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Monday, 6 March 2017
Dating Thai boys (49) The boy on the bus
Thai boys (49) The boy on the bus
used to joke that I prefer bus over taxi because it’s cheaper and I might meet
my future boyfriend on a bus, but I will not meet my future boyfriend on a
taxi. Here the first time that I had sex with a boy I met on a bus.
free bus 203 from Pata Pinklao to Sanam Luang. There is a cute boy in the bus,
we exchange looks and I think he might be interested. Follow him when he gets
out, again exchange looks a few times. Finally he eats at a street restaurant,
so I eat there as well. We have some small talk. Ball seems to know the people
around the restaurant. He leaves before me, and when I’m done I walk the same
direction he left and spot him in a group. Without turning my head, just
turning my eye, I notice that he follows me and finally catches up and asks
what I’m looking for.
just walking around.”
you followed me, and when I stopped you stopped, and when I ate at the
restaurant you ate there too.”
think you are cute.”
with my friends now.”
you have Line?”
don’t even have a phone. But I have facebook.”
him type his name in facebook.We
are in a dark corner without others around, the perfect spot for a robbery.)
will take bus home now. Good night. See you again some day.”
I have some money for food?”
him 100 Baht.)
was unusual. Let’s see if anything useful comes out of it.
facebook made me laugh:
to กูไม่เรียน ความรู้กูเยอะแล้ว
don’t study. I know everything already.”
is free and wants to meet, I offer 500 Baht for hugging (let’s start slowly and
see where it leads). Getting boys to come to my room for the first time is usually like pulling
teeth: “It’s so far!”, “I don’t know where you live.”, “It’s too
late/dark/sunny/wet/hot/…”, “Can you come and pick me up?”.
not this one. I gave him directions to come by bus once (and frankly didn’t
expect him to come), but two hours later (reasonable time considering distance
and traffic) he called from in front of my building.
amazing achievement, taking bus 203 from his place in Charansanitawong to Sanam
Luang, changing to bus 47 to Bon Gai, then asking mocy taxi driver and finally calling
from mocy taxi driver’s phone (Ball had no phone at that time). Most university
students I have met wouldn’t be able to do this.
my room, we have small talk and Ball tells me he is unwell, so I give him 500 and
let him go without any indecent activities. (I’m in no hurry and I’m sure he
will come again.)
following in italic are copies from monthly reports:
Ball in my room 15:35-17:55, we get
nude and some indecent touches, 510 Baht.
Ball from Sanam Luang comes to my
room, 520 for wanking. Skin temperature and dryness ok, but can’t remove ตะกรุด dtà-grùt (string around his waist to carry amulets like ปลัดขิก bpà-làt-kìk - penis shaped amulet).
Ball comes in the evening and stays
over night, no activities, 300 Baht.
Back in Bangkok (I just came from Taipei). Ball messages me and is not
deterred when I tell him I’m busy. Plays on his mobile phone while I’m on
computer. No sign of him leaving any time soon. Telling him that nothing will
happen tonight, and I want to be alone in my room now, would be rude. So at
21:00 I leave and take him out with me and give him 100. Afterwards some drama
online: it took him long time to come to see me and long time to get back, he
will not come again (update: he quickly got over that).
comes at night to join for sightseeing tomorrow (start at 8:30 which is early
by my standards, and the best way to make sure the boy is there is to keep him
over night, as I will travel with a Farang friend and we will not wait).
is good company during the day trip. I give him 300 Baht (100 each for
breakfast, lunch, dinner), but at the end of the day he somehow managed to
spend 260 of it, and the remaining 40 is not enough to get home, so I give him
am now at a point where I pay some boys more for no sex than for sex. They are
Top, Kot, Ball who call/message me more often than I want to meet them, but
even if I don’t want sex I sometimes invite them to keep them on my list.
messages me in the morning (11:30?) and wants to come in the afternoon. Finally
have to do something about it. He didn’t specify when he would arrive, but
17:30 is not afternoon any more. And 6 hours after first contact, it was just
luck for him that I was still in my room. But next time I will have to tell him
that I need to use my computer, and he can choose any book to read from my vast
some fun in bed, then let him play on my computer while I read. Give him total
of 440 Baht. Stays over night.
Probably not gay (I might have asked him but forgot), but talented.
of the brightest boys I have met, only a day laborer, but much cleverer and
more entertaining than many students I have met. Actually I don’t know what he
works, he was supposed to start apprenticeship as aircon service, but that
stopped after some days because his boss became sick.
communication and can write in full sentences in Thai, something that cannot be
said about many university students I have met.
that he stays over night, in fact when we meet in the evening/night and I want
to go out later and don’t want to leave him alone in my room, I have to tell
him, otherwise he will just stay over night. (Compare reports on the forums,
what tricks money boys resort to to change long time to short time.)
sounds perfect? Alas, he is a bit fat for my taste! Nonetheless, this could be the begin of a long lasting friendship with benefits.