Gay activities Mar2021

Gay activities Mar2021
I’m keeping the high level of Dec-Feb, despite beginning limitations of public life due to Covid outbreak in Phnom Penh on 20 February, and boys being afraid of going out to meet me. Some boys in Phnom Penh I see every week, the closest I ever got to having a boyfriend.

Mon1mar2021 Siem Reap to Kampong Thom
Bus from Siem Reap to Kampong Thom for sightseeing and to meet a boy Ratha. Stay in Arunras Hotel. According to Lonely Planet 2014, Arunras Hotel had the only lift in town then. That provides a new pick-up line: Do you want to come with me? My hotel has a lift!

During my exploratory walk through town in the evening, by chance Ratha passes on mocy, recognizes and messages me, and we meet there. Not cute and shaved facial hair, neither of us messaged the other afterwards.

On the way to my hotel after sunset, on an unlit dust road at the fringes of town, I spot spot several CRT TV in homes. (Cathode-ray tube Television, so some are still around and running!)

Online dating, 12th profile (because 12 profiles fit on screen of my mobile phone) is in distance 1 km blued, 31 km grindr, 76 km romeo, 122 km hornet.

Tue2mar2021 Kampong Thom
Meet DaraKThom at market 9:20, he stays on mocy, we have a short chat and he will come back at 11. Good English, face soso. Message him 11:00, finally knock on door 11:30. To bed, body soso. He gets hard slowly, I stay soft. Some nipple play, little kissing, sucks me but I don’t suck him (pubes too long, dick too short; I would have his pubic hair in my nostrils). Lays tissue on his abdomen, I suck his nipple and part of his cum goes on my hair and forehead. DaraKThom out 12:32. No repeat. Afterwards messages me he is money boy. How odd!

Fri5mar2021 Phnom Penh
Bar hopping with a German friend V. First closures and limitations due to 20 February Covid outbreak. Blue Chili and Toolbox open, but Heart of Darkness closed. V wanted to go to Town Entertainment Club, but we can’t reach them by phone, and in Golden Sorya Mall (not a shopping center, but an entertainment complex in street 51) most places closed and others few customer, abort. Go to “Vietnamese friendship Army monument” instead, busy, cute boys and girls. A group of gay boys, but no cute among them, make indecent gestures to me.

In parallel (or rather: V’s visit was on short notice, Dara110 was first), I had set up an unspecified date with Dara110 in the evening. Being busy with V, I didn’t follow up on that was glad that Dara110 didn’t message me either. But now, just before going to bed, a message from him: he did not forget me, but waited for my message, and I waited for his message!

Sun7mar2021 Phnom Penh
Dara110 comes to my hotel and we have a good time. He will go to Siem Reap with rented taxi 50 USD one way (friend pays) for up to 4 passengers. That is quite cheap and I will keep this in mind for future travel (sightseeing along the way, that would be impossible by bus).

Mon8mar2021 Phnom Penh
Jane comes in the afternoon and we have a good time in bed. Afterwards, I get up to read and study, whereas he stays in bed sleeping or dozing. I ask him why he spends so much time in bed: because he has nothing to do! That’s another reason (beside being too emotional) why I don’t want to spend too much time with him (basically, just sex and fringe activities; I wouldn’t take him on a trip or let him stay with me longer than over night). To get him to do something useful, I show him that he can study English on youtube, and it seems to have caught on.

Tue9mar2021 Phnom Penh
Jane’s alarm 8, bye 9.

Wed10mar2021 Phnom Penh
SakSela cancels 17:03 (my last message was 12:42).

Chat with KenVN (Vietnamese, we chatted many times before, no English, works 400 m and lives 4 km from my room, never managed to get him after work) and set a date for 20:30.

Finally arrives 21:00, I go to road to pay for tuktuk. To my room. I take shower, he writes “no sex” on blued, then “Why do you take your pants off?” I reply: “Why do you keep your pants on?” Plays on his phone. Cute, warm dry skin, can feel through clothes. Show him pictures form my last trip to Vietnam, then let him scroll through all my pictures in camera (several show me with boys), then through all pictures on my camera (he likes the 7-11 tattoo boy and the Myanmese completely black tattoo), and spots screenshots I took of his profile. Can speak and write Chinese, input by drawing on touch screen (i.e. he can handwrite Chinese).
 

Slowly warms up (or more horny or curious than hesitant – not shy, lights on), shirt up so I can suck his nipples which makes him groan. Can feel his cock hard (when I touched his crotch at the start, disapproval), take off trousers, suck him. Average cock, pubes stretching to abdomen, but no hair on balls and ass. Suck his cock, balls, rim him. Some kisses, he wants me to cum but I can’t get fully hard. I lie on my back and he sits and wanks us both and cums on me. Then quickly back to play on phone. Some awkward positions (i.e. I couldn’t get him in position I wanted) and too much phone and communication difficulties, but nice body, interesting character. An interesting and inspiring encounter, meet again! Give him 10k for tuktuk, bye 22:46 in my room.

