Dating Thai boys (85) It’s like pulling teeth

Dating Thai boys (85) It’s like pulling teeth

Sometimes something very simple, where “Yes/No/Fuck you!/How much?” is all that is required, can drag on for ages. Some recent chats with comments in italic.

1. Old acquaintance in Battambang

A boy I had met and had a good time with in Bangkok is from Battambang and one of the reasons why I went there was to meet him.

Sat, 21/11/2020
09:34 Sopheak [Photo]
09:34 Sopheak Now I’m in Phnom Penh
11:51 Christian How long will you be here?
11:52 Christian I'm in quarantine. I think I cannot meet anyone.
11:52 Sopheak 3 days
11:52 Sopheak I m come yesterday
13:52 Christian How did you travel from Battambang to PP?
(I’m looking for update on public transport situation.)

Tue, 24/11/2020
12:26 Christian Hello. Are you back in Battambang?

Fri, 04/12/2020
16:08 Christian In out of quarantine. In Phnom Penh now. Next week to Battambang.
16:08 Christian How did you travel from Phnom Penh to Battambang?
22:19 Christian Good night

Sat, 05/12/2020
13:37 Christian Good morning. How are you?
15:13 Sopheak Hi
15:13 Sopheak How are you
15:13 Sopheak I ok
15:17 Christian I'm fine. Can we meet in Battambang next week?
(My messages about meeting in Battambang read but no reply. Go to Siem Reap instead.)

Tue, 22/12/2020
19:41 Sopheak Happy Christmas 🎄

Wed, 23/12/2020
07:59 Christian Happy Christmas to you!
17:43 Christian I'm in Phnom Penh. Where are you?
17:49 Sopheak  Ok
17:49 Sopheak Battambang

Thu, 24/12/2020
13:25 Christian What do you do for happy new year?

Fri, 25/12/2020
12:03 Christian Next week I want to go top Battambang. Can we meet there?
17:40 Christian What's the matter? Why do you read but not reply to my messages?
(My messages read but no reply. What’s the matter? I will go to Battambang anyway.)

Mon, 28/12/2020
23:05 Christian I'm in Battambang now. I hope we can meet here.

Wed, 30/12/2020
09:47 Christian Good morning in Battambang.
(Have a look at his online dating profile: 230 km away which is Phnom Penh, confirmed by fake GPS. I went to Battambang to meet him, he went to Phnom Penh for New Year?)

Fri, 01/01/2021
08:43 Christian Happy New Year!
08:43 Christian [Photo]
08:43 Christian [Photo]

Sat, 02/01/2021
20:08 Sopheak Hello
20:08 Sopheak How are you
20:08 Sopheak Happy new year
20:08 Sopheak Thanks you
20:09 Christian I'm fine. I'm in Battambang. Where are you?
20:09 Sopheak I m in Battambang now
20:09 Sopheak I m come from Phnom Penh today
21:45 Christian I will be here until Monday or Tuesday. Can we meet tomorrow?

Sun, 03/01/2021
07:39 Christian Good morning
10:27 Christian [Photo]
10:27 Christian Where is this temple or what's the name in English?
10:45 Sopheak Good morning
11:07 Christian What do you do today?
15:23 Christian Can we meet tonight? I stay in Asia Hotel.

Mon, 04/01/2021
08:17 Christian Good morning. Today my last day in Battambang. Tomorrow to Phnom Penh.

Tue, 05/01/2021
22:28 Christian I'm back in Phnom Penh.
22:29 Sopheak Me too
22:29 Sopheak I m sorry
22:29 Sopheak I m come here too look for school
22:30 Christian I thought you are in Battambang most of the time.
(Read but no reply. Give up and let it settle and try again in a few weeks.)

2. Money boy in Battambang

All kinds of issues: scared others will see him, too lazy to walk half an hour, no money for passapp, no money on mobile phone either (i.e. once out of his place with WiFi, he cannot stay in contact).

