Gay activities May2021

Gay activities May2021
Gay activities and some general observations (online menu in restaurant, public transport in Cambodia, hotels, fruit). All money reported as USD, even though I mostly pay in Khmer Riel.

Sat1may2021 Phnom Penh
Go to see Donald at his place for fun and movie.

Sun2may2021 Phnom Penh
Go to a vegan restaurant near my hotel. To my surprise, no printed menus. If I hadn’t set my mind on that place, and if there had been more time before curfew, I would have gone elsewhere. Even worse, ordering only online (register with name, email, phone number).

Talk to the owner: he abandoned printed menus a year ago because they are unhygienic, and placing order online saves him one staff. He has a point, I have seen many menus that are in unappetizing condition. And now you could argue that menus can spread Covid.

Mon3may2021 Phnom Penh
Walk around Royal Palace Park, Riverside, Street 172. Hundreds of people around, highest number after lockdown.

When I walked down these steps from Riverside to Tonle Sap river a while ago, to my surprise I found a family living underneath! Today water level is about about 0.5 m higher than in picture, flowing towards lake.

There is a shapely, brown hairless skin, face okay, boy/man from family under embankment washing and even diving in the river. Short jeans. No underwear? Bare feet! When he notices me, invites me by gestures to join. But I have to draw the line somewhere, and I'm not going into that water! 

Tue4may2021 Phnom Penh
Chat with Giva on blued, he will not come here, I have to go to pick him up. We have been chatting for a long time, and meeting always failed for distance, so today I go to his place (beyond airport, 4 USD and 30 min by grab).

After keeping me waiting for an hour, he shows up. Good first impression. Basic English and Chinese (only speaking and listening). He introduces me to his family members. No questions about money, asks to go to my room. We hold hands on tuktuk.

I take shower, Giva watches me. He doesn’t take shower. Quickly to bed. Slim brown warm dry. Good activities. Sensitive to aural sex (I just have to press my lips against his ear and he starts moaning). Hug and rest in bed all afternoon. Massages my back, good, ask for more next time. Evening call from father, they need him to work in internet café (else he could have stayed o.n.).

Requests monogamy (google translate: “You promised me that there was no one but me”), promise by hooking little finger and touching thumbs. 

Here a case where I have to lie, because telling the truth would lead to long and tedious further discussion and anyway the idea of requesting monogamy after meeting once is stupid.

He didn't ask for money, but nonetheless 15 USD to Giva (5 for tuktuk for return, 5 for tuktuk to come here again - naïve! - , 5 for him). He doesn’t have grab or passapp, so I call grab for him.

Wed5may2021 Phnom Penh
In the morning, surprise visit from German friend. He had a date with a girl at 8, but she suddenly decided to go a hairdresser, so he has an hour that we spend having breakfast and walk along riverside.

Jane wanted to come tonight, but after long discussion about staying longer, he cancels (restrictions by his quarantine hotel or vaccination he is going to get soon?). Other than sex, we don’t have much in common and having him longer than 2d1n with me would be a burden. 

This is not the first time we had a long and tedious discussion about duration of his stay. Next time I have to cut it short.

Thu6may2021 Phnom Penh
Ahliya comes to my room. He is a bit wet sweaty, but gets warm dry in bed. Ask him to massage me: okay. We have a good time, 20 USD well deserved.

Fri7may2021 Phnom Penh
Walk along riverside with German friend. No gay activities today, the closest I got to having sex was watching two dogs after an interracial at riverside:

Sat8may2021 Phnom Penh
Someone on my door. Go and open: a person I have seen before, excuses himself for confusing floors. That has happened in another hotel as well, I’m glad I lock my door every time, else I would have had a stranger standing in my hotel room three times this year!

Mon10may2021 Phnom Penh to Kampot
Can’t reach Sorya Bus by phone, all numbers blocked or no connection. As I said in general observation, the SIM-card validity situation in Cambodia is dire. I assume the bus company’s SIM card has a validity of only a few weeks, and during lockdown without topping up, validity expired and telephone company blocks number!

Tuktuk to Sorya bus station at central market. Ticket counters empty. Men approach me, call on phone* for taxi to Kampot, quote 80 USD. When I ask for shared, 60 USD for back seat. When I ask for front seat: reserved for Khmer people. That’s not the way I do business, cancel my trip to Kampot and stay in Phnom Penh.

But tuktuk driver has an idea: bus station at night market (Vibol Express). He takes me there, and they call someone and finally offer me van for 20 USD leaving 12:30. A poor offer, should I wait some weeks until normal operation resumes and I can get a bus for 10 USD or less? Back to hotel, where I make up my mind: GO! Pack my stuff, tuktuk to bus station, shuttle to another bus operator.

*General note: if the person who offers you a service or who you approach with a question has to call or ask someone else, you are speaking to the wrong person and it will get messy (loss of information during the way), take longer and be more expensive. But in Cambodia I can’t do this on my own!

Wed12may2021 Kampot
Chat with a boy Chin on Blued who is 36 years old, but body in good shape. Comes to my place by mocy and we have a good time. Repeat. He lives near a temple I want to visit, so I ask him to take me there on his way home. Bye at temple.

