Gay activities December 2019

Gay activities December 2019

Gay activities in Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai, Pattaya.

Sun1dec2019 Nakon Sawan

On trip to North, first night in Nakon Sawan where I know several boys. However none of them available, so do online dating. On hornet chat with Aim and he comes to my room 20:02-21:08. Good English and interesting conversation, not so much my type but I play along.

Go to visit Kim (met in 2018) at his workplace (bar/restaurant) and have dinner there. As cute as before, but works long hours, sometimes midnight, sometimes overtime to 1 or 2 am. 

No luck in online dating, no message from Kim by midnight, go to bed alone.

Mon2dec2019 Tak

The boy I know in Tak is unspecific about meeting (count this as cancellation) and two days later tells me he couldn’t come as it was his mother’s birthday. Another one online dating no-show.

Thu3dec2019 Regency Boy Bar Chiang Rai

Orange juice 80 THB. Stay 22:53 to 23:22. 5 boys and no customers. Staff tells me it is busier 9 pm. One of the boys even takes off his shirt and trousers and does gogo dancing on stage (seems to be well endowed, but body not slim or muscular). Nice atmosphere and no foul language. I show pictures of Folk (used to work in Nice Boys Pattaya), but they don’t know him.

About Chiang Rai in general and Regency Boy Bar in particular see here as well:

https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?21160-Chiang-Rai-visit/page2

Wed4dec2019 Adam’s Apple Chiang Mai

Arrive 22:05. Pineapple juice 260, free popcorn, even second serving. Music, light, temperature okay. 9 boys on stage and 4 sitting with customers, 6 customers. Boys wear white briefs or trunks, bare feet. Rotation okay (3 boys are called by name to get from stage on catwalk).

Show starts 22:30 with the following acts: parade of all boys, big cock in tiger costume (one boy), ladyboy, hula hoop (all boys), big cock in vampire costume (one boy), ladyboy. Gap in the show with boys on stage 23:05-15. Then continue show big cock in batman costume (one boy), labyboy, big cock. Show ends 23:35. Too much ladyboy and too long gaps (even playing music video on large screen behind stage during gaps so customers have something to look at). The boys in the big cock acts would tour the audience so everyone can have a grope (no tip required, I saw only one out of about 8 customers during show giving a tip).

Show was a waste of time and money for me.

The boys all seemed straight and didn’t make eye contact with me. Two I would consider offing: Max (pronounced Mac, left arm and chest tattoo) cute face, and Song (right shoulder blade tattoo) great body.

Leave 23:50, 12 boys and 4 customers. Bar closes 24. Overall a good selection of boys and good atmosphere. Only one manager and two wait staff (whereas in Bangkok and Pattaya there would be one fully dressed staff for each gogo boy).

A well managed bar with a good selection of boys. Just the show was too much ladyboy and too long gaps between eacts.

Have a look in Circle Pub around midnight. Outside several boys, all average looking, fully dressed (long trousers, long shirts because it’s cold at night) and a few staff inside (no boys, no customers inside). They tell me they are closing. Opening times are 8 pm to 1 am, show 10-11 and 11:30-12:30.

Thu5dec2019 Common Massage Chiang Mai

After sightseeing all day, on way home pass Common Massage and have a look inside 19:52 with intention to get a massage and afters. One hour oil massage 700, minimum tip 600 is rather expensive compared to Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket Patong. But the problem is, I see no boys. Ask at reception “Where are the boys?” – “They are inside!” (in a tone that I find rather threatening than inviting). They push the massage menu back in my face, and want me to commit to a massage without seeing the boys? Not the way I do massage business. Bye.

On hornet find a boy who is across the street from my hotel. Nat from Salaya, in Chiang Mai for holiday. We meet on the road for a chat, at the end I hold his hand (cold, a poor start). Looks okay, I would take him to my room now, but he has to go back to his roommate who is alone in their room. And what about me? I’m alone in my room as well!

Chat on hornet with another one, Keng CMU. Originally he wanted me to come to pick him up (but after all day traveling that’s out of question), but then agrees to come by himself. However, he wants to fuck me. First, I wouldn’t commit to fucking before meeting someone; second, I just walked 8 km * and my ass is unwell from chafing. Without fucking, he cancels.

