Monday, 3 October 2016

Dating Thai boys (44) broken record


Dating Thai boys (44) broken record

With a Burmese* boy in Klong Toey (BBKT), conversation is in circles: “how are you, have you eaten yet, miss you, hope to see you again”, repeat ad nauseam. But I hope something useful will come out some day.

*Myanmar, more precisely Karen. But I had similar conversations with Thai boys.

I met him Nov 2015 at Klong Toey market (he works there) and actually had my eyes on one of his friends, and exchanged phone number and Line with said friend. Then BBKT got my Line from said friend. BBKT has been to my room once with a friend to study English, and once alone after we went swimming at Malaysia hotel pool. That would have opened the way for more, but he was playing with his phone, otherwise I would have hugged him and taken it from there. I have been to his room once, not too bad.

These two encounters in my room, I picked him up at Klong Toey and for return took him to bus stop, something I have not done for anyone else (picking up and taking to bus stop twice).

Now I wave hello whenever I’m at Klong Toey market, but he is usually busy, no time for chat. His working times are about 20:00 to 8:00, we could easily meet before or after work if he wanted.

Below is just a part of our conversation: he occasionally changes Line and facebook accounts, this is the current Line; more is on abandoned Line and facebook accounts. When he creates a new account, he adds me, he must have some interest in me.

The basic problem is unreliable communication: We agree in the evening to meet the following morning, but I can’t reach him until the following evening, or it might even take days until I can reach him. I have to find out if this is a technical problem or if he forgets/oversleeps. It might be that he shares a mobile phone with his friends, and whoever wants to use it puts his SIM-car in. Or he doesn’t have money for data connection.

In this aspect, the situation is very similar to ex-BFC6in2016: can’t get together due to poor written communication on Line.

BBKT’s spoken English is ok, sometimes I don’t understand what he writes and some words are clearly beyond his abilities, some automated translation must be involved.

2016/04/05(Tue)
1:38...BBKT...Hi
9:53...Christian...Hello

2016/04/11(Mon)
6:04...BBKT...Morning
6:05...BBKT...How are you?
10:14...Christian...Good morning. I'm fine.
20:52...BBKT...What are you doing now?
20:53...Christian...Eat dinner with friend from Germany. And you?

2016/04/12(Tue)
1:23...Christian...When do you want to meet again?
11:33...BBKT...Don't know.
11:33...Christian...I'm home. What are you doing now?
11:34...BBKT...Nothing to do.
11:34...BBKT...I'm free.
11:34...BBKT...And you?
11:34...Christian...Free. Do you want to come here?
11:36...BBKT...From holiday.
11:37...Christian...Where are you now?
11:38...BBKT...In my room.
11:39...Christian...I'm in my room.
11:39...Christian...Do you want to come here?
12:02...Christian...I miss you.
12:33...BBKT...Same
12:34...BBKT...But can't speak english.
12:37...Christian...I can teach you English.
20:52...BBKT...Ok
20:52...BBKT...Thank you
20:53...BBKT...Have you eaten?
20:53...Christian...Yes

2016/04/15(Fri)
15:46...Christian...Hero
15:46...Christian...Hello

2016/04/16(Sat)
5:21...BBKT...Hi friend
5:21...BBKT...Morning
9:23...Christian...Good morning
13:36...BBKT...What are you doing now?
15:03...Christian...Meet friend. Free now.
23:31...BBKT...Friend
23:31...BBKT...Good night

2016/04/18(Mon)
15:18...BBKT...Hi
15:18...BBKT...What are you doing?
15:38...Christian...I'm in my room. Tonight go to meet friend.
22:14...BBKT...Hi friend
22:14...BBKT...Tonight
22:14...Christian...Hello. I'm going to market now.
22:14...BBKT...I'm in my room.
22:15...BBKT...Don't go to work.
22:15...Christian...Why not?
22:18...BBKT...I'm relaxation.

2016/04/19(Tue)
24:30...Christian...I'm home now.
22:15...BBKT...Hi
22:15...BBKT...What are you doing now?

2016/04/20(Wed)
8:57...Christian...In hua hin. Eat breakfast.
16:01...BBKT...What are you going now?
16:43...Christian...[Photo]
16:43...Christian...Beach
16:56...BBKT...Are you happy?
17:07...Christian...Yes

2016/04/21(Thu)
15:57...BBKT...Hi brother
15:57...BBKT...Where are you stay now?
15:57...Christian...Hello. I'm on bus from hua hin to Bangkok.
15:57...Christian...Will be back home about 9pm.
15:59...BBKT...Ok
15:59...BBKT...Good luck
15:59...Christian...What are you doing now?
15:59...BBKT...I'm free now.
16:00...Christian...And what do you do tonight?
16:02...BBKT...I'm go to work.
16:02...BBKT...I'm troubling everday.
16:04...BBKT...Don't have holiday.
16:08...Christian...We can meet tomorrow morning.
16:10...BBKT...Yes

2016/04/22(Fri)
24:32...Christian...Good night. See you tomorrow.
2:38...BBKT...Ok
8:50...Christian...Good morning
8:55...BBKT...Yes
8:55...BBKT...morning
8:55...Christian...I just woke up. Eat breakfast. What are you doing?
9:11...Christian...Do you want to meet now?
9:51...BBKT...Anybody's guess
9:53...Christian...Do you want to meet now?
10:00...BBKT...Next 3 days
10:00...Christian...I am free now.
10:01...BBKT...To be works now.

