Gay activities Sep2021

Gay activities Sep2021
General online dating, rear view versus front view of boys, consistent inconsistent tuktuk fares, changes on Blued and Hornet.

Wed1sep2021 Phnom Penh
Go to Donald’s place for fun and movie.

Thu2sep2021 Phnom Penh
Online dating no success.

Fri3sep2021 Phnom Penh
Blue Chili raided, details see here:
https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?22365-Blue-Chili-raided-on-3sep2021
That was close! That weekend I had vague plans to go to Toolbox, another gay bar in Phnom Penh. The interesting part is that all customers were detained (over night, Covid-test). As far as I remember news about bar raids in Pattaya, the customers were usually released soon.

Sat4sep2021 Phnom Penh
Nico comes to my room for chat and fun.

Mon6sep2021 Phnom Penh
Construction site in temple, sit down there and play with cats. The cute boy (brown, no body hair, a bit stocky, no sixpack or abs once I saw him shirtless) whit whom I exchanged smiles before is there, beckon him to sit next to me. No English (I knew before), no Thai either. Touch his leg and ask about his scars. Touch his hand to look at long fingernail. My hand on his upper thigh, but then someone calls him to work. Another boy even cuter face and shapelier body who I have not seen before.

An old acquaintance SR30may2021 from Siem Reap is in Phnom Penh and wants to meet and needs money for hotel/food/travel. Comes to my place, we have a good time, 30 USD.

I just said bye to SR30may2021 and open the curtains to shared balcony and lie in bed and spot a shapely body in towel (can see only back). Open door, cute boy smoking. Say hello, he speaks English and French, my neighbor in room 403, is in Phnom Penh for probably 2 days, then to Sihanoukville for work. Asks if I drink (alcohol), I negate, he has a bottle of whisky in his room. Was that an invitation?

"Ein schöner Rücken kann auch entzücken." - literal translation "A beautiful back can also delight", translate keeping the rhyme "A beautiful rear can also endear", but a
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Tue7sep2021 Phnom Penh
Out for breakfast. Smile at cute boy at construction site, he smiles back and watches as I play with cat. Back home 10:37, R403 just leaving. Chair on balcony. I missed him during breakfast and playing with cats. Wait for him to come back.

R403 comes back 18:09. I left my door open for fresh air and to see when he comes back, he just walked past.

Wed8sep2021 Phnom Penh
R403 offers me pomelo, we eat pomelo on balcony and general chat. He smoked at least 3 cigarettes in the morning, I ask why: stress from no work, no money, no partner. Enquire about partner: was married, now single. Age 22, got his first mobile phone at age 14. He will check out, no money to stay longer. Will move to a friend’s place on the outskirts. Each of us plays on his mobile phone, and I thought we leave it at then, but then he tells me he will take his clothes to his friend’s place and come back for sightseeing, but I recommend he store his clothes in my room and we go now.

We take grab to Euro Park for sightseeing. I put my hand on his upper thigh during ride, no reaction. R403 points out cute girls. He is busy on two phones at the same time, always one connected to power bank to keep them both full batteries. Lunch together, then bye.

R403 will be back tonight and invites me (to pay for everything?) to his friend’s birthday party. So far no other guests other than us two.

Knock on door 18:45 (he wrote he would come 20), showers in my bathroom, comes back half dressed. Shirtless front soso shape, back looked better. R403 tells me he was on balcony and woman across was walking around shirtless and he saw her but she didn’t notice him.

Street 118 Hot Girl Bar (closed, but they let us in for private party). No aircon. A bit later two cute boys join. His friends from school.
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Birthday boy arrives and 19:39 we move to second floor with aircon. I ask them not to smoke in the room, they go to bathroom for smoking.
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I get slightly drunk on beer (Angkor beer about 2 bottles, in glass with ice, taste good; whereas other beer soon bitter). Music from youtube and karaoke. Girls sit on the side, little interaction. Read on my mobile phone and interesting conversation: Khmer love foreigners except American, British, Thai (because they steal their culture), Vietnamese (because they steal their land), Lao. The government loves Chinese, but the population does not. There are three kinds of Chinese: tourist, business, gang (i.e. criminals). They especially respect Germans “because Albert Einstein inventing the nuclear” (idiosyncratic excessive use of “-ing” and “the” which I find cute). I know what he means, but not the right place and time to correct him.
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Due to a misunderstanding* (birthday boy asks me what activities I like: hiking, temples, mountains, good food) burger is ordered for me and fries for them. I finish my beer to leave the party and the two cute boys insist of walking me home. I was bracing myself for a request to pay for everything, but no! They want to show me around Cambodia. They will stay at the party until morning. All three (R403 and his two friends) cute and good to excellent English, but totally straight. But nonetheless, interesting conversation and shared interest in traveling, we will do 3 weekend trips in 3 months.