Keep that in mind for the future: it’s better to agree to everything that is not too far fetched, you can still renege later. (Have to adapt to local morals (edit: ethos), if I adhere to German moral standards, I am the one who loses out.)

* Public transport is dire, there was no bus where I was going; and I don't want to pay outrageous prices and support taxi mafia, so I had to walk 8 km.

 

Fri6dec2019 return to Bangkok

From Chiang Mai to Bangkok in one day. Drive around Saranrom 00:39-01:00 about 30, several worth a second look. Bicycle lane is gone, elephant (corner Sanam Luang / Royal Palace / City Pillar) gone.

Sat7dec2019

Rak Lao comes to my room. We have dinner and then to bed. Warm dry skin, muscular, but long hair which I don’t like. Good activities.

Sun8dec2019

Rak Lao stays over night, another round in the morning.

Afternoon take train to Hua Thake to meet a Cambodian boy Theary. Go to a nearby short-time hotel where we would spend 15:36-17:09. Slim brown warm dry skin but no muscle and a bit hairy. Nice hairless balls but hairy ass. He cums three times by wanking! A new record. Good English and interesting conversation, will meet him again.

Mon9dec2019

Not9999 no show.

Tue10dec2019

No luck online dating. One cancellation (mother called).

Not9999 wanted to come 11pm, then shifts to 1am. My “no sex after midnight” rule applies here, go to bed and switch off my phone, missed call 00:11.

Wed11dec2019

Not9999 finally comes 12:11. Wait on main road to pay 120 for taxi (that happens occasionally that a boy does not have money for taxi, but trusts me enough to take a taxi which I will pay upon arrival, without having met before). Slim body but skin not brown, no body hair, face okay (looks better on pictures). Odd behavior (tick? Drugs?) Plays on phone, hard at beginning then loses it, long time in bathroom (2 x 30 min, doing what?). Not much response to my caresses, I have a wank and then do my business while he is playing with his phone (online dating/facebook/Line, some registration issue for Rabbit card). Bye 16:47, 200 for taxi for return.

An odd encounter (a bit reminiscent of the drug boy in Oct), but I would meet him again.

Chat with NL5 and I agree on bareback (to be reneged once we meet, see CM cancellation) and 200 for taxi, but then cancels. I didn’t do other online dating while waiting for him (17-23), now it’s too late to arrange something else.

(Subject for another post, how the probability of meeting decreases the further it is in the future. I prefer to make appointments within one hour of agreeing to meet. I know that making an appointment at 17 for 22 is a long time span, and then another hour until it becomes clear 23 that we will not meet. On the other hand you could say that I gained these 5 hours to do something useful without being distracted by online dating, following several chats and after every message calculating which is the most promising.)
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Thu12dec2019

NL5 wants 500, I offer 100, cancels.

I had an okay time with Capmoo some months ago, but today too cold wet sweaty, perfume which I don’t like, no repeat.

Fri13dec2019

Nene Rama 2 comes to my room. Lipstick, colored contact lenses, make-up and dyed hair are disturbing, and I would get running nose and swollen eyes from all that stuff later.

Very nice body, okay activities (a bit slow and boring in bed). Phone call from relative in hospital. I give him 500 we had agreed upon and write this encounter off as just getting to know each other (13:02-37 in my room, no cum – with all that cosmetics I can’t get hard).

I would meet him again, and will do (Jan2020), but have to address these issues. Very persistent in online chat (and a friend blocked him for that), but at least honest: no "I miss you, I love you" instead: "I need money!".

Other boy no money, no phone, can't come unless I send him money online (no way!).

I pick up HBA Myanmar at MRT Lumpini. We have dinner, then to my room. Plays on his phone, little response to my gropes.

Sat14dec2019

HBA Myanmar stays over night. I play with his morning erection, little response. Bye 8:57, 500 for travel expenses. Not much gained sex-wise, but nice body and I will see him again.

Bee comes to my room. Pictures looked okay, but in real too old and fat. But I play along. He brought leather pants for me to wear because that turns him on (I never had that before). They are 32 inch waist, I am 34 inch waist, so I have to leave zipper and button open. Bee sucks good, but I can’t get hard. Bee cums by wanking. Bye after half an hour in my room.

Keng Polo 500 well deserved (met him before and will meet him again).

