Showing posts with label massage. Show all posts
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Sunday, 10 May 2026
Friday, 5 September 2025
Gay activties Jun2025 Thailand
Gay activties Jun2025 Thailand
More precisely 8jun-1jul2025 Bangkok and Pattaya.
Sun8jun2025 Almaty to Bangkok
Bank Sakaew not free today, Zee is away. Filed as missed.
But Andy from Lao is free and can meet me. We meet at Ibis Sathorn (he wanted bar or restaurant, not directly to my room). Nice, good English, general chat. Does not want to go to my room now. Will go to meet friends soon. Gaps in chat, finally I put hand on his upper leg, temperature soso, no reaction. Then ask to hold his hand, he seems to like it. Asks what I like to do, hugging, he likes that as well and can come to my room. We spend half an hour in my room, doing more than just hugging. Overall body and activities okay. Tentative repeat.
Mon9jun2025 Bangkok
Rabbit comes at night and stays over night.
Tue10jun2025 Bangkok
At night another one KF. Date was for 19, delays for traffic, comes by car? I wait for him in front of my building, arrives 20:15 indeed by own car. There is no parking at my place, security guard gives him direction, then comes back walking. The first time a money boy came to my place by own car. Nice body and good activities, however, once he thinks I'm done he starts to dress, I intercept him for back massage. Mostly pressing, little thumb work, overall okay. 1200 deserved. We didn't directly talk about how much, he dropped 1200 once in chat without context and I neither confirmed nor refused, but considering he spent an hour in traffic to get here justifies 1200.
Wed11jun2025 Bangkok
Arm stays in a hostel in Silom and comes do my room. Cute face, nice body, good activities. Afterwards hugging and we fall asleep and he stays over night.
Thu12jun2025 Bangkok
Hugging in the morning, Arm busy on phone, I can see he is on Grindr. He orders grab to go to his hostel, I walk him down, bye on main road. Not even a hint of money request. A clear hit and I would like a repeat soon.
However a week later when I check hornet, his profile is offline. Filed as lost (new category, boys I would like to meet again but their online dating or social media profiles are offline or gone).
Fri13jun2025 Bangkok to Pattaya
Contact 5 boys in Pattaya on social media and online dating. None of them online.
The big entrance gate with picture or screen at Walking Street is gone!
New Classic Boy 21:07-22:18, pineapple juice 180. From 9 boys when I arrive to 12 boys when I leave. I'm the only customer during my stay. #8,10,20 worth a second look.
Jomtien Complex 23:28 busy with boys and customers. M Bar 23:34-50, pineapple juice 89. Most boys and customers outside. Some cute. GUS Bar orange juice 89, leave 00:31 to go to bed.
Spot 4 Cambodian boys I know, 3 of them from 2021 in Phnom Penh. Because of border conflict, there will be an exodus of Cambodian boys soon: https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?23372-Cambodian-boys
Sat14jun2025 Pattaya
Mhone comes to my room and we have a good time, albeit a bit short 10:47-11:52, 1000 well deserved.
Sansuk Sauna 17:48-19:30, entry 230. From about 50 to about 100 customers. Spot one boy I like, but he is with with two different Farang (and alone in between) and a few others worth a second look. But half of customer base is White. Steam room entrance lukewarm, at steam inlets hot. During my stay ground floor sauna switched off. 3rd floor sauna hot, steam room lukewarm. Activities in public areas where appropriate. Two big towels of okay quality, condom and lube provided.
Sun15jun2025 Pattaya
Chat with various boys, in the end pick Ha Mann. We have a good time, including shower together. He would dress, but I intercept him for massage. Back massage okay. Yawns a few times and wants to go home to sleep. 1000, overall okay, a bit short 14:00-57. Noteworthy is his poor English, after years in Pattaya and foreign customers.
I got to meet a Farang friend at his place to have a look at the hotel room. Reception lady asks for my passport, but I don't have it with me and can't find a picture on my phone. My phone number, name and picture of me is okay.
At night chat with Max, he would meet for sex now, whereas I'm about to go to bed and would meet for cuddles and see what happens. Filed as missed.
Mon16jun2025 Pattaya
Original plan was I and Farang friend to rent a car for a day trip to Rayong, Farang friend would drive. However two car rentals we went to had no car available. Cancel the trip. Next time we will check and possibly book in advance. I had no idea car rental can be booked out in low season.
Max is free to meet and we go sightseeing by his car. Now I would be in the mood for more, but he is not.
Chat online with an old friend Nat. He works in a host bar and several previous attempts to meet him failed because he was working or busy otherwise, now I agree to pay the off fee (to him when we meet, without me going to the bar).
Is here quicker than I thought, Nat 21:38 “Send me the location”, Nat 21:50 “I'm downstairs”. In parallel chat with another boy slow reply (CPFC 21:16 “Can we meet now?”, boy 21:41 “Yes can”). Filed as missed. 25 min delay when setting up a date is unacceptable.
We have a good time. 1000 for Nat and 500 off fee.
Sunee Plaza used to be my first port of call when I'm in Pattaya. This is my first trip where I didn't go to Sunee at all.
Tue17jun2025 Pattaya to Bangkok
I had been chatting with Tee from Sri Saket for a while, now he is in Bangkok and free to meet. Meet at Siam, positive first impression. Invite him for dinner in MBK foodcourt. I would have loved to take it further (to my room), but he has to go back to his friend's place.
Wed18jun2025 Bangkok
I was hoping to meet Tee again today, chat online and invite him to my room, smiley as reply means “no”.
But Mee Surin wants to meet. I pay taxi 250 when Mee arrives. To my room and we have a good time. Then clean up and ask for massage. Good massage, but frequent and long interruptions for phone and sort his stuff. Has to go back because he has his friend's key. Delays Mee working on phone. Wants to go to Ekkamai to buy bus ticket for friend to Pattaya, I can talk him out of that idea (just show up and get the next bus or van). I wait until he asks for money, give him 500 and he shows me taxi alone is 175+179 (Ekkamai and then elsewhere?), so I give him 200 more. I recommend him to call taxi on road, cheaper than app. Overall okay encounter, tentative repeat.
Fri20jun2025 Bangkok
Meet Thanwa in One Bangkok for lunch. Nice. General chat, then to my room for fun. Okay body and activities. Asks for money for mocy, so I give him 40.
Saran Rom first round 21:20-14 about 13 boys, Dui among them, but I'm not in the mood for Dui tonight. Second round about 20 boys, Dui still there. There is a straight looking boy, slim body, blond hair, but face no clear hit.
Bank is not a clear hit either, but you have to start somewhere, so I take him to S Hotel. 200 Baht for short time and we spend there 22:47-23:40. Crab ladder, hairy balls, crotch and ass, which I don't like. Otherwise body and activities okay. 500 for Bank. No repeat.
Mon23jun2025 Bangkok
NickSNO comes for dinner and over night.
Tue24jun2025 Bangkok to Korat
Hugging in the morning. 300 for NickSNO for return trip.
To Korat. Bond is out of town and busy today, filed as missed. Online dating a few leads, but no success.
Thu26jun2025 Bangkok
Chat with Jiradanai on Facebook. Is in Rangsit, free today. Wants to meet but has no money for travel. I agree to pay return by grab (about 800 total). Then offline, then cancels for urgent business, but can meet tomorrow. Filed as missed.
Toey free to meet. Delays as always with him, date was 20, arrives 20:42, I pay mocy 128. Ask him to put his phone on table (out of reach when we are in bed). Okay activities. He would dress, but I intercept him for massage. Good work on shoulders and back with thumbs. But more time spent on phone and whining about return than actually massage. Cat is lonely alone at home and hasn't had dinner yet. His boyfriend asks where he is. Overall soso encounter. 400 for Toey.
Fri27jun2025 Bangkok
Rota stays with me from midday and we go for lunch, One Bangkok and Chinatown.
Sat28jun2025 Bangkok
Fun in the morning, bye midday.
Mon30jun2025 Bangkok
Meet Thanwa for lunch in One Bangkok, then to my room for fun. 40 for bus for return.
