I renamed ex-boyfriend candidate 3 to "headache boy", because he often gives me headache and had headache himself recently. In retrospective, he gave me more headaches than orgasms, but I keep seeing him, he is different from all other boys I have met.
I know I start at lowest priority when I meet a new boy, but with some boys, after several meetings and spending some money, I achieve a status above their pet animal. Not with this one, his erratic behavior seems to be innate and not just total lack of respect for me.
You will notice that his English is strange, but understandable. I don't know if there is any use in correcting him.
[LINE] Chat with headache boy
Saved time：2014/12/07 23:31
2014/12/01(Monday)
19:29 christianpfc I'm going back to Bangkok now. (From Lopburi, we meet usually twice per week.)
Hours later, message not read, so I call him and he wants to meet 9 am tomorrow.
2014/12/02(Tuesday)
8:27 christianpfc Hello
Try to call him around noon, no reply. This is no surprise, I just go on with my daily business.
17:47 headache boy Today I can't going now
17:47 headache boy You Ok
17:47 headache boy See you tomorrow (or not)
17:47 headache boy [Sticker]
18:22 christianpfc What happened?
2014/12/03(Wednesday)
16:45 christianpfc Nice uniform. (New profile picture.)
He didn't come, but that was no surprise to me.
2014/12/04(Thursday)
14:06 headache boy Hello
14:06 headache boy How are you doing
14:06 headache boy (doze off)(doze off)
14:26 christianpfc Watch movie with friend
14:26 headache boy You come back to the room what time
14:27 headache boy To day I want going room u
14:27 christianpfc 4
14:27 headache boy 4
14:27 headache boy What 4
14:28 christianpfc 16น (16:00)
14:29 headache boy เค
14:29 headache boy See you 16 time
14:30 christianpfc อย่าสายนะครับ (don't be late)
14:30 headache boy คนับ
14:30 headache boy Ok
15:54 christianpfc Where are you now?
15:54 headache boy Siam
15:55 headache boy Just now
15:56 christianpfc I go running at 5. We can't meet today. (I have another appointment later, and if he is in Siam now, he will be an hour late and mess up my plans for the night. Better cancel.)
16:06 headache boy I'm going to
16:07 headache boy You ok go by
16:07 christianpfc Too late, I go running now.
16:07 headache boy [Photo] (picture of taxi interior)
16:08 christianpfc In taxi already?
16:08 headache boy Yes
16:08 christianpfc OK, I wait.
16:08 headache boy U where now
16:09 christianpfc Going to my room.
16:10 headache boy Ok see u
16:10 headache boy You're waiting for me at the end.
16:11 christianpfc Yes
16:37 headache boy ผมอยู่ลุมพีณี (I'm in Lumpini)
16:37 headache boy เดียวนั่งวินเข้าไป (I take mocy taxi)
16:37 headache boy Mrt
16:37 headache boy ลุมพี่ณี now (Lumpini)
16:37 christianpfc Walking is better. I'm eating now.
16:38 headache boy Ok see room
16:38 headache boy U where now
16:39 christianpfc Restaurant
16:41 headache boy Ok
16:51 headache boy I form 7 (I'm at 7/11)
16:51 headache boy Now
Finally, just 50 minutes late, we meet. He is hungry, so I go down to order food from the restaurant. It's the time when construction workers nearby finish work, so I have a look there while the food is being prepared, and he is in my room playing internet.
17:39 headache boy You where now
17:41 christianpfc Wait for food
When I return, he is waiting for me outside: his mother called, he has to go back. I will eat the food I ordered for him later. He is in such a hurry that he doesn't ask me for
money. Later I realize that he probably stole 1500 Baht from me, but I am not absolutely sure. I have various stuff in the wardrobe, amongst it varying amounts of cash. He opened that door some time ago and must have seen the money. Now I counted exactly, so next time I will know for sure if he stole money or not.)
A bit messy, and his viewing angle will be different (picture taken from above), but the money is easy to see.
17:57 headache boy Tonight
17:57 headache boy I go room u (or not)
17:57 headache boy Ok
17:58 headache boy Now I going to home mom call I you ok
22:28 christianpfc I'm out with friends now
2014/12/05(Friday)
15:04 headache boy You where now
15:04 christianpfc In my room.
15:04 headache boy Ok
15:12 christianpfc I go out now, back at night.
15:52 headache boy Ok see you tonight
15:52 headache boy (hahaha)(hahaha)
20:47 christianpfc Hello, where are you?
2014/12/06(Saturday)
11:45 christianpfc Good morning
23:28 christianpfc Can't talk now (He called me, but I was in a loud bar so I didn't accept the call. Anyway, I prefer line.