Zim Pinoy comes to my room. Not so much my type, but play along and let him stay over night.

A new record? Four boys in a day (midnight to midnight).

Sun15dec2019

Kuk Bangna comes to my room. A bit old and fat, but good sucking, nice balls and finally gets me hard enough to fuck him. We might have a repeat. 300 for travel expenses.

Mon16dec2019

Toey Sam Saen comes by taxi and I wait at main road (see him paying taxi 120). A bit on the fat side, but brown and cute. Okay in bed. One of the furthest cumshots I have ever seen (onto my wardrobe; with clear path he could probably shoot 3 meters far, that alone warrants a repeat).

This is interesting: when I first saw him in real, I thought “he looks like the boy who stole 6000 THB from me”. And that boy had one of the furthest cumshots as well.

When I meet someone new I compare face with boys I know…(fragment, elaborate another time)

Get his facebook, and glad I did because next time I checked hornet, his profile there was gone. 500 for sex and 300 for taxi return well deserved.

Tue17dec2019 Hua Hin

Go to Hua Hin to meet German friend and stay at his condo. Online dating, M Karen comes to meet me (I have separate bedroom and bathroom in the condo, and my German friend is fine for me to bring guests). A bit older than I thought, but nice body and good activities. Stays over night.

Wed18dec2019 Hua Hin

M Karen stays with me the entire day for sightseeing and stays another night. He was born and raised in Myanmar, but has family in Thailand and they passed him as their child to get a birth certificate and Thai ID card for him. I wonder how much bribe it would take to pass me as some Thai person’s child to get me a Thai ID?

Thu19dec2019 Pattaya

Ferry to Pattaya. Economy 1250 THB. You can get there much cheaper by bus, but I like the idea of ferry and support their business. The first time I took ferry Hua Hin to Pattaya, whereas Pattaya to Hua Hin I have been twice.

A-Bomb 20:42 over 10 boys in jeans, no customers. I tell staff that I want to look at boys in underwear and leave.

Dream Boys 20:45 7 boys, 0 customers. Show will be 23:30 (on forums, there were reports that show was discontinued).

Cupidol 20:48-21:47. 14 b, 4 c when I enter; 15 b, 7 c when I leave. Hot tea 180 THB. Good turnover of customers and boys.

X-Boys 22:08-23:42. Pineapple juice 280 THB. Show was in progress when I entered, 8 customers. Acts of the show: 6 boys in big cock show, dancing, shower show, B-Boys (breakdancing boys), acrobatic fucking. Show ends 22:58. 12 boys in black underwear and closed shoes on stage. One of the boys shows an interest in me and later sits down uninvited (which I like: I can chat with the boy and don’t have to buy him a drink) and leaves a positive impression. Exchange Line and might see him some day.

Music too loud, smoking allowed, and the boys disappear during show (unless sitting with customer). X-Boys stays on my list as “visit once per year”.

Here the full list of frequency of visit to Pattaya gogo bars:

Every time I am in Pattaya (which is 8 times per year): Cupidol, Nice Boys, Winner Boys.

Every year: Dream Boys, Power Boys, X-Boys.

Every 5 years: A-Bomb, BoysBoysBoys, Toy Boys.

Power Boy midnight 6 boys, 0 customers.

Mie Surin comes to meet me and stays over night.

Wed20dec2019 Pattaya

Activities in the morning, worth a repeat. 200 for petrol for his mocy. Meet a reader in Jomtien Complex and chat for 4 hours.

There are two boys in Jomtien Complex massage places who I have been lusting after for long time (one or two years). While looking for these two boys, another Tak approaches me. Cute face, slim brown, but he wears shorts and I can see hairy upper legs. What a pity!

Preaw moved from Soda massage to Smile massage. One hour oil massage 300. Massage good, then asks if I want more, yes sure! Afters okay, tip 800. Want to see him again, but better in my hotel room.

No tissue in the room! Highly unprofessional but happens frequently at happy ending massage places (no tissue). 

And in restaurants the WiFi password. In some places, WiFi password is clearly posted on wall, but other places asking for WiFi password has staff fluttering around like a flock of scared chicken (Do we have a WiFi password? Where is the WiFi password? Who knows the WiFi password? What is the WiFi password?).

Winner Boys 21:54-22:26. Soft drink 89 THB. 5 boys on stage and 4 sitting with customers, 12 customers.

