Dating Thai boys (26) Straight
and gay boys in Sangkhlaburi
Thursday, 05.02.2015
Arrive in Sangkhlaburi and do
some sightseeing. Last stroll through town before going to bed, a cute boy at a
food stall says hello to me. I say “hello” back and wait for more, but nothing
happens apart from he and I and his friends smiling at each other.
I get into this situation
from time to time, common problem: how to continue conversation?
I go to 7/11 opposite to buy
something to drink for me (receipt: 22:41) and then say hello to the boy and
get conversation started. They are Burmese, speak some Thai, but he cannot read
and write Thai; too little English for meaningful conversation. He stays with
his mother in Sangkhlaburi, whereabouts of father unknown, has a girlfriend in
Myanmar and shows me pictures of her.
He is slightly drunk (I
spotted two empty bottles of Chang beer – pay attention what beer they drink so
I know what to buy). He puts one of his rings on my finger, it gets stuck, but
with soap in the kitchen we can get it loose. 23:40 I invite him to my hotel,
and after some hesitation we go together. He wants to say goodbye at the
entrance, but I invite him to my room, he follows me!
In my room we continue
playing on our phones, I use google translate English to Burmese (but cannot
type Burmese, have to install Burmese keyboard, same for Khmer) he shows me
more pictures of his girlfriend and of other pretty girls (Asian and White),
but he wants none of them, he loves only his girlfriend. Exchange phone numbers. Exchange of Line and
Facebook fails due to misunderstandings and technical problems.
In my room, I
put my hands on his shoulder or knee or around his waist, no reaction. I can’t
slip my hand under shirt as he is sitting on it (the shirt is long). 00:20 he
says he has to go back, his mother is waiting. When we say good bye with a long
hug (initiated by me) I can slip my hand under his shirt and even kiss his
neck. Agree to meet again tomorrow.
Was this my only chance this
year to seduce a boy who is that drunk that he has perfect skin temperature and
is amenable to homosexual activities and but not that drunk that he loses
control over body functions (peeing, vomiting) and is cold wet sweaty?
I have been in this situation
once before (in December 2014): cute boy (Cambodian, similar language problem) in my room, talking and touching, my
hand under his shirt, no reaction! A friend with experience tells me just to
continue, if the boy doesn’t like he will say so.
Friday 06.02.2015
Sightseeing during day. In
the evening message a boy on hornet. He writes back, he cannot come to my hotel
because a friend works there (but friend knows he is gay). I go to his place,
he urges me to hurry so I skip dinner. He stays in a house with his grandparents and younger sibling, parents work
in another province.
Arrive 18:20. We chat (all
communication in Thai), I have a positive impression. We run out of subjects,
he wrote “no sex” which I respect, so I say I want to go to eat dinner. I
thought we would say goodbye, but he makes me mama noodles. We move to his
room.
Suddenly noise at the door.
His younger sibling who should not know that I’m there. After some minutes he
gets rid of the sibling. We continue chatting, playing on phone or computer.
A farang friend calls me. (A
boy he snatched at Hua Lampong)’s sister hung herself and he (my farang friend) doesn’t know what
to do now. The boy posted pictures of his dead hanging sister on facebook and my farang
friend forwarded one to me.
19:58 Noise at the door
again. My new friend’s grandparents are back from the temple earlier than
expected and he beckons me to make no noise, I immediately end the phone call
without saying goodbye and switch my phone to airplane mode (leaving my friend
wondering if I have been driven over by a car while talking on the phone).
I can hear “รองเท้าแตะ“ which means „slippers“ –
my slippers are at the entrance! (Update: he told them they are old slippers of
his, and they believed it!) We play on computer and phone without making noise,
but we can hear his grandparents first make dinner, then watch TV, and finally
showering. Finally, 23:45, they are in bed.
I ask when I can leave, but
don’t get a clear answer. I have the impression he doesn’t want to let me go:
when I first put my hand on his shoulder or around his waist, there was no
reaction, but now he hugs me back and says he likes me. Finally he gets to the
point and asks me if I know “chaturbate”. I might have heard this before, for
clarification he shows me google: “free adult webcam”.
I didn’t understand what
exactly he said next, but it seemed he wants to see my dick. No way under these
conditions! I’m fully dressed, hungry (I missed two meals, the mama noodles
where just a starter for dinner, I thought), the fan is blowing (but without
fan mosquitoes will bite us – general observation from here and elsewhere), the
duvet is not big enough to fully cover us (I can chose between cold legs and
cold arms – same for him, body parts exposed to fan are unerotically cold), and
my pants’ pockets are full with stuff, making lying on the side uncomfortable.
Finally, 00:15, we can leave
the room. That’s six hours spent together, of which four waiting for clear
coast to leave his room, ending with a hug when we say goodbye on the road! Never
before did I spend that much time doing that little!
For that night, I had in mind
dinner, stroll at night market, exploring other Friday nightlife and meeting
the Burmese boy again. But the boy is nice and seems not to have had any
exposure to Farang (maybe not even gay experiences with Thai: when I asked him about gay life in
Sangkhlaburi, he said he is the only one – not true, there were some more on
hornet). I will probably be back within some weeks to meet again under more
favorable circumstances.
Saturday 07.02.2015
One of the staff at the hotel
chatted me up yesterday, and I am sure he is gay and hitting on me. Today, when
I prepare to check out, I spot him again (this time he is shirtless, body ok)
and we talk (English and Thai) and I let him know that I will leave soon and
show him my room number. He is a border case, that means he will have to take
the first step, if he knocks on my door I invite him in, but I will not go
further than letting him know my room number. No knock. Upon check out, I ask
for his phone number and name in English, Thai and Burmese. Return to Bangkok.
If I was threatened with
torture or offered large amount of money, I couldn’t make such stories up, it’s
all true.
Summary: three possibilities
for sex, none of them materialized. But will be back for the gay boy from
hornet, and try to get the straight Burmese boy drunk and in my room again.
Copyright 2015 ChristianPFC
where you stay? P guesthse? or is Burmese Inn still there?
ReplyDeleteAnd this town is advancing: a 7! They did not have that when I was there-just an imitation minimarket. Do not in general expect much from Burmese and even less if they are some kind of hilltribe (Mon over there).
I stayed at Si Daeng hotel, very close to van station. There is one 7/11 now.
DeleteOh,and for Burmese you do not have to travel that far- thousands in BKK too-along Lard prao (choke chai market) and most of all that dreadful Muang Thong Thanee.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry about three possibilities not materialized, sometimes getting there is more interesting than destination. Certainly interesting occurrences.
ReplyDeleteGetting boys drunk and then sexually abusing them. Are you trying to get yourself locked up ?
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