Repost: Are most Thai boys retards?

Repost: Are most Thai boys retards?

5th anniversary of "Are most Thai boys retards?"
Originally posted on 29oct2013 on various gay forums:
http://www.gaybuttonthai.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6143
http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/9291-are-most-thai-boys-retards
https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?15710-Are-most-Thai-boys-retards
(On baht-stop and gaytingtong as well, both have gone offline.)

The probably most controversial post since I started reading and writing on the gay Thailand forums in 2009. Followed by 
(controversial posts by others)

Ode to boyish beauty on 6may2017
http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/11024-ode-to-boyish-beauty/ (visible only to members) and 

The Real Thailand "5 Things They Don't Want You to Know About Gay Thailand" alternative title: Do you drink beer for breakfast?
http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/9827-the-real-thailand/ on 26feb2015 and picked up by Bangkokbois:
https://bangkokbois.sawatdeenetwork.com/2015/02/26/5-things-james-barnes-doesnt-want-you-to-know-about-out-in-thailand/

Now I can answer my question: No. "Retard" means below average, however the behavior described in my post was the average!

Looking back 5 years, I certainly met plenty of idiots, and still do but only rarely nowadays. After years of toiling, my dating situation has improved vastly. I wish I could tell me readers how that came, but I don't know why. I think I got better at detecting who is interested, and I have more choice of whom I'm going to meet.

For years, being able to read and write Thai did not offer much advantage in dating. But now it finally does. This year I met dozens of nice boys who do not speak English and where reading and writing Thai was crucial for communication.

Original text:

Are most Thai boys retards?

A provocative title, and I won’t get new friends with this post, but I mean it exactly as I wrote it. Anyway, it’s a question and not a statement, so feel free to answer “no” and let me know why. I use “retard” to collect all these “What the fuck?!” moments I have when I try to meet Thai boys (too late, wrong place, phone battery empty, doesn’t tell me something important he knew hours ago and many more, I lost count). More precisely “Are most Thai boys I have contact with retards?”, and I would like to hear other’s stories too.

Just when you think it gets better (last month, one boy about 5 km away, efficient communication in English, acceptable delays but it seems now we are drifting apart, anyway having so-so sex – but promising! - on two of six meetings is a poor yield; and another boy, efficient communication in Thai, acceptable delays, but one meeting failed – there must have been miscommunication) there is a row of problem cases.

But first some cases from earlier this year that I vividly remember.

There was one boy I met in February this year. He was 1 hour 50 minutes late (I remember exactly because not long before I had another boy who was 1 hour 50 minutes late, but I don’t remember details of that encounter). He stayed in On Nut, we met at MBK, so I thought skytrain would be the fastest way to get there, he took bus or van or whatever that caused part of the delay. Meeting point was Naai In Books in MBK, he went to Asiabooks in Siam Paragon. When he called me that he is in the bookshop now, and I couldn’t see him, I gave up and thought this is a lost case and he is just playing with me. I had a last look at a book I had missed before (that’s why I choose a bookshop, I can spend one or two hours there), and when I left, he just arrived. It was a matter of 30 seconds and we would have missed. Only then I found out that he went to the wrong bookshop.

The largest delay I ever had was 6 hours. That was in January 2010. I gave up after 3 hours and continued my schedule as if nothing had happened, then after 6 hours he called “I am here now. Where are you?”. One of these cases with poor pictures on gayromeo, he turned out not to be my type. I now pass profiles with poor pictures. About 4 out of 5 don’t pass my requirements for a clear facepic. It can’t be that difficult to post one, just one single picture that is in focus, not too dark, that shows your face without sunglasses (unless you are a retard, than this is a major challenge).

Two months ago, an acquaintance on Grindr, we then moved to Line and he wanted to come to my place (at least I thought so). Nearing the time we agreed upon, I ask where he is: “I think we can meeting tomorrow? Rain now little”. (I love Line. You have a written record, with times. So I know I am not imagining things.) When you have exchanged a few hundred messages and tried ten times to set up a date without success, this is probably a hint that there are evil forces in the universe that don’t want us to meet.