Nice Boys 22:31-23:02. Orange juice 180 THB. 8 boys on stage and 1 sitting with customer, 7 customers.

The outstanding KSL Myanmar from last month is free now. But I’m busy with bars! And in addition, he wants 1500, then 2000. No sorry. Details here: https://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2020/01/dating-thai-boys-77-inflation.html

Online dating. Best from hornet originally wanted 700, but then comes for free. A bit pale and fat, but I play along. Good activities, gets me hard. Still no repeat.

For an excellent Pattaya Trip Report by Marsilius read here: https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?21197-Pattaya-trip-report-Dec-2019

Sat21dec2019

Online dating in the morning no luck.

At van stop South Pattaya 11:37, next van would be 12:20. Too long! Take songtheo 11:42-51 to Jomtien and get on the 12 airport bus 389 for 130 THB. Much more comfortable ride than van! Have a look in 7-Eleven at airport: everything 22% more expensive than usually (e.g. Hershey’s nuggets 27 -> 33 THB, one item I recently bought and remember the price).

I noticed the same for books many years ago: bookshops in Suvarnabhumi airport charge 20% more than those in town.

D China comes at night. Dinner, then to bed. Makes a mess with my duvet, as before. I have to take a second duvet to cover my body. But great activities, repeat!
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Mon23dec2019

To Myanmar. Will be reported separately.

Mon30dec2019 Mae Sot 
I have been chatting with a boy Min in Mae Sot for a while. Promising picture:

And interesting profile text: Don't be afraid of being different. Be afraid of being like everyone else.

Now in Mae Sot, a long to and fro in English (he wanted me to pick him up by car, and if I don't have a car, rent one) he finally got his mother to send me to my hotel (under the pretext of meeting a friend, he is not out of the closet). It turns out all chat in English was automated translation, but so good, I didn't notice. From now on communication in Thai.

For dinner to a restaurant of his choice, by taxi (which he called by phone) and which cost 150 THB for 3.9 km (and that's not a foreigner price, the driver had the call center phone line on so I heard other people being quoted similar prices), 400 THB dinner for two. Then return by taxi, 150 THB to his place and another 100 from there to my place. 

An expensive night out (total 800), and no action. That was our one chance. Too demanding, fringe activities (I was hoping the dinner would be fringe activities and there would be more later) too expensive. No repeat.

Tue31dec2019 Mae Sot

I’m lucky online and get one Por to come to my room for fun. Worth a repeat.

Summary Dec2019:

12 Free sex: Aim NS, Rak Lao, Theary Cambodia, Not9999 (200 for taxi), Bee, Zim Pinoy, Kuk Bangna (300 for travel), M Karen Hua Hin, Mie Surin (200 for petrol mocy), Best, D China, Por Mae Sot.

6 Paid sex: Capmoo 500, Nene 500, HBA Myanmar 500, Keng Polo 500, Toey Sam Saen 500, Preaw Smile Massage 800 =3300.

4 No sex: Kim NS, Nat Salaya in Chiang Mai, Min Mae Sot 800.

3 Cancellation: Tak, Keng CMU Chiang Mai, near my room (mother called), NL5.

2 No show: Tak, Not9999.

1 Refused: NL5 500<->100.

6 Gogo bar: Regency Boy Bar Chiang Rai, Adam's Apple Chiang Mai, Cupidol, X-Boys, Winner Boys, Nice Boys.

1 Massage: (no massage for me at Common Massage in Chiang Mai), Preaw Smile Massage.

4 Old: Rak Lao, Capmoo, Keng Polo, China.

14 New: Aim NS,  Theary Cambodia, Not9999, Nene, HBA Myanmar, Bee,  Zim Pinoy, Kuk Bangna, Toey Sam Saen, M Karen Hua Hin, Mie Surin, Preaw Smile Massage, Best, Por Mae Sot.

11 Repeat: Rak Lao, Theary Cambodia, Not9999, Nene, HBA Myanmar, Keng Polo, Toey Sam Saen, Mie Surin, Preaw Smile Massage, D China, Por Mae Sot.

2 Maybe rep: Kuk Bangna, M Karen Hua Hin.

5 No repeat: Aim NS, Capmoo, Bee, Zim Pinoy, Best.

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