In the countryside, there are mango lying on ground, pick up about 2 kg. Yellow with a hint green and some brown spots. Eat at home: taste similar to those from market. I.e. those dropped from tree are not perfectly ripe. Disproves my theory that fruit falling from tree is perfectly ripe (mangosteen 2013 in Chanthaburi in plantation).

Thu13may2021 Kampot
Daytrip pepper plantation, caves, temples. There are some cashew trees and I collect some cashew apples from ground. Eat later in my room: tastes good! The cashew nut is in a shell that contains toxic substances that have to be destroyed by heat. Boil the cashew nut in shell: shell still soft and oozes oil when I press it. I have to find a way to roast them so I can crack the shell and eat the nut.

Fri14may2021 Kampot to Kampong Trach
Ask bus operators in Kampot for public transport to Kampong Trach: none! Manager of my accommodation offers me a ride for 20 USD (similar as I would pay on grab or taxi).

Visal guesthouse 13 USD/night room is okay, but has the following issues: shower head partially blocked, but all fine after I open holes with needle. All power sockets are on key card switch with time switch. WiFi does not work (girl at reception said so, in my room connect to network without password, but no internet connection). Poor mobile reception.

Go to market for dinner and buy some fruit. The question here is not if I want to eat A, B or C, but to find something at all that is appealing to me! There is one convenience store with poor selection, and after sunset restaurants and market close.

Sat15may2021 Kampong Trach
All day out for sightseeing: mountain, temple, caves.

When I walk back, many mocy with cute boys going North, to reservoir at Elephant Mountain? Worth further exploration, but in the afternoon it rains, so I don’t go. Inquire at hotel for public transport to Phnom Penh: no bus or van, only shared taxi at market.

Ask at market: taxi to Phnom Penh 80 USD. With difficulty get the message across that I’m looking for a shared taxi. I show my phone with google translate to a man and he has to hold it in his hand to spell out every word in Khmer. Is he semi-literate and that was all he read this year?

Another one calls someone who speaks English, then I talk to him on phone, but we are getting nowhere, finally abort my attempts. Ask guesthouse across, closed but manager speaks good English and says tomorrow 7 am there will be shared taxis.

Sun16may2021 Kampong Trach to Phnom Penh
Alarm 6, at market 6:25, and find van for 15 USD to PNH! Pack my stuff to be here 6:55. 20 USD (suddenly rised price?) dep 6:57.

That round trip (PNH-Kampot-Kampong Trach-PHN) was a logistic nightmare! Everything took twice as long and cost twice as much and was less comfortable than before Covid.

Mon17may2021 Phnom Penh
Ahly messages me and wants to meet. First I refuse, and when I agree, he is already on his way? Or rather he took “read but no reply” as “yes”? Videochat with his cute friend Somey, afterwards tell Ahly to put phone away. Start slowly, but same issues as last time: no kissing, no initiative, ticklish? Sucking poor (hand on shaft, lips on head). Or even tries to deceive me by just wanking, and his head in line of sight of my eyes to my dick? Finger him, get only half of my finger in. He holds my hand so I can’t get deeper. Show him our chat “U can fuck me”. Try to put my penis in, same issue: holds me away with hand and feet.

That disproves my “lazy bottom” theory.

I tell him no fuck no money. He says I can fuck him next time, I reply I will give him 10 USD next time. I get up and wrap towel around my waist and tell him he can go now (no fuck, no money). Repeat 3 times (try to get in, but he holds me away), finally cum prematurely. He rushes to bathroom and dresses. I ask him for massage, perfunctory except for one good move. I ask him about online dating: he doesn’t use gay dating apps.

No repeat. Overall too much discussion, a complete waste of time and money. He had three chances, and I made the same mistake twice (the first encounter was bad luck, but the other two I should have known better and not hope it would be better, or even worse: let him pressure me to meet again; it was always he who contacted me and wanted to meet). He can get a medal for being the only boy who fooled me thrice!

10 USD Ahly, out after two hours. That’s longer than previous encounters where he spent less than one hour in my room, but two hours today means just that I wasted two hours instead of one!

The story is not over yet. Ahly continues to contact me, but instead of "You can fuck me!" - "You can fuck yourself!", I reply that I want to meet his friend Somey again. Poor activities when I met Somey one time so far, but body is gorgeous and now I’m better prepared.

Wed19may2021 Phnom Penh
Ferry across Mekong with German friend. First time I crossed the Mekong by boat! Interesting view of Phnom Penh across Mekong. Buy some fruit there, prices are the same as in Phnom Penh.

Thu20may2021 Phnom Penh
Dara110 no reply to my messages. Heco Boy 2 slow reply.

Fri21may2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Giva again. He has spent all the money I gave him last time, so I have to go to pick him up (something I’m very reluctant to do, but he is promising and will stay over night). Good foreplay, he says I can fuck him today. But I need dinner first! Out 19:02 for dinner (still only take-away). Back home I have dinner, Giva gets a phone call and tells me he has to go to hospital (brother or dad) tomorrow.

Then just when I’m ready for fun 20:06 he says he has to go to hospital now and doesn’t know when he will be back. Finally the curfew (20-3) works in my favor! But no, despite curfew out and gone! Online in blued 780 m away about 20:30. I was hoping for him being sent back to my room by police for violating curfew, in vain!