Mon, 04/01/2021
14:01 BTBmoney Hi
14:01 BTBmoney [Sticker]
14:01 Christian Hello in Battambang
14:01 Christian My name is Christian from Germany. And you?
14:01 BTBmoney I'm in Battambong
14:02 Christian I'm in Battambang.
14:02 Christian What are you doing?
14:02 BTBmoney Nothing
14:03 BTBmoney What are u looking for?
14:03 Christian Friend and sex. And you?
14:04 BTBmoney Yess too
14:04 Christian [Sticker]
14:04 Christian I have free time now.
14:04 BTBmoney [Sticker]
14:04 BTBmoney Me too
14:04 Christian I stay in Asia Hotel. Where are you?
14:04 BTBmoney I stay at a center
14:04 BTBmoney Where ?
14:05 Christian [location on googlemaps]
14:05 BTBmoney U want me to go?
14:06 Christian Yes I want to meet you.
14:06 BTBmoney I'm scared that the other will know me 😢😭
14:06 Christian We meet outside or you come to my room?
14:07 Christian Or meet in Lucky Supermarket?
14:07 BTBmoney Wait I think about it first
14:07 BTBmoney But I don't have anything to drive to go
14:08 Christian You can walk? Or I pay for passapp.
14:08 BTBmoney But I don't have money to go
14:09 BTBmoney Go to Lucky supper market and go to ur room ?
14:10 Christian Yes. When we meet in supermarket, nobody will see us.
14:10 BTBmoney What will u give me ?😢😭
14:10 BTBmoney Sorry that asking like that
14:11 Christian You need money? I can help you with 10 Dollar.
14:11 BTBmoney Only 10$😢🥺
14:11 BTBmoney Can 25$?
14:11 Christian Sorry
14:12 BTBmoney Ok 15$?
14:12 Christian Sorry
14:12 BTBmoney Plzz😭
14:12 Christian 10 Dollar
14:12 BTBmoney Okkk
14:13 BTBmoney And order some food to eat ur room ok?
14:13 Christian Meet in 30 minutes. I want to take shower first.
14:13 Christian Yes we can bring food to eat here.
14:13 BTBmoney 30 minutes more
14:14 BTBmoney So we need to go lucky
14:14 Christian Okay. Meet in one hour.
14:14 BTBmoney No need to go
14:14 BTBmoney Just go to ur room
14:15 Christian Okay. Meet at hotel reception or do you want to come to my room?
14:15 BTBmoney Hmm
14:15 BTBmoney I don't want to go outside
14:15 BTBmoney I don't let the other know
14:15 Christian I understand. How can we do?
14:16 BTBmoney But I don't have money to pay the passapp
14:16 BTBmoney What u want to do (?)?
14:17 Christian When we are in my room, I want to touch your body.
14:18 BTBmoney But I go to shower at ur room ok
14:18 Christian Okay. I have hot water and towel.
14:19 BTBmoney But I go outside i don't have internet to message to u
14:19 BTBmoney Can u send me 1$ ?🥺🥺
14:19 Christian When you arrive at my hotel, there is WiFi. Password 33338888
14:20 BTBmoney When I'm on the way
14:20 Christian Toy can call me [my phone number]
14:20 Christian What's your number?
14:21 BTBmoney I don't money in my phone also me 😢
14:21 BTBmoney [his phone number]
14:22 BTBmoney If u don't send me card to me 1$ I can't go and can't find u
14:22 BTBmoney Now i just use wifi
14:22 Christian [Photo]
14:23 Christian You come and wait here at Capitol Hotel. I can see from my room.
14:23 BTBmoney But no money to pay the passapp
14:24 BTBmoney It's to hard 😤
14:24 Christian [Dropped pin]
14:24 Christian Walking
14:25 BTBmoney I'm walking to go there
14:25 BTBmoney It's so far🤕🥺
14:26 Christian Video chat?
14:26 BTBmoney Now?
14:26 Christian Yes
14:26 BTBmoney Y need?
14:26 Christian Yes I want to see you.
14:26 BTBmoney Pic already

That was 14:01-26 spending chatting with this boy, me not being able to do anything else, without getting anywhere. Based on just one promising picture he sent me on online dating. And now a Déjà-vu: when I asked the massage boy in Khon Kaen, one promising picture but I would want to see more before I commit) for more pictures or video chat, he replied “sent already, not ugly” and with that attitude, I lost interest. https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2019/03/esan-trip-wed20-sat23feb2019.html

Now put my phone down and do some reading and writing, and occasionally check if there is a new message from him. Give up all hope, but I’m in the comfortable situation that I have an office day so I will be in my room for hours, and if he doesn’t find a way to come here it’s his loss.

I have to admit, I sometimes take a sadistic pleasure in pushing boys out of their comfort zone. I lean back in my hotel room and have those 10 USD dangling in front of him, and he has to find a way to come here. Regardless of the outcome, it’s entertainment for me and my readers.