I went to see a friend on Koh Si Chang over a weekend. I have met him about five times, every time everything was fine. He said he would go to Bangkok the following week for five days to attend some training course. We discussed long where we could meet in Bangkok, I suggested Asiatique as it is close to his accommodation in Bangkok (Rama 2 / Ratburana). On Wednesday (his first day in Bangkok), I write on Line asking where he is and when he would like to meet. The message was read, but no reply. I interpreted this correctly: something is wrong. So I call later in the afternoon, he picks up, says hello and then hands the phone to his mother (?) who tells me that he is not in Bangkok at the moment. I give up. I doubt I will get an explanation next time we meet, but I will carefully try to elucidate what went wrong.

Last week a boy on gayromeo, we exchange phone numbers. I am free on Wednesday afternoon (holiday, 23rd of October) and call him. Meet in half an hour (my suggestion) at BTS Chong Nonsi (his suggestion). I arrive and cannot get him on the phone. I call every five minutes for half an hour, then I leave. Some days later, message on gayromeo: he lost or broke his phone. I assume he didn’t come to Chong Nonsi, the station is too big to meet there without specifying a place where exactly to meet.

Last weekend in Pattaya. I had written on gayromeo with a boy who has an interesting profile, our chat was promising. I wrote I would be free on Saturday early afternoon. (I wrote this twice, on Thursday and on Friday.) When I called him on Saturday around noon, he said he would be leaving Pattaya now to take bus back to his home province to continue university. So we missed. Going back to his home province to continue studying isn’t a spontaneous decision, I assume. It’s getting rarer and rarer that I read a profile and look at the pictures and think “This one is different!”, only to be disappointed: different boy, same problems.

At the same time, I was online on gayromeo and an old acquaintance wrote to me (we didn’t have contact for about two years). He wants to meet. I suggest Tuk Com (because I can spend an hour there without getting bored). He agrees and would meet me there in 15 to 20 minutes. 30 minutes later, I call him and he asks me to come to Tony’s Fitness because he has many friends around Tuk Com and doesn’t want to be seen there (I didn’t ask why). I had mentioned Tuk Com and the Se-ed bookstore at least three times in written or spoken form. So I walk to Tony’s Fitness (about 10 minutes). Did you think he is there, waiting for me? Really? No, it takes another three phone calls and 10 minutes waiting until he arrives on a motorbike taxi. He tells me to jump on and off we drive (my head the highest point, no helmet, my knees the outmost points) for about 30 minutes into the darkest part of the Eastern side of Sukhumvit (I didn’t know that there is that much Thai and even Farang live!). The fare was 350 Baht (he paid, that must have included other trips as my return trip was only 120 Baht and 22 minutes). I must point out that I mentioned “let’s talk first” when we chatted, hopping on a motorbike and driving half an hour to a place I don’t know is not my style. He was very horny, I played along, it was so-so, there is potential.

An acquaintance from Camfrog from Hat Yai comes to Bangkok (we had a few times camsex – I’m not a fan of camsex, but better than wanking alone when I was in Europe – but never met in real life). I call him Monday afternoon. He picks up, connection is poor, suddenly interruption. I call again, he tells me he is busy and hangs up (I get that from time to time, no goodbye, they just hang up before everything is said so I have to call again, or there is background noise and the connection slips after a few seconds). Then in the evening some calls I make don’t get through, others with very poor connection or just background noise, I give up. There are evil forces in the universe that don’t want us to meet. It was actually he who wrote to me on Skype that he would come to Bangkok, so I assume he wants to meet.

You could think the Thai mobile network is the problem, but I never had these problems when I called Farang friends.

