Dating Thai boys () Asking questions draft

Dating Thai boys () Asking questions

 

full version see update 30nov2020

Thai boys ask completely different questions and give completely different answers than Whites do. Here some observations and thoughts.

Have you eaten yet?

Eating is a non-issue for us, but I assume most Thai boys’ grandparents still knew hunger, and for boys from Cambodia, Lao or Myanmar, even their parents still know hunger. So food was an issue just decades ago.

This is mirrored by a friend from Germany, who likes lewd and ordinary talk, greeting me with “Heute schon gefickt?” (Did you have sex today?) because this is one of the main things on his and my mind.

I have one piece of chat from a friend where “Have you eaten yet?” was used to lead over to “But I haven’t eaten yet, because I have no money for food.”

“Have you eaten yet?” is a popular question by Thai boys. As far as I understand, it’s used as general form of greeting. Similar to “How are you?” in English. (WWII, begging Russian soldiers my aunt, rape then shoot)

Meaning of “How are you”, “Have you eaten yet” from times of hunger just two generations ago?,

Where are you now?

I usually ask this early on, because I don’t want to chat, I want to sex! And for setting up a date, location is important. I would use chatting just to establish “Sex yes/no, where and when?”, but have to go through all the crap.

To “Where are you now?”, I expect (often in vain) answer of a similar geographical level. When I’m in Bangkok Sathorn, and the boy replies that he is in Thailand, that is of little use. Similar “I’m at home”, “I’m with my sister” and the like is of no use.

The importance is shown by a chat with attention-deficit-hyperactivity-syndrome (in this case rather retard) boy on 29.10.2015. In the afternoon, he writes he wants to go with me to Khao San in the evening. One hour before agreed meeting time (without place specified), I ask where he is. First reply “@home now”. Then link to location: Phetchabun! I should have asked earlier, then I wouldn’t have lost two hours in planning my evening.

When chatting with Thai boys, I usually ask “Where are you now?” because I chat mainly to set up a real life encounter (I don’t want to chat, I want to fuck!). Thai boys usually ask “Who are you with?” or variations. I don’t know what the idea behind this question is.

Where are you now? At home – X has two places and for others I don’t know at all where they live.

Lim PP or Saigon?

Do you want to meet in Phnom Penh tomorrow night? Yes I want, but I will be in Saigon.

Will you be in Phnom Penh tomorrow night? Yes I will be, but I don’t have time.

What are you doing now?

Irrelevant, but I ask it as well as a conversation starter, or to see if a boy is working or not. When I’m in sauna, massage, bar, have sex, I switch my phone to airplane mode anyway, so I don’t have to lie, and for everything else I wait for some innocent activity like eating, reading, internet, riding on bus/taxi/train.

what are you doing now – I reply with where I am, or wait for innocent activities

Who are you with? Who do you travel with?

Thai boys often ask me “who are you with”, and I still can’t see why that matters. I don’t care and never ask who they are with.

Bpai gap krai and then endless chat about details

Who are you with? Thai or Farang friend? Who do you travel with?

http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10209-is-your-boyfriend-thai/

Multiple choice questions

Avoid multiple choice questions like “Do you like ice cream or cake?” The answer might be “Yes.”

https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/12314-translate-app/?do=findComment&comment=133018
If the boy can speak a small bit of English, then only ask him closed questions  e.g. "Would you like short time or long time?" "Are you top or bottom?" are both BAD as the answer will inevitable be an ambiguous YES or NO  Better to as them "We go long time, ok?" "I fuck you, ok?" work much better as there is on ambiguity about the answer 

Two questions

Never ask a boy two questions at the same time. You might get one answer, but you won’t be able to assign the answer to one of your questions

Strict logic

I lost count of how often I have asked “Do you have Line?” and the answer was “Yes.” Followed by a gap, me waiting for his Line ID, followed by “What’s your Line ID?” Now I just assume everyone has Line and ask “What’s your Line ID?”

However some have a Line ID but don’t use Line at the moment! (try to move chat from hornet to Line, but messages on Line not read!)

Strictly logical approach: Do you know what time it is?

Qustions: where and when to meet, that’s all I want to chat. Conversation that would take 5 min over dinner can take an hour online,

what do you do after work – I go home sleep not a good start

Why does my mother want to know if my Farang friends in Thailand have siblings

update 14dec2018: If I can only ask one question, "what are you doing" or "where are you" 
Fragen zeigen, wie Leute ticken: Geschwister, wo bist Du (wichtig fuer mich ohne Auto), Beziehungsstatus, 
REALLY? wozu?
Are you top or bottom? I didn't like in the beginning, but now appreciate it because better than "no sex before marriage", buy telephone/shoes/money for rent 

https://www.thailandredcat.com/strange-and-weird-habits-of-thai-people/

When you ask Thai People two questions, they will only answer the second one

I used to not like when a boy asks me “are you top or bottom”, but now I like it because these boys are not “no sex before marriage” or “can you help me with (rent/phone/shoes/…)”.

Where are you? Not "yu nai" - I'm home/at work/... - but "thaew nai"  

Questions asked by Thai people do not increase knowledge, like "why do you like brown skin", "why haven't you eaten yet", whereas scientific minds would ask "why does sun rise in the East?', "Why does lightning come before thunder?", and I ask "where are you, waht are you doing now? 

 

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Increasing knowledge

Questions asked by Thai people usually do not increase knowledge, like "why do you like brown skin", "why haven't you eaten yet", "what are you doing", whereas scientific minds would ask "why does sun rise in the East?', "Why does lightning come before thunder?", and I ask "where are you, what are you doing now?

Three kinds of questions: increasing knowledge, emotional, relevant 

I ask only relevant questions 

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