2016/04/24(Sun)
14:18...BBKT...Hi
14:18...BBKT...How are you?
14:18...BBKT...Brother
14:32...Christian...I'm fine. Eating lunch now.
14:32...Christian...And you?
14:32...BBKT...I' m sleep.
14:33...BBKT...Where are you going today?
14:42...Christian...Samut songkram
14:43...Christian...Do you work tonight?
14:43...BBKT...Yes
14:44...BBKT...Do the work every day.
14:45...Christian...When do you want to meet again? I'm free tomorrow morning.
14:51...BBKT...Let me think

2016/04/25(Mon)
8:42...Christian...Good morning
8:54...Christian...Cancelled Call
8:57...BBKT...Morning
8:57...BBKT...Have you eaten?
8:57...Christian...I'm in my room. Just wake up.
8:58...Christian...Do you want to meet?
8:59...BBKT...I want to stay with you two year.
8:59...BBKT...Why?
8:59...BBKT...I want can speak english.
9:00...Christian...Yes
9:05...BBKT...See you later brother.
9:05...BBKT...I'm go to eat rice.
9:05...Christian...What time do you want to meet?
9:05...Christian...I eat breakfast now.
9:06...BBKT...Ok
9:06...BBKT...Wait for me one year.
9:08...BBKT...I'm collectable.
9:08...Christian...I don't understand
10:00...BBKT...I'm amass money.
10:20...Christian...You save money?
11:44...BBKT...I'm ok.
11:44...Christian...Do you want to meet now?
11:47...BBKT...Bedtime brother
11:47...BBKT...I want to sleep.
11:48...Christian...Good night
11:49...BBKT...Yes

2016/04/28(Thu)
17:50...BBKT...Hi brother
17:52...Christian...Hello
18:06...BBKT...What are you doing?
18:07...Christian...Sitting on bus. Go swimming.
18:07...Christian...And you?
18:08...BBKT...I'm stay in my room.
18:15...Christian...Do you work tonight?
20:37...BBKT...Yes
20:37...BBKT...My friend

2016/04/29(Fri)
21:04...BBKT...Good evening
21:05...BBKT...Brother
21:05...Christian...Hello
21:05...BBKT...Have you eaten?
21:05...Christian...Yes. And you?
21:06...BBKT...Same
21:06...Christian...What are you doing now?
21:06...BBKT...I'm stay in workshop now?

2016/05/01(Sun)
13:13...BBKT...Hi
13:13...BBKT...How are you?
13:35...Christian...I'm fine.

2016/05/04(Wed)
18:36...BBKT...Hi
18:36...BBKT...Have eaten?
18:36...BBKT...Brother
18:54...Christian...I'm eating dinner now.

2016/05/14(Sat)
6:50...BBKT...Hi
6:50...BBKT...Good morning
6:50...BBKT...Brother
13:18...Christian...I'm in Germany with my family now.
13:34...BBKT...When do you come from thailand?
13:34...BBKT...I miss you.

2016/05/27(Fri)
13:51...Christian...[Photo]
13:51...Christian...[Photo]
16:30...BBKT...Miss you brother.
16:30...BBKT...When do you come from thailand?
16:34...Christian...When do you come to Thailand?
16:35...Christian...I don't know when I can go to Thailand again.
18:44...BBKT...What are you doing now?
23:18...Christian...I stay with my parents. I am looking for a job in Europe.

2016/05/28(Sat)
7:19...BBKT...Ok
7:20...BBKT...Morning
14:26...Christian...Good morning from Germany.

2016/06/04(Sat)
7:58...BBKT...Miss you brother

2016/06/05(Sun)
2:50...Christian...[Photo]
2:50...Christian...[Photo]
2:50...Christian...[Photo]
2:50...Christian...[Photo]
19:10...BBKT...[Sticker]

2016/07/04(Mon)
3:56...Christian...Hello
6:17...BBKT...Hi
6:17...BBKT...Morning
15:07...Christian...Next week I will go to Bangkok.