The boy from the second paragraph, make that two meetings failed. I am getting better at detection when “yes” means “no”. There are communication problems (in Thai), I think he will come to my place, but he will not. I don’t understand everything he says, but I leave with the thought “That didn’t sound enthusiastic, I would be very surprised if he actually came to my place”. I could go to Sanam Luang where he works, and then to a short time hotel, but if I pay for taxi anyway, why do I always have to do the driving, and then pay for short time hotel? Next time I will meet him there and ask about his work conditions to see if there is a day and time when he can come to my place (he did once so far, and I went to see him two times). It works out like this: I go to Sanam Luang (150 Baht) and back 150 and pay for short time room 200, or I give him 500 which allows him to come to my place 150 and go back to his place 150 and leaves him 200. My expense is the same, but I can wait in the comfort of my home and spend two hours doing something useful instead of traveling through Bangkok. (Before someone shouts “It’s all about the money!” it is not, it is about who is traveling to meet for a sex date.)

I stopped counting, the list could go on for pages, it is more the standard then the exception.

Wait, I have another one! On my second visit to Thailand, I went with a Thai friend from my first holiday to ICK (at that time I didn’t know where it is). He got drunk (at my expense) and then he disappeared. He was just gone and I was left out there alone, not knowing where I am, nobody speaking English! What a luck there are taxis! This is more a case of irresponsible behavior than being a retard.

And boys who change their phone numbers, why? I lost one German mobile phone number and one Thai mobile phone number because they expired, but only because I was not living in that country permanently. And empty battery? Can happen, but it never happened to me until last Saturday, where I was left for 15 minutes with a phone with empty battery, the first time since I started using mobile phones twelve years ago.

All the cases cited above were non-moneyboys, and I chose a central well known place (like MBK) to meet or let them choose a place to meet. I don’t remember meeting a money boy from internet, I want to see them in real life first, so I go to bars or Saranrom.

It’s not only Thai boys. I wrote about Black Woman before, and now I can add another experience. She doesn’t have a purse, she puts money loose in her handbag and every time she has to pay something she rummages through her bag to get the money. It takes minutes. Or does she do this on purpose hoping would get bored and pay for her? It doesn’t work!

A counter example (the only one I have) is a Thai friend of mine who is a hi-so buisinesswoman. She is on time every time, no problems with phone calls or SMS (that’s probably how she got successful in business, simply by being on time and efficient communication). In this case, I am the one who is late (by Thai standards you wouldn’t call five minutes being late, but by my standards, even if five minutes after a trip of two hours is just 4% off.)

I this just statistics, and all failures are accumulated in the first ten months of the year and I am in for a treat in the next two months to level everything out over the year? Or should I just accept that this life is one of mismatches and obstacles, and hope the next one will be better? (That was a joke, I don’t believe in rebirth or afterlife, I think you are born, then you lead a shitty miserable life like mine where nothing matches, then you die and rot and the worms eat you.)

Or is it my negativity that attracts these cases? When I set up a date I wonder “What will go wrong this time?” What am I going to do in that area at that time if the boy doesn’t show up? If you think I have had everything that can go wrong go wrong you are wrong, there are surprises every time. Do I have a profound lack of understanding of Thai culture or is it just that way that you come late to a date, or don’t go at all and don’t bother to tell the person who is waiting for you that you won’t come and why you won’t come or why you are late? Or am I looking for friends, fuckbuddies and a boyfriend at the wrong places (boys who are lo-so because they are retard)? Is it just lack of communication (in English or in Thai) and I fail to ask the right question at the right time or tell the boy what I have in mind?

What are your experiences? Share your stories how things can go wrong beyond imagination, and give an indication how frequently this happens.

Copyright 2013/2018 ChristianPFC

Dating Thai boys (63) Time waster

Dating Thai boys (63) Time waster

Even though the person I chatted with claimed to be a South-East Asian visitor to Thailand (and looked SEAsian on the pictures he sent), but in might fact be from anywhere, filed under "Dating Thai boys".

A profile without face picture writes to me on hornet, but sends one on request, and we quickly change to Line.