Tue1jul2025 Bangkok
Jiradanai, date for 15, then asks for money, I play ignorant and refuse to pay any more than taxi (from Rangsit). 15:06 he will come (money for taxi, nothing more). Then not read, send ??? as reminder, not read, filed as no-show.
Summary Jun2025
7 Free sex: Andy Lao, Rabbit, Arm, Thanwa 40, NickSNO 300, Rota, Thanwa 40.
7 Paid sex: KF 1200, Mhone 1000, Ha Mann 1000, Nat 1000+500, Mee Surin 700+250, Bank Saranrom 500, Toey 400+128 = 5800.
2 No sex: Max, Tee Sri Saket.
6 Missed: Bank Sakaew, Zee, Max, Bond Korat, Pattaya slow reply, Jiradanai.
1 No show: Jiradanai.
1 Lost: Arm.
13 Repeat: Andy Lao, Rabbit, KF, Arm, Thanwa, Mhone, Ha Mann, Nat, Mee Surin, NickSNO, Toey, Rota, Thanwa.
1 No repeat: Bank Saranrom.
9 Old: Rabbit, Mhone, Ha Mann, Nat, Mee Surin, NickSNO, Toey, Rota, Thanwa.
5 New: Andy Lao, KF, Arm, Thanwa, Bank Saranrom.
Copyright 2025 ChristianPFC
More precisely 8jun-1jul2025 Bangkok and Pattaya.
Sun8jun2025 Almaty to Bangkok
Bank Sakaew not free today, Zee is away. Filed as missed.
But Andy from Lao is free and can meet me. We meet at Ibis Sathorn (he wanted bar or restaurant, not directly to my room). Nice, good English, general chat. Does not want to go to my room now. Will go to meet friends soon. Gaps in chat, finally I put hand on his upper leg, temperature soso, no reaction. Then ask to hold his hand, he seems to like it. Asks what I like to do, hugging, he likes that as well and can come to my room. We spend half an hour in my room, doing more than just hugging. Overall body and activities okay. Tentative repeat.
Mon9jun2025 Bangkok
Rabbit comes at night and stays over night.
Tue10jun2025 Bangkok
At night another one KF. Date was for 19, delays for traffic, comes by car? I wait for him in front of my building, arrives 20:15 indeed by own car. There is no parking at my place, security guard gives him direction, then comes back walking. The first time a money boy came to my place by own car. Nice body and good activities, however, once he thinks I'm done he starts to dress, I intercept him for back massage. Mostly pressing, little thumb work, overall okay. 1200 deserved. We didn't directly talk about how much, he dropped 1200 once in chat without context and I neither confirmed nor refused, but considering he spent an hour in traffic to get here justifies 1200.
Wed11jun2025 Bangkok
Arm stays in a hostel in Silom and comes do my room. Cute face, nice body, good activities. Afterwards hugging and we fall asleep and he stays over night.
Thu12jun2025 Bangkok
Hugging in the morning, Arm busy on phone, I can see he is on Grindr. He orders grab to go to his hostel, I walk him down, bye on main road. Not even a hint of money request. A clear hit and I would like a repeat soon.
However a week later when I check hornet, his profile is offline. Filed as lost (new category, boys I would like to meet again but their online dating or social media profiles are offline or gone).
Fri13jun2025 Bangkok to Pattaya
Contact 5 boys in Pattaya on social media and online dating. None of them online.
The big entrance gate with picture or screen at Walking Street is gone!
New Classic Boy 21:07-22:18, pineapple juice 180. From 9 boys when I arrive to 12 boys when I leave. I'm the only customer during my stay. #8,10,20 worth a second look.
Jomtien Complex 23:28 busy with boys and customers. M Bar 23:34-50, pineapple juice 89. Most boys and customers outside. Some cute. GUS Bar orange juice 89, leave 00:31 to go to bed.
Spot 4 Cambodian boys I know, 3 of them from 2021 in Phnom Penh. Because of border conflict, there will be an exodus of Cambodian boys soon: https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?23372-Cambodian-boys
Sat14jun2025 Pattaya
Mhone comes to my room and we have a good time, albeit a bit short 10:47-11:52, 1000 well deserved.
Sansuk Sauna 17:48-19:30, entry 230. From about 50 to about 100 customers. Spot one boy I like, but he is with with two different Farang (and alone in between) and a few others worth a second look. But half of customer base is White. Steam room entrance lukewarm, at steam inlets hot. During my stay ground floor sauna switched off. 3rd floor sauna hot, steam room lukewarm. Activities in public areas where appropriate. Two big towels of okay quality, condom and lube provided.
Sun15jun2025 Pattaya
Chat with various boys, in the end pick Ha Mann. We have a good time, including shower together. He would dress, but I intercept him for massage. Back massage okay. Yawns a few times and wants to go home to sleep. 1000, overall okay, a bit short 14:00-57. Noteworthy is his poor English, after years in Pattaya and foreign customers.
I got to meet a Farang friend at his place to have a look at the hotel room. Reception lady asks for my passport, but I don't have it with me and can't find a picture on my phone. My phone number, name and picture of me is okay.
At night chat with Max, he would meet for sex now, whereas I'm about to go to bed and would meet for cuddles and see what happens. Filed as missed.
Mon16jun2025 Pattaya
Original plan was I and Farang friend to rent a car for a day trip to Rayong, Farang friend would drive. However two car rentals we went to had no car available. Cancel the trip. Next time we will check and possibly book in advance. I had no idea car rental can be booked out in low season.
Max is free to meet and we go sightseeing by his car. Now I would be in the mood for more, but he is not.
Chat online with an old friend Nat. He works in a host bar and several previous attempts to meet him failed because he was working or busy otherwise, now I agree to pay the off fee (to him when we meet, without me going to the bar).
Is here quicker than I thought, Nat 21:38 “Send me the location”, Nat 21:50 “I'm downstairs”. In parallel chat with another boy slow reply (CPFC 21:16 “Can we meet now?”, boy 21:41 “Yes can”). Filed as missed. 25 min delay when setting up a date is unacceptable.
We have a good time. 1000 for Nat and 500 off fee.
Sunee Plaza used to be my first port of call when I'm in Pattaya. This is my first trip where I didn't go to Sunee at all.
Tue17jun2025 Pattaya to Bangkok
I had been chatting with Tee from Sri Saket for a while, now he is in Bangkok and free to meet. Meet at Siam, positive first impression. Invite him for dinner in MBK foodcourt. I would have loved to take it further (to my room), but he has to go back to his friend's place.
Wed18jun2025 Bangkok
I was hoping to meet Tee again today, chat online and invite him to my room, smiley as reply means “no”.
But Mee Surin wants to meet. I pay taxi 250 when Mee arrives. To my room and we have a good time. Then clean up and ask for massage. Good massage, but frequent and long interruptions for phone and sort his stuff. Has to go back because he has his friend's key. Delays Mee working on phone. Wants to go to Ekkamai to buy bus ticket for friend to Pattaya, I can talk him out of that idea (just show up and get the next bus or van). I wait until he asks for money, give him 500 and he shows me taxi alone is 175+179 (Ekkamai and then elsewhere?), so I give him 200 more. I recommend him to call taxi on road, cheaper than app. Overall okay encounter, tentative repeat.
Fri20jun2025 Bangkok
Meet Thanwa in One Bangkok for lunch. Nice. General chat, then to my room for fun. Okay body and activities. Asks for money for mocy, so I give him 40.
Saran Rom first round 21:20-14 about 13 boys, Dui among them, but I'm not in the mood for Dui tonight. Second round about 20 boys, Dui still there. There is a straight looking boy, slim body, blond hair, but face no clear hit.
Bank is not a clear hit either, but you have to start somewhere, so I take him to S Hotel. 200 Baht for short time and we spend there 22:47-23:40. Crab ladder, hairy balls, crotch and ass, which I don't like. Otherwise body and activities okay. 500 for Bank. No repeat.
Mon23jun2025 Bangkok
NickSNO comes for dinner and over night.