He didn’t ask for money for tuktuk and I didn’t offer any. Hasty departure like KenVN. Or are there ghosts in my room?

The foreplay and the lack of asking for money leave no doubt that he came here for fun. It just seems that the hospitalized relative became more important. I would never let a pandemic, a curfew, a lockdown or a family matter let get between me and a boy!

Call Giva 22:35. “Are you still in hospital?” – “No.” – interrupted or hang up? Call again: The number you are calling is currently unavailable.

Sat22may2021 Phnom Penh
Message on blued from Giva: sorry, out of hospital 8 am. (now 10 km away, i.e. home).

Heco Boy 2 comes to my room for fun. 30 USD Heco Boy 2 bye 12:08 in my room.

Sun23may2021 Phnom Penh
Organized daytrip hiking and swimming in waterfall. I’m the only man in a group of nubile women (all good looking and well educated as far as I can tell), some of them wear tight trousers with cameltoe (see picture), most of them get into water in western swimwear. Life is not fair!

source: internet

Gay online dating with an Indonesian in a Guesthouse 100 m away. Poor pictures, only way to find out is to go. Enter and walk past reception up the stairs, but manager calls me where I’m going and asks for name. I didn’t ask for Indonesian’s name, but circumvent this by quoting room number and nationality. Manager leads me to the room and knocks on door and tells Indonesian next time to announce visitors to him.

Average looking. We have some conversation (without face mask), partly in poor English, partly on google translate. He says we don't have much time because his roommate will come back soon. Then he puts on a facemask and asks me if I have one, so I put on my mask. He takes off his clothes: too fat, too hairy. Knock on the door, Indonesian sends me to bathroom (I grab my clothes so I have everything under control, and no signs of me in room). Not his roommate, but someone from hotel? Now dressed, I use this opportunity to make an excuse and say goodbye.

General chat without face mask, but put on a face mask for sex. That's a first!

source: internet



source: internet (their mistake: LIE not LAY)

Mon24may2021 Phnom Penh
To Donald’s place for fun and movie.

Tue25may2021 Phnom Penh
Jane comes in the morning and will stay 2d1n. He has business during daytime, so I don’t have him around all the time.

Wed26may2021 Phnom Penh
Jane leaves midday.

Tii Tii (facebook, from SR, yesterday to PNH) arrives 13:20, go down to pick him up. To my room, I take shower. To bed and quickly get nude. His face soso, underbite, body nice, excessive pubes and hairy balls and butt crack. Dick size okay. Gets hard slowly, so do I. But then “Me no money” starts again. Very annoying. First quote 100 USD. I tell him 10, he asks for 20. Finally I relent for 15, but quest for 20 continues. Lose my erection over that. No kissing. No sucking but enjoys getting sucked. Enjoys nipple play but poor on me. Long fingernails (yuk!). Wanks me too much. Skin temp fine, nice body shape. He would have bottomed (asked for condom), next time!

A weird case where I don’t know where the attraction lies. Average face, too hairy, character flaws, but still I would meet him again.

Thu27may2021 Phnom Penh to Siem Reap
Sorya bus station at Central Market, still no buses! Offer for 25usd for van from elsewhere. Mocy takes me for free to other booking office. He writes ticket for 30usd. Then discussion and several phone calls and long wait and various offers: big bus 14 or 18:30, or van, or leave now with private taxi. Then says big bus only for vaccinated passengers. Wants 50usd for shared taxi, I say I will stay in PNH and wait until bus runs, drops to 45, finally 40.

I pay 40 USD for shared taxi to SR, including pick up at hotel 11:00. Bye 9:18, walk home. Pack and shower, get call to move pick-up from 11 to 10:30. Leave hotel 10:25, at bus company office 10:32. Bus (big bus, red, no name of company) is across the road, I get on bus and we leave 10:33 with only 3 pax. Ask other passenger to see his ticket: he paid 10 USD at another company.

A misunderstanding or a scam?

Entering Siem Reap province, temperature check and everyone has to fill out a form: name, gender, age, ID or passport number, from where, to where, vaccinated or not, temperature.

Fri28may2021 Siem Reap
Last time in Siem Reap, there was still some activity in Pub Street with up to 100 customers across all venues. But now there is construction for sewer everywhere and as far as I could tell, only one restaurant remains open, but only for take-away.

At 10 make appointment with LyHeng for 12. Knock on door 12:05, then to bathroom. To bed 12:15. Foreplay soso, but great body. I get hard soon, condom, lube, fuck him legs up good but come too quick. Stay in and change position to him riding on me. Then slip out and LyHeng to bathroom, spends a lot of time. Then back and dresses, but I tell him to take off trousers and join me in bed for hugging, then massage good. 20 USD LyHeng bye 13:17. A bit rushed, and too much time in bathroom.

An old acquaintance SR28may2021 comes to my room for fun.

Sun30may2021 Siem Reap
Phsa chas restaurant (cute boy looks like Tor (my favorite in "Gay Asian Holes 2" and worked in Happy Boys many years ago; tattoos on upper arms and front and back can be seen above collar).

An old acquaintance SR30may2021 comes to my room for fun, mentions money problems, so I give him 30 USD.

