislikes dealing with reception, but I make it condition to go to my room, and he agrees. Exchange a few sentences, then to bed. Nice body, okay activities. 10 USD for taxi.

During my time in Phnom Penh I chatted several times with Akira. He is my type and wants to meet me, but he works in a restaurant until midnight and would be free to meet after work. That's too late for me, and he didn't react on my offer to meet before work. He asked me to meet him at his workplace, i.e. go there for dinner, but not the kind of food I like and anyway, the little additional information I could gain does not justify the time and money to spend, and it wouldn't get me any closer to meet in my room. On the contrary, the more we chat, the more drama and emotional garbage, rather let this one pass. Filed as missed.

Sat27apr2024 Phnom Penh to Siem Reap
Chan over night.

Sun28apr2024 Siem Reap
20 USD bye in the morning for travel expenses.

Ly Heng comes to my room. A bit of belly, but great chest, neck, shoulders, back. We have a good time and he stays for a nap to enjoy my aircon. 20 USD well deserved.

Mon29apr2024 Siem Reap
Ratanak comes to my room and we spend 4 hours in bed. Chan at night.

Tue30apr2024 Siem Reap
SR2017 is eager to meet. We last met in 2021 and I didn't feel horny with him then. But give us another chance. Nice underwear, okay activities. But once again, I don't feel that horny with him. No repeat. The problem is that he looks, behaves and dresses a bit girly, which I'm very sensitive to.

On pictures, Davis looks okay in some, too fat in other. But eager to meet, I agree. Walk along the river and sit down for chat. Clearly too fat, and I tell him so. He likes foreigners and knows they like slim boys. Drinks fizzy drinks, I tell him to cut it. Nice chat, fluent in English, good general knowledge. He will try to lose weight so we can do something in bed next time I go to Siem Reap. If he can pull off a similar transformation, we can do something in my room next time:

source: Instagram

Have a look in GOD (Gay On Display, new gay bar). Ladyboy lipsync in progress 00:08. Rather go to Rendezvous. Pineapple juice 2.50 USD. Cute staff, few customers.Bye 00:30.

Wed1may2024 Siem Reap
A podophile on grindr asks for my shoe size. Visal comes to my room and we have a good time. 10 USD well deserved.

Pineapple juice in GOD 2 USD. Schedules ladyboy lipsync 22:30-40, 23:00-10, 00:00-10; boys 23:30-40, on time within a few minutes. One of their staff joins me and asks to play connect four. Interesting! He wins more often than I, and I have to think longer. Bye 23:56, has to take care of other customers. Nice but fat and I don't like his hairstyle. Leave 00:26 (too loud to talk). Seems to get busy from midnight, two other customers I had met before.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555856233744 (name: GOD gay club).

They have another facebook as Luuma Gayclub?
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089830765877
Not to be confused with Luuma Tapas Bar (closed).
And another new gay bar: BBall (first post 20feb2024).
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556406998634

source: https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=2227416000983408&id=61556406998634

Wed2may2024 Siem Reap
Chan over midday. Caesar at night and we have a great time.

Fri3may2024 Siem Reap
Distance of 12th profile: Grindr 216 m, Blued / HeeSay 0.2 km, Hornet 1 km.

Not horny, but still online dating, no success. I chatted online with one of the staff at San Mai Massage. Now I go to meet him. 11 USD for one hour oil massage in San Mai about 16:55-17:55. Good massage, first back, then legs. From sound, he takes of trousers, now in boxers. Turn around, his crotch touches my hands, so I have a grope, and he asks if I want special massage. I agree, he asks how much, I offer 20 USD. He takes off his clothes and we have a good time. But not a clear hit body and activities, no repeat.

Chan at night.

Sat4may2024 Siem Reap
Kwin comes to my room and we have a good time.

Sun5may2024 Siem Reap
Chan comes at night. General chat, then to bed. He would stay over night, but I send him home so I can sleep better and no delays in the morning.

Mon6may2024 Siem Reap to Surin
Shared taxi for 12 USD from Siem Reap to O'Smach border. I arranged this two days ago. Departure around midday, exact time depends on delays with picking up other passengers, in this case caused a delay of one hour from 12 to 13.

Summary Apr2024
15 Free sex: Donald, K, Tiktok 20 USD, Kyle, Rota, Finn 5 USD, Yuan, Rota 20 USD, K, Yuan, Chan 20 USD, Ratanak, Chan, Kwin, Chan.
6 Paid sex: RiThy 20 USD, LyHeng 20 USD, SR2017 20 USD, Visal 10 USD, Caesar 20 USD, San Mai 20 USD = 110 USD.
A mistake somewhere: Free + paid = 21, whereas repeat + no repeat = 22, old + new = 22.
5 No sex: Yuan, temple boy, Davis, Chan, Chan.

6 Missed: Tiktok, AhDong Kampot, Heng Kampot, Thai Kampot, Chanee, Akira.
3 No show: Dy, Big Easy, Sonosa.

19 Repeat: Donald, K, Tiktok, Kyle, Rota, Finn, Yuan, Rota, K, Yuan, Chan, LyHeng, Ratanak, Chan, Visal, Chan, Caesar, Kwin, Chan.
3 No repeat: RiThy, SR2017, San Mai.

17 Old: Donald, K, Tiktok, Kyle, Rota, Rota, K, Yuan, Chan, LyHeng, Ratanak, Chan, SR2017, Visal, Chan, Caesar, Chan.
5 New: RiThy, Finn, Yuan, San Mai, Kwin.

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