Tue24jun2025 Bangkok to Korat
Hugging in the morning. 300 for NickSNO for return trip.
To Korat. Bond is out of town and busy today, filed as missed. Online dating a few leads, but no success.
Thu26jun2025 Bangkok
Chat with Jiradanai on Facebook. Is in Rangsit, free today. Wants to meet but has no money for travel. I agree to pay return by grab (about 800 total). Then offline, then cancels for urgent business, but can meet tomorrow. Filed as missed.
Toey free to meet. Delays as always with him, date was 20, arrives 20:42, I pay mocy 128. Ask him to put his phone on table (out of reach when we are in bed). Okay activities. He would dress, but I intercept him for massage. Good work on shoulders and back with thumbs. But more time spent on phone and whining about return than actually massage. Cat is lonely alone at home and hasn't had dinner yet. His boyfriend asks where he is. Overall soso encounter. 400 for Toey.
Fri27jun2025 Bangkok
Rota stays with me from midday and we go for lunch, One Bangkok and Chinatown.
Sat28jun2025 Bangkok
Fun in the morning, bye midday.
Mon30jun2025 Bangkok
Meet Thanwa for lunch in One Bangkok, then to my room for fun. 40 for bus for return.
Tue1jul2025 Bangkok
Jiradanai, date for 15, then asks for money, I play ignorant and refuse to pay any more than taxi (from Rangsit). 15:06 he will come (money for taxi, nothing more). Then not read, send ??? as reminder, not read, filed as no-show.
Summary Jun2025
7 Free sex: Andy Lao, Rabbit, Arm, Thanwa 40, NickSNO 300, Rota, Thanwa 40.
7 Paid sex: KF 1200, Mhone 1000, Ha Mann 1000, Nat 1000+500, Mee Surin 700+250, Bank Saranrom 500, Toey 400+128 = 5800.
2 No sex: Max, Tee Sri Saket.
6 Missed: Bank Sakaew, Zee, Max, Bond Korat, Pattaya slow reply, Jiradanai.
1 No show: Jiradanai.
1 Lost: Arm.
13 Repeat: Andy Lao, Rabbit, KF, Arm, Thanwa, Mhone, Ha Mann, Nat, Mee Surin, NickSNO, Toey, Rota, Thanwa.
1 No repeat: Bank Saranrom.
9 Old: Rabbit, Mhone, Ha Mann, Nat, Mee Surin, NickSNO, Toey, Rota, Thanwa.
5 New: Andy Lao, KF, Arm, Thanwa, Bank Saranrom.
Copyright 2025 ChristianPFC
Tuesday, 10 December 2024
Gay activities Oct2024 Thailand
Gay activities Oct2024
More precisely, 24sep-1nov2024. The new 60 days visa free stay is very favorable for me. Details on online dating, Silom Soi 6, normal saunas in Bangkok, Pattaya gogo bars, travel, Ladprao Soi 101 massages.
Tue24sep2024 to Bangkok
Flight from Germany to Bangkok.
Wed25sep2024 Bangkok
Caesar is in Bangkok but will leave for good in a few days, get hold of him while he is here. Comes to my room and we have a good time.
Sat28sep2024 Bangkok to Samut Sakhon
Meet Bank in Samut Sakhon and stay over night for fun and sightseeing tomorrow.
Tue1-Sat5oct2024
Trip in the South with a Thai friend TF. No time or opportunity to meet boys. I would not have gotten the idea to share a room, but first night at reception we had the following conversation (my translation from Thai):
CPFC to receptionist: “Room with double bed please”.
TF to receptionist: “Room with two single beds please”.
CPFC to receptionist: “Room with double bed please”.
TF to receptionist: “Room with two single beds please”.
Only now do I realize that TF told receptionist that we take one room to stay together, and in that case indeed two single beds more comfortable. I'm not such a cheapskate that I would share a room, but if TF thinks it's a good idea, I'm all for it! Works out well, even in a double bed in one place that had no single beds available.
Mon 7oct2024 Bangkok
When cleaning my bathroom (bare feet on wet floor), I slipped and hit my lower ribs on toilet bowl. Just bare feet on wet tiles, no soap or alcohol involved. Such thing has never happened before! I slipped with flip-flops on wet floor, but didn't hit anything.
Walking, standing, sitting, lying in most positions okay, but when moving I can feel the hurt location. I would have invited Dui, but after the fall nobody today. No massage either until ribs fine.
Tue8sep2024 Bangkok
It didn't get better over night. Go to hospital to get an x-ray, nothing broken.
Walk Silom Soi 6, former Golden Cock construction work, New Nature Boy and Super A unchanged.
Tawan now “The one club”. Their old location still vacant.
Fri11octc2024 Bangkok
Finally sufficiently recovered to entertain boys. Zindy comes to my room and we have a good time. No hints at money (came by taxi).
Sun13oct2024 Bangkok
A Chinese is in Malaysia Hotel and I go to see him. We have a good time, he is in Thailand frequently and hope to see him again. (Update: despite frequent chat, problems with communication, ADHS or other issues, irregular sleep-wake-patter and poor command of maps has prevented a repeat.)
Tue15oct2024 Bangkok to Pattaya
Bus from Rung Rueang Bangna Trat office 131 THB, ride 14:26-16:13 to North Pattaya Bus Station. Long wait for Songtheo (on North Pattaya Road; at bus station you can get one instantly but they charge 50), let first pass when he tells me he only goes to Dolphin Roundabout, but get on the second who tells me the same. Songtheo 10 THB, ride 16:41-47, then change into another 10 THB to ride along beach road 16:50-17:06. Beside difficulty to get a songtheo on North Pattaya Road (Sukhumvit Road to Beach Road), a friend reports those on South Pattaya road are less frequent then they used to be.
Winner Bar 20:35-21:55, 139 pineapple juice, 189 boy drink, 400 off fee. A few customers outside, one inside and all 4 boys get on stage when I enter, among them my favorite. Same difficulties to get his attention as before. 20:50 call him via another boy. He says in Thai to another boy that he hasn't eaten yet and goes outside to eat (without even acknowledging me). When back on stage, have to call him again directly or via other boy a few times more until I finally get him to sit with me 21:20. He doesn't remember me? But when looking at our chat on facebook, remembers. Is short-sighted and poor memory for people? General chat, off him. In my room 22:06. In the bar he wears trunks, I let him wear various briefs from my collection. He doesn't like this style as it shows too much skin and possibly pubic hair. Good activities and massage. 1500 well deserved, bye 23:40 in my room.
Wed16oct2024 Pattaya
I chatted on hornet with a cute boy in Mukdahan, and now I see he is in Pattaya! However it's a new profile, and the profile in Mukdahan is still active. (At time of publishing, both offline.). The boy wants 2500 for short time, and an advance for travel. Most probably a scam. Even if not, too much. Slow in reply, I won't even go further in chat to get more details.
Classic Boy 21:08-46, pineapple juice 180. 15 boys in underwear, 1 customer when I enter. In menu prices: boy drink 250, off fee 500, room 500. Slow rotation. #15 and #20 cute.
X-Boys 21:48-23:15, sprite (no fruit juice available) 300. When I enter 9 boys on stage and 7 customers. During show over 10 customers, mostly Chinese, three worth a second look, two cigarettes during my stay. Music too loud. 22:00-03 preparation for show. 3 couples fucking, some nice views. Ladyboy singing. Pull-ups with weights on erect penis. Candle show. Shower show. Thank god no more singing ladyboy! Couple fucks and goes through audience for gropes and tips. Rotation of boys continues 22:33. Cute waiter Pla and cute boy (comes in after show) S-19, interesting face, lips, eyes, elongated head and hairdo shape. Second show starts 23:00, fewer guests than first. Boy S-19 sits on side and plays with two phones. Music too loud. Slow rotation. Under more favorable circumstances I would have invited him for a drink.
Pass Paradise Massage several times, can't spot the cute boy from May, anyway 1 h oil 700 or 1 h aroma 800 too expensive!
A-Bomb 23:24 no boys on stage (and no customers either), preparing for show 23:30. Drink 300. BoyzBoyzBoyz drink 350.