Thu11mar2021 Phnom Penh
SakSela cancels 18:17 (appointment was for 18, still file as cancel).

Dinner in restaurant, Ahly and Somey come to meet me there. Ahly speaks better English, so most chat with Ahly. Ahly cute, Somey even cuter. After dinner to my room, chat and some awkward pauses. I’m wondering if they are looking for a threesome, or if they ever had something with each other, but then bye and go home (both together) 21:47. Potential for more next time!

Fri12mar2021 Phnom Penh
Donald cancels, sick from vaccination yesterday.

Some weeks ago, a ladyboy Mana messaged me on online dating and then approached me on riverside (I didn’t recognize her from online dating because she is not my type). Today I cave in to her multiple invitations for massage at her place. Mostly out of curiosity about her living conditions, certainly not for sex and I told her so.

Her room is about 3 m x 3 m with a corner about 1 m x 1 m lost for bathroom outside, rent 60 USD/month. Fan (standing on floor), clothes hanging rack, shelf for shrine and storage of kitchenware, mattress on floor. Massage okay (back and head good), chat, some indecent touches. She is 43 years old (born 25 years too early for me), hard from start average size. Hints at money problems, so I give her 5 USD. Show her pictures of boys I like on my phone.

Even without sex, that sent a wrong message. Now she thinks she can message me every time she is bored or horny or needs money, which is about every hour. Some days, I had over 30 unread messages from her on various apps.

Update 23apr2021: I went again for massage, no sex, and that finally got her to stop messaging me every day, nay multiple times per day.

Jamie comes to my room and we have a good time.

Sun14mar2021 Phnom Penh

Top Sakaew added me on Line, now works “dek drink” in Pattaya. He made some effort (what exactly?) to contact me again. Years ago, I lost all contact and made some effort to contact him again. Namely messaging various of his friends on facebook asking about his whereabouts, and one of them turned out to be his girlfriend and she told me he is in prison for drugs for a year.

“dek drink” (“dek” is “child” in Thai, drink is English for beverage), i.e. staff in entertainment venues whose main job is to entertain customers while consuming alcoholic drinks. Upon probing deeper, I found he is a gogo boy in Boyztown.

Unfortunately I no longer feel horny with him; I collected that information to mentally prepare for or even avoid meeting him.

Mon15mar2021 Phnom Penh
Somey asks for 20 USD for touching and fucking, I agree. Doesn’t say when he will arrive, then asks if he can bring a friend. Somey and Ahly in my room, I take shower. Ahly waits in bathroom (i.e. locks himself in when I hint that I would rather he wait outside; and then comes out quietly and peeks around the corner to see how far I have gotten with Somey). I ask Somey for a back massage, does it okay. Somey a bit shy to take off his clothes. Slim body, skin temperature okay. Nice big balls , cock average soft throughout. No hair on balls and ass. Finger him but don’t try to kiss or ask him to suck me. Activities soso, only does what I ask him. I cum by assisted wanking. Refuse Ahly’s request for money, tell him I didn’t invite him. Touch his abdomen and let him touch my penis. He can’t do more because he has a boyfriend. Shows me pictures, boyfriend looks okay. 20 USD Somey bye 15:51 in my room. A loss of control (Ahly locking himself in my bathroom) and a waste of money (Somey). But both are cute, give them another chance.

Tue16mar2021 Phnom Penh
Donald cannot come to my room (afraid of Covid), but I can come to his room, and so I do. His room has aircon, but their bathroom is very basic. But when I take a shower in my room and then tuktuk to his room, everything is fine. We watch a movie on his tablet and have some fun. Dinner together, then bye.

Golden Sorya Mall some bars and restaurants open (low light), about 20 customers combined. Heart of Darkness, Toolbox, Blue Chili closed.

Wed17mar2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with Hea_Nak, some pictures look cute, others not, and in video chat he looks soso. And he wants to bring his friend and wants money 50 USD, bye.

Dinner with SakSela (finally, after two cancellations). I invited him to my room, but he cannot come now, bye on road.

Thu18mar2021 Phnom Penh
KenVN comes by tuktuk, I pay 8k to driver. To my room, plays on phone, then sends message to me asking for 50 USD, I offer 10. To cut it short (and as a character test), I hand him 10 USD, but he refuses to take it, I put it on table under remote control. After about half an hour (we both are lying in bed, he is playing on his mobile phone, so I do the same), he starts sex. But I have to do all the work (nipple play, sucking dick and balls, rimming, try to finger but he rejects, hint at fucking but he rejects). Keeps shirt on, lifted up. At the end wanking. Then a phone call and hasty departure, he didn’t take the 10 USD on table, and I had no time to give him money for tuktuk. That shows that money was not the main thing on his mind.

I cannot give/lend someone I have met twice 50 USD, at least not for such a poor performance in bed! Sex a one-way road; before, during and after I’m an attachment like the male  Anglerfish, picture see here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triplewart_seadevil#Reproduction.