The cute boy at my hotel (we had a chat, English okay), is on blued! Messages me and wants to come to my room for massage. Asks for money, I offer 10 USD for massage and looking and touching, not enough!

DaraSR comes to my place. Cute face, nice haircut short on side, but a bit on the fat side (face and body). Ask him for massage, okay. Go for dinner, then bye.

Mon31may2021 Siem Reap
Alone in Angkor Wat. I have been to Angkor Wat twice, but there are many more temples to see and now there few other tourists and the day ticket for 37 USD is valid for two days and the evening of the day before.

Summary May2021 Phnom Penh
8 Free sex: Donald, Giva, Chin36, Giva, Indonesian, Donald, Jane, SR28may2021.
6 Paid sex: Ahliya 20 USD, Ahli 10, Heco Boy 2 30, TiiTii 15, LyHeng 20, SR30may2021 30 = 125 USD.

No sex: DaraSR.
Canceled by boy: Jane.
Negotiate: Boy in my hotel 10 USD not enough for massage and touching.

12 Repeat: Donald, Giva, Ahliya, Chin36, Giva, Heco Boy 2, Donald, Jane, TiiTii, LyHeng, SR28may2021, SR30may2021.
2 No repeat: Ahli, Indonesian.

10 Old: Donald, Ahliya, Ahli, Giva, Heco Boy 2, Donald, Jane, LyHeng, SR28may2021, SR30may2021.
4 New: Giva, Chin36, Indonesian, TiiTii.

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Sihanoukville impressions

Sihanoukville Impressions
Everyone I told I will be going to Sihanoukville soon, said it’s a horrible place. And it probably was before Covid, with ten thousands of Chinese tourists and construction work going on everywhere.

But now, with most business closed and most construction work stopped, it has a feeling of abandonment and post-apocalypse which I like. Reminds me of Berlin in 1945. But still enough places (hotels, restaurants, markets) open to satisfy my basic needs.

With most hotels closed and public transport reduced, I have to call bus company to ask if and when they have a bus (nowadays mostly only vans) and call hotel to check if they are open. Originally I wanted to go to Kep, but for lack of public transport changed to Sihanoukville. Two lions roundabout, a landmark in Sihanoukville:

There are still empty plots of land:

A small house between two big buildings:

Three generations of urban development from left to right: 1980, 2000, 2020 (my interpretation, I don't know how old these buildings are).

One of the many abandoned construction sites:

Most of these structures don't have load-bearing walls, only floor/ceiling and columns. At the right angle, you can look through them. Another one with a shack in front (instead of moving in):

The casino is closed and all buildings behind are unfinished. Many people must have lost a lot of money in the real estate and construction and entertainment business in Sihanoukville.

Abandoned sidewalk and sewer construction:

When everything is finished, they will have nice wide roads and sidewalks. But at the moment, it looks like North Korea or Naypyitaw (wide roads and sidewalks, but no cars or pedestrians; info from internet, I haven't been).

But some business will be up to 1 m above or below the current road/sidewalk level.

On the hill, there is no sewer and water runs down the road like a river:

Few windows to road, but many to the side with no view due to new building under construction:

Inhabitants of this building (front and side view combined to one picture) face an even worse fate when the plot next to them gets a high-rise:

First I thought these statues are Greek or Roman gods, but then I went close and saw they are Jesus and (who is in the middle?).

All casinos do not allow Cambodians to enter. This is the first time I learnt of something like this, no entry for locals!

In Street 805, there are several lady bars, one with three levels of  steps to sit on. And in the same road, 50 m away from the nearest lady bar, is a church (Sihanoukville Presbyterian Church)!

I read somewhere about streetside prostitution called Chicken Farm, but on the internet I found only old reports without location. Most interesting first:
https://www.volkerzobelt.com/cambodia-sihanoukville-sihanouk-hell
http://www.mangozeen.com/2021/04/14/travel/da-chicken-farm-de-sihanoukville.htm
https://dreamholidayasia.com/destination/cambodia-guide/sihanoukville-girls-and-nightlife/
https://dreamholidayasia.com/travel-blog/sex-trip-report/a-journey-
around-cambodia/
The following title sounds promising, but this must be the worst video I ever watched. Very little content. 2 thumbs up and 12 thumbs down is justified:
Sihanoukville Chickenfarm brothel Sex at USD10 -ft. Notorious Austmon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhITWjOTslE

One would think after exposure to Chinese tourists and current economical hardship due to Covid, everyone is hardened and wary of Foreigners. But no, everyone I met here was nice, even tuktuk
drivers not pushy. All boys I met here could speak Chinese, some even read and write. Most businesses have Chinese names, and in the supermarket there were mostly Chinese products.

An amazing place if you like abandonment and urban decay! A fascinating juxtaposition of partially demolished old buildings, abandoned construction sites, interrupted sewer and sidewalk construction (at one end not finished yet, on the other end already damaged).

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WOP: Cambodian Boys

Words of Praise: Cambodian boys

Cambodian boys continue to excel in all aspects: activities, character, communication, intellectually. If this (Covid and Cambodia the only place to go) had happened to me 5 years ago (when I had poor success with Thai boys), I would have moved to Cambodia for the boys. Now I have more experience with Thai boys, and because I can speak Thai I have access to all Thai boys, I can find and pick the few gems in Thailand.