Thu17oct2024 Pattaya
I had been chatting with It in 2018 when he was in Bangkok near my place, but didn't meet that time because he was shy. Then he was in his home province and I forgot about him.
Recently he messaged me from a new online dating profile and claimed we chatted before. He changed name and got some tattoos in the meantime, and the profile picture didn't show him in a favorable way, so I dismissed this. But on further chatting, I could finally place him. Another case of: most boys end up in Pattaya sooner or later.
Wants us to go to a beach on his mocy. Not my style, to go on trips with someone I haven't met before, anyway I don't like motorbikes, nor beach, too hot, too sunny, and nothing is going to happen there. I can lure him to my room instead and we have a good time. I spot 1732 unread messages on hornet.
He chats up another boy to join for a threesome. Lenteen looks okay, a bit pale and fat and shy, nonetheless we have a good time. Such thing has never happened to me before. No money request from either boy, a miracle.
In the evening It wants to go to cinema with me, not my idea of a good time either. I make an excuse, but send him the 500 THB he asks for so he can go by himself.
In Pattaya I notice many Chinese, about equal number of Indians, Russians, Arabs.
At night 19:30 go to Jomtien Complex and am surprised that they are not open yet, not even preparing for opening. Then at The Venue I see a notice: today is Ok Pansa Buddhist holiday, their restaurant is open, but no show business. Massages and restaurants open, but no bars. Similar Boystown.
Former Nice Boys, now Boys Nighclub (sic!) closed, as everything else in Sunee.
We hadn't discussed how long Max would stay, but I'm relieved when he says he wants to go home to Sri Saket. Of the 1000 THB I sent him, 200 are left. I give him 600 more (500 for taxi from railway station to his place, 100 for lunch). We take MRT to KTW, I pay 200 for his train, bye 19:06 at gate. This was my weirdest encounter this year.
Relief to be back alone, can finally clean my bathroom. No more sharing my bed with someone who is dressed like going skiing. Pros: slim, warm dry, no body hair, skin color okay. Cons: too much time and money spent, overdressed, smell in bathroom, poor in bed, cosmetics, doesn't finish his meals. No repeat under these conditions.
Thu24oct2024 Bangkok Ladprao Soi 101
KB Boy massage in Ladprao Soi 101. I was looking for a repeat with Tee, but learn from reception that he died in a mocy accident. Rest in peace! Another one I like John is busy and will be available in one hour. Chok is not in (not working there any more?). No other really appealing, and anyway there is TK Massage nearby.
Correct location on google maps, no signs, only by large number of shoes in front and curtain I can recognize it as massage. The faint red on white in Thai "Health Massage" is leftover from a previous shop, not their signage. When I enter, about 5 boys sleeping on couches at reception. Manager shows me pictures (each boy dressed and nude), Anan is free but another Ganton even more appealing.
One hour oil massage 600, pay in advance. Take shower in shared bathroom, only cold water. Room has massage table with a circular cushion, works like a face well. There is a used condom in wastebin. Two ceiling lights, can switch separately, none gives good light. But there is a dimmable light on table, that will do. Should I bring my own light to put on floor, like the lights in soi13in sauna in Taipei that gives nice light? No hooks in the room, put stuff on floor or in small wardrobe. Wait in room 16:54 to 17:00, Ganton arrives (took shower before? Why are they not ready or shower separately at the same time, or even better together?), good first impression. Good massage, legs and back. There are moments where massage is one hand and he stops, probably mobile phone in other, porn for work or other business?
A massage style I have not encountered before and which I would call “knuckling”, because I think he is using his knuckles to massage the back of my legs. His upper inner legs on my upper outer legs and I can feel his dick touching my butt cheeks. Reaches around my chest to play with my nipples, nice. After half an hour turn around, nice body and cock. 8-pack and no body fat. I thought he looks rather Vietnamese, but is Shan. Beautiful cock, big, bent quarter circle down and hairless balls. I have a good time. Shower separate, discover tangled hair on my legs, both upper and lower calves. 1000 Ganton in room after I took shower, well deserved.
My leg hair is in tangles, the red spots are where the hair is pulling at the root. Next day I find the easiest way to get rid of them is to pull them all out. I rarely had a few tangles after massage before, but this extent is unprecedented.
I would prefer navel lint over tangled leg hair, but better than (German Klabusterbeere or English dingleberry).
Fri25oct2024 Bangkok to Korat
I had a good encounter in Korat on 25dec2023, but the boy is offline. However, that time he told me he came from Romyen Hotel and his mother works there, so I go there and ask parking attendant for the boy (by name and pictures), he doesn't know him. Boy lost, case closed.
At dinner I'm long-changed by 100 THB and notify staff of their mistake. Second time this month that I'm long-changed. Over the years, based on about 10 cases, the ratio of long-changed to short-changed is about 1:2, from which I estimate that only half of short-changed are scams.
In the park north of Thao Suranari (Ya Mo) Monument 21:42-22:04 only homeless (?) and general folk, no boys, only a few ladies in front of Cathay Hotel.
Sat26oct2024 Korat
I had chatted with Nick for months and now he comes to see me in my hotel in Korat. He is on time, I'm a few minutes late. To my room, I take shower. Interesting chat, good English with a few idiosyncrasies like “I don't like dick and hole sex”, but rather “I like my hand”. Split from family because they don't like him being gay. Afraid of STD, anyway sex only between boyfriends or better marry. He noticed I have many Thai friends in Facebook. Chat over an hour, no hints at fun. Anyway from what we talked about he isn't looking for fun. For bye hug, warm and dry skin and nice hip bones. We are looking for different things, case closed.
Tue29oct2024 Bangkok
Online dating no luck. Unexpected message from Mie Surin, is in Bangkok and wants to meet. Comes to my room and stays over night. Good body, activities soso and a long track record of missed or no show, I will not make any effort to meet him again, no repeat.
Wed30oct2024 Bangkok
Bye after breakfast, 300 for travel to Pattaya.
Sathorn Sauna entry 300, stay 18:39-20:54. Nice old building with ample parking. Locker 28 of 44. No steam room. Sauna one row of seats, no airlock to keep hot air in when opening door. 78 C and 66 %, other thermometer 94 C. Hourglass 15 min. Hot pool 42 C, cold pool 20 C (my thermometer, theirs 43 and 21). Free fruit guava (judging by skin/peel/rind in bin, they had watermelon as well).
Fri1nov2024 Bangkok to Taipei
Summary Oct2024
7 Free sex: BankSS, Zindy, Chinese, It (500 for cinema), TW Surin, Max Sri Saket (however 1800 travel expenses), Mie Surin (300 for travel).
3 Paid sex: Caesar 1000, Winner 1500, TK Massage 1000 = 3500.
1 No sex: Nick Korat (no repeat).
1 Missed: Apirak Hua Hin.
1 No show: Mie Surin.
8 Repeat: Caesar, BankSS, Zindy, Chinese, Winner, It, TW Surin, TK Massage.
2 No repeat: Max Sri Saket, Mie Surin.
5 Old: Caesar, BankSS, Winner, TW Surin, Mie Surin.
5 New: Zindy, Chinese, It, Max Sri Saket, TK Massage.
Copyright 2024 ChristianPFC
More precisely, 24sep-1nov2024. The new 60 days visa free stay is very favorable for me. Details on online dating, Silom Soi 6, normal saunas in Bangkok, Pattaya gogo bars, travel, Ladprao Soi 101 massages.
Tue24sep2024 to Bangkok
Flight from Germany to Bangkok.
Wed25sep2024 Bangkok
Caesar is in Bangkok but will leave for good in a few days, get hold of him while he is here. Comes to my room and we have a good time.
Sat28sep2024 Bangkok to Samut Sakhon
Meet Bank in Samut Sakhon and stay over night for fun and sightseeing tomorrow.
Tue1-Sat5oct2024
Trip in the South with a Thai friend TF. No time or opportunity to meet boys. I would not have gotten the idea to share a room, but first night at reception we had the following conversation (my translation from Thai):
CPFC to receptionist: “Room with double bed please”.
