Dating Thai Boys (100) Lazy bottom

Dating Thai Boys (100) Lazy bottom
Behavioral study of what I call “lazy bottom”.

Sat16nov2024 Bangkok
I have been chatting with Hen for a while, today he can meet after finishing work 17. When I send a reminder 17:16, I learn that he will finish work 20. Send another reminder 20:16, slow in reply, would rather meet another day. Filed as missed.

Tue19nov2024 Bangkok
Try again with Hen, date for 19, but it seems he leaves his place 19. A common misunderstanding, I mean time we meet, boy means time he leaves his place. Finally arrives 20:15. Positive first impression. Face mask but I can see he is cute and shapely. We sit on my bed, small talk, then he plays a video game on his phone and I have some gropes. A bit shy or inexperienced?

I do all the work (take of his clothes one by one, then nude activities). Light on no problem. Little or no response. As soon as there is a gap in activities, he is back on his phone (video game). 200 for return trip. No repeat.

Thu21nov2024 Bangkok
I thought the date with Hen two days ago was not what both sides expected (at least for me underwhelming), but he messages me and wants to meet again! Out of curiosity, and he is nearby and cheap and I know timing, and I have nothing else planned, I agree.

From our last encounter I have he idea that he is a lazy bottom, so now I act on that and give him a good fucking. Can't get any clear sign of enjoyment out of him, and as soon as we are done, plays on his phone. 200 for travel.

Mon9dec2024 Bangkok
Hen wants to meet, I agree. Spends a bit of time in bathroom. Quickly to bed. My beard tickles him lightly. Again light body odor, as on previous and future encounters I think his last shower has been many hours ago. Little to no response. Warm dry skin, body shape okay. I initiate a few closed lip kisses. 200 for travel expenses.

Sun15dec2024 Bangkok
Hen wants to meet and I invite him to my room. I give him a good fucking, everything else as usual: little or no response, busy on phone with video game and online dating. 200 for travel expenses (he still asks if I pay for return trip every time we set up a date).

Sun5jan2025 Bangkok
Hen wants to meet. As before, he smells slightly unwashed. I'm not in the mood for fucking, just hugging today. This is the 6th time we meet, give him a total of 500 for Happy New Year.

One of his online dating profiles says he is looking for money, but I can't imagine that he is coming for the change. If he were going by bus that would indeed cost only 10 Baht each way, but I think he comes by mocy taxi, estimated 150 Baht return trip.

There is no other way to explain than that he finds me sexually attractive, and has no way to express it? Or we have sex in completely different ways? When we are hugging or I fuck him, when you observe him, it would be difficult to tell if he is having sex or doing his tax declaration.

And he is not the only one! Bank Samut Sakhon and Bank Sakaew are similar. I group these as “lazy bottom”. If I didn't take the lead, they would sit with me fully clothed and play on their phone until it's time to go home. At least these two are okay company out of bed, whereas Hen is dull.

On the other hand, you have boys who imitate what they see in porn, moaning and English expressions, which I find a turn-off. I call these “porn star”.

Occasionally a “power bottom” who takes the lead and can't get enough in all positions you can think of.

A rare case of a "bossy bottom" or "bossy MB" in general, in Cambodia in 2023. I pay him, but he takes the lead in bed, to the extent of ordering me around. Even if it not aligns with my ideas, it adds some dynamic which I like better than lazy bottom.

The above shines some light on "lazy bottom". Actions or rather non-actions that can easily be misunderstood. E.g. if a boy plays on his phone that doesn't mean he is bored with our chat or activity, rather wants me to take the lead. And then there are boys who don't get hard despite obviously otherwise enjoying what we do. So many ways to have sex, and to express or not to express sexual arousal.

But a lot of Thai boy behavior is still a mystery to me. Countless cases where I thought both of us had a good time, but when I want a repeat it's messages not read or slow reply (I mean hours or days of delay, and I have to send multiple messages to get the boy's attention), and then busy or bullshit. Money boys with poor communication, where meeting fails for that.

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