*General: I like (general statement) and I want to (do now) are often confused in SEAsia. I like cake, but I don’t want to eat cake now!

Thu9sep2021 Phnom Penh
The boys stayed in room 403 over night (but yesterday he told me he will check out because he has no money to pay the room any more, 12 USD/night). R403 calls passapp without destination and explains: fare is calculated 3 kKHR first 1 km, then 1 kKHR/1km. 1 USD = 4100 KHR.

Can talk about current local and world news, history and other subjects with R403 and his friends as well.

I’m back in my room midday, and Jane’s bus is delayed. What a luck for me! It would be quite a mess if Jane and R403 met. Jane arrives 14:09, R403’s stuff still in my room, but Jane doesn’t notice.

Walk around Royal Palace in the evening. Heco temporarily closed. D.Light car care interesting (as I noticed long ago), if I had a car or mocy, I would bring it every week for washing.

Jane messages me: he is hungry, I tell him I will be back in one hour and we will go for dinner. R403 messages me asking where I am (which I interprete that he wants to come to pick up his clothes from my room), I tell him I will be back in one hour. But luckily he didn’t follow up on that. Jane stays over night, no message from R403.

Fri10sep2021 Phnom Penh
Jane bye in the morning.

Knock on door 13:10, it’s R403 (last message was 10:31: “I going to your room soon?”). Takes shower in my bathroom, talk about trip (his idea) by car to Phnom Kong Rei (NW of Kampong Chhnang).

Out for dinner, back in room 19:22, Jane is waiting downstairs with a friend’s luggage to deposit in my room, and just a hug and no further ado bye. I don’t tell him that I might leave early tomorrow. Now I have R403’s and Jane’s friend’s luggage stored in my room.

Sat11sep2021 Phnom Penh to Kampong Chhnang
Alarm 7:30. Jane knocks 7:35, picks up his friend’s stuff, leaves 7:36. Then 7:40 R403 and friends, all ready and car is waiting. I get ready (dress, but no breakfast yet, eat along the way).

Details about sightseeing here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/10/kampong-chhnang-attractions.html

Sun12sep2021 Kampong Chhnang to Phnom Penh
R403’s English is interesting. Uses the + country name / adjective wrong, e.g. The French instead of France, The China instead of Chinese. Talks about Teresa Teng, Alain Delon, Dmitri Medvedev.

Mon13sep2021 Phnom Penh
Near my hotel I spot a nice and playful dog (Golden Retriever). The dog comes to play and grabs my hat with in his mouth and doesn’t let go. But a boy comes out and tries to wrestle my hat out of the dog's mouth, to no avail. But then scares the dog with a kitten and lures him with dog treat to let go of my hat. Unfortunately, the boy doesn’t speak English, so I can't find out how I can meet the dog regularly.

Phearak cancels for rain. (but no rain here, on blued distance 1 km most of the time, but location he sends me is much further away south of airport)

Tue14sep2021 Phnom Penh
No luck on online dating.

Jane comes to my room for fun and stays over night. Jane points out it’s raining, accompanied by a chuckle/giggle. Jane can chuckle/giggle at almost everything. In German I would call this personality trait “Kichererbse” = “chicken-pea”, literally “chuckling/giggling pea”. Maybe “Cheshire Cat” is a better translation, but a Cheshire cat is grinning, not chuckling/giggling. Pollyanna doesn’t catch it either. How would you call someone who can find something funny in the most dull facts or occurrences?

Wed15sep2021 Phnom Penh
No luck with boys. Donald busy all week. Giva refuses to come for 20 USD + tuktuk fare. Oudom refuses 10 and wants 30. Phearak busy. Vathorn problem with maps and location.

Meet Vathorn from Blued. Appointment was 19 at Royal Palace Park, I was waiting for him at riverside but then go back to my room. Finally he is there 19:56, I go out again and meet 20:12. Soso first impression, mask but can see tattoo on neck. To my room, lights off on his request. Slim brown warm dry skin but no discernible abs or pecs. Hairy upper thighs (but not dense, recently shaved?). Activities soso, besides light off disagreement about duvet/comforter. I get half hard but then lose it. Makes me wank him (and wanks me, no success), makes me suck him. A bit hairy balls. None of us initiates kissing. Overall a mismatch in bed. Poor English. Watches porn and cums by assisted wanking (holds my hand to catch his cum). Then wipe off and back to bed for hugging while he plays in mobile phone. Vathorn not in a hurry to leave.