TF to receptionist: “Room with two single beds please”.
CPFC to receptionist: “Room with double bed please”.
TF to receptionist: “Room with two single beds please”.
Only now do I realize that TF told receptionist that we take one room to stay together, and in that case indeed two single beds more comfortable. I'm not such a cheapskate that I would share a room, but if TF thinks it's a good idea, I'm all for it! Works out well, even in a double bed in one place that had no single beds available.
Mon 7oct2024 Bangkok
When cleaning my bathroom (bare feet on wet floor), I slipped and hit my lower ribs on toilet bowl. Just bare feet on wet tiles, no soap or alcohol involved. Such thing has never happened before! I slipped with flip-flops on wet floor, but didn't hit anything.
Walking, standing, sitting, lying in most positions okay, but when moving I can feel the hurt location. I would have invited Dui, but after the fall nobody today. No massage either until ribs fine.
Tue8sep2024 Bangkok
It didn't get better over night. Go to hospital to get an x-ray, nothing broken.
Walk Silom Soi 6, former Golden Cock construction work, New Nature Boy and Super A unchanged.
Tawan now “The one club”. Their old location still vacant.
Fri11octc2024 Bangkok
Finally sufficiently recovered to entertain boys. Zindy comes to my room and we have a good time. No hints at money (came by taxi).
Sun13oct2024 Bangkok
A Chinese is in Malaysia Hotel and I go to see him. We have a good time, he is in Thailand frequently and hope to see him again. (Update: despite frequent chat, problems with communication, ADHS or other issues, irregular sleep-wake-patter and poor command of maps has prevented a repeat.)
Tue15oct2024 Bangkok to Pattaya
Bus from Rung Rueang Bangna Trat office 131 THB, ride 14:26-16:13 to North Pattaya Bus Station. Long wait for Songtheo (on North Pattaya Road; at bus station you can get one instantly but they charge 50), let first pass when he tells me he only goes to Dolphin Roundabout, but get on the second who tells me the same. Songtheo 10 THB, ride 16:41-47, then change into another 10 THB to ride along beach road 16:50-17:06. Beside difficulty to get a songtheo on North Pattaya Road (Sukhumvit Road to Beach Road), a friend reports those on South Pattaya road are less frequent then they used to be.
Winner Bar 20:35-21:55, 139 pineapple juice, 189 boy drink, 400 off fee. A few customers outside, one inside and all 4 boys get on stage when I enter, among them my favorite. Same difficulties to get his attention as before. 20:50 call him via another boy. He says in Thai to another boy that he hasn't eaten yet and goes outside to eat (without even acknowledging me). When back on stage, have to call him again directly or via other boy a few times more until I finally get him to sit with me 21:20. He doesn't remember me? But when looking at our chat on facebook, remembers. Is short-sighted and poor memory for people? General chat, off him. In my room 22:06. In the bar he wears trunks, I let him wear various briefs from my collection. He doesn't like this style as it shows too much skin and possibly pubic hair. Good activities and massage. 1500 well deserved, bye 23:40 in my room.
Wed16oct2024 Pattaya
I chatted on hornet with a cute boy in Mukdahan, and now I see he is in Pattaya! However it's a new profile, and the profile in Mukdahan is still active. (At time of publishing, both offline.). The boy wants 2500 for short time, and an advance for travel. Most probably a scam. Even if not, too much. Slow in reply, I won't even go further in chat to get more details.
Classic Boy 21:08-46, pineapple juice 180. 15 boys in underwear, 1 customer when I enter. In menu prices: boy drink 250, off fee 500, room 500. Slow rotation. #15 and #20 cute.
X-Boys 21:48-23:15, sprite (no fruit juice available) 300. When I enter 9 boys on stage and 7 customers. During show over 10 customers, mostly Chinese, three worth a second look, two cigarettes during my stay. Music too loud. 22:00-03 preparation for show. 3 couples fucking, some nice views. Ladyboy singing. Pull-ups with weights on erect penis. Candle show. Shower show. Thank god no more singing ladyboy! Couple fucks and goes through audience for gropes and tips. Rotation of boys continues 22:33. Cute waiter Pla and cute boy (comes in after show) S-19, interesting face, lips, eyes, elongated head and hairdo shape. Second show starts 23:00, fewer guests than first. Boy S-19 sits on side and plays with two phones. Music too loud. Slow rotation. Under more favorable circumstances I would have invited him for a drink.
Pass Paradise Massage several times, can't spot the cute boy from May, anyway 1 h oil 700 or 1 h aroma 800 too expensive!
A-Bomb 23:24 no boys on stage (and no customers either), preparing for show 23:30. Drink 300. BoyzBoyzBoyz drink 350.
Thu17oct2024 Pattaya
I had been chatting with It in 2018 when he was in Bangkok near my place, but didn't meet that time because he was shy. Then he was in his home province and I forgot about him.
Recently he messaged me from a new online dating profile and claimed we chatted before. He changed name and got some tattoos in the meantime, and the profile picture didn't show him in a favorable way, so I dismissed this. But on further chatting, I could finally place him. Another case of: most boys end up in Pattaya sooner or later.
Wants us to go to a beach on his mocy. Not my style, to go on trips with someone I haven't met before, anyway I don't like motorbikes, nor beach, too hot, too sunny, and nothing is going to happen there. I can lure him to my room instead and we have a good time. I spot 1732 unread messages on hornet.
He chats up another boy to join for a threesome. Lenteen looks okay, a bit pale and fat and shy, nonetheless we have a good time. Such thing has never happened to me before. No money request from either boy, a miracle.
In the evening It wants to go to cinema with me, not my idea of a good time either. I make an excuse, but send him the 500 THB he asks for so he can go by himself.
In Pattaya I notice many Chinese, about equal number of Indians, Russians, Arabs.
At night 19:30 go to Jomtien Complex and am surprised that they are not open yet, not even preparing for opening. Then at The Venue I see a notice: today is Ok Pansa Buddhist holiday, their restaurant is open, but no show business. Massages and restaurants open, but no bars. Similar Boystown.
Former Nice Boys, now Boys Nighclub (sic!) closed, as everything else in Sunee.
Fri18oct2024 Pattaya to Bangkok
The airport bus (line 389, Suvarnabhumi airport to Jomtien, "sex tourist express") can be booked online for an additional fee of 25 THB. Outrageous! The earliest available online is consistently 3 hours from now. I assume if I just show up, the bus will be booked out. I don't want to commit 3 hours in advance and don't want to pay 25 fee.
However, when going from Jomtien to Bangkok, it's straightforward, I buy the ticket at the counter and spend the waiting time in Jomtien, can plan this quite well. 143 bus, departure 14:05, two free seats left, arrival 16:32 at Suvarnabhumi departure level.
The file with Max in Sri Saket is still open, and I'm planning to go to see him there.
Online train booking on dticket: you have to spell the stations their way (Sri Saket only as Si Sa Ket, Bangkok only as Krung Thep Aphiwat, both not found in different spelling) and slow loading and error messages. Their app works better. There is no seat in 2nd class all the way from Bangkok to Sri Saket, but Bangkok to Korat and Korat to Sri Saket (different seat number). This trip is way out of my comfort zone anyway, and I prefer not to travel 3rd class and I'm hesitant to go through all this trouble, and it would cost more because a base fare is charged twice.
Sat19oct2024 Bangkok
TW Surin is in Bangkok and I go to see him at his place and we have a great time.
Sun20oct2024 Bangkok
Mie Surin wanted to stay over night, I agree, but then loss of communication. Update: he stayed with relatives elsewhere in Bangkok.
Mon21oct2024 Bangkok
I don't have to go to Sri Saket, Max will come to meet me in Bangkok! Asks for 1000 for travel expenses, and I send him the money online. I would advise anyone against sending money for travel online to someone they haven't met before. In this case, after chatting for over 6 months, I know the boy is serious about meeting. Even then, such a windfall could be spent on other items and no money left to buy the ticket.