This judgment is distorted. In Thailand I can date any boy because I speak Thai, but in Cambodia I can only date boys who speak English which is a positive selection. I have a Farang friend in Thailand who speaks Thai but dates only in English for this reason. Whereas two other Farang friends date only in Thai and find English a turn-off.

The downside is, in provinces in Cambodia, choice of boys is poor. Whereas in Thailand, I can get boys in the provinces as well.

Many boys have a motorbike. Whereas in Thailand, often discussion about taxi money before meeting. About half of the boys I met can give a good massage. Some boys can bend their fingers backwards.

Khmer boys either have fewer money problems than Thai boys, or don’t expect me to help them. Whereas many Thai are like drug addicts, and their money problems are the first thing on their mind: I need money for food NOW, I need money for mobile phone TOMORROW, and I need money for rent NEXT WEEK!

If I had to generalize, it would be: Khmer boys are sincere (looking for love, relationship, sex), Thai boys are devious (sex as a means to get material advantage).

Some boys I met here have interesting backgrounds, whereas Thailand mostly: village, buffalo. I met several polyglot Khmer boys. Several boys have a small side business, importing stuff (shoes, clothes, bags, cosmetics) from Thailand or China to sell. That means all this stuff is more expensive in Cambodia, at the same time Cambodia being a poorer country.

Fake profiles (i.e. not the boy’s pictures) or poor pictures is a problem here as well. My favorite boys all had their pictures either in profile or sent it to me on request, so one might skip all fake profiles or poor pictures. There is a correlation between level of English and quality of profile and performance/character.

I had boys begging to allow me to come to see me in Thailand as well, but I never had a boy who thanked me afterwards in Thailand, but in Cambodia.

The only negative is use of poppers. More boys (both absolute and relative) in Cambodia than in Thailand asked me for poppers.

No mobile phone addiction
Many Thai boys I met are social-media-zombies and you have to pry the phone out of their hands during intercourse (it’s a turn-off for me when the boy plays on his phone during foreplay or post-coital cuddling). This has not been an issue in Cambodia and then I had an idea: I’m dating the last generation that had a childhood without mobile phones. Ask one boy: 23 years old, got his first phone at age 15.

This graph (generated from https://www.theglobaleconomy.com/compare-countries/, see here as well https://www.theglobaleconomy.com/Cambodia/Mobile_phone_subscribers/) shows that in 2011 there were as many mobile phones as people in Cambodia, and I assume from then on people had excess mobile phones to give to babies and children to play, resulting in permanent brain damage.

Whereas https://asiafoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Mobile-Phones-and-Internet-Use-in-Cambodia-2016.pdf on page 13 looks at smartphones and reports the following numbers: 2013 20%, 2014 26%, 2015 40%, 2016 48% from which I extrapolate 2018 100%.

Still no boyfriend
My current stay in Cambodia is the closest I ever got to having a boyfriend. The longest period I have been seeing a boy regularly (several boys actually), longest period not paying for sex, several times not on gay online dating for several days (but then, when one boy failed me, eagerly back).

The only reason why I haven’t taken any of the BFCs as a BF so far is my lifestyle and greediness. I want brown skin AND slim body AND nice abs AND nice character AND no money problems AND … all in one boy.

The same reasons why I haven’t found a new job: I want everything! NMR spectroscopy service as good as in the UK, food as good as in France (I still relish the memories of lunches at work, salmon – boiled, not fried! – and pizza margarita with goat cheese, and the desserts!), library as good as in Berlin, and friends who have worked in industry told me everyone has their own work computer. Can you imagine how awesome that would be, you don’t have to share the one computer in the lab/office with your colleagues?

Good boys would want me to find a job, bad boys would want to jump on the gravy train that is my life. Only once did I meet someone who is compatible (got rich through hard work and investment in his 20s, now travelling the world in his 30s).

For me, having fun with boys is like going to a restaurant. I wouldn’t want to eat at the same restaurant, or the same dish, all the time. A boy in Cambodia once asked me why I don’t have a boyfriend, and I said, I wouldn’t want to eat my favorite food every day. He replied “But they are people.”

General about dating
I wrote about dating/relationship styles here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2015/12/dating-thai-boys-36-tigers-swans-and.html, and now found these two funny videos:

My Elf Girlfriend: Sex Talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HYeEFFdQKU

Family Guy Clips Quagmire uses Tinder
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fMZcE59wlFk

(Full episode here, with Tinder from 6:55, 10:38, 13:15.)
Family Guy Quagmire Goes On Tinder!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhXLOvyxt6g

ChristianPFC gives relationship advice!
A German friend GF dates girls (and the occasional ladyboy) and his experiences here are similar to Thailand. Some interesting stories, and I can even give him some relationship advice.

When we were out together, he took pictures of us to send to his girlfriend as proof where he is and what he is doing. He even asked me to join him for a trip to the province (so he can meet another girl) to be his alibi. Completely wrong approach, I don’t have to justify where I am and what I’m doing to anyone.

Several times, he didn’t reply to her messages for a few hours and she went crazy. I was in a similar situation with Jane, whom I had to wean off the idea of calling me whenever he feels bored or thinks of me, leave messages unanswered for a day (even though I read them earlier). Tell GF he does not have to be on the phone all the time, and one day without replying to her messages should become normal.