2018/10/14(Sun)

11:34 Christian (his Line ID and name, copied from hornet)

11:34 Christian (link to hornet profile)

(resume chat from hornet)

11:35 Christian I have no plan for today. We can meet in one hour or later.

11:35 Christian What are you doing now?

11:35 Christian Christian from Germany here.

11:36 timewaster Hey

11:36 Christian [Photo] picture of myself, to entice him to send one of himself

11:36 timewaster Sexy

U top?

11:36 Christian Yes

11:37 timewaster Long fuck?

11:38 Christian Send picture please.

11:38 timewaster You have them on Hornet

11:38 Christian [Photo]

(screenshot that shows that I cannot see his private pictures)

11:46 timewaster You in hotel now?

11:47 timewaster U host or travel ?

11:50 Christian I have a room here. But it's messy. I can go to your place.

11:53 timewaster U on same hotel?

11:53 Christian I rent a room. Not hotel.

11:55 timewaster How far from me?

11:55 timewaster And seriously

How big is your cock?

11:56 Christian 6 inch

11:56 timewaster U consider yourself hung?

11:57 Christian 300 meter

11:57 Christian No. Soft it's smaller.

11:57 timewaster U like ducking long time?

11:57 timewaster Man... I am talking a full erected hard cock

11:58 Christian I like hugging and cuddling more than fucking.

11:58 Christian 6 inch fully erect

11:58 timewaster Video chat?

11:58 timewaster N

11:59 timewaster Now?

11:59 Christian Yes

11:59 Christian The person you called didn't pick up.

11:59 timewaster I am naked

11:59 timewaster Wait pls

11:59 timewaster U horny?

12:01 Christian Not horny.

12:01 timewaster I like being naked with my man and touch each other

12:01 timewaster When u want to meet?

12:01 Christian Same for me.

12:01 Christian In one hour

12:33 timewaster Are u naked?

12:34 Christian No. Pajama.

12:34 timewaster Horny?

12:35 Christian No. Maybe when I see and touch your body.

12:37 timewaster Not hard?

12:37 Christian No. I only get hard during foreplay.

16:41 timewaster Hey

16:42 Christian Yes

16:42 timewaster Horny?

16:57 Christian I get horny from looking and touching, not from talking.

17:26 timewaster So come!

17:34 timewaster ?

17:43 Christian Where exactly?

17:48 Christian Your name and room number?

17:49 Christian Tom (I asked for his name before, and looked it up in our chat)

22:56 timewaster Hey

22:56 Christian Yes

23:00 timewaster Sorry I didn’t see your messages. What are you up to?

23:00 Christian Going to bed soon.

23:01 timewaster U free tomorrow?

23:02 Christian Morning and midday.

23:04 timewasterOk

23:35 timewaster I am so horny

2018/10/15(Mon)

1:00 timewaster Missed

7:49 Christian Good morning

12:53 timewaster Hey

12:53 Christian Yes

18:34 timewaster Sorry

Busy all day

18:38 Christian I'm away now. Try again tomorrow morning.

20:52 timewaster Ok

Where are u?

21:02 Christian Ladprao. Going to meet friend in Nana.

21:08 timewaster SEX friend?

2018/10/16(Tue)

7:47 timewaster Good morning

8:18 Christian Good morning

8:34 timewaster How are u?

Free?

8:34 Christian Eating breakfast. Then free.

8:35 timewaster U never told me if you like riming

8:35 Christian Not so much.

8:56 Christian Do you have aircon in your room?

8:57 timewaster Yes

Dont u?

8:57 timewaster I don’t understand... Do u live here?

8:57 timewaster How long will u be free?

9:03 Christian I do. Until 2pm.

9:04 Christian But youre location Lee guesthouse. They have rooms with fan. (Location he sent on hornet)

9:04 Christian That's why I ask.

9:04 timewaster Can u host?

9:04 Christian Yes

9:05 timewaster You look just to cuddle?