Original plan was for him to come to Bangkok tomorrow, then changes to Wednesday or Thursday. I can only hope this plays out well.
I have written about normal saunas before https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2017/06/normal-saunas-in-thailand.html, now, now time to re-visit them for health purposes.
Silom Sauna entry 250 THB, stay 16:16-18:56. About 20 customers throughout. Mostly Thai, a few white, three Myanmar (I thought Indians, but one chatted me up, from Myanmar near China, with Nepal ancestry), some Japanese (overhear Thai talking about them in sauna). Smoking allowed everywhere (ashtrays on tables) and several smoke, but no bad smell. Sauna and steam hot, sauna has double door as airlock and a digital clock outside the window. Friendly atmosphere, some chat me up in sauna and in pool. I brought a thermometer: cold water pool is 17 C, water pouring in 16 C. Hot water is 44 C. Free fruit (watermelon and pineapple) and drinks. Can order full meal and beer. Reclining chairs occupied. Many mobile phones lying around on table unattended (with fruit and drinks). Some nudity (I and the Japanese) in shower, locker room, hot and cold water pools.
Language note: สีลม / sĕe lom / Silom is Thai for windmill. Silom road is named after the windmills that used to be there to pump water. A statue of a windmill still there to show the heritage. Silom Sauna is unrelated to Silom Road.
Apirak from Hua Hin is in BKK, slow reply, no commitment, filed as missed.
Tue22oct2024 Bangkok
Max Sri Saket will arrive tomorrow morning 4:10 (AM!). Original plan was daytime train 8-18. I will have to get up at night to pick him up.
Wed23oct2024 Bangkok with Max
Alarm 3 (AM!), check with Max, train is on schedule, in Ayutthaya now. Taxi to Krung Thep Aphiwat. My first impression of Max is soso: slim tall but fully dressed in long trousers, long sleeves and hood of hoodie on and wears a face mask. He has less luggage than I when I got to 7-Eleven.
Get taxi queue number, no extra fee and no problems with meter. (At Suvarnabhumi I wouldn't take a taxi, I don't pay 50 THB airport surcharge – I consider that a scam – and various negative experiences many years ago, and reading on internet the problems continue – driver refusing to use the meter and asking for an inflated flat fare).
During the taxi ride, put my hand on Max' leg or grab his hand, no response. In my room I have 27 C, but Max refuses to take off his clothes because he is cold. WTF? I manage to get him to take off his jacket and have a few hugs with no or little response. Clutches his mobile phone all night.
In the morning I get him to take off his shirt. Warm dry skin, nice body shape. I work my way down his body, his trousers are not just unattractive, impractical as well, can't get my hands in. Finally get it open: three layers: trousers, boxer shorts, underwear. Have a few gropes, he gets hard but little response. Nice cock and balls, no hair on balls. When he takes a shower, he goes into bathroom in trousers, locks himself in, comes back fully dressed. But when he applies cosmetics (yuck!) I can get a few glimpses, promising. When I'm back in my bathroom, it smells of urine. I rinse all surfaces that could possible have urine on them.
We have breakfast together, he doesn't finish his meal. Max wants to go to a shopping center, I suggest Icon Siam because I haven't been there. Walk around and take pictures. He suggests we go to a temple, exactly what I had in mind! Walk to Wat Thong Noppakun to take pictures there. I could go on all day, but Max is tired and wants to go back to my room. Lunch together, again doesn't eat all his food! Back in my room, it doesn't look like anything is going to happen.
I have sent all kinds of signals that I'm open for fun, with little or no response. Now it's time for my last resort: read a book. The boy certainly didn't come to Bangkok to play on his phone in my room, out of boredom, because I'm reading a book. Now he has to make a move to do whatever he had in mind when he came to see me.
Spends plenty of time in bathroom, comes out in towel and jacket. Then in long trousers to bed. Max starts wanking himself, but refuses to take off jacket or trousers when I want to join. This doesn't lead anywhere. We have a nap. When I go to my bathroom, again urine (smell and yellow wet spots). The first I put down as an accident, but it seems to be a general problem: Max has he not been potty-trained! No point of cleaning up after him every time, leave it until he leaves.
I notice the zipper on his jacket has no handle. I put a paperclip in as handle, but doesn't move! With great effort can move it up, but not down. Look at it with magnifying glass, put a knife between runner and teeth, doesn't move! Apply soap solution, then pull with increasing force, to no avail! Then I notice there is a second bridge. Now I understand: it's a kind of zipper that locks when handle is flat, and opens when handle is perpendicular, and I put the handle over bridge, i.e. locked throughout. Take off paperclip, stick conical end wood skewer under bridge, unlocked! Put in paper clip under bridge, can move freely up and down.
We hadn't discussed how long Max would stay, but I'm relieved when he says he wants to go home to Sri Saket. Of the 1000 THB I sent him, 200 are left. I give him 600 more (500 for taxi from railway station to his place, 100 for lunch). We take MRT to KTW, I pay 200 for his train, bye 19:06 at gate. This was my weirdest encounter this year.
Relief to be back alone, can finally clean my bathroom. No more sharing my bed with someone who is dressed like going skiing. Pros: slim, warm dry, no body hair, skin color okay. Cons: too much time and money spent, overdressed, smell in bathroom, poor in bed, cosmetics, doesn't finish his meals. No repeat under these conditions.
Thu24oct2024 Bangkok Ladprao Soi 101
KB Boy massage in Ladprao Soi 101. I was looking for a repeat with Tee, but learn from reception that he died in a mocy accident. Rest in peace! Another one I like John is busy and will be available in one hour. Chok is not in (not working there any more?). No other really appealing, and anyway there is TK Massage nearby.
Correct location on google maps, no signs, only by large number of shoes in front and curtain I can recognize it as massage. The faint red on white in Thai "Health Massage" is leftover from a previous shop, not their signage. When I enter, about 5 boys sleeping on couches at reception. Manager shows me pictures (each boy dressed and nude), Anan is free but another Ganton even more appealing.
One hour oil massage 600, pay in advance. Take shower in shared bathroom, only cold water. Room has massage table with a circular cushion, works like a face well. There is a used condom in wastebin. Two ceiling lights, can switch separately, none gives good light. But there is a dimmable light on table, that will do. Should I bring my own light to put on floor, like the lights in soi13in sauna in Taipei that gives nice light? No hooks in the room, put stuff on floor or in small wardrobe. Wait in room 16:54 to 17:00, Ganton arrives (took shower before? Why are they not ready or shower separately at the same time, or even better together?), good first impression. Good massage, legs and back. There are moments where massage is one hand and he stops, probably mobile phone in other, porn for work or other business?
A massage style I have not encountered before and which I would call “knuckling”, because I think he is using his knuckles to massage the back of my legs. His upper inner legs on my upper outer legs and I can feel his dick touching my butt cheeks. Reaches around my chest to play with my nipples, nice. After half an hour turn around, nice body and cock. 8-pack and no body fat. I thought he looks rather Vietnamese, but is Shan. Beautiful cock, big, bent quarter circle down and hairless balls. I have a good time. Shower separate, discover tangled hair on my legs, both upper and lower calves. 1000 Ganton in room after I took shower, well deserved.
My leg hair is in tangles, the red spots are where the hair is pulling at the root. Next day I find the easiest way to get rid of them is to pull them all out. I rarely had a few tangles after massage before, but this extent is unprecedented.
I would prefer navel lint over tangled leg hair, but better than (German Klabusterbeere or English dingleberry).
Fri25oct2024 Bangkok to Korat
I had a good encounter in Korat on 25dec2023, but the boy is offline. However, that time he told me he came from Romyen Hotel and his mother works there, so I go there and ask parking attendant for the boy (by name and pictures), he doesn't know him. Boy lost, case closed.
At dinner I'm long-changed by 100 THB and notify staff of their mistake. Second time this month that I'm long-changed. Over the years, based on about 10 cases, the ratio of long-changed to short-changed is about 1:2, from which I estimate that only half of short-changed are scams.
In the park north of Thao Suranari (Ya Mo) Monument 21:42-22:04 only homeless (?) and general folk, no boys, only a few ladies in front of Cathay Hotel.