Once GF asked me how I refused to give money to a boy. I just write: NO. Period. Turns out, he always tried to justify why he will not give money to a girl, which led to endless discussion.

GF says the girls are mostly at the ends of the spectrum: hookers who have sex on first date for money, and “no sex before marriage” with little in between.

Guasha and cupping
Some boys have pictures with red stripes on their body in their online dating profiles. I asked one and it’s not sexual (like love bites), but a medical treatment that is similar to Chinese Gua Sha. Siang Pure Balm (similar to Tiger Balm) is applied to the skin and the skin is scrapped with the lid with pressure to cause these red stripes. Related Cupping leaves round red spots.

Underwear in Cambodia
Underwear expensive and not my taste, brown looks shit (both figuratively and literally). These cost indeed 2.50 USD each, which is more expensive than in Thailand!
 

The only saving grace is silver or grey waistbands, which I like.

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Do not confuse: Centipede and Millipede

Do not confuse: Centipede and Millipede

They look similar to the untrained eye (adults about 15 cm long, brown color), but are very different: centipede runs fast, will attack (bite) when threatened, is rare (I have only seen a few); millipede runs slow, will curl up when disturbed, is frequent (in spring I have seen hundreds).

Centipede ตะขาบ dtà-kàap
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scolopendra_subspinipes

In 2013, I was chatting with a group of Thai who were sitting on the ground and having food and drink, when suddenly a centipede appeared and everyone jumped up, and someone grabbed a tool to kill the centipede.

The above mentioned centipede. Left dead, upper side (dorsal). Right decapitated, lower side (ventral).

Dead dry centipede in the forest:

read here as well:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8992725/Mother-plucks-one-year-old-boy-path-deadly-giant-centipede-Thailand.html
https://www.pattayaunlimited.com/thailands-monster-poisonous-centipede/

updates: https://www.ndtv.com/offbeat/gigantic-centipede-crawling-on-apartment-wall-frightens-resident-2518464  

https://www.facebook.com/groups/thai.species.id/permalink/788717708475029/

https://www.facebook.com/groups/naturalcambodia/permalink/3580107552092719/

Millipede กิ้งกือ gîng-geu
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Millipede
Their only defense is a smelly secret that can irritate skin but seems to deter predators (why else would there be so many centipedes?).

In spring, they can occur in large numbers. I count 7 or 8 millipedes in this picture:

I find it fascinating to watch the movement of their legs when they walk. Here in picture:

and here in video:

Two millipede curled up (for reproduction?). When disturbed, a single millipede curls up the same way.

Most millipedes are on ground, but recently I saw one climbing a tree:

read here as well:
http://www.buriramtimes.com/centipedes-millipedes-thailand/
https://www.thailandnatureproject.com/other-arthropods.html
https://litfl.com/the-shocking-pink-dragon-millipede/

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Gay activities Apr2021

Gay activities Apr2021

The month is mostly lost (boy-wise, travel-wise and general quality of life-wise) due to lockdown and curfew. Whole month spent in Phnom Penh. Some days just reading, study Chinese, watch movies and a walk around the block. But even during lockdown, some boy activities which shows: Love is stronger than lockdown!

I have been chatting with cute boy Peter who works on a construction site near my hotel for weeks, during lockdown and curfew intensify and try to get him to my room for fun.

Thu1apr2021 Phnom Penh
Ahly (friend of Somey 15mar2021) messages me, wants to meet and needs money, I offer 10 USD*and after some negotiation he accepts. Arrives 14:00 (knock on my door). Fully dressed to bed, plays on his phone. He recently broke up with his boyfriend (boyfriend has new partner), that’s why he can come to meet me (last time he said he wouldn’t cheat on his boyfriend). I have a few gropes, he undresses under bedsheet.

Ahly tells me he will leave in 30 minutes. I tell him good sex takes 1 or 2 hours. He tries 1 hour for 20 USD, but I stay at 10 USD. Warm dry skin, no body hair, hard from start average size. Wants to watch porn on his mobile. If he had some saved on his phone, that would be interesting to see what he likes, but searching internet for porn is a total turn-off, I tell him to put the phone away. Evasive when I kiss and lick his neck and nipples. When I try to kiss him “I don’t like”. – “What do you like?” – “I like hurry.” Finger him a bit, moaning, but after I have one segment in, evasive. I ask him why he does not like kissing, sucking, nipple play, he says Cambodian boys are like that, don’t like freestyle. Everything exactly as with Somey. At the end I learn that Somey is waiting outside with motorbike.

Bye 14:40. A complete waste of time and money. He does sex like dishwashing. But he is cute, and might be a “lazy bottom”, and for 10 USD I will meet him again and see if I can confirm my “lazy bottom” theory.

*Before I used to offer 20 USD to money boys. But after his friend Somey for 20 was totally useless in bed, from then on try with 10. Those worth more still get 20, but on the useless I waste only 10 and my time. About half of the boys accept 10, half will not meet me for 10.

At construction site 5pm several workers outside, spot Peter and another cute, give an apple to Peter and ask for his favorite fruit: durian.