23:28 christianpfc I'm at สนามหลวง (Sanam Luang; more precisely Saranrom with a friend from Germany)
23:29 headache boy You where now
23:29 headache boy I want going room u
(In the first weeks of meeting him, I would stop what ever I was doing and rush back to my room, only to find him coming late or not at all. Now I give him indication of time when I will be back, or even say we cannot meet if I have other plans.)
23:29 christianpfc I eat dinner with friend.
23:29 headache boy Ok
23:29 christianpfc Not free now, we can meet 1 am.
23:30 christianpfc Where are you?
23:31 headache boy You come back to my room what is the time
23:31 headache boy วัดสเกต (Wat Saket)
23:31 headache boy I'm here วัดสเกต (Wat Saket)
23:32 christianpfc Not far, we can meet there in one hour.
23:33 headache boy Ok what time
23:34 headache boy What time
23:34 christianpfc 00:30
23:35 headache boy @ room you
23:35 headache boy Ok
23:35 headache boy See u
23:36 christianpfc My room 1 am, now near สนามหลวง (Samam Luang)
23:36 headache boy Ok I get
23:36 christianpfc [Location]
23:37 headache boy No I don't going to สนามหลวง (Sanam Luang)
23:38 headache boy I don't like
23:38 christianpfc Send location please
23:38 headache boy [ตำแหน่งที่อยู่] 335/2 ถนน มหาไชย แขวง สำราญราษฎร์ เขต พระนคร กรุงเทพมหานคร 10200 ประเทศไทย : http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&q=13.752624,100.505105&spn=0.029488,0.083942&z=14
2014/12/07(Sunday)
24:37 christianpfc I'm going home now. Where are you?
1:26 christianpfc In my room now.
(1:38 he calls me, music in the background, which means he is not on the way yet)
1:55 headache boy Going now
1:55 headache boy [Photo]
1:55 headache boy รถติด (traffic jam)
1:56 headache boy รอแปปป (wait a moment)
1:56 christianpfc See you soon
1:56 headache boy Ok
(2:08 he calls me, I go down to open the door)
Our last encounter (urgent call from mom while I was getting food for him) taught me "fuck first, talk later" which I do now before he gets away. Afterwards, we talk and watch pictures about my recent Lopburi trip and his recent trip to Petchaboon. Then I try to sleep and he plays on his mobile phone.
3:26 headache boy Goodnight
About 3:30, he tells me he has headache and migraine and wants medicine. He dresses and I give him my keys so he can go to 7/11 or pharmacy.
(3:41 call from downstairs: He doesn't like the look of some people who sit outside and eat and drink, or there was a soi dog, and wants me to come down - no way! He returns without medicine.)
3:48 headache boy [Photo] (He shows me which medicine he wants on his phone and sends me a picture. I go to 7/11 and buy it - Paracetamol - for him. Shortly afterwards, he decides to go home, his mother will take him to hospital. I give him 300 Baht and say goodbye. I am happy with this outcome, I have an appointment at 10, which means I would have to kick him out or let him stay unattended in my room the entire afternoon. Look into my drawer: all money still there.)
10:17 christianpfc Good morning. How are you?
10:18 headache boy Good morning
10:18 headache boy Today you going?
10:28 christianpfc Chinatown with friend
11:12 headache boy [Photo] (dentist)
11:12 headache boy ทำฟัน (dentist)
This week was particularly difficult, but most of our other encounters were not much better. A mild case of ADHS? If you have read until here, you probably have a headache as well. I am not sure what to do if/when I can confirm that he steals. The logical reply would be to drop him, block him and delete all contact information. But he is very cute, I sometimes get a boner already when I hug him, and he is comparatively cheap - from a purely monetary point of view, even if you include the unconfirmed theft.
Copyright 2014 ChristianPFC
ADHS, yes but what about headache boy ?
ReplyDeleteJust a thought- you write down every baht you spend, why not bore yourself and read thru your notes then check against the money you have in your wardrobe.
That money was out of my wallet and would go back into my wallet, it's not spent. From my notes, I cannot calculate how much money I have in my wallet/wardrobe.
ReplyDeleteYou should back your accounts with a systematic check of what is left - let's say, once or twice a day. This is what every shopkeeper does, and also basic accountancy. This way, you :
ReplyDelete1 - would be sure never to forget any expense (or have an "unknown expenses" item for small amounts)
2 - would immediately know if any money is missing and how much (from stealing or shortchanging)
certainly you are going through a lot of trouble to get cheap fuck but obviously you like him so all those tribulations are adding to the excitement.
ReplyDeleteAs for theft, until you are sure, assume that he did not steal, if he does either drop him or at least make sure money is hidden and he is never alone in your room
Yes I do like and hope I can see him again (haven't met for a month), and if he stole 1500 Baht from me every month that would still be fine.
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