14:27 Christian Videochat?
14:27 BTBmoney So meet or not ?
14:27 Christian Yes
14:27 BTBmoney Tell go get me to go there
14:28 BTBmoney And u pay for it first
14:28 Christian Walking
14:28 BTBmoney It's so far
14:28 Christian 1 km
[distance on online dating was 1 km, but in real he is 2.5 km by air, 3 km by road away, still a distance I would easily walk]
14:28 BTBmoney Not 1 km
14:28 Christian How far?
14:29 Christian Send your location please.
14:29 BTBmoney U know lok ta dom bong kronhong
14:29 BTBmoney [location googlemaps]
14:30 Christian I see. It's 2.5 km.
14:31 BTBmoney Yes
14:31 Christian Can walk in 30 minutes.
14:33 BTBmoney U want me walk to ur hotel
14:33 BTBmoney [Sticker]
14:33 BTBmoney Can't
14:33 Christian Yes. You can take shower here.
14:33 Christian Or I pay for passapp when you arrive.
14:35 BTBmoney I don't know
14:35 BTBmoney Can't u pay for it first
14:35 BTBmoney And tell him to get me
14:36 Christian I don't know how to pay first.
14:37 BTBmoney How can we meet?😭
14:37 Christian You walk to come here?
14:38 BTBmoney Can't
14:39 Christian I don't know how we can do
14:40 BTBmoney Emm
14:40 BTBmoney Ohh
14:40 BTBmoney Can u send 5$ first
14:40 Christian Can we meet at Psar Nat?
[Central Market, 1 km from my place and 2 km from his place]
14:40 BTBmoney And i have money to pay for it
14:40 Christian I can't send money. I have only cash.
14:41 BTBmoney I think there have wing
14:42 Christian I don't know.
14:42 BTBmoney 😢😢
14:44 BTBmoney Heyy 🥺🤕
14:44 Christian So sad if we can't meet.
14:45 BTBmoney U call to passapp
14:45 BTBmoney When passapp arrived at ur place u tell him come to get me
14:46 Christian I don't know. I always walk.
14:48 BTBmoney 😭😢
14:48 BTBmoney How can I go?
14:48 BTBmoney If I have money I will go
14:48 BTBmoney And pay for it
14:50 Christian I can pay when you arrive. I have only cash.
14:51 Christian When you leave you tell me and I wait here for you.
14:51 Christian [Photo]
14:52 Christian Capitol Hotel street 101
14:53 BTBmoney But i can't message to u
14:54 BTBmoney When I'm arrive
14:54 Christian I will wait on the road
14:54 BTBmoney 😤😭
14:57 BTBmoney If i arrive
14:57 BTBmoney And don't see u
14:58 BTBmoney And nobody to pay
14:58 Christian I will wait there outside hotel
14:58 BTBmoney The passapp will hit me
14:58 Christian I will be there
14:59 BTBmoney [Sticker]
15:01 Christian We talk one hour already. If you walk it's only 30 minutes.
15:02 BTBmoney 😅😅
15:02 BTBmoney Walk?😢
15:02 BTBmoney The is so hot
15:02 BTBmoney And far
15:03 BTBmoney Ohh u don't have covid-19?
15:03 Christian I don't have covid.
15:04 BTBmoney U are Top?
15:04 BTBmoney U stay alone?
15:05 Christian I can be everything. I stay alone.
15:06 BTBmoney 😤
15:08 BTBmoney I'm not yet go
15:08 BTBmoney 😅😅
15:08 BTBmoney Because I so afraid
15:09 Christian I'm here in my room. I can wait for you.
15:09 Christian Afraid of what?
15:09 BTBmoney That no one will not pay the passapp
15:09 Christian I will pay passapp when you arrive.
15:10 BTBmoney Can tomorrow?
15:10 Christian No. I will go to Phnom Penh tomorrow morning. Today is my last day in Battambang.
15:11 BTBmoney Okk
15:13 Christian My name is Christian from Germany.
15:14 Christian What's your name?
15:15 BTBmoney Heyy i will go a few minutes more
15:15 Christian Okay. I wait for you.
15:15 BTBmoney What the name of ur holet
15:16 BTBmoney Can u wait me outside
15:16 Christian Asia Hotel
15:16 Christian Yes
15:16 BTBmoney Don't lie me ok
15:16 BTBmoney 😢
15:16 Christian I tell the truth.
15:16 Christian No lie.
15:17 BTBmoney I'm so scary
15:17 BTBmoney It's my first time
15:17 Christian I really want to meet you.
15:19 Christian Tell me when you go
15:19 BTBmoney A few minutes more I finding passapp
15:23 BTBmoney Hehe i can't find
15:23 Christian I can wait
15:25 BTBmoney 😭
15:26 BTBmoney Wait me outside
15:26 BTBmoney I'm on the way
15:26 Christian Okay
15:28 BTBmoney Don't lie me
15:28 BTBmoney 😢😢
15:29 Christian No. I'm sitting outside Asia Hotel now.
15:34 Christian [Sticker]
15:35 BTBmoney I'm on the way
15:35 BTBmoney Wait a few seconds

[Tuk-tuk arrives, I pay 4500 KHR to driver. Boy is cute, in my room all fine, repeat! It was fully worth the trouble to get him to come to meet me and the 10 USD. And I’m very glad I offered him 10 USD, even though it breaks my strain of 26 unpaid encounters, because without that incentive he surely would have lost interest.]

3. Counterexample

I had one message that just said “Sex?” That’s how I like it! Unfortunately, he was not my type.

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