Curfew in Phnom Penh 20-5 from today. No more dine-in in restaurants, only take-away. A considerable drop in quality of life.

Fri2apr2021 Phnom Penh
Jane can stay longer in quarantine hotel, postpones coming to my room to Monday instead of today. What a relief!

Mon5apr2021 Phnom Penh
Finally spot the cute slim brown boy at my hotel shirtless. No discernible abs or pecs, not worth pursuing him.

No message from Jane, he wanted to come today, file as no show. After days not going on gay online dating, now check who wrote me in the meantime and look for new profiles. (Message from Jane 00:49: drunk and sad.)

Tue6apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet a boy who lives nearby at supermarket. English okay, conversation okay, not so much my type. Some conversation, then after some silence I say I feel hot (temperature, not sexual interest) and will go back to my room.

I have some travel in Phnom Penh to do. Near my hotel are several cyclo (tricycle, human powered), and one speaks some English and chatted with me several times and might be gay. He immediately accepts the fare I offer (which I got from grab), I get on his cyclo. But then a woman comes and bitches/bickers at him, making a scene, in the end takes off her flip-flop and threatens to hit him. He says he cannot go. I take a tuktuk.

Wed7apr2021 Phnom Penh
Travel between provinces banned. Postpone trip to Siem Reap, sightseeing daytrip on weekend cancelled.

Thu8apr2021 Phnom Penh
Heco one hour oil massage 20 USD. Arrive 16:00, get a glass of cold drink. At reception there is a bucket to catch water dripping from aircon, dripping sound. Receptionist washes my feet and then leads me to massage room and he would have done massage if I hadn’t asked for HecoBoy2 (whom I have met before). He is currently busy with customer, but I can take shower and wait for him. Massage table with face well. No clothes hanger or table, put clothes in box that was on table. Shower in room, but no curtain or wall, floor gets wet. HecoBoy2 tries to mop it up, but then suggests we change room. Massage starts 16:25 in new room. HecoBoy2 fully dressed, good massage, but no erotic touching. Afterwards asks if I want wanking, I decline. Shower alone. Out of room 17:30. Hot tea and mango. Tip 10 USD, out 17:40.

Summary: rather expensive; facilities soso; no list of boys to choose from; if you want a particular boy, you have to ask for him. 

Fri9apr2021 Phnom Penh
Say hello to an acquaintance from Grindr V at riverside, not so much my type.

Louis wants to meet at Blue Chili, than changes to Bred Bank. There is a bakery, and he has his car parked in front. The first time a boy came to a date by car. Some attractive, some unattractive features, interesting conversation. I tell him I don’t feel horny with him, but he wants to stay over night nonetheless. Has to take car back home and will come by tuk-tuk before curfew at 8.

I have dinner at Martina Bar in street 51 (Pasteur). Some places there still open but with little lighting.

Louis comes to my room, interesting conversation, we both sleep naked but no activity in bed.

Sun11apr2021 Phnom Penh
In the morning hello to Peter, and there is another boy cute as well. Peter’s phone broken, that’s why he didn’t read my messages. Can’t come to my room because he is hot. I tell him I have aircon, still cannot come to my room.

In the evening go to Peter’s room. He stays with wife and baby and younger brother (cute! 18y.o.). His phone is broken and SIM-card inside (that means he doesn’t have another phone just for calling). Give him my phone number. Cannot come to my room because too hot and baby sick.

Mon12apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter in basement of construction site. Invites me for beer or whisky but I decline.

Tue13apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Jop from hornet on road, then to my room. Interesting chat and interesting background, but I don’t feel horny with him (hair on upper thigh) and it seems he feels the same. We sit on my bed and chat, then he takes out his phone to read on phone and I do the same.

Another food delivery for Jane (in quarantine, but can pick up deliveries from reception).

Afterwards I do my own shopping, supermarket busier than ever and queues at check out. Later I learn that lockdown is coming, everyone does their shopping before lockdown.

Wed14apr2021 Phnom Penh
Choice of fruit and vegetables at Kandal market limited, and priced higher than before.

Ahliya from Blued is already up to 2nd floor when I go down to meet him at reception. Speaks some English and more Chinese from work with Chinese. Body, face, activities, attitude all fine, repeat! 15 USD well deserved.

Lockdown entire Phnom Penh 24 hours for 2 weeks from midnight.

Kandal market busier than usual, and later on facebook pictures of supermarkets full of people and empty shelves.

Thu15apr2021 Phnom Penh
Few people and vehicles on road. Supermarkets open, everything else closed. The little fruit at Kandal market twice as expensive as a before lockdown. 

Royal Palace Park. Later during lockdown I have seen it without anybody.

Dara110 suddenly messages me he has arrived (didn’t message me before, just general intention to meet, have to dress first; this is a general issue with him, have to address this next time). He came by passapp, driver took small roads because main roads blocked. Good activities as last time.

All restaurants I used to frequent are closed, I ask hotel staff to get steamed rice from their shared kitchen.

Fri16apr2021 Phnom Penh
5k sweet potato (was 3k a week ago). Limited choice, no ripe mango, no cheap oranges.

Some roads half-assed blocked with red/white ribbon (mocy can pass, I hold it up for tuk-tuk to pass underneath).