9:05 Christian Start with cuddling.

9:17 timewaster But you never do anal right?

9:18 Christian I sometimes do.

9:18 Christian I'm not free until 2. My train is at 2. Free now.

9:24 timewaster Your train to?

9:25 Christian Nakon sawan

9:25 timewaster When will be back?

9:26 Christian Tomorrow

9:43 timewaster U like sucking deep?

9:43 timewaster Wifi so bad here...

I am packing and will shower

I should be free from 10:30

Ok?

9:43 Christian I like getting sucked. Cannot suck deep.

9:44 Christian Okay. See you then.

9:44 timewaster Your train is at 2?

9:44 Christian 13:45

9:46 timewaster So u need to leave at 13:00?

9:48 Christian Yes

10:59 timewaster Sorry my mum called

I had to talk to her

Can’t you go tomorrow?

10:59 Christian Are you kidding? 

(ARE YOU TALKING OUT OF YOUR ARSE?)

11:00 Christian About going tomorrow.

11:03 timewaster I don’t know

Is it work related?

11:03 timewaster What’s your condo name?

11:07 Christian Not work. Meet a friend.

11:07 Christian Do you want to come now?

11:16 timewaster Condo name

11:17 Christian No name. (details)

11:28 timewaster Not enough time now

12:08 timewaster I am in my room if you want to come now

12:10 Christian Too late.

12:11 timewaster Just pass by so at least we meet

12:11 Christian Lee Travel Inn? I will pass and can say hello.

12:15 timewaster When?

12:17 Christian 1pm

12:18 timewaster Can u come now?

12:19 Christian No. I'm in my room. Packing. Come here if you want to meet now.

12:20 timewaster U didn’t pack yet? :-)

12:20 timewaster I wanted a cuddle

12:26 timewaster [Photo]

And a picture from back that he sent to me on hornet before:

A bit on the fat side, by my standards. I wouldn’t rush to get my hands on that body, but cannot exclude the possibility of sex either. Depends on circumstances. Face picture matches (not shown for privacy reasons) body type and skin colour.

12:26 timewaster Waiting for YOU in my room

12:26 Christian Room number?

12:27 timewaster Let me know when you are very near

12:29 timewaster When?

12:36 Christian I tell you 5 min before I arrive

12:37 timewaster U come in 5mn?

Cool

12:37 Christian No. 1pm

12:38 timewaster But you will stay 1mn only then

12:38 Christian 5 minutes

12:38 timewaster Not worth it then

12:39 timewaster I can’t believe you didn’t pack yet and you need all this time for a day away

12:56 Christian Now is your chance. In 5 minutes at Lee.

12:58 timewaster My chance for what?

I leave tomorrow

13:02 Christian I'm here.

13:03 Christian Meet or not?

13:03 timewaster I told u I leave tomorrow

Too late

13:03 Christian Now

13:03 timewaster Enjoy your day

13:03 Christian Bye

13:05 timewaster U have a small cock, don’t like to rim, to fuck, to kiss

13:06 timewaster What’s the point really?

End of chat, and he blocked me on hornet. (Chat is gone, and I can't open his profile any more, but a friend can.)

In hindsight, I think that person might even have been a troll (i.e. no intention to meet at all; whereas time waster would be just a dating style different from mine, with too much talk before sex). Whenever I agree on something, he comes up with something else or goes quiet. I should have insisted on video chat, to see if he is at least the person in the pictures.

Copyright 2018 ChristianPFC

Gay Activities Sep 2018

Gay Activities Sep 2018

Sat 1sep2018 Bangkok

Prepare for trip to Cambodia. The boy S whom I met in DJ-station last month and who is supposed to be in Siem Reap now (and my message to him was just to confirm that we will meet there soon) is still in Bangkok and wants to meet. Why not? Have dinner, then to my room for horizontal activities.