Get on his google maps: enable access to location (menu was in English), that’s the cause of problem with location (I guess he once got location from WiFi, and that has been his location on google maps ever since). Ask for his home: he types it in Khmer and I can see on map near “Radio Solida 108 MHz Soft FM”. He came by tuktuk (not by app but negotiate with driver) for 8 USD. Later check on grab: 14k4 (about 4 USD), once again much cheaper on grab than boy told me he paid, “Consistent Inconsistent Tuktuk Fares”. I give him 20 USD and refuse any more (sob story mother sick). Wants me to walk him down, I refuse twice but then get dressed. Bye 21:36 in front of hotel. No repeat (but would recommend him to friends).

Thu16sep2021 Phnom Penh
Evening at riverside meet Sun from Grindr. A bit pale and fat. Wears long white trunks skin-tight to above knees, and light grey/blue camouflage shorts, looks nice. General chat, he works in a massage place nearby. General note: I had several boys from massage places (not gay) at riverside contact me on gay online dating, but none of them my type.

Fri17sep2021 Phnom Penh
Negotiations with Horthy. He has been here (Riverside) before with friends and is afraid people will recognize him. Give up. In parallel SH6jan2021 messaged me from new profile. Wants to meet now. Agree 12:20 to meet in 20 min. I take shower. Then without further message 12:52 knock on door. Just when Horthy agrees to meet (for 10usd + tuktuk fare) 12:49. Send message 12:53 to postpone bye one hour.

SH6jan2021 quickly to bed. Great shape, wiry body, some pecs and abs. Brown warm dry skin, no body hair. Gets sweaty wet in course of activities, aircon 26 C, then warm dry at end. Some activities mismatch (wanks me too much). Hugging okay with some great views of his butt and back. Worth a repeat, next time fucking. About 14:00 nothing more to do (we both soft, no cum), and I have to confirm Horthy that he can come. Get up. SH6jan2021 smokes on balcony, gets dressed, bye 14:14 on balcony.

Horthy 14:20 wants to come, 14:34 offline. Further messages not read. Call 16:11, picks up, hello, hangs up when I speak. Call again: number busy.

Grindr promising chat, then suddenly gone.

Sat18sep2021 Phnom Penh
Caro from Siem Reap chatted with me on facebook, but I dismissed him as too fat. Now he is on Grindr nearby, and his pictures look cute so we meet. Meet at riverside for general chat, then to my room. We take shower (separately), then to bed. Warm dry skin, front fat, back okay*, nice short haircut back and sides. Character and face attractive. We have a good time. Invite him for dinner, then bye.

*Same as with R403 and several other boys who look okay from back (shoulder blades, spine, butt), but too fat/unshapely from front (no abs/pecs, no protruding hip bones).

Sun19sep2021 Phnom Penh
I had chatted on Blued with a boy Fong in Siem Reap, pictures and chat positive. He asks for 1 USD top-up for Smart and I just happen to have a 1 USD top-up in my wallet that is starting to get pale (thermopaper after a few months) and that I have no use for at the moment (I top up 5 USD every month), so I send him the code.

Since a few days ago, Blued blocked screenshots. Very annoying. I like to take screenshots of profiles and chats. Is there an easy work-around?

Mon20sep2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with cute boy at construction site, get his facebook and name Vanna. (Update: nothing came out of it. Poor English, construction ended and boy moved away.)

Tue21sep2021 Phnom Penh
During religious holidays, someone distributes free food (styrofoam/plastic bags) at riverside, quite a commotion! Scenes like the last US-Airforce plane leaving Kabul. Feeding stray cats in the temple is more civilized.

Phearak cancels.

K comes to my room and quickly to bed. Skin temp okay at start, then a bit wet in middle, then okay at end. Fuck him in various positions, bed makes squeaking noise (something to consider when choosing hotel and knowing I will meet boys!). When hugging goodbye “Can I have a present?”, give him 20 USD.