Sat26oct2024 Korat
I had chatted with Nick for months and now he comes to see me in my hotel in Korat. He is on time, I'm a few minutes late. To my room, I take shower. Interesting chat, good English with a few idiosyncrasies like “I don't like dick and hole sex”, but rather “I like my hand”. Split from family because they don't like him being gay. Afraid of STD, anyway sex only between boyfriends or better marry. He noticed I have many Thai friends in Facebook. Chat over an hour, no hints at fun. Anyway from what we talked about he isn't looking for fun. For bye hug, warm and dry skin and nice hip bones. We are looking for different things, case closed.
Tue29oct2024 Bangkok
Online dating no luck. Unexpected message from Mie Surin, is in Bangkok and wants to meet. Comes to my room and stays over night. Good body, activities soso and a long track record of missed or no show, I will not make any effort to meet him again, no repeat.
Wed30oct2024 Bangkok
Bye after breakfast, 300 for travel to Pattaya.
Sathorn Sauna entry 300, stay 18:39-20:54. Nice old building with ample parking. Locker 28 of 44. No steam room. Sauna one row of seats, no airlock to keep hot air in when opening door. 78 C and 66 %, other thermometer 94 C. Hourglass 15 min. Hot pool 42 C, cold pool 20 C (my thermometer, theirs 43 and 21). Free fruit guava (judging by skin/peel/rind in bin, they had watermelon as well).
Fri1nov2024 Bangkok to Taipei
Summary Oct2024
7 Free sex: BankSS, Zindy, Chinese, It (500 for cinema), TW Surin, Max Sri Saket (however 1800 travel expenses), Mie Surin (300 for travel).
3 Paid sex: Caesar 1000, Winner 1500, TK Massage 1000 = 3500.
1 No sex: Nick Korat (no repeat).
1 Missed: Apirak Hua Hin.
1 No show: Mie Surin.
8 Repeat: Caesar, BankSS, Zindy, Chinese, Winner, It, TW Surin, TK Massage.
2 No repeat: Max Sri Saket, Mie Surin.
5 Old: Caesar, BankSS, Winner, TW Surin, Mie Surin.
5 New: Zindy, Chinese, It, Max Sri Saket, TK Massage.
Copyright 2024 ChristianPFC
Friday, 26 April 2024
No gay activities Feb2024 India
No gay activities Feb2024 India
Indians are not my center of attraction, but I saw some nice ones on social media and would think that by sheer number and population density I would find someone online. I didn't. Fill the post with general observations on online dating in India and haircut and massage and gay sauna. Warning: my readers might find some pictures disturbing. 1 EUR = 89 INR (Indian Rupee), 1 USD = 83 INR, 1 GBP = 105 INR, 1 THB = 2.30 INR.
Wed7feb2024 Mumbai
Blued seemed to be the most popular. Furthermore, I paid for a Blued / HeeSay subscription to view unlimited profiles. All online dating done on Blued. I go online to set my location to Mumbai and a few hours later I have messages from about 10 profiles. Certainly busy, more/faster messages than anywhere else except maybe Pattaya.
Fri9feb2024 Mumbai
One of my aspirations in life was to get a haircut for less than 1 EUR or 1 USD. In Thailand I didn't find anywhere cheaper than 70 THB, in Cambodia 1.25 USD. But here in Mumbai I can get a haircut for 70 INR and a shave for 40 INR! Two weeks later in Delhi even cheaper: 50 + 30.
I have a haircut and shave for 70 + 40 INR, takes 25 min. Includes a good head and neck and shoulder massage. I don't feel any cut while he shaves me, only after rubbing an alum stone afterwards some spots light burning.
There is/was an infamous red light area Kamathipura in Mumbai, but I didn't find any recent reports on the internet, and it didn't fit in space and time to go for a recce without any information.
12feb2024 Jodhpur
Go online and for 6 minutes straight answer messages. I.e. messages come in faster than I can read and answer. Even though none is my type, engage in chat for research purposes. After 6 minutes it ebbs down and I'm exhausted and put down my phone.
Tue13feb2024 Jodhpur
Blued / HeeSay non-stop messages. After being offline during dinner, messages from about 10 profiles.
Wed14feb2024 Pushkar
Blued busy here as well, a lot of profiles stats 65 kg 172 cm. I didn't do a statistic by plotting weight and height, just a feeling that 65 kg 172 cm is over-represented. A default setting or miscalculation from imperial (India still uses imperial system for weights and lengths). In Cambodia as well I noticed profiles 65 kg 172cm where a look at the body clearly says this can't be.
Many fake profile pictures, or no picture at all. Many requests to see my private pictures. Videochat with one okay body, but face unattractive.
I have seen enough to stop all online dating as a complete waste of time. Anyway, none of the hotel rooms I have been in so far were of a size and standard that I could comfortably do something. Here some screenshots to show my readers what's available: fat men, hairy men, fat and hairy men.
Wed21feb2024 Agra
The head massage I got with my haircut in Mumbai was good, go to a hairdresser for a head massage.
200 INR for head massage 15 min with oil (cooling sensation), and several times sprays water on my head. Lets oil soak in for 2 minutes, then start massage 20:22. Mostly quick hammering movements with fingers soso, a few times circling with thumb or pressing and moving palm good. Use of electrical massage gun. Afterwards asks if I want a face massage, 20 min 300 INR, I agree. Puts lotion on my face and lets it dry in long time. Then sprays water several times on face. Massage short, soso. Asks if I want shoulder massage, I decline, too late and so far underwhelming.
Overall a waste of time and money, but try again in Delhi. People come to Agra once in their life, to view the Taj Mahal. Everything in Agra (hotels, restaurants, the head massage) has that attitude: people come anyway, and they come only once.
There is an Indian head massage (with oil, as described above) in Bangkok in Tivoli Hotel. A Farang friend likes it and on his recommendation I tried as well but found it underwhelming (both in Bangkok 2018 and in Agra 2024).
Sat24feb2024 Delhi
1k INR (that's 11 EUR or 450 THB, expensive) entry Hammam Sauna and Spa 17:35-18:11. They have combo packages with massage, but not cheap. Locker room with 70 lockers, good light. Get locker 37, high up, I would need a chair to reach it, they give me key for 21 which is lower.
Warm steam room can sit 5 and stand 5, only stray light. Jacuzzi can sit 5. No sauna. 3 showers with doors and one open, hot water. A dark room and a lounge (bench and two beds). There are two customers in steam room who touch me and I return the favor, to find out that both have hairy butt cheeks. Spot several of their massage staff, all average looking. A total waste of time and money, but that was expected, and now I can say I have been to a gay sauna in India.
Mon26feb2024 Delhi
Have a look at price list of a general massage parlor, starting from 60 min 2500 INR (that's 28 EUR or 1100 THB, expensive) and and more expensive courses. No possible gain in knowledge can justify that expense, I will pass.
At a hairdresser, get back and shoulder massage 200 for 15 min, followed by face massage 300 for 20 min. Back and shoulder good, caterpillar technique and electrical massage device. Face massage first defoliating agent ? and then moisturizing ? gets in hair, over eyes, over mouth. With fingers and electrical massage device, over head and ears as well. Overall interesting. I would do a head massage without oil, as I got after haircut, and back and shoulder massage again.
Mon26feb2024 Delhi
In pharmacies, generic Viagra, Cialis, Super Kamagra and condoms widely available at prices similar to Thailand.
General notes and summary
On social media and walking through the streets in India some clear hits, but on online dating all too old, too fat, too hairy for my taste. I didn't see any money boys or get any offers for massage or other services.
Most profiles don't have a picture at all, or picture is not of a person, or that person is not profile owner. When stats are good (e.g. 22 years, 50 kg, 172 cm), I ask for their picture, and in all cases picture did not match stats. The problem with profiles without picture, or fake picture, or no clear face pictures worse than anywhere else. From chatting I assume that everyone assumes the picture in profile is not the profile owner. Many asked for my private pictures or for my face picture, that means they assume my pictures are fake as well. When they send their pictures, usually 5 seconds to view before auto-delete, but I need just 200 milliseconds.