S falls asleep, then wakes up and tells me he cannot stay overnight for lack of a Buddha statue or image in my room. Gaybutton once reported a case where a boy could not stay overnight for fear of ghosts in the bathroom. What stories do others have?

Up to 2013, I was looking for longtime. But nowadays I sleep rather alone. Particularly in this case, where I had travel preparations and an early start tomorrow.

Sun 2sep2018 Nakon Ratchasima

On a previous trip, I found a cute boy online and now we can meet. He is at a bar, drinking with a friend. I join for one drink, and then the life music becomes unbearable. Carefully approach the issue if he wants to come with me to my hotel: not now. In parallel work online (hornet and blued): when we are about to set up a meeting, one asks for money, sorry, bye. Another works until midnight, too late for me. To bed alone.

Mon 3sep2018 Siem Reap

Sightseeing all day, arrive in Siem Reap at night. Meet a boy Yabi from hornet for dinner, but I’m undecided whether to invite him to my room, so I don’t. Look in Barcode bar for an old friend and ask for him: don’t know. I should have brought a picture, but I was so convinced that I would find him online or in real, that I didn’t think of it.

Tue 4sep2018 Siem Reap

Sightseeing all day. Last year I met a very nice boy, but lost contact online. But I know where he works, go there and ask for him (with picture). He still works there, but is sick at home. Online contact re-established.

Wed 5sep2018 Battambang

Few weeks ago Tim from Battambang contacted me on hornet. Now would be the chance to meet him, but he works in Poipet. Same for another boy from Battambang, works elsewhere in Cambodia.

Thu 6sep2018 return to Bangkok

Boy-wise, no luck on this trip since I left Bangkok.

Fri 7sep2018 Bangkok

A boy I met some years ago in Seed Ramkhamhaeng Soi 53, and stayed in contact with, comes to meet me. Skin temperature okay, slim brown, but too hairy (I knew already from first encounter). Afterwards invites me for dinner. Good English and no character flaws, but too much body hair is no base for a repeat.

Sat 8sep2018 Bangkok

Meet the boy from yesterday for movie. Say goodbye and directly to Farose II (22:07-00:10). No more food on rooftop garden/restaurant. No more coke in the disco. Two changes that make Farose II less attractive. Some structural changes, and now a fridge with glass door and cold drinks for sale.

There is one cute boy who seems interested, but reticent? It took me over one hour of approaching him, the leaving him alone and looking elsewhere, then coming back, repeat; until I got him into a room. Very shapely head and neck (it was the perfectly globular back of his head that was the major attraction for me), body shape and skin temperature okay. But a crab ladder.

Exchange Line and should I ever travel to Yala, hope to meet him there. A lot of foreign boys (from Cambodia and Myanmar almost every time I go there), and Thai from the provinces in Farose II. Much more than in other saunas.

In Pattaya I know a boy who has no body hair at all (but is money boy - I just can't have everything together). To compensate for the two hairy ones above, next time I meet him I will kiss and lick from one knee via crotch to the other knee, and back, and forth.

This is how I feel about hairy upper legs (arbitrary pictures from gay dating and internet combined):

Sun 9sep2018 Koh Si Chang

During low tide, it’s possible to walk from Koh Si Chang to an uninhabited neighboring island. A fact I learnt of only recently, and a good reason to visit my friend there. Brown and slim, and we sleep in the same bed so I make a few probing gropes, but no response.

Tue 11sep2018 Bangkok

Ball from Kanchanaburi is in Bangkok and comes to my room 11:13-58. All fine in bed, but a bit rushed once again. Have to ponder if it’s worth 1000 THB.

For the afternoon a boy B wanted to come, no show. And as I had one in the morning, I didn’t message him to remind him (at 12:16 he said he would come to my place between 14:00 and 14:30), just to see if he remembers, or at least apologizes afterwards: nothing!

At night, a boy Em who works nearby comes for dinner and horizontal activities. Worth a repeat.