2016/07/05(Tue)
9:11...BBKT...Ok
9:13...BBKT...You come back to Bangkok,Where are you stay?
14:34...Christian...In my room. Same as before.
15:50...BBKT...Ok
17:31...BBKT...Hi brother
17:32...BBKT...Can you help me?
19:26...Christian...Yes. How can I help you?
20:09...BBKT...I don't have money
20:10...Christian...Are you working now?
20:10...BBKT...I do work have two day
20:11...Christian...I can lend you money next week when I'm back in Bangkok.
20:11...BBKT... I want to money
20:11...BBKT...I send for my mother
20:12...Christian...Yes
20:13...BBKT... Ten thousand
20:14...BBKT...Amoitise
20:15...BBKT...Can you help me?
20:17...Christian...Too much. I can lend you 1000 baht.
(The only time he asked for money, and I assume it’s a real emergency. But then he didn’t pick up on that offer of 1000 Baht!)
20:19...BBKT...Yes
20:19...BBKT...Ok
20:20...Christian...Ok. See you next week.
20:21...BBKT...Ok see you

2016/07/12(Tue)
17:57...Christian...I'm back in my room.
17:57...Christian...In Bangkok.
19:33...BBKT...Ok
19:33...BBKT...I'm go back to myanmar.
20:27...Christian...When do you come to Bangkok again?

2016/07/13(Wed)
4:16...BBKT...I'm stay bangkok now.
4:18...BBKT...I'm go back to myanmar next week.
5:12...Christian...What are you doing now? I'm in my room, cannot sleep.
5:20...BBKT...I'm in my room.
5:21...BBKT...Do the work finished.
5:22...BBKT...As long as 4:00
14:03...Christian...Good morning. I just woke up.
19:43...BBKT...Yes
19:43...BBKT...What are you doing now?
20:00...Christian...Meet friend in Ladprao.
20:08...BBKT...Ok

2016/07/14(Thu)
1:17...Christian...Good night. Message me when you want to meet.

2016/07/21(Thu)
4:50...BBKT...Hi
4:50...BBKT...Morning
8:01...Christian...Good morning. I just woke up.
8:06...Christian...I'm in Kanchanaburi.
13:23...BBKT...Aww

2016/07/23(Sat)
11:54...Christian...I'm in Bangkok now.
18:44...BBKT...What are you doing now?
18:52...Christian...I just come home from swimming.
18:53...Christian...And you?
18:58...BBKT...In my room now.

2016/07/25(Mon)
15:38...Christian...When do you want to meet again?
19:48...BBKT...police apprehended concete 4thousand.
(Sorry to hear. He told me before he has no passport, from which follows he is in Thailand without visa.)

2016/08/12(Fri)
7:49...BBKT...Hi
7:50...BBKT...Good morning
7:50...Christian...Good morning. I'm in Trat now.
7:51...BBKT...Have you eaten?
8:01...Christian...Yes

2016/08/26(Fri)
15:38...Christian...Hello
19:18...BBKT...Hi brother
19:19...Christian...Good evening. I'm back in Bangkok.
19:20...Christian...[Photo]
19:20...BBKT...Ok
19:21...Christian...Travel in Lamphun province.
19:23...BBKT...What are you doing now?
19:26...Christian...I'm home. Clean my room. And you?
19:28...BBKT...I'm sleep wake up now.
19:28...Christian...And what do you do tonight?
19:29...BBKT... I'm go to work amanding.
19:30...BBKT...Amending

2016/08/27(Sat)
11:38...Christian...Good morning.

2016/08/29(Mon)
23:59...Christian...[Photo]

2016/08/31(Wed)
6:17...BBKT...Good morning

2016/09/03(Sat)
20:05...Christian...Hello
20:05...Christian...When can we meet again?
20:28...BBKT...Nextweek
20:29...Christian...I will fly to Germany on Sep 8. I hope to see you again before I go.
20:29...BBKT...Now.i'm in the work.
20:31...BBKT...Ok

2016/09/04(Sun)
7:59...BBKT...Morning
9:00...Christian...Hello
9:17...BBKT...Have you eaten?
9:20...Christian...Yes. I just had breakfast.
9:20...Christian...And you?
9:22...BBKT...Same

2016/09/05(Mon)
6:23...BBKT...Morning
6:24...BBKT...Hi friend
6:24...BBKT...I'm sad today.
6:26...BBKT...My lover it daverge me.
9:21...Christian...What happened?
9:46...BBKT...I don't know .
9:47...Christian...Daverge I don't understand.
9:49...BBKT...Sorry
9:49...BBKT...diverge
(From facebook I gather that his girlfriend split up with him?)
9:52...Christian...Sorry to hear.
9:54...BBKT...Have you eaten?
9:54...BBKT...I'm eaten now.
9:56...Christian...I eat breakfast now.
9:57...BBKT...Me too

2016/09/15(Thu)
21:18...Christian...I'm in Germany now.

(Continues like this, but now mainly on his current facebook.)

Copyright 2016 ChristianPFC

3 comments:

  1. I only hope you have a no limit data plan for your phone..

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  2. Your patience and persistence never fails to amaze.

    I'm going off topic but wondering if you have formed any opinion why it appears (IMO) that the majority of guys on GR describe themselves as bottoms.

    I don't have experience with the other apps but do you find this to be the case across the board?

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    1. I don't pay attention to top/bottom/versatile on online dating profiles.

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