Once you chat with someone, or even without replying to their message, they can be persistent, sending multiple messages in a short time. On a positive note, I guess that setting up a date would be straightforward. Everyone I chatted with seemed eager to meet. Whereas in Thailand it can drag out because the other is online but doesn't read or not reply to my messages, or goes offline just when I thought we are setting up a date.
In brief, India was the most active, but the least productive on Blued.
On a positive note, in public I saw some slim brown guys. In general nice haircuts (short on back and side which I like, and in particular general short hair and none of the middle part hair that is currently popular in Thailand and Cambodia and which I don't like at all). A style of trousers black with white seams which I find attractive.
Most underwear I saw not attractive to me. Sometimes fancifully called “gents undergarments”.
I saw a few ladyboys (called Hijra or third gender in India). The situation of women in India must be pretty dire. There are special carriages in metro for women only. Years ago, there were several deadly group rape incidents, to which the government responded with a nightly curfew for women (!!!). Acid attacks are a problem as well.
Addendum, here cute Indians:
https://www.instagram.com/p/C5GaLuJPGSj/
Copyright 2024 ChristianPFC
Indians are not my center of attraction, but I saw some nice ones on social media and would think that by sheer number and population density I would find someone online. I didn't. Fill the post with general observations on online dating in India and haircut and massage and gay sauna. Warning: my readers might find some pictures disturbing. 1 EUR = 89 INR (Indian Rupee), 1 USD = 83 INR, 1 GBP = 105 INR, 1 THB = 2.30 INR.
Wed7feb2024 Mumbai
Blued seemed to be the most popular. Furthermore, I paid for a Blued / HeeSay subscription to view unlimited profiles. All online dating done on Blued. I go online to set my location to Mumbai and a few hours later I have messages from about 10 profiles. Certainly busy, more/faster messages than anywhere else except maybe Pattaya.
Fri9feb2024 Mumbai
One of my aspirations in life was to get a haircut for less than 1 EUR or 1 USD. In Thailand I didn't find anywhere cheaper than 70 THB, in Cambodia 1.25 USD. But here in Mumbai I can get a haircut for 70 INR and a shave for 40 INR! Two weeks later in Delhi even cheaper: 50 + 30.
I have a haircut and shave for 70 + 40 INR, takes 25 min. Includes a good head and neck and shoulder massage. I don't feel any cut while he shaves me, only after rubbing an alum stone afterwards some spots light burning.
There is/was an infamous red light area Kamathipura in Mumbai, but I didn't find any recent reports on the internet, and it didn't fit in space and time to go for a recce without any information.
12feb2024 Jodhpur
Go online and for 6 minutes straight answer messages. I.e. messages come in faster than I can read and answer. Even though none is my type, engage in chat for research purposes. After 6 minutes it ebbs down and I'm exhausted and put down my phone.
Tue13feb2024 Jodhpur
Blued / HeeSay non-stop messages. After being offline during dinner, messages from about 10 profiles.
Wed14feb2024 Pushkar
Blued busy here as well, a lot of profiles stats 65 kg 172 cm. I didn't do a statistic by plotting weight and height, just a feeling that 65 kg 172 cm is over-represented. A default setting or miscalculation from imperial (India still uses imperial system for weights and lengths). In Cambodia as well I noticed profiles 65 kg 172cm where a look at the body clearly says this can't be.
Many fake profile pictures, or no picture at all. Many requests to see my private pictures. Videochat with one okay body, but face unattractive.
I have seen enough to stop all online dating as a complete waste of time. Anyway, none of the hotel rooms I have been in so far were of a size and standard that I could comfortably do something. Here some screenshots to show my readers what's available: fat men, hairy men, fat and hairy men.
Wed21feb2024 Agra
The head massage I got with my haircut in Mumbai was good, go to a hairdresser for a head massage.
200 INR for head massage 15 min with oil (cooling sensation), and several times sprays water on my head. Lets oil soak in for 2 minutes, then start massage 20:22. Mostly quick hammering movements with fingers soso, a few times circling with thumb or pressing and moving palm good. Use of electrical massage gun. Afterwards asks if I want a face massage, 20 min 300 INR, I agree. Puts lotion on my face and lets it dry in long time. Then sprays water several times on face. Massage short, soso. Asks if I want shoulder massage, I decline, too late and so far underwhelming.
Overall a waste of time and money, but try again in Delhi. People come to Agra once in their life, to view the Taj Mahal. Everything in Agra (hotels, restaurants, the head massage) has that attitude: people come anyway, and they come only once.
There is an Indian head massage (with oil, as described above) in Bangkok in Tivoli Hotel. A Farang friend likes it and on his recommendation I tried as well but found it underwhelming (both in Bangkok 2018 and in Agra 2024).
Sat24feb2024 Delhi
1k INR (that's 11 EUR or 450 THB, expensive) entry Hammam Sauna and Spa 17:35-18:11. They have combo packages with massage, but not cheap. Locker room with 70 lockers, good light. Get locker 37, high up, I would need a chair to reach it, they give me key for 21 which is lower.
Warm steam room can sit 5 and stand 5, only stray light. Jacuzzi can sit 5. No sauna. 3 showers with doors and one open, hot water. A dark room and a lounge (bench and two beds). There are two customers in steam room who touch me and I return the favor, to find out that both have hairy butt cheeks. Spot several of their massage staff, all average looking. A total waste of time and money, but that was expected, and now I can say I have been to a gay sauna in India.
Mon26feb2024 Delhi
Have a look at price list of a general massage parlor, starting from 60 min 2500 INR (that's 28 EUR or 1100 THB, expensive) and and more expensive courses. No possible gain in knowledge can justify that expense, I will pass.
At a hairdresser, get back and shoulder massage 200 for 15 min, followed by face massage 300 for 20 min. Back and shoulder good, caterpillar technique and electrical massage device. Face massage first defoliating agent ? and then moisturizing ? gets in hair, over eyes, over mouth. With fingers and electrical massage device, over head and ears as well. Overall interesting. I would do a head massage without oil, as I got after haircut, and back and shoulder massage again.
Mon26feb2024 Delhi
In pharmacies, generic Viagra, Cialis, Super Kamagra and condoms widely available at prices similar to Thailand.
General notes and summary
On social media and walking through the streets in India some clear hits, but on online dating all too old, too fat, too hairy for my taste. I didn't see any money boys or get any offers for massage or other services.
Most profiles don't have a picture at all, or picture is not of a person, or that person is not profile owner. When stats are good (e.g. 22 years, 50 kg, 172 cm), I ask for their picture, and in all cases picture did not match stats. The problem with profiles without picture, or fake picture, or no clear face pictures worse than anywhere else. From chatting I assume that everyone assumes the picture in profile is not the profile owner. Many asked for my private pictures or for my face picture, that means they assume my pictures are fake as well. When they send their pictures, usually 5 seconds to view before auto-delete, but I need just 200 milliseconds.
Once you chat with someone, or even without replying to their message, they can be persistent, sending multiple messages in a short time. On a positive note, I guess that setting up a date would be straightforward. Everyone I chatted with seemed eager to meet. Whereas in Thailand it can drag out because the other is online but doesn't read or not reply to my messages, or goes offline just when I thought we are setting up a date.
In brief, India was the most active, but the least productive on Blued.
On a positive note, in public I saw some slim brown guys. In general nice haircuts (short on back and side which I like, and in particular general short hair and none of the middle part hair that is currently popular in Thailand and Cambodia and which I don't like at all). A style of trousers black with white seams which I find attractive.
Most underwear I saw not attractive to me. Sometimes fancifully called “gents undergarments”.
I saw a few ladyboys (called Hijra or third gender in India). The situation of women in India must be pretty dire. There are special carriages in metro for women only. Years ago, there were several deadly group rape incidents, to which the government responded with a nightly curfew for women (!!!). Acid attacks are a problem as well.
Addendum, here cute Indians:
https://www.instagram.com/p/C5GaLuJPGSj/
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