An interesting find on facebook "It's difficult to find a boyfriend. Looking for money is easier." Boyfriend or money! 2500 is absurd, but in other posts on facebook he asks for a reasonable 500.

Wed 12sep2018 Samut Sakorn

Go to Samut Sakorn to meet an old friend there. As before, activities in bed are worth the trip (about 3 hours each way) and cost for hotel (750 THB, usually I don’t spend that much, but he recommended the place and it’s in convenient location for me – close to bus stop – and for him).

Thu 13sep2018 Bangkok

Back in my room from Sakon Nakon, Tim from Battambang comes to meet me. Quickly get into bed, so-so (ticklish on neck and nipples, two areas that I very much like to get my lips and tongue on). Furthermore, he lied about is age (25 in hornet, but in real 30). No repeat.

Sake disco 00:56-3:07. Recently they introduced 120 THB entry which includes free mixers for the night. Surprisingly busy for a Thursday night. 12 Coyote boys 01:24-45. Mutual interest with Art, exchange Line to meet another day. Closing 3:00 sharp.

Fri 14sep2018 Bangkok

Art lives nearby (in Surawong) and is free now (early afternoon), go to meet him. His room is a bit bigger and nicer than mine. Activities in bed good, I’m looking forward for a repeat. Gay and living in Surawong can only mean one thing, and with little probing, he tells me he works in the show in a bar in Soi Twilight. We have lunch (Sukiya Japanese, my suggestion) together, and I would have invited him, but he was quicker with paying and refused my money. That’s a first, that a boy who works in a gogo bar (I don’t know if he goes with customers or just performs in the show) sleeps with me for free and invites me to lunch!

At night meet Em who works near my place again (comes after work for dinner and horizontal activities).

Sat 15sep2018 Bangkok

Meet an old friend NM whom I once offed years ago in Kawaii in Pattaya. He is not so much my type, but very interesting person. Now we are just friends, no sex, no money. We meet at Siam. NM brings his younger brother, who is gay but not my type. Both speak good English, and many a laugh is had by all of us, which is very rare. We have dinner and then embark on a quest for a new mobile phone case for NM. In Siam Paragon they don’t have what he is looking for, but in Central Chitlom. I would not believe it if someone told me, but I saw it with my own eyes, he paid 2500 THB for a phone case! My last phone cost 6000 THB.

Say goodbye and take bus to Pata Pinklao. Macho X sauna 20:23-21:10. Show is in progress, the very shapely 41 y.o. and a slim but a bit hairy younger one, and about 15 spectators (all too old and too fat for me). Show is Fri and Sat 8 pm.

Chat with K on blued, and go to see him as he lives nearby (Pinklao) and is free now. Confirm mutual interest, but postpone horizontal activities for another time.

Sun 16sep2018 Bangkok

A boy J whom I met twice in 2013, and whom I would have met more often but think he lost interest, is nearby on hornet and wants to meet. A bit too fat (already in 2013), and wet skin, and slight smell of cigarette smoke when kissing, but everything else is fine. “Fine” is an understatement, his blowjobs are the best I ever had, and he makes me cum twice within one hour. A biological miracle!

source: sent to me on Line by a friend

In the afternoon bus to Imperial Samrong to meet a boy Alex from hornet who lives there. Have lunch and watch a movie. After cumming twice today, I’m not in the mood for sex; agree to meet another time for more.

But even after cumming twice, once I have made the trip that far out, I can do a repeat visit to Tara Sauna Bearing Soi 40. Stay there 20:01-46, count 15 customers, estimate over 20, but all too old and too fat for my taste.

Mon 17sep2018 Bangkok

A boy Aran (hornet or blued?) who lives nearby comes to my room. A bit on the fat side, but perfectly warm and dry skin and no body hair. Have a good time in bed, worth a repeat.

Wed 19sep2018 Bangkok

After no actities yesterday, message various boys online, but either no reply or not free. But finally, I had given up for today, a boy J who lives nearby and whom I met last month, comes to my room for horizontal activities.