Fri19mar2021 Phnom Penh
BigDick can meet 12, asks for money, I offer 10 USD, he agrees. Delays in communication, finally 18:33 he cancelled for Covid. Filed as no-show.

Sat20mar2021 Phnom Penh
Girl story from V: 10 pm, she asked him for money for food, he sent her 5 USD. But minimum withdrawal amount from ATM is 10 USD, so he sent her 5 USD more. She spent 7 USD for tuktuk to ATM and market and 3 USD on dinner. Next morning 10 am, she asks him for money again.

Sun21mar2021 Phnom Penh
Narin comes to my room. No English, use google translate, a bit awkward. Plays on his phone, so do I until he starts touching me. Everything average (body, face, skin color, cock and balls, activities), no repeat. 20k to Narin for tuktuk return trip.

Phirun arrives 21:11. Park mocy inside. In my room, plays on phone, I study on computer. Then join him in bed, but he wants to take shower first. Nice haircut, brown skin, but a bit on fat side and excessive pubic hair and crab ladder. Enjoys me kissing his neck and we have a good time, stays over night.

Mon22mar2021 Phnom Penh
In the morning perfect warm and dry skin, another round.

Song_Wan no show, not read (date 18:00, last online about 17).

Tue23mar2021 Phnom Penh
Pich_Chantha is looking for boyfriend or money, wants 50 USD, I offer 10. Read but no reply. That might seem low, but if he has a sexual interest in me he would jump at this offer. After paying Somey 20 USD for lying in my bed like a bag of rice, I rather start with offering 10 USD, and those worth more get more.

The situation is asymmetric to my disadvantage: the boy knows how much he will get, but I don’t know what I will get.

Jane messages me: is in Long Live Hotel in quarantine (someone at his workplace – now closed anyway – tested positive?), asks me to buy him food and fruit juice. I bring him the requested goods. He waits at reception, I put the stuff on a table, security sprays it with disinfectant, Jane picks it up. I came up with the idea of giving him 20 USD in an envelope in addition to the foodstuff. That has two purposes: now that he has some money, I hope someone else can do the shopping for him, and as a character test. He passed the character test: didn’t ask for more food delivery or more money.

Wed24mar2021 Phnom Penh
Go to Donald’s place for movie on his tablet, fun, another movie. Dinner together, then bye.

Thu25mar2021 Phnom Penh
Boy from Taiwan on hornet suddenly offline while setting up a date. Filed as canceled.

Sun28mar2021 Phnom Penh
Leng (first encounter 21jan2021) at coffee shop 16:25. To my room, to bed. Kissing too much, too wet. Nice hairless balls and ass. Sixpack and chest fine. Small dick about 4 inch, hard most of the time. Suck each other and finger him. My penis and pubes wet from his saliva. Nice warm dry skin. 20 USD for Leng bye 17:18 in my room.

Mon29mar2021 Phnom Penh
Dara110 comes to my hotel and we have a good time.

Tue30mar2021 Phnom Penh
Alex arrives 20:04, meet on 3rd floor (he is coming up to my room, I was going down to meet him). To my room, I take shower. He is in bed shirtless, shorts, no underwear, hairy lower legs. Some hugs, he takes shower. Small talk, indecent touching. He wet with precum, I don’t get hard (too hairy!). I ask him for back massage, first refuses saying he can’t do, then okay massage. Hugging, fall asleep, wake up, bye 22:16 in my room.

Wed31mar2021 Phnom Penh
Meet V at his place and we have a walk along lady massage shops on street 271. We passed more than 10, all with price 10k displayed. Ask one: extra costs 25 USD, ask two more, each quote 10 USD. No shower, no aircon in the rooms.

Summary Mar2021 Phnom Penh
12 Free sex: DaraKThom, Dara110, Jane, KenVN (5 USD), Jamie, Donald, KenVN (5 USD), Narin (5 USD), Phirun, Donald, Dara110, Alex = 15 USD.
2 Paid sex: Somey 20 USD, Leng 20 USD = 40 USD.
5 No sex: Ratha KThom, Ahly and Somey, Mana ladyboy, SakSela, Jane.

No show: BigDick, Song_Wan.
Canceled by boy: SakSela, SakSela, Donald, Taiwan boy.
Missed: Dara110.
Negotiate: Hea_Nak 50USD - (no counteroffer), Pich_Chantha 50 USD - 10 USD.

Many cannot meet because afraid of Covid, see separate post: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/03/dating-thai-boys-86-covid-thwarts-my.html

11 Repeat: Dara110, Jane, KenVN, Jamie, Somey, Donald, KenVN, Phirun, Donald, Leng, Dara110.
3 No repeat: DaraKThom, Narin, Alex.

10 Old: Dara110, Jane, Jamie, Donald, KenVN, Phirun, Donald, Leng, Dara110, Alex.
4 New: DaraKThom, KenVN, Somey, Narin.

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