Wed22sep2021 Phnom Penh
Previous days in the morning I spotted a cute boy waiting in front of Pepe Bistro and entering when other staff comes with key. Have to take a closer look! Lunch an Pepe Bistro. The cute boy works in kitchen (at end of room window, everything in kitchen visible). Eggplant with cheese and walnut 12 USD good, mousse au chocolat 4.50 good.

By chance spot Giva on blued 510 m away, he is at riverside and free now. Came by mocy. Arrives 16:48, I go down to meet him on road. To my room, I take shower. He gets down to underwear to take shower, but I intercept him for foreplay. After shower to bed. Slim brown nice shape, temperature okay. Good activities, then hug and fall asleep. Wants to marry me. Resents that I went to Kampot without him. But will not come from airport to meet me for 20 USD plus tuktuk fare! His phone ringing 18:44, has to go home. 20 USD bye a18:50.

Fri24sep2021 Phnom Penh
Go to see Leo108 at his place nearby. I go into alley/tunnel, he comes downstairs to wave at me, is in underwear, pubes poking out. Stays at his granddad’s place and can’t leave granddad alone. We go to his room (granddad in living room), no aircon but temp okay. No window. Full of stuff.

Long hair (head), face soso, pale skin, slim but no abs or pecs, warm dry skin, hair on lower arms, excessive pubes and hair on balls and in butt crack. Very talented oral, compensates for several turn offs (long hair on head, excessive body and pubic hair, pale skin, no abs or pecs). Open to threesome. And I would be up for it if he can supply a slim, brown, no body hair boy.

Sat25-Sun26sep2021
Weekend trip with friends (not gay) to Kampong Speu https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2021/11/kampong-speu-attractions.html

Mon27sep2021 Phnom Penh
Phea Rak good activities. He didn’t ask for money, but I give him 20 USD.

Since a few days ago, on hornet notifications “xxx has just gone live!” but when clicking “Can’t open the link L”

Tue28sep2021 Phnom Penh
Lucky Supermarket at one entrance QR code doesn’t work and lady will not let me in, another entrance still doesn’t work, but after putting my name and phone number on list on paper I can get in. Another customer has similar problem (slow internet or website down).

Grindr Jojo sent picture and then videochat, soso. I go to see him at his hotel. Hallway subconsciously strange (square surrounded by doors on two sides), and when he open door 207 at the corner, look at a wall, then turn 45 degree to get into long narrow corridor (about 5 m long and 1 m wide), almost touch walls shoulder to shoulder when walking. Boy speaks good English, interesting conversation, but not my type. He starts indecent touching, so we take off our clothes, fatty. Play around a bit, then bye. x

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To Donald’s place for fun and movie. When I hang my shirt on his clothes rack, a dozen mosquitoes fly off. We kill most of them.

Thu30sep2021 Phnom Penh
Phea Ra date for evening (time not specified), when I ask 16:18 about time, he postpones to tomorrow 17:10.

Sitha from Grindr, pictures and chat positive, finishes work 6 pm and wants to meet afterwards. Comes by mocy, meet 18:51 on road, to my room, to bed. Good English, slim body warm dry skin, brown but not my favorite complexion. We have a good time. 

Worst profile picture of the month

Update:
https://www.khmer440.com/k/2006/06/cambodia-barworld-studies-the-life-of-the-phnom-penh-barboy/
https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?22380-Cambodia-Barworld-Studies-The-Life-of-the-Phnom-Penh-Barboy 

Summary Sep2021
12 Free sex: Donald, Nico, Jane, Jane, SH6jan2021, CaroSR, K (20 USD), Leo108, Phea Rak (20 USD), Jojo, Donald, Sitha = 40 USD.
3 Paid sex: SR30may2021 30 USD, Vathorn 20, Giva 20 = 70 USD.
2 No sex: R403, Sun, FongSR (1 USD Smart top-up), Vanna, Pepe Bistro.

3 Canceled by boy: Phearak (rain), Phearak, Phea Ra.
2 Refused: Giva 20 USD + tuktuk fare, Oudom (I offer 10 USD, he wants 30).
1 Missed: Horthy (I was busy with SH6jan2021).
1 No show: Horthy.

12 Repeat: Donald, Nico, SR30may2021, Jane, Jane, SH6jan2021, CaroSR, K, Giva, Phea Rak, Donald, Sitha.
3 No repeat: Vathorn, Leo108, Jojo.

10 Old: Donald, Nico, SR30may2021, Jane, Jane, SH6jan2021, K, Giva, Phea Rak, Donald.
5 New: Vathorn, CaroSR, Leo108, Jojo, Sitha.

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