Thu 20sep2018 Bangkok

The straight boy I recruited at the pool last year was offline for months, but now is back and has been asking me daily for over a week when we can meet. Today is his chance! His body is fine, but small penis and doesn’t get hard, and no response to my caresses. But at 500 THB, and boy coming to my room on time, I can keep him on my list.

Fri 21sep2018 Bangkok

Sake 00:12-01:37. Entry on Friday 160 THB including mixers. 10 coyote boys. Several bordercases among the customers, but none of them interested.

Sat 22sep2018 Ang Thong

I have been in contact for months on hornet and Line with a boy Mos who lives in Ang Thong. And there is some sightseeing left, so I go to meet him and sightseeing.

Comes by old car from about 20 km out of town. Probably not his car, as he told me he owns a mocy. But Mos works in car repair and they might have a pool of old but road-worthy cars. My type, my style, will do a repeat some day. The first time that I have seen a cock-ring in action. Before only on pictures or rarely in a sauna.

Mos has to return home for early start tomorrow. That leaves me time to see who else is online in Ang Thong. And indeed, there is another cute who wants to meet. Picks me up at my hotel and we go for dinner. Then back to room, but doesn’t even want to take off his shirt. And chat before was all about relationship and not about sex.

Sun 23sep2018 Sukhothai

Sightseeing in Ang Thong, then bus to Sukhothai.

Mon 24sep2018 Sukhothai

Months ago, I came across a cute boy Tor on hornet, and we stayed in contact, and this trip was to meet him. He is free this Monday, and while my preference would be to meet at night (so I can do sightseeing during day), he wants to meet 14. That leaves morning and midday for sightseeing, and considering how hot and sunny the day was, that was enough time outside!

We meet at the bus station (he comes by mocy from about 20 km out of town), and then go to my room (hotel near bus sation). I take shower and emerge from bathroom in towel. Then hugging and groping and undressing (I naked, Tor in underwear), but Tor is indifferent in bed. Filed as “no sex” in summary. A bit on the fat side anyway. After about an hour napping together, Tor says he has to go home. Say goodbye and I remain a bit puzzled what he thought this meeting would be about.

Now I can cross him off my list of promising potential sexual partners. But when passing Nakon Sawan, I chatted with a boy whom I will visit some time soon (16oct2018, positive).

Still two hours daylight, perfect for sightseeing near town.

General note on using English or Thai. This boy (Tor Sukhothai) speaks good English, but still there are confusions:

The boy Alex in Samrong even more confusing:

Then I found out that he doesn't speak English, but used online translation, and switched to Thai, and now all clear.

Here one case that is incomprehensible:

Wed 26sep2018 Bangkok

An old acquaintance (ex-BFC3in2017) comes to Bangkok and looks for a place to stay. My room is free, and I will be in all the time, so I invite him. Slim and brown, I would be up for horizontal activities, but he does not seem interested.

Thu 27sep2018

Myanmar reported separately, but encounters in summary.

Summary:

14 free sex: Sei (knew from before), Got (knew from before), A (Farose II), Em (hornet or blued?), Nat, Tim (from Cambodia, hornet), Art (met in Sake), Em (knew from before), Jack (hornet), Aran (hornet or blued?), Jesse (knew from before), Mos (hornet), James Yangon (gayromeo), NK Mandalay (blued).

10 no sex: Yo in Korat, Yabi in Siem Reap, Got (watch movie), Yui, NM, K, Alex Samrong, Golf Ang Thong, Tor Sukhothai, First.

4 paid sex: Ball Kanchanaburi 1000, Kim 500, D’lax massage Yangon 20 kMMK = 400 THB, Lashio Mandalay 20 kMMK = 400 THB, sum 2300 THB.

2 disco: Sake, Sake.

3 sauna: Farose II, Macho X, Tara Bearing Soi 40.

2 massage: D’lax Yangon, Lashio Mandalay.

1 no show: B.

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