Sun18apr2021 Phnom Penh
French bakery Eric Kayser closed from today. Now it’s getting serious!

Mon19apr2021 Phnom Penh
Kandal market locked down and blocked by red and white tape and guarded by uniformed men. Wat Ounalom is closed, no more playing with my favorite cats and dogs. 

Alcohol sales ban for two weeks.

Tue20apr2021 Phnom Penh
Buy a bunch of bananas for double price as usual, but this is the only fresh fruit available in my area today.

Wed21apr2021 Phnom Penh
Shopping Lucky Express in 144 street, some shelves empty (rice, meat). First time in my life that I witness food shortages.

View on Norodom Blvd south to Independence Monument. Eyewitnesses say since the end of the Red Khmer, Phnom Penh has not been that quiet.

Thu22apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter in his room (door open, he is there with brother and baby), some water on floor from rain, his phone still broken, he is not working (no construction material delivery due to lockdown).

Fri23apr2021 Phnom Penh
Go to meet Mana for massage. Even though I said “no sex, no money”, I give her 10 kKHR (2.50 USD).

Sat24apr2021 Phnom Penh
Man approaches me at riverside “I have something interesting for you. You will like it” but I decline. In general, when I make my rounds, people (homeless ? and tuktuk drivers) approach me with unspecified offers (sometimes drugs, sometimes ladies, sometimes “what are you looking for?”).

Hello to Peter, shirtless nice body, sleeps all day (but where?), negative reply to my suggestion of massage, have to offer money next time. Other shapely boy takes shower in underwear.

Sun25apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter shirtless in ground level, other people around, so I don’t get to the point of my visit.

Mon26apr2021 Phnom Penh
Meet Chin from Grindr on road and go to my room. Not a clear hit, activities soso. No repeat.

Peter not in room, his younger brother points down. But he isn’t there either, finally by chance see him on street. Small talk, then I go to Kandal market.

Tue27apr2021 Phnom Penh
Ahly (repeat from 1apr) arrives 13:08. We had a general chat an hour ago with intention to meet, I was not aware that he would come now, and I was about to go to market. Warm and dry skin, is hard from start. Small cock, small balls, a bit hair on crotch. I have to tell him to put his phone aside. Evasive when I kiss his neck. Nipple play okay. Always reaches for my cock for wanking, have to take his hand off. Better activities than last time, but still repetitive and no initiative. I get fully hard and cum prematurely. Ahly to bathroom, comes out fully dressed. Again a waste of time and money 10 USD, bye 13:53 in my room. I didn’t get to fuck him, that means I have to meet him once more to confirm my “lazy bottom” theory.

Wed28apr2021 Phnom Penh
More people and vehicles around than ever before during lockdown. I hesitate at a roadblock manned with uniformed men, one of them waves me through (before would have sent me back). But red zones still marked by red and white stripes and guarded and no traffic of people allowed across, only delivery of goods.

Fri30apr2021 Phnom Penh
Hello to Peter. Other (older worker or even engineer?) points to him and says “cute”.

Show Peter google translation “Can you do massage with me? I will pay 10 Dollar. I just want to touch your body. Don’t make a baby.”, reply is “no”. Poverty cannot be that bad if he reclines such a generous offer! After one week without work, and mobile phone not working, he must be bored and that alone should be a reason to go with me. Give up on Peter.

Summary Apr2021 Phnom Penh
2 Free sex: Dara110, Chin.
3 Paid sex: Ahly 10 USD, Aliya 15 USD, Ahly 10 USD = 35 USD.
5 No sex: boy6apr, HecoBoy2 (just massage 20 + 10 USD), V riverside, Louis, Jop.

1 No show: Jane.
1 Refused: Peter 10 USD.

2 Repeat: Aliya, Dara110.
3 No repeat: Ahly, Chin, Ahly.

2 Old: Dara110, Ahly.
3 New: Ahly, Aliya, Chin.

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Dating Thai Boys (87) Popular boy pictures (1)

Dating Thai Boys (87) Popular boy pictures (1)

Some pictures boys post on social media or online dating become popular, i.e. being copied and used as profile pictures by others. If you see any of the below pictures on online dating profiles, chances are close to zero that it's the profile owner. I'm writing of experience.

In most cases, the profile owner doesn't even know the boy. In some cases (pornography), the owner of the profile is indeed the managing director of the the boy in picture and others. However, not every profile that sells pornography or sex (there is a trend away from selling sex, some profile texts even say: no date, only camsex or clips) has the boy that is in picture in their works!

For the following my translation: "I need money for food. 200 Baht. I will have camsex, wanking and show my face. Wanking until cum." You might get camsex, but not with this boy, and only after sending 200 Baht online first.

Here a real-life example (for the disparity of profile picture and owner). Profile picture:

If it looks to be too good, it probably is too good. Ask for more pictures (my blurr):

The following my translation: Sell porn (wanking) for 100 Baht. Interested?

 

I know various more boys who would qualify (good looking by my standards, high exposure on social media, i.e. a steady stream of shirtless pictures), but haven't seen any of them used for fake profile.

Copyright 2021 ChristianPFC except pictures. If you are in a picture and want it removed, please contact me and identify yourself by videochat (shirtless).